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Congrats gee!

HML in advc

AlhajiWale:
Might I, however, ask, why you want the former flame back??

She complained recently . That I don't do as I used too. Less chat no calls. I'm kinda busy these days. Relationship is just another wahala currently. Just decided to spark it or should I quit?

Note :I'm an Alpha. I understand the send less tin.. Push and Pull everything
Cc HARDDON

1st Emphasized : based on this, you haven't answered my question. Because from what you wrote, you want the spark ( lovey dovey touch) back because SHE COMPLAINED. That is what she wants.

2nd Emphasized is really your state of mind. If i am to extrapolate this knowledge, I would say you are just tired of her9 though you still find the vClef alluring, if only you could just be having that alone) but don't want to hurt her. Because no matter how busy a man is, if he really wants a lady, he would always make out time for her. hearing her voice alone when faced with difficult day, takes the stress all away! I know man, I know.

You know you can talk to me because I see through words into the intents of the heart! AN HEADMASTER WAS ONCE UPON A TIME A SCHOOL BOY.

Lalas247:
The issue is your man not the chic ... if your man doesnt stray u wont have this issue ..
All this would make the guy move to another slay.. she should be asking herself why .. or leave

to every occurrence, there are always two possible causes: Remote and Immediate.

Remote cause = the couple.
Immediate cause = man.


Missed me huh?

Yea, I know you did.

And the stale moment when the spark is gone....

then some slay queen scrubs along and slay'gnite the spark!

Congrats gee! but do know that you have a lot to contend with.

and you need BIG BALLS!

May the odds be in your favour!

AlhajiWale:
I've been dating this babe for two years plus.. Suddenly tins just got boring between us. How can I spark the relationship?
HARDDON

Sense Pill 131:

Ladies are illogical: The best way to ATTRACT and KEEP them is to constantly PUSH them away ( SENDLESS ). See ? ILLOGICAL!


You were obviously doing the opposite of the above Pill. Kindly read my response to your earlier query. So you can know exactly what went wrong because no matter the tonnes of curative fume's measure you apply, it wouldn't be equal to an ounce of a preventive one.


Might I, however, ask, why you want the former flame back??

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

Sense Pill 133:

To the mind of the man, Jrod/lust is the anchor on which love revolves.


this is why someone rightly said that Lust is the Package in which Love is sent and we all know that the ribbons are quickly untied. No, I dont suppose you would understand that.

AlhajiWale:
Explain this. Pls

Gladly!

Sense Pill 131:

LOVE AND BALLS ARE TWO VERY POWERFUL yet opposite forces. They are always at loggerheads, fighting to OWN the Man. When Love wins, Jrod GROWS happy!

ACT 1 SCENE 1:
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BALLS says to the Man: Boss, I am sensing that you are beginning to fall in love with this new soft doll. Remember who you are and the fact that LOVE weakens the Mind and Me. Remember how you felt this way about Chioma, Nkechi, Oge, Jessica and the others, how you spent cash, time , energy and you were generally at their becks and call but where are they all now? You must not let Jrod and soft Love blind you. BE IN CHARGE AND SEND HER LESS. Let her be the one to please you.

ACT 1 SCENE 2:
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Love says to the Man; dont mind BALLs, relax and enjoy this wonder woman. She is just complete; her beauty is like reflecting light rays on the stream and her eyes like diamond in the field of falling snow. An embodiment of grace and glamour. Every pose, perfected! Every step, sleek. You finally found her! So give her all the affection, care, time and every other necessary thing before she even asks so that you can wade off potential suitors. Be at her beck and call for she is just the one we have been searching for all our lives! Sing her praises to the heavens in the morning and her worship just before the moon eats itz supper at night.
Pelt her with pebbles of royalty, adorn her head with a queenly crown, shower roses on the ground she steps on. Oh, the demigod of your heart throne....

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And how she enjoys this so! At first! Seeing that you can do anything and go to any length for her, she upped her game and started demanding more. Sending you on some crazy errands even house helps would frown at. But because you are drenched in love( someone said it is hard to see in crimson red!), you don't think twice, you just please her. Then, she assumed the Leader of the pack role! Yes, every pack( family, r/ship) must have a leader and to HIM who control the bond, belongs that potent power. And a general has no business being subject to HIS recruit! SOon, the love she had for you began to wane. because you are not worth being her man. YOu are too weak and wimpish to lead.

In your confused state, you sat and wondered; "WHERE DID IT ALL GO WRONG?'




In summary?

when you let Love and Jrod be in control, there is a very high probability the attractive force she once saw in you would wane off. Most average guys make this mistake.


Sense Pill 131:

Ladies are illogical: The best way to ATTRACT and KEEP them is to constantly PUSH them away ( SENDLESS ). See ? ILLOGICAL!


To him who fathoms this, belongs the sexy spoils.

Oh Cutie! You don't say!


So guys like us that are "NOT CUTE" stand no chance?

FreshGuy2:
thanks a lot... I think i will keep the issue of her visiting aside for the main time.

Kul move! While at it, take out time and work on your confidence and JRod Control.

lalasticlala:
I want to thank everybody that commented on this thread. Thanks for the love

Silver and Snakes I got not, what i do have is a solemn whisper into the winds for Financial favour and abiding grace as you embark on this life long journey!

HML in Advc


Do remember:
Sense Pill

...Balls must lead, as love ferments into a brooding understanding
...Don

HANDLING LUV & BALLS

Sense Pill 130
When push comes to shove, don't sell out like every other average guy out there! Drop love like a pack of cards! For in the final analysis, your balls is all you got!

Sense Pill 129:
HANDLING LUV & BALLS

Love couples chaos; like minds must always repel.

Love is like the bond between the two opposing side of a magnet and just as like pole repels, so also like personality traits repels in the world of love.

Sense Pill:
Love thrives in chaos. It binds the impossible and couples the improbable. Hence it brags and ravel in the saying : Love conquers all! smh

Hence you would most likely find the good gurl with the bad boy. The extrovert( domineering) gurl with the introvert( timid, trouble avoiding) guy.
The poor gurl with the rich guy ( Rich couple Rich? rarely really lasts because they are usually for some silly mundane things, not the happiness of those bonded.. And what is really happiness in the world of love? Topic for another day). One profession coupling with another profession.

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HANDLING LUV & BALLS

Sense Pill 128:

Break up and Make up opens the eyes of Love to new dreams and dimensions.

The only way love can be real is to let go of it a bit. You know the popular saying: the only way to prove that the bird with you is really yours, let it go. Let it fly. If it comes back, then truly, it's really yours. If not, well....

This clears the fog and lay the bond bare.

You are able to think clearly if this is really what you want or not. If you aint letting GETTING DOWN AND CLOSENESS blind and deprive you from what you really wanted.

The worse thing you can do as a man is to cling to what is not HERE. nOT yours.

Sense Pill 128:

You can't have the machinery to mine gold and be digging for clay!

op, you are very right about the fact that the worse people to seek r/ship advise from are women.
however, the reason you gave to buttress this fact is totally flawed.


Yes, given, woman are emotional beings that always end up thinking with their HEARTS instead of their HEADS.

Two right reasons they are the worse to seek advise from are;

1. how do you advise anybody about something you got no clue about?

2. To keep men perpetually bound. Right from momma down to the least of all ladies have this unspoken, unwritten code. hence, momma would always advise you to be a gentleman( be at her beck and call, give her anything she asks, be nice to her , blah blah blah) when with ladies but in the true sense of it, they like badt boys. Have you ever seen a lady owing up to the fact that she likes badt boys? Ofcos not! they all want gentle, good and God fearing me.

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FreshGuy2:
HARDDON I greet you... How do I get a particular girl that has been proving stubborn to come to my house?, she only came once and left immediately because it was getting late and that was it.. She gives me one or two excuses any time I ask her to visit me.

You obviously haven't read the thread. If you have you would have noticed how I have been sound two things very clearly! :

1. NEVER ASK A LADY OUT

2. WITH LADIES, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS: FOR THE MORE YOU TRY TO GO STRAIGHT UP AND FORWARD WITH THEM, THE MORE YOU OOZE NEEDINESS AND DRIVE THEM OFF! Never be despirate( SENDLESS ) with Ladies!


Of all the beautiful places to hang out and still have her why your place?

Your place is a Red flag for any lady you haven't broken all her defenses. And I'm very much sure there is more you didn't tell us about her first coming.

Hear this; whenever you tell her to come to your place, the meaning she reads into it is : he wants to BED me! because she is well experienced going to guys or have read lota stories that touches the heart about other ladies who went visiting.... Arrrhhhh!


Be a boss not a jrod toy boy.

I did treat meeting ladies to a very high degree. Do yourself some good and read that section.

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HANDLING LUV & BALLS

Sense Pill 127:
A man who is scared of war would never experience the thrills of Make-up Fun Heat! And his portion is the fzone.

A man must be sleek enough to throw fun jabs, strong enough to have war of words with his woman. Usually, I'd walk away. But there are times love dictates you got to have heated arguments. Bring down the roof if you so suit.
But however you decides to do it, be calculated enough to know that the anger should be skin deep. Just your voice and facial expression. Inside, you should be laughing and excited. Generate heat. Create rows. Push her to the edge. Let her spill. You can never truly know a woman until she is angry. Do this most especially if you plan on settling down with her.

Be difficult sometimes. Ouch!


Let the fights begin! But if you notice she's getting off rail, walk away. Let this kul for a day or two. Real ones, loyal ones would call to apologise even if you are the one at fault.

We do this to achieve 3 things:

1. The thrills from the heat of make-up humping
And
2. To truly know who is really hiding behind the kul mask she is wearing.

3. To let her know that even though we like peace, we ain't scared of war! Place em exactly where they belong


While at it,

1. you must avoid abusive words. Counter any point she raises with other kul ones. Pick her words out and blast her with it( they hate that)


2. Notice her anger level, restraint level, note her words and her reaction generally. These should inform you more about her kind of person. Whether or not you would luv that kinda energy around you

Divay22:
Yeah.. Cause they're all blind

All of them?

How come you can see?

austyn0:
No doubt that some ladies will still hop in here and go like "What is the essence of doing all these when he will still cheat."

http://media.tenor.co/images/207833daf1a6dff99e9e505895043f73/tenor.gif


Yea, they all cheat! Don't they?

Well , deal ladies hear this: what you say you Become/experience. You attract what you think mostly about. The power of life and death lies on the tongue. Finally, "you shall have whatsoever you say". Read your Bibles!


So you see? The guys that are coming around you are cheats because of what you have been thinking /saying.

Learn to talk right after now.

Divay22:
I hope they'll see this one

Nopes! They wouldn't

HANDLING LUV & BALLS

I must reiterate this:

With men, the L word comes like a drop of water in the desert. While average guys sing it like chorus in a radio station. we all know which envirom values it more.



Love is an action word. However, average guys and all psuedo relationship experts would always advise you to Always tell her how you feel. And when you guys have started dating, that you should always sing it like a song to her every morning and night! Arrrhhhh gross! Simply yucks!

I come with a different light: Yea, I know ladies love to hear sweet words. They are usually easily swayed by them. NOT JUST THIS ONE. By telling her you love her everytime, you kill the spark!

Singing love everytime kills the attraction, fun, challenge and vibe.

For real men, a look, touch, kiss, hug, surprise gift, surprise vacation ticket, sing her a song, write her a peom, suprise dinner/breakfast in bed, surprise spank etc are much more effective ways of saying I luv you instead of turning a luv choir master.

And when you do whisper it into her ears( very rarely) some day, after giving her a knees-weakining surprise pack, she would get hung on you so dear!


Notice how I kept using the word "SURPRISE"?
Go figure

Newbielearner:
Good to have you back bro.

I have two questions :

How can aman stop some ladies from being attracted to himself? I approached some, went out with them, and later found out some were just beautiful, bold and rich, but not quite my taste (they just want that thing and I don't wanna have it with someone I don't plan on having a home with). The more I avoid them the more I get their messages. And this is really becoming tough to deal with.

Secondly, when I eventually find that taste, they now start playing hard to get. Pulling those tricks you mentioned that ladies would pull.

Do I have to now turn to a bad boy?

Yea, feels sleek to be back.

To your question, we've stated it in clear terms:

Sense Pill 126:

sendless attracts while being all over them repels.

So from the above pill, what do you think I should do to get rid of a gurl I don't fance?

On a second thought though, why would you want do that? I'd rather friendzone them and use them as target practice. Hone some new skills( learn from ladies Gee: they always fzone guys they derive benefits from but they don't fancy emotionally. Do same)

However, if you must, you can either do everything opposite all you have learnt here or apply distance and ghost mode.


Second question; I don't quite get you. Rephrase.

2dice01:
haha

Dude picked a witty line

Haddy help the niggga
Someone cannot play with yo

Guys' play? Nah, I prefer that of soft dolls

WFKruger:
Greetings to HARDDON and others in the house. Still going through the thread. on page 89 actually. I must commend HARDDON and the few who have followed in his footsteps to enlighten us on how the web of women really works...I'm in my early twenties and have never in a relationship before. My question to HARDDON is can you keep a relationship with a lady without getting physical or in more plain terms without sexual intimacy?

This is coming really late because I was on sabbatical. And what DA heck of fun you guys had without me!

Now I'm the one doing catch-up.

To your question: Yes you can.

Generally, people would advise you to make sure you discuss it with her @ the very beginning if she would be cool with it.

But in reality, it has a lot of challenges.
Since love is involved, you guys would spend alone time together which would lead to touching, smooching, kissing and if you have no self control, you guys would do the DO before you realise it.

Even if you can control yourself, she might not be able to and when you leave a gurl with wet pants, be rest assured some predator out there would help you weed the wet fallow forest. And this is always the beginning of two timing from her if she really digs you.
But if she doesn't dig you, she would naturally grow cold feets with you because she's ghehin it hit somewhere else.

My Advise?
It is pointless going into a relationship. Just make friends generally.

Sense Pill:
An unsatisfied gf is a time bomb waiting to blow!

HARDDON:
HANDLING LUV AND BALLS

12. NEVER SWALLOW HER COMPLIMENTS/FUN JABS LIKE A DUCK:

Only average guys do that. Guys like us never THANK a lady for complimenting us nor go telling her she looks good too with a weak weary smile. Rather, that is the best time we switch into our elements.


She: hmmm, u look so handsome

Me: Yea I know! thatz why you love me so. pull her close and kiss her

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She: Hmmm, nice fragrance

ME: Dont even think about it, the last time you told me that, b4 i knew it, you were rape riding me!

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She: This your dab today, hmmmm, hope these girls wouldnt steal you from me as you go out?!

Me: I hope so too . (then burst out laughing.)
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She: I love your body built

Me: Yea? (pull her close and pick her up and swing her until she begs you to drop her, when she is panting, ask her: ' still like my body built?'

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She: Your palms are so soft

Me: Yet you go screaming when I spank them bo0ty on dogg7 right?

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She: I love your lips
Me: No, you aint getting any kiss this morning


see? we never swallow compliments. We swing them around.


SENSE PILL 125

Compliments are like snow balls, when she hits you with a lil ball of it, make sure you multiply by 5 and hit her back. Only duck sets their bum to swallow them and kill the fun

Boss Ballz!

adamsbadoo:
Thanks bro.

Don't forget to check out our blog https://datingdrill.com

adamsbadoo:
OK boss, i will try

Positive vibes from you. Hence I would give a lil light while you are reading.
You have punished her enough. You have to pick her call at some point. But if you cant hold a fluid fun suspense filled convo that is challenging with a sendless voice and attitude, send messages instead.

Whatever you do, never reveal who you are to her, she would find that out when you guys get to meet after you have broken all her defenses

adamsbadoo:
wehdone ooo my people..

there is this girl i met last year december. i collected her digit and called her that night. i do call her like twice a day for straight 2 weeks wooing her and she only called me once during that period. she told me she has a bf buh i didn't oblige.
after 1month and some days i stopped calling....
before i stumbled on this thread and i realise i got no ball ..
it's more than 2months since i stopped calling ...
so, 2 days ago I called her With my 2 line and i told her i am one of her bf she has been drooling about that am dissappointed she couldn't recognise my voice and hung up..

she has been calling me buh i no gree pick..
i wanna date this girl.

plz HOW do i keep the tension going?

hahaha! You just jump on the thread, pick one line and boOOOMM! you went to explore with it huh? Now you are stuck, you run back for more flows ?

Here is the only advice I would give to you: go back to the beginning and pick wisdom off the pages. Your answer lies in there