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Nma27:
Lol, yet u quoted me.... Swerve

Nma27:
I won't b surprised if you all already sent a pm.... Yimu for all d guys yabbing d op

debbie223:
if i date u 4 a year and u show no sign of taking d relationship to the next level,guy i go bounce follow d one wen ready to marry me,gone are those days wen ladies be in relationship for so many years all in the name of love.Guy abeg do d needful and stop lamenting.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

You ought to be rejoicing. I mean, if she find's it convenient to do without you after a two weeks separation-quarrel, it simply means that you were just an option to her all the while - she was just managing you. Come on, important people don't go to places where they are tolerated instead you can only find them at places where they are celebrated.

Kindly work on yourself and become an important personality. . . If you aren't one yet. However, blame will be on her if she left you because of her own vices like greed, covetousness, or a natural disability you have which was OK for her prior to the quarrel.

Meanwhile, when you become an important personality, always endeavour to pally with a woman who has achieved self-realization, one whom you are certain of her loyalty towards you - of course, loyalty is like a two-way traffic lights, so you must be sure of your own loyalty towards her too. A self-realized woman of this caliber will always act self-willedly and conscientiously, which means that you can always count on her to be for and with you both in better and worse situations.

A woman (person) who's loyal to you today but hasn't achieved self-realization would quickly leave you tomorrow for no ill cause of your own, but for the simple fact that upon achieving self-realization she discovered that you aren't really her type/what she want. If a once loyal person can do this, then you shouldn't expect something better from a possible long-time frenemy.

HARDDON:
She's been calling n u aint taking. Yea i know itz enuf to confuse u cos this is very strange.

The thing is, let her keep @ it, after a while of her callin n u aint taking, she'd start sending text msgs.
Wanting to know waz up, y uve suddently changed.

Betmaster3:
What do i do then boss? I'm confused

Samalabz:
Sent u another "reminder mail" concerning April 1st, Harddon.

SolomonAdeola:
Why don't you try telegram. It's a super app that can accommodate more members on a group than what's app

babtaima:
@Harddon inbox me on whatsapp I have biz for you 08133701855

magikalz:
You havent replied ooo, boss.

Theflint1:
Baba abeg add me. I don send mail to you.

fabulous2000:
xup boss.... page 100 and still counting ...gud job boss..... got this gal in my area....d day I ask 4 her number she denied me and afterwards I didn't ask her again cos of drills I've been getting here....we continue to talk normal.....after some days she ask me to call my number for her and she flash me wit it.... am confused..... I think she is somehow attracted to me..... Wot Is d next step..... pls reply asap......

meanwhile looking forward to starting d whatsapp group live on April 1st

cc: Harddon
: all other gurus around

tripleking64:
have received d instruction, but d whatsapp group starts on April first ......I need d tips asap ... wanna give her(d gurl) a chance to have me

HARDDON:
if she ask u this super Boring Question : " DO U HAVE A GURL FRIEND?" this is one of their punch line to get u to lie or throw u off balance,

NO NEED TO LIE, SHE CAN SENSE IT WEN U R n most guys usually lie when faced with this question! Dare to be Different!
NEVER SAY NO! Don't take d suspence that leads to attraction away so soon!


Here are the ways u shld answer this Question:

1) Yes, I do have a girlfriend, she is made up of screen, Keyboard n mouse!

Or make some surprise faces n say: " You ask a talllll, Darrrrk n Handsome guy if he's got a Gurl? Wow!
Ofcos I got gurls!


She might be disappointed n ask u. "So what r u doing here then ? "

Oh reply by saying " u taking it deep already? My hands r full, I saw u from afar n tot, she wud make a nice friend ....u still have to prove that though "

monkytail:
can i be added to the whatsap please 08185076677

HARDDON:
Now u need to be careful here cos she is feeling

1. another gurl has been giving u medication n we wud fuel that feeling, keep her on egde hence on.

2. You got too busy for her

3. She is just confused as to why her hand bag all of a sudden is leaving tru d day witout as much as calin.

Betmaster3:
Oh my God!!!! Harddon, you are the boss. I followed your drills and stopped calling the babe, now she has been disturbing me with calls, she calls every Now and then and i don't pick her calls. This is some1 i always call everyday for atleast 1 hour that don't regard my calls. I want to call her next week, please how do i go about it.

Like some questions she'll ask, like

1) You've forgotten me abi?

2) You have gotten a new girl abi?

3) You don't want me again abi?

PLEASE my Chairman HARDDON da boss. Please help me please.

sam121:
Thanks a lot for this wonderful ideas. What pains me most is that, I have done almost all you said, like staying away and cooling off, gave her books on anger management. I w[b]ent to the level of deserting most of my friends, deleted most of my female colleagues and stopped chatting with them. I had to leave my own church to join her in her own so that she can be happy[/b], yet all to no avail. I was always doing the house chores with her whenever am home, even whenever she is cooking. She told me, doing all these will make her calm down. [/b]Yet after subjecting my self to doing all these things, her anger still never stopped radiating whenever she gets upset. Sexually, I make sure she gets it however she needs it, to her satisfaction. Financially, I try my best not to let her complain. Now what is really her problem...?

@ Oh dear heavens!
Oh d bleeding ballz! Oh d needy nerd. Sissy Sense! My bones bleed , my heart heavy.

HOw can u descend so low? Lose urself n all ur balls?

Then u turn around n ask what her problem is?
After been a sissy n a YES-ma boy? After virtually been her hand bag?


You wano hear the truth?
She Got not problem! YOU ARE THE ONE WITH D PROBLEM!

[b]Im too peeved to explain, do yourself som dam.n gud n read up my thread called Dating Drill :

Betmaster3:
Oh my God!!!! Harddon, you are the boss. I followed your drills and stopped calling the babe, now she has been disturbing me with calls, she calls every Now and then and i don't pick her calls. This is some1 i always call everyday for atleast 1 hour that don't regard my calls. I want to call her next week, please how do i go about it.

Like some questions she'll ask, like

1) You've forgotten me abi?

2) You have gotten a new girl abi?

3) You don't want me again abi?

PLEASE my Chairman HARDDON da boss. Please help me please.