₦airaland Forum

gasparpisciotta:
She should be ready to accept new brides into the family in future

Lol abeg lower your voice

Anyways tomorrow we don’t hear, she didn’t know. I hate when people take deliberate action, just to fawn ignorance when the chickens come home to roost

This is the Bible standard for a wife not one that doesn’t want to provide any sort of support to a man, expecting him to provide everything.

May we find favor in God’s sight to find a helpmate.

As a lady, this would be your line of thinking when you are not hungry

dollytino4real:
go ask ur parents where u from and it will shock u!! Just be good

Lol you should start with your parents

I am sure you can already feel something is amiss, you are now old enough to know the truth.

WesleyPepper:
Nawao
We must be really careful on whom we let into our space .

Sadly this is why wickedness and coldness of heart abound in the world today.

I can’t trust you, you can’t trust me. No-one can trust anybody, even your family members, you deal with them with wisdom.

The days are evil.

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

If by now you don’t know or haven’t classified the people you have in your life, that is a “you” problem.

Yes, not having proper inventory of everyone in your life; thats on you.

dollytino4real:
u do ur own side and every body do their own, life will be sweet

I no wan do. I am not doing but as you like the old ways we pray your husband brings as many children as he can father, that are not yours home for you to be a mother to them all

dollytino4real:
In those days who know paternity test, any child who comes to ur house and call u father is ur child. Whether by ur spam or not

We should bring those days back.

Please send your address, so people can send 9 children to you. The children will call you mommy so they become yours automatically.

Please take care of them, feeding and education till they are 17: when they will return to their real families. T for thanks.

MissOpe:
Bringing back subsidy will not have much positive impact on goods and services,,, rather they should think of how to better the economy by making use of our resources judiciously

Are you minding them.

Anything that goes up in Nigeria, does it ever come down to where it was before its ascent? Never!

Why waste our resources.

meobizy:
Lol. Roflmao. She’s not in a position to choose. That boat sailed at twenty-six years old. All she can do is settle for whoever picks her.

I am glad to hear this from a lady.

Cuz if na guy talk am, they go talk say na woman-hater.

Anyways i wish her the best.

I for one can never that take lady saying such things like “i am not dating, may the best man win” serious, whether for relationship/marriage.

Loooool suicide

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What was the punishment meted out to the erring officers.

For things like this, they should receive the big stick.

A woman will always have conditions for a man she doesn't love.

jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed.

Any man that agrees to this, there is something he is not telling you.

You can't be wiser than your ancestors

You are not a virgin but he should propose before sex lol. Some of you always think you are the smartest, but your smart will end up showing your level of foolishness. Women weaponizing sex have nothing more valuable to offer.

Men, Any woman that start giving you conditions discard her fast. A woman will always have conditions for a man she doesn't love.

muyico:
Ile ola niyonu,women can endure pains,bcus of loves of money

Some can marry a monkey or any other wild animal because of money.

Poverty is ingrained in their soul.

Please if you give birth to a girl child, provide adequately for her every need so she won’t grow up asking low-brow questions like this brainless actress

Stan a lowlife begger that is too poor to pay for her own hair-do?

The standards some of girls are looking up to is in the gutter, no wonder so many women in this generation are so undesirable

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Youngzedd:
I have issues trusting fintech with my money.

I prefer the biggest two fund managers in the country, this way I feel relaxed because there's enough liquidity.

Your feelings as regard this are 100% valid.

You worked hard for your money. Follow your gut feeling and safeguard it as best as you can. I know these FinTechs have gone through all necessary regulatory hurdles and are certified but I share this your sentiment.

petomas:
Please what's the name of the Stanbic IBTC Mutual Funds on apps stores? I couldn't download any to avoid getting the wrong one.

Stanbic IBTC Mobile v3

On their latest app. You would see BluNest. You can use that to view your mutual funds

Esthered:
I can't.

I stopped reading here

[s]But if he loves her, he can help her to get a better job, encourage her to pursue something better as sometimes we just need someone to believe in us[/s]

He has to study her to know if she's laid-back or she didn't have opportunities due to limiting factors from her parents like no sponsorship for higher education....

If it's the later, he can help her get/do something better..... if it's the former, he's preparing to bear almost all the bills as she will be full of excuses to do better and worse when children starts coming. [/s]

You can see where i stopped reading.

You are one of those people that give advise that you yourself will not take/do.

Why advise a man to settle for less when it’s something you will never do. Why don’t you help the 56 year old man to do better if you love him.

Instead love wasn’t even in your equation at all. “I can’t” fullstop. Why should a man even give consideration to such when he like you is in a far better position and can do far better

Note: the polar opposite of a 38 year old, financially unstable and unmarried woman is a 56 year old, financially unstable and unmarried man. It is NOT a 38 year old man - unlike the 38 year old women, a 38 year old man hasn’t peaked and has small chance to pivot and turn around his life (before 45).

Esthered:
Why do you need online validation or invalidating to make to make your decision?

I thought love conquers all.

Lool some of you ehn. You are bad advisers.

Love conquers all kwa.

Esther can you marry a 56 years old man that is financially unstable, please tell us

The level of double standard that is inbuilt some people ehn.

UyaiIncomparabl:
It is wrong to string people along knowing that you won't eventually settle with them. That's plain wickedness. It is better to set them free so that someone else can have them since you don't deem them fit for marriage.

We are not naive here. Let’s stop using emotional manipulation, trying to play the ostrich.

A woman that has decided to be with a man, it is of her own decision. She is not under lock and key.

She would leave in a heartbeat if she finds “someone better” and feels the current relationship is not going anywhere. She is there cause she hasn’t found. Women are far more pragmatic than man.

She is not a victim here. Why didn’t Christian Ronald’s girlfriend leave, for years the whole world (including her), have known he has made a decision not to get married to her.

How do you misappropriate a whopping N4 billion

God is so wise. I have started to see sense in “hellfire”.

Suffering for eternity in a lake pf fire for mortal sins, cause how do you adequately punish this kind of offense in a nation that some children haven’t had anything to eat today as i type

Omoapena:
this wasn't exactly what you said, don't ridicule your wife online.

that's no respectful way to propose.

Mscheww shift away from here with your crowd mentality.

Which one is respectful way to propose. Until he takes loan and spends 3 million on flowers then goes on his knees to grovel like a dog?!

Some of you have no mind of your own.

So far he is happy and the lady in question is happy. Both are happy you opinion no matter

pongwa:
swears...... Only a man can pick a girl from the gutters with no education, sponsor her through school, set up a business for her, and marry her. A woman can never, I repeat a woman can never do that. Our mumu never do

Men should be more pragmatic. If a woman would never do this, why are men doing such.

I have a friend working abroad, I told baba there are babes where you are (even Nigerian babes) marry there! Any babe living in Nigeria would be 100% ready to follow you abroad oo.

You won’t believe 3 months later this baba was in Nigeria doing one elaborate marriage proposal to a babe he wants to carry abroad. Well me just tell am congratulations and moved on.

Even if you no wan learn, life go teach you lessons by force by fire 🔥

CandyOps:
Just call his name- Don Baba J
When una ask why him never marry and without a babe what else did you think was the reason? Baba fit be gaybriel

If they sue you for everything your entire generation is worth now. You go talk say na rich dey oppress the poor.

Even the accuser, who should have evidence of what he is saying no fit mention anybody with full chest.

Don Baba J dey hin lane, You say na Don baba J evil ways make am never marry, you be God?! Na you dey provide better wife for every man wey dey fin wife

No worry, watery beans and plenty mosquitoes go reset your brain. Just pray hin no get your time.

uniquetechng:
All the people you mentioned left on their own, Ties, Rema and Ayra are doing just fine.

Are you minding these idle people.

Price of bread, reduce ke.

The problem of Nigeria is Nigerians. Greed has taken over the souls of too many.

Women don’t mind sharing one single great man. He won’t have any flaw as long as she needs him and he is useful to her.

Kobicove:
I hope he made her sign a pre-nup agreement first before agreeing to this marriage

They no dey tell person. Na why oyinbo talk say “a trial will convince you”.

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you minding him.

Instead of him to keep his wife company in peace and quietness, he wants to introduce his wife to waka-waka lifestyle.

Let the lifestyle catch on, his next post will be “my wife doesn’t like to stay home”. Problem dey sleep, yanga go wake am

They talk say na “chinese eyes”.

What a racist comment

Originality29:
This is very good. At least the prisoners will have something to do.

We have wasting human resources in these prisoners. They are very much useful to us.

If we can establish more prison business and pay them even if its N100 per hour many of them would be eager to join the program. By the time they are out they have how know of a business or two.

Were you ever strong.

women!

You follow portable became his baby mama, you say you are tired of being strong, how?

And she accepted the money

This things begin from home, while when most are hungry why won’t she accept.

I remember those day, you dare not come back home with even an extra pencil that doesn’t belong to you.

Just watch as girls of nowadays won’t see a problem with it, when most if them were not brought up right.

Do you know what good book says about the thief and their theft? God himself cursed them, Stolen money/items will become fire 🔥, that you bring to your home. It will then consume itself plus all the thief’s possession - [Zechariah 5:4 - And this is what the LORD of Heaven’s Armies says: I am sending this curse into the house of every thief … and my curse will remain in that house and completely destroy it—even its timbers and stones.”