₦airaland Forum

Adasun:
elucidate please

bojbest:
Guys, calls or chats. Which is better?

adamsbadoo:
I think u are right...
BUT when i broke up with her she came bck begging even though she does'nt gain frm me financially...even my friends told me she loves me ANd she claims she loves me.. .i jst wanna taste her honey pot

minexpo:
Hardon....I need your help on this...it's a bit long but just read
I have a gf or should I say a girl that doesn't get wet no matter the pre-intimacy or how long it takes even though we talk dirty....I have asked her severally if she's sexually attracted to me, if she loves me as she claimed..but she could not give a good response ...so I started asking her about her sexual history and she gave some confessions..
She noticed this after her ex dumped her nd before the break up...she enjoys sex...in her words (love making)
2) after the break up...she had a fling with a guy b4 me...and she enjoyed it also....so it got me wondering...is she into or I'm not doing my role well enough to get her wet...though she said she gets wet wen we talk on fone...and it's a distance relationship...40mins drive


Note....I'm not a newbie when it comes to sex...and since I have stated dating I haven't encountered such...she is not circumcised ....house please help

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HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL:

To maintain Luv, you must apply BALLS!
If not... the man dies....

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL:

To maintain Luv, you must apply BALLS!
If not... the man dies....

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 138:

To maintain Luv, you must apply BALLS!
If not... the man dies....

GrammarNazi1:
...Let's...ain't...

rookiy:
harddon bro,but what this girl in question is your girlfriend, and she still doesn't wanna come over?

Mavin1:
I greet you all.

What would I do when a girl (suddenly)started acting lovey dovey but expecting you to ask her out or to profess your love to her.

Questions like;
Who is your girlfriend?
Are you my guy? (when you flirting with her).
When is your birthday?
How old are you? (Told her to figure out herself)

Boss, what's the next move?

Double Don

drloveeee:
thanks so much..I will work on your advice

drloveeee:
pls, i need advice on this:
I've been in a 4yrs relationship with this girl. During the 2nd year of our relationship, I noticed some love chats on her whatsapp with a particular guy. I confronted her but she claimed it was nothing. Few months after, something came up and she confessed she had romantic affair with the guy but that they never had sex. The guy in question now has travelled abroad and sometimes, do send my gf some things apart from money. Recently, d guy sent her a phone, she told me about it claiming that he sent it only as a friend and that she doesn't love the guy. Now, my question is that, what do you think I should do at this point?

victoroscar:
bro have u even gone through d pages

Dataspider:
Oga HARDDON I really appeciate your efforts on this thread.
I have this girl in my department that likes me and has confessed that she does. Initially, I was doing the nice guy act, i knew something was not right about that and so i decided to do some research and that's when I stumbled on this thread. I have started applying some your sense pills and getting some good results.
I have a few question tho. How do I act in these scenerios:
1. When we're both taking a walk and she stumbles on a guy she knows and they start talking?
2. When she is answering un-ending calls from other guys and laughing.

Also do u think a guys should bang a girl at her house. If yes, how do i make her invite me.(I have a church boy kind of roomate so my house may not work)
thanks.

greatforever:
All you said is true and her sentiment but I took d break cos I wanted to settle and get a work which she agreed to.

My intentions absolutely is to marry her...
Hardon pls what can I do to get her back.
She blocked me on WhatsApp I reside in lag while she reside in Ibadan. Would have visited her but I don't what her to embarrass me.

What can I do

udemejack:
I am just tired of everything but i cant just forget about her,severally have tried to move on but something is always dragging me back.
We stopped talking to each other close to a month now (though we stay in the same compound) because i discovered that she is this person that can never be remorseful and ask for forgiveness even if its glaring in her eyes that she offended you but will always want you to make the bold steps for reconciliation and i became tired of everything and allowed things to go her way.
She has cheated on me severally even upto the point of inviting a man from her home state and the dude spent upto a week with her and i still forgave her not to talk of another dude that she had a fling with in the same compound and a certain Hausa boy who is so interested in her but she keeps on saying that he is just a bestie and nigga has been visiting very often.
Tomorrow is her birthday and she has traveled to her guy's place in Akwa ibom although she lied that she went to her village though i intend to call her this night to wish her hapy birthday
Does it mean i still love her even against all odds? Or how can i just move on? Cus i am still emotional
cc
ilegend
Harddon
Lalasticlala

How can you have the machinery for gold mining and be digging for clay?
Why are you whiling away in one small,public, repugnant and stagnant pond when you can take to the seas and ride high tides?

HARDDON:
Finally, it's here! The most anticipated, most talked about, long-awaited, life-impacting, life-transforming, balls inducing, brain reformatting, men's liberating mother of all blogs!

DATING DRILL'S BLOG IS LIVE!

Hurry now and visit https://datingdrill.com/


To Do within DD Blog

1.Allow our push notification( this would enable you to be first to get our drills as they drop hot and heavy)

2. Sign up by providing your email and names( We would be organizing loads of Balls competitions/challenge and dishing out lots of prizes and freebies that only our registered members are eligible for. We also respond first and promptly to our registered members' questions/queries before any other)

3. Go through our Glossary. It is your helpline to our ballful verbiage. VERY IMPORTANT

4. Read the posts in a chronological order because they are like building blocks. Don't break the sequence so that you can gain maximumly off the drills.

5. At the end of every post, we have Ball Tasks(BT; refer to the glossary to know what they mean). You must carry out each and every BT. They help you practicalize what you have learnt.

6. Always use our balls' comment box at the end of every post to ask questions, make general comments, give improvement recommendations/suggestions, participate in our balls' competitions and interact with me personally. I would always respond promptly.

7. There are two balling levels; the Rookie Readers' Ranch( RRR) and the Executive Members' Lounge(EML). RRR is always visible and open to everybody but EML is private and only accessible and visible to a privileged few( in here, very few words are used. rather they have unreserved access to loads of my top private stuff. My Magic Wand. Find out)

8. Finally, I cannot overemphasize the importance of practice. Remeber, I would always say; A seasoned sniper-hunter is frigid with his weapon. He takes out target no matter how far with cold precision but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; PRACTICE. HE would miss great kills while at it but if he keeps his head down and never gets discouraged, the experience would be his lifelong anchor.


So what are you waiting for? hurry now and visit Dating Drill's Blog! https://datingdrill.com/

Flocky:
Hey Big Gees in the house. After going through the drills, I've had lots of stories which turned out really cool but here is my most recent although this one turned out somewhat different.

I used the drills on this particular girl and it turned out real cool, she got all over me and she always longed to hear from or be with me every single day but then, I noticed I started falling in love with this girl and then I screwed up by asking her out. Damn! She said NO.

Well, I didn't talk to her about it again and since then I noticed she has been trying to bring up the issue again as all her talks bothers around the issue, (she wants to say YES this time, lol) but she doesn't want to come out straight and say it cos of the African woman's mentality in her. She is waiting for a[b] heads-up from me but I kept avoiding it[/b].


Now, where the problem lies is that I really do love this girl and I want to make her my woman. She z everything I ve always wanted in a woman but I want to do this without acting clingy and needy. How do I go about this?

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident , I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

Tempo1644:
@Harddon, thanks but what is the solution now


@iLegendd, do you have to quote my name in your new thread? Really? Who does that

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 128:

You can't have the machinery to mine gold and be digging for clay!

afamjb:
there is this girl I met online.. we have a date today.. I have been leading her on since we started chatting online from facebook to whatsapp even tezts, my problem is I don't want her to follow me home today , but weekend will be better. please how do I tell her without hurting her feelings because me I want to be serious somehow with this one

afamjb:
hello... meeting girls online page is no loading in your blog.. it's missing.