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He who is not for us, is against us. Decode

ireneidiva:
I can read sir.

But of course, you can, no doubt.

However, I would advise, you do a lil search on the topic and check out the agony with which men have been PAYING....

This is no joke gurl

Colourich:
And who said I won't submit to my husband..

I put it to you then that you got no clue about the Word Dominant

ireneidiva:
There is nothing wrong with this. Men have been doing it. No big deal.

Oh yea?

Just look at me laughing in ��spanish!

You obviously got no clue what we're on about

Citi what?

To a country where there is no value for life?
He would wave your northern President off with a laugh!

Hehehe!

Feminists! They never saw this coming!

Oh the ripple effect of wanting to glue some balls on top of some vJay!

Be ready ladies, itz just the beginning

Itz amazing, totally nerve wracking, how love back flips and turn once upon a time blissful home into nothing but echos of broken vows.
Turns love birds into ring fighters and it leaves you dazed as to why things fell apart. They never shared an hawt n erotic bed?

DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

Having found someone worth loving( with your balls intact), how do we go on from thence, handle all her tests brilliantly?
What are the do's and don't in a relationship?

How can a real guy date and dance yet armed with his sway and balls' swagger?


DRILL NUGGET 23a

Handling Marriage Proposal
When to, how to and every other thing inbtw


b) The Vow and life after

@ no2


Op, you can't have the weight of an elephant on your head and still have energy to be digging cricket.
Just some Sense Pill

Seahawk:
Or she can rent her own house and live comfortably. She doesn’t have to be in her father’s hut.

A woman only live in two places all her life time:

In her father's house or her husband's.

The name she bears, bear testimony to this.

So whether she rent an apartment or not, she is still living with her father, whose name she bears. u dig?

Only in Nigeria you have the lives of cows worth more than those of the humans.

Sad, so sad

A day of reckoning is coming....

SENSE PILL

The brave only die once and are remembered for bravery, a fool die a thousand times-over in one life time and his cowardice trickle through generations .

Tyranny reigns when the conscience of simple men become smeared with money and cheap personal aggrandizement

Kudos to Timi for speaking up no matter what


Just some Sense Pill!

MhisTahrah:
I assumed that the first post that I quoted was referring to a housewife.

That balance can only be achieved if there's co-operation.Start up a business for her?If she's cool with it, no biggie.Countless number of people, sir.I intend to be one of such.
Let's consider this scenario; Wife has a 9-5 job, husband is self employed.They have 3kids, their school closes by 2.Husband picks the kids from school.Prepares lunch for them and awaits wife's arrival.Wife arrives and prepares dinner, clean the home and prepares breakfast the next morning.Drops the children at their school and then cycle continues.
And this as well,
Wife is self-employed, no fixed closing hour, picks up her kids from school at 2, prepares lunch and shortly after, dinner.Husband arrives 6, eats or throws tantrums when his food isn't done.He never helps her out simply because he believes it's her job.Wife is very stressed but doesn't speak out because it's her job afterall.Too many pent-up emotions in the house.Of course it could go both ways but this is much more common.

In scenario 1, there is mutual understanding, respect and tolerance between them, they flourish.My point is find someone comfortable with your lifestyle, there is support from the husband and it makes all the difference.They are in sync.Hubby doesn't mind that he has to COOK and pick the kids. Again, no feminist mentality here.

Can we also say that in countries where the reverse is the case, the wives buy the husbands?

Yours is nothing but a refined feminist mentality no matter how you try to sugar coat it. You are looking for a man YES Ma'am Man. A man who would cook and clean for you while you are out there frolicking, probably( if possible, you would rather have him carry the pregnancy! how gross!)

So he should be able to provide for the fam while also adept at cooking and cleaning, Yea? smh

To answer your last Question, YES! Any where there is any form of payment that is significant, it is an act of outright purchase and he who pays the piper reserves the sole right to dictate the tone. Period

MhisTahrah:
There's no feminist mentality here.Now, imagine yourself as the father of a daughter you struggled so much for.You got her educated at the best schools, provided everything she asked for just so one day your girl will 'blow' and make you a proud father.Only for her to get married one day and become a full time housewife.Her certificate wasting away.All her education amounts to is birthing babies and taking care of the home.Nothing wrong with them 'cept for the fact that some women often sacrifice their lives for the sake of their homes.
See, this mentality of he paid your bride price so he owns you must stop.

Taking care of the home does not equate becoming a house wife. Dont get things muddled up.

Even in r/ships, real men avoid ladies that sleep all night and watch movies all day. They are the most terrible set of people to deal with. The idle mind is the ....


We wouldn't deal with a house wife nor would we deal with a feminist. She must learn how to balance work and her home. Or We open a business for her. After all, how many degree holding graduates are using such to impact lives?

About the Bride price thingy, even though nobody said he OWNS you emphatically, the man is not to blame.

Blame your parents who are going to SELL you someday.

Divay22:
Lol
He be like this your ifa na one time comedian o

Mission impossible!
Abort now!

...and to think we were on our own licking our injuries before she offered to give us our time back!

NdiaraIGBO:
You make me laugh ..? Real wealth is what you have already acquired my bruv.

The one you are talking about is pie in the sky ooo, until it happens.

That is where the average guy gets it wrong. Even most rich men that havent developed their creative mental abilities can't sleep well at night because they have no clue how to start all over n get all back If the wealth wears wings at a blink.


Look around you gee. all the magnificent beauties of the world were, at a point and for a moment, nothing but intangible thoughts.

Real Wealth lies with him who can convert the ideas gee. What you have acquired can develop wings over night. Not what you have up in your head

Divay22:
I don't know
You can tell me

I just consulted Ifa!

He said you would need to come along with the following items

1. The heads of all the 11 humans they call eagles that are currently having a fashion parade in Russia but disguised as pro players

2. the left balls of your uncle Lie Mohammadu

all these wrapped with the $220 dollars we should have made in that time

Divay22:
Comma have it

dont play with me now woman. how do you propose doing that?

MhisTahrah:
Indomie generation or not, the world is not how it used to be.Women should wise up.

Oh yea?

The only wisdom women would wear is that of remaining single all their lives.

You cant bring a feminist mentality and baggage, no matter how evolved you think the world has, into a man's home . So long as a HE, still with the evolution of the world, pays some huge sums as YOUR BRIDE PRICE, you cant run your show the way you deep fit.

If not, be ready to stay in your father's hut!

Elder001:
Then be ready to share your properties with her.. it's that simple

That reply wasnt for you. I hadnt even reasoned your malodorous post yet.

Are you alright ? Elder001 reeling like a child who just had his first taste of chili pepper?

What is property? and how much do you even have? Convert it to pounds, worth anything?


Your mindset is TOTALLY flawed.

here is a little SENSE PILL:

Wealth is not tied to some mundane, soon-to-fade-off-radar properties, real wealth is a fully developed mind beaming with creative ideas.

So stop yapping dust and renew your mind

MhisTahrah:
L Is that one a wife or a maid?

So it's wrong for the wife to manage the home huh?

smh for this indomie generation

How can Nigerians be this angry with Model-players who went for fashion parade in Russia?

National Anthem rEMIX:

...to serve with mouth and lies, one nation bound in weakness, deception and hate...

Divay22:
Hope you're not hurt
Match don finich

Of Course not

I just want the time i spent watching that match back

Just Bliv!

Divay22:
Lol
Where you dey jump go


See the way body dey pepper me

How can u just luv and support blindly considering their antecedent?

I came with shock absorber.

Divay22:
1:1
Just believe

3:2

Just bliv

2:1

Just Bliv!

Is there any need? Rivers is PDP soaked and Wike is a grassroots man

Pataricatering:
why doesn’t the church simply lay table and serve the “ word “ to people who are hungry ? Since hunger like poverty must be a state of the mind ? In your mind the church cannot feed people without conditions ? The tax that government does not collect from them is supposed to be for all Nigerians - of every religion tribe etc ! So why should people have to listen to the “ word “ to eat ?

Do you read with your bum and comprehend with your heart?

You are hereby ignored

Kindly move on.
Just assume she's gone for good! If you really want her as a wify, hurry up put a ring on it nnd go do introduction before she steps out. Even that is no guarantee but itz way better than nada!

Should you not be able to do this, move on.

It is not worth the stress, aches and twitches yoo would soon feel!


Let me play you the scenario :

She gets there, quickly get a means to contact you, you guys probably talk thrice a day for the first 1-4months, then she begin to make friends and your talks reduce to every night( her night) because she busy.

Then she meets a guy and the talks further reduce to thrice a week as you start complaining about how she's changed, n she makes work load excuses. Then she creates a situation where you guys have a row. And the talks dips more.....

You would hate yourself.

However , should you still want to keep her, keep hope, you can start browsing other flowers so you don't feel the impact too much.


Just some SENSE PILL

Kul!

After eating, I do hope they would do themselves huge good by listening to the WORD that is able to transform them into Wealthy people because what they really need is THE WORD.

SENSE PILL

For poverty is a state of the mind not the lack of money.

Started putting her through her basic command @ 7 weeks! Against docs recommendation of 6months. How I'm I going to live with a dog and have her soil the whole place for that long withou issuing commands?

I ignored the doc and had a romance with YouTube and Google. I'm glad I did!

First port of call was potty training.