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@leocollins

The last of the three things is :

She got a boyfriend who found out she met someone and took it out on her. Hence her withdrawal. This is highly unlikely though

leocollins:
yea,I dropped this in the morning,hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

Oh this. As coleB rightly said, I did ignore it because drLammy had answered you rightly. Took the words off my lips. Sleek.


However, there are few things you should note and some questions for you to rumminate about.

1. Was your meeting fun and did you burn the LON( line of note) image in her mind before she gave you her line or she reluctantly did to get you off her backs?


2. When ladies behave like that, there are 3 things involved:
a) she didn't really fancy your meeting and just gave you her line so she can get rid of you

b) she did really liked meeting you and decided to test if you are man enough by telling you she is busy and she would FLASH U when she is free. This is to turn you into a needy dock. She effectively deballed you when even though she didn't bother to flash, you still kept calling back like a Peacock on heat. You failed the test. This made her shove you down the pecking order and stopped taking your calls. You ain't worth it.

How can you just meet a lady, call her, she busy and with no iota of decorum, tell you she would FLASH YOU back WHEN SHE IS FREE and you Duck n let her get away with it?

"Flash you " means you ain't worth wasting my credit on.
"When I'm free " means I'm in charge here and things must be done my own time and way. Deballed effectively.

Then she DIDNT EVEN BOTHER TO CALL BACK after promising, this means you are of no consequence.


All these behaviour made her stock shoot up where you are and you went wimpey, needy; calling and forcing a chat and crying and pleading( oh you didn't cry and beg?
Of course you did with those lame questions you asked her when you met her again!) and begging for her attention! YUCK, MAN YUCK!


Do yourself some good and invest in your self confidence and balls by reading this thread (1-50) at least and signing up to our Blog.


While at it, IGNORE HER COMPLETELY. No calls, chats, status read, physical contact, nada!

Go to places you are CELEBRATED not where you are TOLERATED

You are worth much more than these, stop selling short!

leocollins:
still waiting for your reply boss

Reply?

Did I miss something Phil I mean Leo Collins?

Adasun:
harddon on da radar

Itz hard to see in crimson Love!

How we've so drifted with the tide of love and balls: the core of life itself! Try as we may, we cannot extensively exhaust its sexy crude chapters. here now, we must move on.

Let him who has ears hear
Let him apply his mind
Man his days

For such is life and its rude design
A call we must all obey in our own terms or otherwise
Such is life

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 148 :

Don't flirt with who you can't flaunt

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 149 :


1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 147 :


If Love can't communicate in Silence, it is not worth itz raves

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 148 :

Don't flirt with who you can't flaunt

SENSE PILL

1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

women should stop seducing men rather. Slaying in all manner of shades and angles

Eg your dp.

Sense Pill
the attractive force of those big soft mounds is directly proportional to the gravitating force with which men's arms, elbows and eyes aligns .


these are nothing but the musings from the other side, if you quote me anywhere else, i would deny it

hola @ me when you have new litter

Pics of the dame and sire would be nice

Hi,

Do hala me when you have new puppies.

btw, i'd love to see how your dame and sire looks.

The very base of men.

The first cut is the deepest. Second was arranged.

Two different states of minds

We are now back 2gether. Thanks Hardon

It does not solve underlying issues.

Hope you have figured them out? And the way forward?

Jamariwolff:
This is very wrong. God punish that man forever

Nah God wouldnt.
How can you eat a plot of land at one go?
How can you eat a man's destiny in one sitting, turn around and offer such prayers and expect it to be answered?

henryleecom:
Would really like to know what ur advice is..
To learn from my mistakes

1. Know that piece of paper money don't make a man and never get humble because you are short of cash.

The same aura n gait with which you glide through life when your account is smiling large, is the same gait you should ooze when you are a lil down financially.

2. Money is not piece of paper but ideas meshed with time and action.

Mistakes:

1. Asking her why she's paying. You just confirmed to her that you ordered half plate because you are broke. Instead of asking her this totally out of tune question, you should have let loose your wit and wisdom and take control of the situation while guiding her home ,swiftly, if you fance her.

2. Going over to her table after you've filled your pod to try n strike a convo. Gross. You can't be pocket down n be down in wits too.

Possible responses:

1. Huh? No ooo, I'm watching my height n the size of my bumbum. But if you insist, you have to come and share with me. Come over, dont be shy

2. No ooo, I cant finish the full plate. Chai, I wish I could! Atleast eat a lady's money for the very first time in my life! Hopefully, it wouldn't purge me

3. Huh? No oooo, half plate it is. If you really wano spend on me, not in here. Let's sit out leta in the evening. I've been looking forward to eating a lady's money

Etc.

@ Canberra55


What a rave review!

These kinda poignant praises warm the mind, makes the head wano wear wings and take to the high heavens but then, a lil look at my Peacock legs n my heart remains humble!


"...You've never really lived until you've done something for someone that can't pay you back. "

That is one of my many life taglines.

Glad I could give a lil of me to life( motivation) and this thread would keep sailing on with fresh wine.

Glass up!

Zhahovic:

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I have to say since I joined nairaland, this is one of the best threads I've bumped into.....
...
I patiently started from page 1 - 192... and though I'm not a novice with women, Hardon and others who have been chipping in have really given me more enlightenment. ...
..
Remember this saying in mortal kombat? ...there's no knowledge that is not power..
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It took me 1 full month to go through all those pages...
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Thumbs up guys!!

Glass up to those who can pay any price for knowledge.
You got mah mad Respect Gee!

However,
This thread is an appetizer and brushes the surface, our blog leaves no stone unturned. So call in .

banjicom:
My realest don, can you explain more on this sense pill.

Sense Pill
The head of the elephant is no play thing for the porcupine...

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS

For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets

Rather learn to set traps... Sassy/fun traps

To go forward, we must learn the act of going backwards

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 146 :

Money and the good things of life are nothing but compliment to THE NATURAL woman. What she REALLY NEEDS is you.
For the first thing Adam met was work. The first thing Eve met was ....... guess what?

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 147 :


If Love can't communicate in Silence, it is not worth itz raves

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 145 :

The Natural man was not created to be faithful. This is the way of the crowd. HOWEVER, He who can bring Jrod to subjugation is MAN indeed!

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 146 :

Money and the good things of life are nothing but compliment to THE NATURAL woman. What she REALLY NEEDS is you.
For the first thing Adam met was work. The first thing Eve met was ....... guess what?

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 144 :

It is said: " to make love work, one party must develop a deaf ear( guy) and the other party a blind eye(lady)". I say be so sleek that there would be no need for her blind eyes and while at it, have your ears to the ground. Just be matured enough to know what to respond to and what to ignore

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 145 :

The Natural man was not created to be faithful. This is the way of the crowd. HOWEVER, He who can bring Jrod to subjugation is MAN indeed!

henryleecom:
no sort of scene was created though.
thanks

If only you are in the picture about the great opportunity you just let lost .... If she is your type....

SENSE PILL

The best way to learn, to the wise, isn't from his mistakes but that of others.

diegwu02:
What difference would it make if they were 10 Christians sitting in the room Mr. Bigot. You profess Jesus and you blab with sentiments filled with hate.

smh

Not one Christian within this bunch...
However, every counsel of evil would fail against this country and the body of Christ would fail

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 143 :

No matter how much money you milk, know that fast-food is for the first phase.
Don't get stuck on a lady who is stuck on them.

Ofcos, we can afford a chef, but she should know how to spin some spice

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 144 :

It is said: " to make love work, one party must develop a deaf ear( guy) and the other party a blind eye(lady)". I say be so sleek that there would be no need for her blind eyes and while at it, have your ears to the ground. Just be matured enough to know what to respond to and what to ignore

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 141 :

If it is easier to access her vJay than her b00bs, brotherly, your love seed is sown on a very wrong soil! Runnnnnnn!!!

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 143 :

No matter how much money you milk, know that fast-food is for the first phase.
Don't get stuck on a lady who is stuck on them.

Ofcos, we can afford a chef, but she should know how to spin some spice

minexpo:
thanks.....I'm looking for her replacement already.
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Dont just close the door entirely. If you are like me that believes in research and Kaizen, you should know better....

there was once, a people! smh

if they aint blaming, they are scheming, then arresting and jailing

SMH

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 141 :

If it is easier to access her vJay than her b00bs, brotherly, your love seed is sown on a very wrong soil! Runnnnnnn!!!

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 142:
In exploring, I stumbled upon a hidden treasure: To bond,
One party must love for two at one point in time or the other.
And nature would rather men ballz up and "pursue" his sexy desire to the world's end until she succums. So it is then that men must Lust/Love first. While she, like the Hen on heat, takes to flight forming hard to crack.

After the first cracking, to the Guys that understand, there is a Swift role shifting. Then she takes the reins and must Love for two. Until such a time when he is impressed( with her skills, ways and wisdom), reciprocates.

The thing is, weak wimps don't know how to switch off when they should and let her do the loving. So they are eternally entangled in a stoned state.

If ever she naturally tries to help out, he still, with his body language, cries out, LET ME I PRAY THEE, LOVE YOU THE MORE! For thus was I born!
...A mugu is Born