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kelechi17:
I need female friends within ph Watsapp me on 08162490179

magikalz:
Oga boss, you are yet to reply my mail. It's been two weeks sha. I just re-sent it.

preciousmaro:
Boss, there is this gal, while chatting with ha and using my humor tips, all she relies is "lol" and Dats all, sometimes I just end the chat, I don't just know what to do, already giving up on ha

Samalabz:
Did you a mail yesterday and also another this morning, Sir Harddon.

HARDDON:
Rejection True my eyes is when u cudnt connect wit a potential soft soul because
1. From your End: You put the wrong foot forward, didnt say d right words( didnt mix d portion well), got tongue tied or beauty Brain Blocked. Lack confidence, wrong body language, voice tone, eye contact. Dingy appearance, brown smelly teeth/body, unkempt life, sweat soaked shirt , unpolished/worn out shoes etc

HARDDON:
lets unravel the riddle

1) DO YOU HAVE A GURL

POSSIBLE RESPONSES:

1) if she ask this while u guys r hanging out physically, make a surprise face with a queer smile , if it is tru chat, use the surprise emoticon followed by a crooked smile.... And say:

How can u ask a tall , dark n handsome guy with broad shoulders n abs if he has a gurl?
I don't have a gurl, I have gurls! One for each day of the week....

If she ask : so what r u doing with her? Reply her with : well, my Saturday just became vacant because Saturday Boo travelled out for her masters! Told her already I don't do longDistR/ship n parted ways with her so I don't go cheating on her while she is gone.
We r currently taking application to fill that void.


2) or say; I'm I not too hawt not to have a gurl? Then proceed and show her ur puffed muscle , stand up n pretend u wano pull up ur top so she can check out ur abs .... By the time she is laughing so hard, she wud forget


3) or say, You have been trying to have one but they r all too interested in sex @ first sight! And u just stop taking their calls thereafter, hope u wudnt be like them?

4) or say : No, I am a virgin, I don't want anybody that wud come and take my virginity without my conscent !

5) Or make funny faces n say..... My heart is too big for one gurl to carry! You wano kill her?

6) or simply say yes and start Describing her.... Yes i mean start describing the she that just asked the question now!

Like; she got tiny eyes, small mouth, big nose, wears cup size 38a bra(this must be a fact! U must learn all bra sizes out there! ) yea i know its kinda small but i manage it, she can be a pain in the as3 sometimes but what can I do.. She always thinks I'm cheating on her cos I'm so handsome ......



These are some of the lines I personally use n still use!
I used that number one yesterday, now we r talking dirty, we r meeting next week Friday n guess what?

HARDDON:
You should know ladies absorb fine tiny details like they are made of blotted paper, @ a glance. They can pick that dirty nails, shy eyes, bulging jrod n any other crazy thing u can tink off !

They profile you wit these details @ a blink.

HARDDON:
Rejection True my eyes is when u cudnt connect wit a potential soft soul because
1. From your End: You put the wrong foot forward, didnt say d right words( didnt mix d portion well), got tongue tied or beauty Brain Blocked. Lack confidence, wrong body language, voice tone, eye contact. Dingy appearance, brown smelly teeth/body, unkempt life, sweat soaked shirt , unpolished/worn out shoes etc

HARDDON:
have it at the back of your mind that so long this is life and you cannot possibly to a high degree, certainty, tell if some1 would like your personality or not, rejection would come.

it would do you a world of good therefore, to live ready, develop a thick skin.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 15:

DEALING WITH REJECTION

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 16:

GURL TYPES/GRADES


DRILL NUGGET 17:

BLEND D BLISS..... CLOWN NOT


DRILL NUGGET 18:

BE EXPERIENCED/BALANCED

DRILL NUGGET 19:

LEARN LINES, RHYMES, PEOTRY, AT LEAST ONE MUSICAL INSTRUMENT, IF YOU CAN, SING!


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iykizzy:
Hey Boss, you got mail.

SolidGenius:
Boss Harddon don't u think a Facebook group would be more efficient. I know this because I have seen first hand what going through buried messages/post is like, frequent notifications, and the hassles of keeping everything in order - everybody wants something they could go back to as reference. A Facebook page would be easier for you to write a drill or a Facebook note, and we all could post comments on them. Finally every member could post a question and get their answers easily, and also reduces duplicate questions. Well this is just a suggestion, what do you think

tripleking64:
I need chatting tips boss

edimolu:
Harddon i must commend you on this thread as u have impacted us with so much knowledge in the world of relationships,

Still reading your posts though...but am troubled with this particular question dis girl i just met few days ago asked me.....have taken her out like 3 times , gone to her place like twice but i hav never broughg up the question for her to com to my place....nd yes back to the question she asked....she looked at me in the eyes and was like " what do u really want from me".....i dint even know wat to say cos i wasnt expectin such que from her....all i could do was ask her d same question....i feel like am into her though but i have nt in anyway made that obvs.....in such questions waht reply is best to give.....thanks man

Betmaster3:
HARDDON please reply this post. Help me I'm in a dilemma. I don't know what to do on this Issue. There's this girl I'm dating, I love her so much , I call her everyday and I mean everyday , we speak for hours and the conversations isn't boring, It's always great. I help her Financially sometimes, I even bought a new phone for her. She was very fond of me. Recently, the girl started talking to me anyhow and telling me sorts of things about me cheating on her and all that. I told her I'm not cheating on her, I'm truly not cheating on her. I just felt like I gave myself away to her so much by being very caring and available anytime she needs me, I told her I love her and I shouldn't waste so much credit calling her daily if I don't love her. She started telling me she'll pay me back all the credit I've spent on her and all sorts of things. I know she doesn't have anyother man in her life for now. I stopped calling her for some days because I felt she's taking me for granted AFTER I READ YOUR POST ABOUT BEING CLINGY AND NEEDY. NOW she calls me every now and then, like she's missing me or something, I just keep the conversation casual and don't call her BABY like I used to but she's still calling me and wanting to talk to me. PLEASE HARDDON tell me what I'll do on this matter, how I'll go about it. Please help me. I really love that girl

2dice01:
lol see free girlfriend and you are dulling