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Spiritfun:
but I'm sorry man, that's not until I've tried just one more time. It might sound foolish but I know what I want.

yetunsbay:
There is this lady I just met (thou a friend to my cousin ) leaving at other street of mine ....collected her number & already fixed an appointment in evening within vicinity.

I could sense she already know the aftermath of our good tidings.


When we meet, how do I compose ? Like what to say & co in other not to look needy & jeopardize d chance

Cuccitini:
She say am not the kinda of guy she need in her life that am too gentle nd linear that she need a man she would fear and b intimidate her. behold she is now dating Mayweather jr

MikeGreat00:
Update

So she sent me a text yday that she doesn't think we are compatible and blabla and that we cant date. I didn't bother to ask why she thinks so. I just replied that I believe she knows what she want and dat it's not a do or die affair that we must date. This upset her, and we were having a back and forth chat. I was kinda harsh on her, playing the I dont care card. It got to her and she sent a long text and ended with, she's not d girl I'm looking for and she Hope's that I find her. She wished me all d best. I also did.

Waking up this morning, I've been feeling seriously guilty and sad that I seriously went beyond normal and messed things up. And that I obviously just didn't disrespect her alone but the elder that connected us together as we are both of d age to settle. I've been thinking of setting a meeting btw myself and her to talk things out but I feel she may want to wash me. She did mention that she likes me as a friend.

Kindly advice @Harddon and others.

very4tune8:
This is a confession... Not like you found out. If she deemed it necessary to purge herself of deceit before the wedding then she's still trustworthy... Let it go.

ceeroh:
In the words of HARDDON..He who kills a home chicken with a double barrel must be ready to eat everything including it's feathers.

Don't try it.

gabulose:
I plan sending this.

me: you will have to call me morning, noon, night, take me out to classy places, do me recharge, cook for me, sing me to bed and generally make me happy, If you pass, you move to the next semester, RLSP201.2

The idea is if she grumbles or says no, then i will hit it on her that she doesn't have the big heart she claims to have.

What do you think?

gabulose:
HARDDON, you said it's better we start from chatting as a newbie so if we can't carry on, we can quickly run here for advice or Tips. Pls some one should help my case oo

Guys pls oo...she has buzzed me .

gabulose:
Hello guys, I have been reading this thread and try applying it. Its so nice. Just that anytime I try applying this drill, I usually get to a point where i don't know what to say again. for example. A girl asked me where i am from
Busola: What are u from

me: I am an heavenly being. I decided to come to the earth to come teach u the basic robes of relationship when i saw the mistakes you have been making

Busola: Of relationship? Now I'm interested.

Me: hope you have a very big heart to carry it

Busola: Most definitely

Me: ...............

what can i say and do to improve.
Thanks in advance guys.

Contumely:
harddon

Idokoegbunu:
One of my role models, Harddon don't talk much but his little writeup have great effect on people.
HARDDON IS INTELLIGENT!
A GREAT TEACHER!
A ROLE MODEL!
I CELEBRATE YOU!!!

jargooflife912:
Hello boss Harddon
I work with IBEDC in ibadan I'm one of the marketer in charge of Elewura challenge....there's this girl I saw some weeks ago around the area I walk up to her and introduce myself only for her to tell me she knows me that I have even been to her house before she was on her way to her shop I ask for her number she told me some other time I tried to convince to give me she kept to her word some days later I saw her again going to her shop this time she gave me her number without me asking we getting talking on phone no bad atittude she reply well.....She is all those independate lady I really need a scope to ask her out ause she kind of hint me one night that she is not interested

Kantebets:
I met one babe last week from one of my group chats last week.


After chat I invite to come to my place she did but refuse s3x saying she just came to know me.

What u think guys
Should I have force her or Shd believe her

Tnnig:
Well, I think it shouldn't be hard to bleep her once more but, she's making it hard and I've stopped trying to get physical with her anymore. I also think maybe I'm getting the bedroom talk wrong. I don't know if you can suggest some conversation that could lead to sex without been desperate to her.... Thanks.

Btw, I want to know your thoughts on my game with her, lately, I find out that she's into game with other guys too and she didn't bother to hide it from me. She even tell me she like talking to them on phone when ever I'm there, that she don't want to laugh alone. She do call her sisters and her female friend to gist about her experience with guys, they'll laugh and advice her to keep them around.

PisciMan:
@ the last 2 paragraphs, I understand it involves tickling her curiosity the right way but that's it. could you explain a bit further or point me in a direction?

MikeGreat00:
but there are some messages that are open ended. e.g she replies "i was busy". Do you think not replying this will also get her attention?

Elemental:
Guys, how do I ask for an open relationship from a girl who's been giving me green light?

MikeGreat00:
Thanks. Noted. . When she started all that shit, i decided to stop texting her but whenever she replies, she ends it with a question like "how are you?", " how was your day"? does that i mean i should start ignoring her? because i'm always pushed to want to reply.

MikeGreat00:
Hi chief @Harddon,

I help is needed. I got to know this girl through a mutual friend, we started chatting. Things were going fine until i asked if we could talk on phone and she said yes but for few minutes. The phone convo was okay, however short. Ever since, her chats became cold. She barely reply on time. We agreed to meet in my place. We had nice time getting to know each other. Even after that day, her chat is still cold. she replies just once in a day with one flimsy excuse or the other. I already liking her and i want to take it to the next level. My question now is, how can i spice things up with her?

Kindly advice @Harddon. Thanks

DreaShola:
Boss, I need your help, I am the definition of a nice guy and I have serious underlying issues

oladosuphemmy:
Hello please I just met a girl she's actually a customer at my place of work . I think I like her. I just got past the heartbreak of breakup after 2 years. Please help me with how to win her heart and make her mine. So far I think I am not doing so well with the chats. it's so far being intensely boring

Fineboigossip:
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Boss
I Guess Its Both Of Them
I Dont Have A Girlfriend,and I Seriously Need One

Liftkid:
Now choose at least 5 of the girls you wanna run their shows and send them something like


" I wanna say hi but one mind is asking me to say hello that pretty girls do not respond to hi, which one do I say "


If any "lols" Let us know. such a person is intelligent and a potential target

Fineboigossip:
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Boss
I Guess Its Both Of Them
I Dont Have A Girlfriend,and I Seriously Need One

Fineboigossip:
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Boss Man
I Hail O
Pls,i Want U To Help Me Out
I Have Tried Alot And My Possible Best To Date Girls On Facebook,but They Always Turn Me Down,dey Dont Accept Me,i Have Toast More Than 30 Girls,yet They Dont Accept Me
Pls Help Me