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Family › Re: In Response To A Previous Thread Created By Amara Okafor by HARDDON: 1:27pm On May 08, 2018

goldcrossxx:
Nairaland ke , i have no mentor on Nairaland. My mentor na old man that doesn’t even know whether Nairaland exist or not. I am a private person. Thanks for your contribution all the same.

Just like someone said up there, go and give thanks to God Almighty for delivering you from the web you entangled yourself in.

THIS IS NO JOKE.

While at it, put a pause to anything marriage for now and develop your mind first as it relates to who you really are as a male species and balance that knowledge with a branch into the female world . Then finally, read good books on courtship/marriage.

I read her thread and read yours and I noticed one glaring truth: YOU AINT READY FOR MARRIAGE JUST YET!

SENSE PILL: Money, nice personality and big Jrod do not sustain a marriage. Only the contains of a pseudo crazy cranium does

If you try it in this state of yours, another woman wrapper that goes washing his wife's panties would be born.

On a final note and to all guys, Watch it when a female species use the word OGA to address you or any other guy.... For he who brings ant infested fagg0t to the homestead should not complain when visited by LIZARDS.

A word they say is enough for....

Family › Re: In Response To A Previous Thread Created By Amara Okafor by HARDDON: 1:14pm On May 08, 2018

kimbraa:
I perfectly understand as what she wrote on her thread didn't correlate with what you just wrote. Now, creating a thread on nairaland to counter her seem to me like a case where couples wash their dirty linen in public. Even if you both make up, the scars caused by these events would still be there as humans don't forget that easily so it would've been best you hadn't create the thread.

Women!

Smh

Romance › Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by HARDDON: 11:43pm On May 07, 2018

mhisbliss:
Ever heard of the word "Sorry"? I guess not, pride and ego has blocked your ears

op, don't ever listen to ladies when heart matters are involved. A case in point.

What just happened you might want to ask?

well, She noticed you ain't taking her serious like she is doing to you. You always give her monos, never initiate convos, don't care how she's faring and a host of others. It breaks their hearts.

Ladies can sense a guy's thought process through the little daily chit chats/behavioural patterns and draw conclusions which are correct most of the time.

Here the ARE POSSIBLE crux of the matter;

1. another guy HAS been by the side giving her medication from your sickness. She just got well and blam! She gone!

2. She just activated reverse psychology on you and boy! How effective it is! She gave you space so that you can miss her and come running to her! Then the control knob that you have been holding ever so gallantly by sendingless, she would now have it by the time you come begging and trying so hard to have her back!

THIS IS WHY I SAID YOU SHOULD NEVER APOLOGISE!

Do you want a Solution?

Well I would love to ask you a question first: WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HER? Because from your write up, I can vividly tell she isnt your kinda woman.

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Romance › Re: 4 Reasons Why You Can't Be "Just Friends" With Your Ex by HARDDON: 11:20pm On May 07, 2018

A man can always trace his way back into the forest he has visited before!

He knows the look to give to wet them panties, where to touch, how to touch, what to say to melt to the ice and then, there is the little ish of Jrod missing Vclef most especially if they had hawt cUm1ng sessions! You stand no chance!
They can read your heart's heat just by a little look into your eyes.
Infact, the id1ats see you n4ked no matter the battalion of clothes you come robed in.

Sure, Exs' can really be best of Friends! angry

The only benefit is this:

They would be more expressive and tell you exactly what they hid from you while the heat was on. short comings etc and you can really have an h2h convo just that they end up with hawt romps!

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:10pm On May 07, 2018

youcanmakeit:
HARDDON.. I don't no if I should blame you for what this guy (joeeeee240) wrote up there. You've really spoil these guys by giving them lot of fish(drills) instead simply teaching them "how to fish "..
The post you wrote up there about building your (emotional) muscle by taking baby action until you can be able take giant action is the best post I've seen so far from you and from anybody posting here. Because it's about 'learning how to fish'
But, the joeeee240 guy and some other guys would not appreciate it. They prefer you keep feeding them with more fish, drills, trick.

It's no surprise some guys here will never be good with girls.

The master plan spiralled on me mehn and here we are.

This thread was to brush the blunt edges and our BLOG had the sole responsibility of going into the nitty-gritty( bottoms up).

But I give kudos to the smart ones who have been extrapolating the skills in here and brewing fine wine with same.

The blog is live now and I encourage everyone to Check it out! https://datingdrill.com

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:00pm On May 07, 2018

FxBase:
My Gurus, thanks for your insights which I have learnt a great deal. This thread as refined me from my no ball man to a man in charge recently. Thank all.

Pls help me on this matter.

There is this Lady we met on social media and fast forward w met and thing went smooth. Our agreement was to only date and would not lead to any serious engagement in the future.

I noticed one thing in her, she has this guy she is also dating who she plans to marry but I never care. I once told her to stick to the guy but she refused. Said that she didn't want to leave me. Tho, she gbadun my "Konji" wella.

The issue is, she had an issue with d guy and she gave me total concentration for the past 5 months and I use d drills learnt here on here wells

But recent she met another guy which she told me and I wasn't moved. What I now observed is this:

Since the new guy came, she has stopped doing the usual way, even she won't chat me on social media, she would expect me to chat and even when I chat her, she only drop only a line in response.

Tho, I have stopped calling her and not chattg her like before, even when I see her missed calls, I won't return her call.

This lady just last week suddenly showed up in my house unannounced, I was surprised but didnt show it
Until I later found out that she came cos she needed money from me, though I gave her d money and she left , since then she returned to no call, no chatting.

How do I handle her better cos it make me sick?

Thank you

That is one thing with rolling on hay proximity/availability. It messes up your mind when you would rather not.

She is acting out YOUR AGREEMENT. she knows that you guys are just FFB ( your provide financial aid, she helps out in other ways). Nothing more. You made that clear. So what is the ish now? You beginning to love up huh? and just like mother inlaws, you are getting jealous of the fact that another brother is weeeding the forest and she aint got your time! tongue

Listen, if you must sound up like a man, you must STAND UP like one.
With this kinda gurl, you have no bizness doing some wack chat ups nor calling and talking like lovers.
The only time you should have her time is when you tell her to come over or get dressed, we're hitting town. Simples!

Gather the little balls you got and stop calling, texting and contacting her henceforth. if all the gurls in your country are taken, tell us, we can Bluetooth some for you to take a sleek pick. Boss must Roll Boss.

And there you were trying to use money to bribe her hoping that things get back to normal but she is a smart one. Got your cash and still dumped your a33. Ouch, that hurts!

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:45pm On May 07, 2018

sexymonkey:
@HARDDON @Magikalz @Rubbiish @DavidTheGeek
There's this girl I was on rapport mode with before my friend spoilt everything by going to tell her she should accept my proposal and all those middle man nonesense, he also told me the girl has fallen for me already so I asked her out 3weeks back but she told me she wasn't ready for any relationship at the moment cos guys will always promise Heaven&Earth and still fail at the end. Fast forward to last week, she told my friend that am too proud (reason is that I stopped calling her). How can I make it right or I should forget about her?

So after all we've been drumming into you about the fact that you should NEVER ASK A LADY out, you still went ahead and huh

?? And just imagine the type of gurl you went to dip your balls with!; Materialistic one! angry

I gat no nothing for you angry

Politics › Re: Governor Wike Mobbed By Corpers At Rivers NYSC Camp (photos) by HARDDON: 9:22pm On May 06, 2018

Sleek

Romance › Re: Ladies Why Two Or More Openings On Your Ears? by HARDDON: 9:15pm On May 06, 2018

Don't bother guys! You would never know the real reasons....

Kindly ignore these cosmetic and vague responses these soft dolls are dishing out.

There is more to it all.

You know, you know

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 8:51pm On May 06, 2018

DavidTheGeek:
HARDDON I need help on street approaches.

SCENARIO #1: On the street, with people around going about their respective business, a girl is walking directly towards me and i'm walking directly towards her, we're both going opposite direction.

SCENARIO #2: On the street, with people around going about their respective business, a girl is walking in front of me, we're walking towards the same direction.

HOW DO I APPROACH/WHAT DO I SAY WHEN I APPROACH IN THESE SCENARIOS?

*Assuming the girl doesn't stay in my area, how do i go for a number-close (get her phone number and get out)?

These things happen in steady progression : you have to have mastered the act of strolling home with multiple stationary targets before you take a swipe at moving targets. By so doing, you acquire the much needed balanced personality/confidence and balls saving skills for MTs.

and you must have conquered and known how to handle rejection like a boss.

A toddler must learn to sit, crawl, wobble n stand, walk before running.
Any attempt to walk before crawling might make him fall so hard that he thereafter develops a natural phobia for walking.

Here is the street sequence about building confidence/natural instincts with these drills.

Get comfortable rolling with these drills around normal friends/gurls that likes you but you don't dig them.

Then move on to Coworkers/classmates. Then to stationary strangers(at the airport lounge, in flight, bus , library, eatery, movies, atm etc)

Here you must walk your way up. From meeting to getting cozy within a week to within 3days to within 2 days to within few hours etc.

While at it, unknowing to you, things would be happening to your inner man. He would be building muscles for the next challenge. Every hurdle it summounts gives it the thrills n needed impetus for another milestone.

When you have accomplished meeting an ST and getting cozy within a few hours, you would have garnered the guts and control for Moving Targets.

No magic, just a natural progression.

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 8:29pm On May 06, 2018

funkmrflexx:
gurus in the house. I've been using drills I learnt here in chyking one girl. she's responsive but she says I'm too proud. I recently told her and know she misses me and I'll make time for her during the week. she then told me if I ever want to see her I'll have to be humble and admit I miss her and want to see her. I've already crossed my mind not to do something like that. i told her the last girl I told I missed out of happiness nearly use gutter to do swimming pool. she was just laughing and said I should just admit I like her. I told her she was just using reverse psychology. how do I handle the meeting part cus I'm never telling her I miss her and want to see her .

urgent reply needed

Tune down the miss or not missing talk.

Be sporadic about setting a meet.. Just wake up from the blues and use what she likes to draw her out.

You: hey, guess where I am and guess what I got for you!?

She: where/what ?

You: arrrhhh, stop been boring and guess. You have 3seconds angry

She: cinema?/chocolate?

Whatever she says.

You: I'm at ........( insert your location) and if you ain't here in the next 30 mins, you can kiss this fabulous gift you'd love so much good bye!
Alright, bye.

Suspense/curiosity works like charm!

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:13am On May 06, 2018

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 2:37am On May 05, 2018

HARDDON:
Finally, it's here! The most anticipated, most talked about, long-awaited, life-impacting, life-transforming, balls inducing, brain reformatting, men's liberating mother of all blogs!

DATING DRILL'S BLOG IS LIVE!

Hurry now and visit https://datingdrill.com/

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:36am On May 04, 2018

HARDDON:
Finally, it's here! The most anticipated, most talked about, long-awaited, life-impacting, life-transforming, balls inducing, brain reformatting, men's liberating mother of all blogs!

DATING DRILL'S BLOG IS LIVE!

Hurry now and visit https://datingdrill.com/

To Do within DD Blog

1.Allow our push notification( this would enable you to be first to get our drills as they drop hot and heavy)

2. Sign up by providing your email and names( We would be organizing loads of Balls competitions/challenge and dishing out lots of prizes and freebies that only our registered members are eligible for. We also respond first and promptly to our registered members' questions/queries before any other)

3. Go through our Glossary. It is your helpline to our ballful verbiage. VERY IMPORTANT

4. Read the posts in a chronological order because they are like building blocks. Don't break the sequence so that you can gain maximumly off the drills.

5. At the end of every post, we have Ball Tasks(BT; refer to the glossary to know what they mean). You must carry out each and every BT. They help you practicalize what you have learnt.

6. Always use our balls' comment box at the end of every post to ask questions, make general comments, give improvement recommendations/suggestions, participate in our balls' competitions and interact with me personally. I would always respond promptly.

7. There are two balling levels; the Rookie Readers' Ranch( RRR) and the Executive Members' Lounge(EML). RRR is always visible and open to everybody but EML is private and only accessible and visible to a privileged few( in here, very few words are used. rather they have unreserved access to loads of my top private stuff. My Magic Wand. Find out)

8. Finally, I cannot overemphasize the importance of practice. Remeber, I would always say; A seasoned sniper-hunter is frigid with his weapon. He takes out target no matter how far with cold precision but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; PRACTICE. HE would miss great kills while at it but if he keeps his head down and never gets discouraged, the experience would be his lifelong anchor.

So what are you waiting for? hurry now and visit Dating Drill's Blog! https://datingdrill.com/

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:50pm On May 03, 2018

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:41pm On May 03, 2018

@Rubbiish

it is against the rules of this forum to ask for numbers from members and as such, I STRONGLY advise you desist from such hence on.

@ all, do STOP posting your private numbers on a public forum. How many top executives easily release their numbers? Value your privacy!

Disclaimer :

I would not be held liable for anything that results from any group that Rubbiish or any other person has constituted off this, life transforming. thread.

I DO NOT know him/them. I DID NOT authorise him/them to create any WhatsApp group. Join him at your own peril but do it through other means NOT through my Thread.

Rich Regards
Don

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 9:21pm On May 02, 2018

An Entrepreneur who waits until all resources are available before kicking off that biz would never start.

A bachelor who waits until he is wealthy and every situation right before settling down, would remain single for a lifetime

we going live! cheesy

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Romance › Re: Mention A Nairalander That Has Impacted Your Life With Their Thread by HARDDON: 4:42pm On May 02, 2018*

Osoboshi:
HARDDON.Really helped me in my dating game.

Let's undo the deed then, shall we? angry

Romance › Re: Mention A Nairalander That Has Impacted Your Life With Their Thread by HARDDON: 4:40pm On May 02, 2018

Michael781:
harddon

What have I don't this time?

Don't tell me sexy Nikky is your bae? Well, we only had it once and now she's on ma case even though she ain't got the skills set nor stamina to stand my strain.

You can have her back angry

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:10am On May 02, 2018

DavidTheGeek:
He: Hi, *pause-and-looks-at-her-in-a-funny-way* you know what, i'm tired of seeing you pass by without saying hi. I'm David, what's your name?

She: Genevieve

He: So Genevieve are you married?

She: *surprised-look* No, I'm not. Why do you ask?

He: Oh! I see. So that's why you've been eyeing me all this while huh? You want to kidnap me and marry me huh? *smiling* I cover myself with the blood.

She: *Laughs and denies wanting to kidnap him*

He: *Teases-her-more/gives-her-a-nickname(My by-force Wife)/ask-questions-based-on-her-answer*
............

Yet to make up my mind about this....
Another one angry

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:39pm On May 01, 2018

DavidTheGeek:
Look who's back!
Double DON!

Missed me? Ya, he did! grin

Ehmm, don't count on it though, I might just pop off again! cheesy

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:36pm On May 01, 2018

DavidTheGeek:

Next time you see her, walk up to her and say something. Say anything other than a compliment (DON'T COMPLIMENT HER).

DTG!
You speak my mind most times but the finishing touch just needs some sleek oiling.

Case in point, could you give him ample ideas ( as I always do), on the Line of Note ( LON) to drop when next he sees her?
How should he kick off the convo knowing fully well that it has the potential of making or marring their bond flow?

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 8:57pm On May 01, 2018

Lionpikin:
Welcome back boss, but what about the blog？

HARDDON:
We going live... 00:00

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 8:56pm On May 01, 2018

damilare96:
wecome back bro

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 8:44pm On May 01, 2018

We going live... 00:00 cool

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Romance › Re: Wish Five Nairalanders A Happy New Year by HARDDON: 3:08pm On Jan 01, 2018

DeadRat:
Happy New Year!

Harddon

Happy new year Gee! Enjoy abundance, good health and divine guidance through the year.

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 5:53pm On Dec 30, 2017

derrick015:
Mr Hardon pls I need advice here. so I won't just flop again as I did b4. I just realised I still have feelings 4 her. pls wat can u suggest I do sir... She called me yest night tho. I don't want to let her go what can I do pls

Read the thread for therein lies all the answers you could ever ask for. Page 0-30 should be able to sort you out.

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:41pm On Dec 30, 2017

Ebukasky:
pls i have a very good friend who is finding it very difficult to talk to a girl, he is too shy and if he have the chance to he don't know what to say.I don't know where to start to help

Two things involved:

1. Point him to this thread. We have dealt with this ish a couple of times already and I, in my usual practically down to earth way, have laid out step by step sequence on how he can roll real

2. Get him to sign up with us on a WhatsApp one-one drill.

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Health › Re: Doctor Olufunmilayo: "3 Minutes Is Enough For Sex, You Don't Need Drugs At All" by HARDDON: 12:33pm On Dec 30, 2017

Safiaaa:
If we actually think about it, it's the caressing, kissing, touching and other aspects that take up time. Penetration normally doesn't take too long realistically, so I get what he's saying. esp the first round.

All "reserves" commented

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:14pm On Dec 29, 2017*

Ebukasky:
HARDDON pls have something i will like to discuss with you i don't know how I can get you numbers or email. My is calistusasobi@gmail.com

It MUST be a very sensitive/private SOMETHING if not, kindly post it here so others can learn from it

Mail: support@datingdrill.com

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:11pm On Dec 29, 2017

2dice01:
ask her any question

Have u tried smoking before?

If u were a guy for 24hours tell me what you will do

If your mom caught you making out with a guy... What do u think your mom will do?

Question too plenty bros

and I had thought I'm the only cray cray one!

Second Q is dope! Now you make me spill ma R. Wine on my white, freaking, shirt! Uhmmm!

cool

Very

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:06pm On Dec 29, 2017

sexymonkey:
e.g how sweet are those lips of yours.

Weak! And effectively takes the wind off the sail.

Make open ended statements / questions that pulls the other to contribute to the convo

Try again

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