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chuksisaac:
ok....we. Met few days b4 my long vac from school...so after nursing her tru d drills I found ere for two months...we resumed....we really planned much durin d holidays on how it was gonna be...but few days after arriving school she wasn't keepin up to her own end of the shit....dat was wre I started to loose ma balance....I started doin all d calls...actin desperate...thence she sidelined me for like 1 week...of which she didn't pick my calls and dodged me...d next week...I called and she said she has been lookin for me(the vibes wre still dre then).now first and foremost....she was then runnin dis ijmb stuff tho she wrote jamb....she told be during d hols that not until she got d admission b4 she think about any relationship(I didn't ask her out)she even put me in line to ask her out back then but I did not....so offlate she gained admission into 100level....she now first started with dis am busy stuff....reasons for her new actions wre unknown so....she stopped returning calls even my missed calls....thence I knw ma balls are gone....just on thursday or so I pressured her.....she then told me she just started dating a new guy and dat I should juss move on....buh dammit I fall in love too deep....so I wanna ask how can I get her to feel d vibes back...(Ion giv two fs about her new bf)is making her jealous d best answear?

Kalatium:
After texting this to her, she deleted me from her WhatsApp contacts . Guess I have to move forward

DrAnie:
Hey harddon and other gurus in d house. Please, i need a quick advice. I just got out of a messed up relationship about 2 months ago. As y'all might already know, I was overly caring and proclaimed love for my girl several times due to my naivety. I also naively asked out, which she responded with " i will pray about it". Well, i ended the relationship thingy to give her time to pray well after 4months of dating. Nonsense!
Anyways, all that is past story now. I have been going out with a new girl for about 7 weeks now. I always call her my babe on IM chats, phone calls and text. She keeps on saying i haven't asked her out yet. That she would not concur she's my gf, until I ask her out. She won't even kiss me for this same reason. I really don't want to shoot myself in the leg this time. I really won't want to surrender my balls to her by asking her out. She's kinda putting me under pressure to ask her out formally. Women matter sef...
Please guys what do you advice about this issue?

vislabraye:
Hi. I've been patiently following your thread. I absolutely agree with your philosophy on dating. Kudos. I know the fundamental principles of attraction. The dos and don'ts. Sometimes I do err, though.
But I also believe there are some exceptions and we should know where to draw the line. Playing hard to get works. But for how long should you continue playing hard to get ? It's possible she forgets about you after you've played so hard.
The second thing is persistent. Sometimes, persistence do work from experience. She might say no initially but after a little pressure, she will say yes.
I don't know what you think about persistence. If you do, how would you draw the line ?

Ustec:
Hi Don juon pro.
Wan2 rily commend u for d selfless service u provided 2 help shy and nice guys lyk me(zero confidence when it comes 2 women mattr)...all my life hv bn finding the secret bhind dis damn game i find mysterious,..cos i couldnt just hold it no more dos days wen i see guys far below my level banging difrnt babes evry wknd throughout a semestr/holidays....
Am dis handsome but very shy guy dat evry lady i come across always admire me cos i notice dey stare nd check me out evry now and den but my BALLS are no wea 2 b found....i was a total novice in dis mysterious game (it has always bn a mystri 2 m)
Not until i stnmble my myslf ea..sir u hv reveal and explain in evry detail all d secret and mysteries a pickup artist will ask u 1 2 pay for(yea, i was abt thnkn of dat b4 i stumbl ea)

Have bn studying ur book kinly for somdays now and stil studying it lyk a fresher aiming 2 graduate wit a 1st class..but i hv nt gon bynd d mystery stage(approah drill) dea is somtin i stil don undrstnd dea...WEN IS D RIGHT TIME 2 Get d DIGIT?..u din rily talk much on dat sir!

Obiomon:
Lol! Some quick shiit! One babe just tell me she loves me, I don forget some of those funny I love u replies! Make some boss ballz remind me of the other ones my reply her later or better still help me navigate to the page, I no fit locate am... #no dulling Harddon oya come Hiaa!!! Biko

Obiomon:
lol tell him with his big head!


By the way merry Christmas y'all how many cow una kill

Adasun:
harddon i can see ur swagacious self viewing dis thread



man! U have begin to hide somethings frm us o,is it because of those waves dat troop in to disarme us abi u just feeling ambivalent abt da whole thing.

Ustec:
SIR HARDDON
pls help me do justice to it.
Also,i will lyk 2 share a game i just start wit a lady on facebook

HARDDON:
With d scanned info, this r the possible ice breakers

If she is listening to music: ask her in low tone, u might not even utter the words , just look @ her with a smile n move ur lips saying " RnB or Blues?, Country or hip hop?"

When she removes one ear piece to hear what u saying, still mumble the words gesticulating wit ur hands, she wud lean in to hear what u saying. (U can even add a lil fun by forming stutering)

Then finally, u ask in normal tone.....what ever she says, tell her that with this her noddles voice, u douth she can sing.... u can take d ear piece on her hand n tell her u want to be in d spirit, n plug it to ur ears, lean bck, close ur eyes n hum.( fun)

Lines i use when music is involved:

u have a suprano or alto voice, but im sure pastor does not let u leaD praise because u might just end d church b4 they collect offering

Or


Wow, what a baritone bass u have , if we r passing the night together n u say HELLO in d middle of d night, id just take my pillow n run for dere life!
Wake up n found a guy's voice on ma bed.when did i turn gay?

HARDDON:
Easy pizzy
These aint difficult situations gee.... Moving targets are, from experience. Target with guys r, targets in group r (to the average guys) not these.


All u need in these kinda situation is hightened environmental scan for useful info n be able to absorb same n with d acquired info, spin sexy fun hooks.


Scenario 1 : Bus
Target: Neutral Hawt species
Possible Scanned info: she is listening to music, tapping away on her phone, looking out tru d window, just sitting bland etc

HARDDON:
Why cant she be NICE TO U while u go about the more important things like Living ur life n Making dem money?

if u didnt know, the nicer person, is always d needy person, its always d deeply loving person, itz d most faithful person, its d person dat cares more, taking for Granted most, commits more to d ish, n most often, d most hurt person when things go wrong. N dont things always do? THIS PERSON IS BASICALLY ON DA PERSENGER'S SEAT WHILE D ODA CRUISE HIM/HER ABOUT WHEREVER THEY PLEASE!

Why do u feel THE URGE THAT U must BE NICE TO LADIES THE WAY MOMMA TOT U?

Like u r indepted to her?

Like reksly rightly said, u r Unpredictable in som of ur Approaches, this is no trait of a NICE A33. Cos ladies luv that.
If only u wud balance it out with what u r picking here, u wud be a more touched gee wit more fun experience!



Rich Regards

Don

drnoel:
Still the paradox there is what I am against as regards what Hardone ia saying and that is the that there is a manual on how to handle women and that being nice to them is wrong as hardone states.
To handle women and keep appealing to their sense of reasoning one has to be different from the last guys she met, one has to out think her next move, one has to be an enigma that she cant phantom. One can keeping being all these and still be nice to them. Thats my point.

androidroot:
Pagan?

yetty247:
My love, I love you till the end of time..

africanman85:
U are trying bro but u have to treat difficult situations too like
a) Wen u meet a girl u like in a bus and she is forming not looking at u and she is not doing anything to spark up Congo
b) Wen u meet a girl on d street and u play not interested and she too plays d same
c) U friend girlfriend came with a friend u like. I want u to drop a gud pickup lines for each of d scenario. Pls I need name of good Cologne and affordable for men and gud mouth spray thanks.

MYJIST:
hmmm.... all the best to you

rachealfst:
copied

NLjona:
STAGE 3(FINAL)...








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faitheverest:
O boy

AfroSamurai:
You almost wrote a Nonet poem. Your lines are irregular.

Been a while, Harddon. Your quill has been resting for a while, what gives?

Nma27:
Hope u know we ain't in Shakespearian era anymore huh