₦airaland Forum

babavik:
I don't think am jealous bro.Am naturally a ladies man(sorry to say it am not bragging). this is not the first time a lady is asking me out but this one got me and am a bit confused.

Abfinest007:
no way . she won't let u eat d food in peace with her bad character

kollinzgee:
one is a brotherly teacher does all things for free and the other is a good teacher but is a businessman does his for money.these men are no other than the greatest and the wisest harddon and charles nneji .the former is a great teacher who has one of the oldest and longest threads on NL "Dating drills" the later has ran away because he was unappreciated by my make money first gang boys on Nl who are still crying today after the same money failed them with women but his book the "bang rule" is still the best selling book ever on NL.If great men like the singer olamide with all his money and fame sang a hit song title "wonmado" who are you an average man that women will not cheat on you or reject you.
i have read both the dating drills and bang rule and i noticed something ,fear a man who has practices a single move a thousand times than a move who has practise a thousand moves.these men have taken years to study women and came up with real truth unlike you and i who just based ours on human philosophy and guesswork.these men are like scientists they have done their theories,practicals and have come to conclusions take it or leave its the bitter truth.
years back i made mistake by listening to average men here who advised me to leave the teachings by this men and be myself and be matured and sincere i did that and i can tell ladies still messed me up big time i was so confused and resentful .you see that book the bang rule if you disobey any law in that book you will surely pay dearly for it.i dumbed the dating drills sometime ago wanted to be straight with women no lies,no games but i still failed woefully i was never appreciated not the womens fault though they cant cheat nature women are moved by feelings its either they like you naturally or you know how totrigger it in them sefini.
l am not antiubunja but i dont want to hate women but rather know how to control them and that why i am going back to those teachings .All the best for you all.

kollinzgee

Leezah(f):

iphi:
bros this particular pepper soup you have to be careful, I don't want to rush and spoil everything

iphi:
she's young, I'm not asking her out, its just to jokingly tell her about being a second option

Culin:
Great question. Also, what can one buy for a partner who has all the possible gifts you can think of or afford?

GuyWise101:
All thanks to Ub ... unja, Harddon, xxxte... dyxxx mart.. inez and a host of other real niggas on Nairaland

I can now phuck girls without even asking them out, I have regained my worth...


Love is a weak point to any man (don't fall in love).

Michellekabod2:
I don't believe the man was made to be head in a relationship. Its a role he took up himself, nothing wrong in a man or woman taking up the role to lead the relationship. Whoever have the best leadership skills amongst the couple can
take the lead(I don't mean be master or mistress,I mean lead like someone taking the wheel of a vehicle). Or both of them can lead themselves,depends on what make them happy. I have an issue with people making a predefined role for couples,its what they mutually choose for themselves that matters.


I believe redpillers and other sects of people (example feminists,mgtow etc)should be left alone as long they are harmlessly propagating their own ideologies.

IamPlato:
Ubunja This Ubunja that!

Jesus Spoke The Truth And Men Hated Him because He Was Destroying Some People's Feeding Source.


Ubunja Is Doing Same Now and Its Affecting The Feeding Source Of Ladies, they Will Stop At Nothing Until The Cry Blood. Ubunja Congratulations! You Have Successfully Hit Multiple center of gravity At Once, thats Record Breaking Bro.


Top Red Pill Men On Nairaland





Ladies, what We Are Teaching These Men Is For Your Own good we Just Want To Balance Things The Way It Was suppose To Be.


s An Error! It Should Not Exist

AMOTEKUN: Abubakar Malami vs Disturbing Facts.

Amotekun is a child of circumstances and it must not die. Period.

The world wants to dance to Nigerian music, watch our movies, speak our slangs, and dress our ways. But back at home, it is a hell on earth, thanks to faceless greedy Nigerians who find grace in blood money. They armed barely literate killers with sophisticated weapons to traverse our highways and town-roads to hunt for vulnerable human beings for ransom. Many Nigerians have paid with their lives or suffered untold hardship in the hands of some of these invaders. Elder statesman, Chief Olu Falae is a surviving victim. But one of his workers was not that lucky. They killed him. And Mrs. Funke Olakunrin, the daughter of Afenifere leader, Reuben Fasoranti was not that lucky, too. She was killed on the spot. And these victims are not alone.

April 25, 2016, armed Herdsmen, about 500 of them, descended on Nimbo Village in Enugu State before dawn. At about 7 a.m., the attack started - they went about killing and slaughtering every human-being on sight. Prior to the attack, the Governor was alerted. In turn, he alerted the Commissioner of Police. And Abuja was alerted. But no counterattack came. And no rescue mission came from the Police or from any of the nearby Military units. The attackers entered the village. They killed. They maimed. And they disappeared, untouched as they came. It was breathtaking. Later in the day, the Governor was seen on TV weeping profusely over the sight of butchered cadavers. And as usual, it was all threats and no action.

March 17, 2016, 'Armed men in Military uniform invaded the Ugwuneshi community in Awgu Local Government Area of Enugu State and arrested 76 of their men on the allegation that they were planning a counterattack against Fulani Herdsmen who kidnapped two of their women. The armed men came in Military trucks. When it was all over, about 76 of them were taken away in the Military trucks to Umuhia prison. They were detained for two weeks. About four years later, no one could give an account on who authorized the military invasion, and whether they were a real contingent of the Nigerian Armed Forces. Although they came in Military trucks and fully dressed in military fatigue, the Military did not claim responsibility.

February 14, 2018, one Efe, the head of a vigilante group in a village near Benin City was shot to death execution-style by a member of the Nigerian Armed Forces. The tragic event was exacerbated when the apprehended herdsmen who wreaked havoc on their farmlands were released by the Military Personnel who shot Efe to death. Let me rephrase that. Herdsmen continuously invade the farmlands of a community in the outskirt of Benin City. On one occasion, the villagers, led by their leader, Efe, were able to repulse the attack of the trespassing herders and held one of them, hostage, pending the arrival of security personnel. The security personnel came. One of the gun down Efe in cold blood and release the apprehended trespassing herders.

Why these three instances? Very simple. Abuja is not on your side when it comes to kidnapping and herders’ onslaught. The security apparatus is not on your side. This conclusion holds the truth that present leadership is without a roadmap to overcome the clear and present danger – real danger – poses by killer-herders and deadly kidnappers. Ametokun must live.

Rationale

Friday, July 12, 2019, suspected herdsmen in a kidnap attempt at Kajola, Ondo State, shot and killed Funke Olakunrin, the daughter of Afenifere leader, Reuben Fasoranti. When Funke was standing between life and death in the face of her killer’s gun, the Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami (SAN) was not there. When Efe was shot dead execution-style, Malami was not there. When Nimbo village was attacked, Malami was not there. When my vehicle was attacked between Lokoja and Okene in 2016, robbed at gunpoint and told to jump into the bush, Malami was not there. When Aguta village in Benue State was invaded and children were tied into stakes and their throats slit open to bleed to death, Malami was not there.

This is not about True Federalism or Restructuring. And it is not about dividing Nigeria. It is about insecurity. And it is about self-help in the face of acute government intransigence on accepting or confronting a disturbing reality – that indeed it has failed Nigerians. Truth matters.

Decades from now, and when the history of Nigeria is under review, the Ametokun Security Initiative will emerge as the second most important decision to emerge from the Western region and Nigeria at large. The 1953 motion for independence is number one. Today, Nigeria is in a state of anomie security-wise. A group of people, who are not up to a thousand, have taken it upon themselves to make Nigeria a hell of a place on earth. Road transportation is now a risky undertaking. How do you facilitate investments when you cannot police your highways? And we are debating whether the Yoruba people have the right to defend themselves. That right is inherent - not debatable. That other affected regions have failed to act in a similar fashion or that we have collectively failed as a nation to be bold and be decisive in confronting killers in our midst is irrelevant. This is crucial. This noble. This is ethical. Belated as it is, it must be applauded.

A line on the Sand.

These killers, we are told, are not Nigerians. And I totally agree with the advocates of that theory. And there are some elements of truth to that conclusion. Most of the kidnappers and killer-herders do not speak Hausa language, based on the accounts of the victims.

Therefore, if they are non-Nigerians, trespassing and invading your farmlands and killing and raping your women unhinged, you have every right to do the right thing: Defend yourself by any means necessary. And at the stage, we are now, and considering the enumerated incidents above, you must be ready for the unexpected. And you are justified to attack and disarmed before you are attacked and dispossessed of your life and belongings. It is called preemptive right. Ametokun is a child of circumstances; therefore, it must not die.

Biafrareform:
Where is 5 Nights of Glory?

vicdom:
Kai!!!
Wicket sombori

Gina2019:
What is this one saying? Sex is the ultimate goal of a man in any relationship. And he believes if he gets it for free, he has conquered the lady. He can do anything he want like cheats, be abusive etc.

But if sex is not on a platter of gold, he won't misbehave. He will lay down his guard. He will respect his woman.

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that . Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the latter.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "...

can't you do something without always expecting something in return

".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Geminiman:
Good morning,

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that. Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the latter.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "... can't you do something without always expecting something in return".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Cc Harddon, Ubunja

Surfondsystems:
Hello guys. This rejection thing is hard. It’s a fact of life that people have standards and often times don’t want to go below their benchmark when it comes to friendship and relationships.

This is the second time in a row I’ll be suffering the same kind of fate in recent times.

I’d love to write more about my experience if anyone is interested but so far, I’ve decided to move on. No more personal contacts with the lady. I can only wish her luck with her U.S based boyfriend and I’ve decided to better myself and cast my line in the ocean. Hopefully I’ll catch a better looking and more sumptuous fish.

Presently, she’s fighting for attention on social media and I’ve decided to cut her off completely.

I greet you all.

isyourboy:
Boss harddon, forgive me. I applied this drill and got her hooked. To the extent that she can deny her parents to be in my arms. Later on, my love for her skyrocket and I started being too nice and boring. I wasn't the person she was attracted to any longer. I caught her cheating and still begged her and promised to be there for her. Now she's relegated me to the dreaded friendzone. she had the gut to even tell me another man is bedding her

Kalatium:
Lol, they claim they are not pickup artist

ceeroh:
Can't find Ubunja and HARDDON on the list...
Incomplete research!!