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HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 1

Why Gurls like bad boys:

Bad boys don't ''send''..... they live their life no matter what. They don't kiss up to any lady, infact they get aggressive when she throws some controlling tantrums.
They don't mind embarrassing her in public just to get their point across.

In summary, they are manly( ''ball-full'') because they sure know that every relationship has a CONTROL NOB, and the party who SENDS less has it. and that same party dictate how the r/ship roll. the party basically has the MUMU SWITCH of the other party and therefore can control the other party without as much as saying a word.....just a luk or a sound, wud suffice.
Women are aware of this potent power by design, they also know that the power lies with the guy from creation and wud do everything possible to STEAL(they do this either to test if the guy is truly what they make of him or just plainly acting IT or they just luv been in control) it from the guys......subtly, guys not-in-the-know, aint.


Now I am not advocating you become this crude: here is Hiw u can tap the positives off bad boys n be one ur self:
BE yourself @ all times: what does this mean? It means don't live ur life to please any gurl. Learn the act of saying no to some of her demands even though she knows u are capable of same. A girls that u always yeild to, wud soon friend zone u. You ain't worth been her man.

Know this, gurls r looking for alpha male not some kiss a33.......learn to always be in charge. This can only happen when u lay ur bed right from d beginning.

Yea I know, this is a tall order but is is very easy when u bring ur emotions under check before u even think of dating.

MODIFIED

Another reason is the compassionate part of them that just wano FIX things. They assume that Bad boys need redemption n they are d very ones to do it. They just need to show him a lil care, a lil touch, a lil hug, a lil prod , a lil luv n all wud be well. Lil did they know......


Also, bad boys luv mad wild adventure! Gut splitting, nerve wrecking, heart pumping n head spinning crazy adventure. N ladies just luv to be blown away!


Bad boys are sporadic.....unpredictable, they dont mind spoiling her by tasting her honey in public places...making her adrenaline pump wild! Imagine her cUming in such tensed situation( torn inbtw getting caught n the pleasure sweeping tru her veins)! How can she not luv him to bits? Stolen waters tastes sweeter!

They are sure to give her wild fun memories unlike d serene nice guy that wudnt even wano pound her hard cos he doesnt wano hurt her while in her mind she is screaming for heavy pounding, he is on slow n steady kiss kiss ride.

Bad boys teach em how to defend em selves, street sense n so many other crazy reasons out there.



SENSE PILL 1: Never sell yourself short. U were born to lead, but first you must conquer yourself. never let Jrod rule your ways.

....

Still dazed as to what really went wrong immediately he got the job... The centre seems no t hold no more

This is how some soft bones create cracks in the bond. We never hear about these, no, remote causes never make it to the news ring. Only immediate causes do!

Smh

But I majorly blame guys! Why would a sniper let his target know what is up before sniping?
Why would a man not know the right button to tune and have her begging to be..... ?

iammo:



Atleast the old baba is trying hard to make her happy

Didn't know, until I came across this post, however sadly, that happiness is now taking abode in clubs. Smh


@ op, this is pathetic.

Godsein:
baba look into my post na

Usually, I would, when schedule permits, as interactive as possible, respond wholly without hesitation nor reservations...

However, not to questions that hairs have been split on countless times.
It makes me wonder which is harder: to think up, filter, type, edit and reedit, before posting or just flip on the pages and READ.

SENSE PILL

The crimson red of love cripples the balls and renders down reasoning , therefore, bud with a lady that loves you not the one YOU love

Until such a time when youve taken mastery of self n balls.

What a high class of babes indeed

Wack!

Even with greeny?

Op has a very bad taste. Imagine those crude oil black skin and b00bs that have serve the motherland in dedicated loyalty he wanted to cut his own piece off.

Imagine also, how cheaply he fell to the dictacts of his randy d1ck by sending his money into voice mail.

Cover yourself in shame son and stop disturbing our peace If she had come over and u had hit that, we wouldn't have known. Or probably, u wud have come in here to ravel in your fb conquest. Or probably tell us some tale of how loyal her b00bs where or how smelly her gurl is.



Nd to all of u that EAT off the internet, one word: be careful

HARDDON:
Even though I'd still end this piece by referring you back to the beginning of this thread, let me punch on the liberty button and address this magnanimous piece of IGNORANCE that men always display ( refer to the Emphasized above)

When a female is concerned,
God created Man(you) to lead. To direct. To show the way. To be a step higher on the knowledge bank. To always have cool/crazy/fun answers. To dazzle her.

A true man feels WORK and in essence money solves most if not all of his problem. Because work was here before he was created. He would always wano work. Look up to work to solves his issues.


on the other hand, the first thing a woman met was Man. Therefore, it is only natural, giving that he was here before her and supposedly have more earthly experience, for her to look up to him for direction and answers.

Hence he would always be faced with questions like; "What do you think? " What should we have? It this nice? Do you like my hair? What should I prepare? Etc

Hungry? Yes. Ask her what she would love to eat and she says she doesn't know because she expects you to make a choice for her.
Or she would say she would have whatever you are having.

You: Babes, I'm at the shopping mall, what should I get for you?....
Her: anything


Her: Tell me something
You: about what?
Her: Anything.


Here is the IGNORANCE gist:

She can't be looking up to you and you turn around and look up to her. She can't be seeking direction from you that is supposed to BE IN THE KNOW and you turn around and instead of providing direction, start talking like someone that doesn't KNOW.

That is just super DUMB. However, in the world over, that is how most men behave! DUMB.
Just like good looks can help a lady hook up a man but only character can keep him, so also Money can attract a lady but only wit and wisdom and the knowledge spread across these pages can keep her from friendzoning you, turning you to a maga or mugu.( bf or husby, notwithstanding)

So Guys, when next you are faced with these direction/answers seeking questions from ladies, have some freaking fun answers ! And stop "DUMBING" up. Stripping our royal balls of all its colours, gait and glory.

Drinkwster06, she has been presenting you with opportunities to wow her world and take her mind on a royal spin but like a drenched dock, you have been docking

Just take a look at these fun pills:

Her: gist me
Me: first you have to promise me you wouldn't fall DEPPER in love with me than you already have.

Whatever she says, tell her a story of how two female friends classmates/colleagues have been drooling over you and beefing themselves but none has been bold enough to tell you their feelings. How u heard it from another of their friends.....

Whatever story you choose to tell her, real or imagined, should drive home the point that you got BALLS or lota ladies are on the roll call or sendless or some other stories that can blow up your value in her mind and alter her thinking process about u forever!

SENSE PILL:

A hunter who does not know how to bring a prey in his trap home for.... should kindly take up skating as a hobby; Roll, Fall, rise. No mental stress.

Drinkwater06:
Hello HardDon,

There's this girl that's apparently interested in me but not ready to say it. She would text and text all day asking all sorts of questions. Lately she started asking me to gist her. When I ask her about what, she would say anything. I seldom try to make her be precise, she'd still insist on anything.

What gist do you think I can start bombarding her with?

Even though I'd still end this piece by referring you back to the beginning of this thread, let me punch on the liberty button and address this magnanimous piece of IGNORANCE that men always display ( refer to the Emphasized above)

When a female is concerned,
God created Man(you) to lead. To direct. To show the way. To be a step higher on the knowledge bank. To always have cool/crazy/fun answers. To dazzle her.

A true man feels WORK and in essence money solves most if not all of his problem. Because work was here before he was created. He would always wano work. Look up to work to solves his issues.


on the other hand, the first thing a woman met was Man. Therefore, it is only natural, giving that he was here before her and supposedly have more earthly experience, for her to look up to him for direction and answers.

Hence he would always be faced with questions like; "What do you think? " What should we have? It this nice? Do you like my hair? What should I prepare? Etc

Hungry? Yes. Ask her what she would love to eat and she says she doesn't know because she expects you to make a choice for her.
Or she would say she would have whatever you are having.

You: Babes, I'm at the shopping mall, what should I get for you?....
Her: anything


Her: Tell me something
You: about what?
Her: Anything.


Here is the IGNORANCE gist:

She can't be looking up to you and you turn around and look up to her. She can't be seeking direction from you that is supposed to BE IN THE KNOW and you turn around and instead of providing direction, start talking like someone that doesn't KNOW.

That is just super DUMB. However, in the world over, that is how most men behave! DUMB.
Just like good looks can help a lady hook up a man but only character can keep him, so also Money can attract a lady but only wit and wisdom and the knowledge spread across these pages can keep her from friendzoning you, turning you to a maga or mugu.( bf or husby, notwithstanding)

Sipping Man Red United wine.

Hopefully, we wouldn't be battling with Europa next season

Liliyann:
I wonder where Somadina her so called Ex is!
Lesson
Never take all these broke boys serious thereby missing the right one!
Love is nothing without money!
No matter how much people talk bad about her, she made the right decision!
Life is to be enjoyed!
Marriage means luxurious life, pampering and care!
An old rich man is far better than a broke young boy that doesn't know where his next meal will come from!!

It's your type yahoo boys use for rituals! Continue...

Common United!

Mata the birthday boy just gave us a munch off his birthday cake

One in! Mata when it matters!

More goals boys!

A must win match it is boys.

early goals.

United we stand!

I think we should have delayed that appointment a while longer

Since he sat supreme, the centre seems not to hold no more

Adebowhales:
Harddon please where are you

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We will break sequence henceon.

And deal with dating drill quantums as stand alone.

Goterry0123:
You Learn Better When You Practice. Hope you are Ready to Forget names thereby causing to create more problems by calling wrong name.

The other Day i called Alby Naomi and Hell was let loose. Still trying to master tho

abercrombie:
hello guys, have really been an active user of this tread, hardon keep up with the great work...


am in a confused situation right now,last monday which was April 1st, i decide to play some pranks on my girlfriend and i text her this


''Hello Madam, i think have heard enough of you, i don't think you are the right person for me, please it OK we have come this far, please don't call my line again.. thanks''


after series of missed calls, i decide to call back later in the evening, and she's swear i spoiled her mood for that day, and i started laughing saying it only a joke i decide to play some pranks on her but she won't have any of it, worst she refused to come back home,so i decide to lock up because i don beg tire, please guys what the way out, no insult please...

How was your relationship prior to that day?
Is she committed?

If she wasn't and was looking for a cheap excuse to ball out, you just played into her hands. In a good way though.

Agp19:
thanks boss!!!
After she said all that I just literally let her be the following day at work I just continue with my normal life,was making my female customers laugh out loud while she watch from distances. After the close of work we spoke and she was like I shld pls she cant continue with all what she said yesternight and I was like " I thought that's what you want " she said no she can't continue. I just laugh within me i was like you will always come back.

Thanks to you Hardon

@ emphasized, that is a very boring, nice a33 thing to say.

What happened to pulling woos with their lines and punishing them with same?

What happened to replies like : " I knew it! I knew she had fallen in love with me so hard!" ? Then burst out laughing?

What happened to : " I knew it, I knew u can't leave without Me?

Or

" I knew it! Are u sure u wano do this? I might end up pounding your heart to granules"

Etc....


@ last emphasized, you didnt have to say that in your mind. You are meant to look into her tiny eyes and tell her that. Those ballful statements that average guys are scared to utter to ladies are what pulls them! Sendless is the logo!
If only average guys know...

abercrombie:
hello guys, have really been an active user of this tread, hardon keep up with the great work...


am in a confused situation right now,last monday which was April 1st, i decide to play some pranks on my girlfriend and i text her this


''Hello Madam, i think have heard enough of you, i don't think you are the right person for me, please it OK we have come this far, please don't call my line again.. thanks''


after series of missed calls, i decide to call back later in the evening, and she's swear i spoiled her mood for that day, and i started laughing saying it only a joke i decide to play some pranks on her but she won't have any of it, worst she refused to come back home,so i decide to lock up because i don beg tire, please guys what the way out, no insult please...

Brahahaha!

You want me to Prank you too?

ceeroh:
Now this is soo funny.

So the girl hasn't blocked the dude since last night. Told him what to do from what I got here.. And this was how the conversation went.. But it seems Baba doesn't wanna lose the girl yet, so he applied Wisdom.

Conversation


Boy: Woke up this morning and found out you haven't carried out your threat.
You know some people don't respond well to threats and that includes me. I would have done you the favour of blocking you myself but Naarh... Only kids do that. I'm just gonna sit and watch how this unfolds. Take care

Girl's response:

Lol
You didn't get what I meant
So��‍ you got it wrong anyways.

So what's the next step? He hasn't replied yet.

Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.

ceeroh:
Bosses in the house, help a fellow guy out. He was just telling me about a girl he met on Monday. I think he called her today and the girl's response was very much okay.

Then he chatted her up and the girl was feeling the vibes until he asked to know more about her. Then she said she doesn't share her info with strangers and that she was even planning to block him. Though she hasn't blocked him yet, but Baba is yet to reply her after what she said... I asked him to hold on

What do you guys think is the best response?
Dis one dey very urgent oo

What effrontery! Be the first to block and delete her after replying her with " I don't respond well to threats, get your childish, senseless sorry a33 off my space! "

Without waiting for some stupid replies, blam! You block! Go out there and meet fun people!

Agp19:
Hardon

Pls I need you on this one I think am stuck here and confuse on what to do.

There is this lady that got transfer to my work place Feb this year.after using the attraction trick on her and got her sway she was so into me despite the fact that I told her I have a galfriend which she even comfirm to be true.she came to my crib on Sunday and we had a fanstatic sex session,then she came around yesternight was feeling good and all that. After a round of sex she just change her attitude , I ask her y, she said she doesn't want to cause mishap in my relationship like she's has been distracting me.that she wants things to go back normal. She was even like she still love me and she will forever do but she has to use her head.
But for me I like her don't want to let her go .
What shld I do?
Should I let her be and play the jealousy game on her??
Or
I shld just burst her with more witty and funny lines ?

At first Emphasised, where did you learn the attraction trick ooo, we want to know. because we ain't trickstars here.


At second bolded, chop knuckle bro! You got balls. Telling a new soft doll you got some interest in, that you got a gurl, takes balls. While Average guys wud wano hide that, we brand 3.
SUPER SENDLESS. REVERSE PSYC. works like charm everytime!


3rd bolded, super Test Time! Men would always live through these tests!

Suddenly she has woken up. Suddenly she wants u for keeps. You've blown her mind away. Now she wants to know where ur loyalty lies. Now she wants you to get rid of the competition. Doesn't wano share. This is where you put your foot down. If you fancy ur gurl more.

Here is the meaning of his action/words:
"He's got the balls, let's Blow his mind away first, recoil, blackmail his emotions into some decision n effectively confound him as we steal the balls. "

It is working bro.

Never read literal meaning into actions/words of gurls bro. Especially in situations like this. That has been the Bane on the existence of average guys.


When she throws such tantrums, you laugh it off and use it against her!

"Aawwww, someone is falling in love already ooo, just look at her lovey dovey eyes.! Don't worry, I wudnt tell my gurl you tasted her cookies! "

Sexy Sendless!

ceeroh:
HARDDON, kollinzgee, Ubunja and co... Make una come to my rescue oo.

My condition right now is very critical.
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she was always looking at me anytime I'm passing. One way or the other, we started talking and chatting after we exchanged numbers (Long story though). It was when we started talking I discovered she's much younger than I expected. She just has a very matured physique. And when we got closer, I discovered she isn't discrete at all, she would spill the beans and tell people what happens between us out of excitement. And I'm a very coded guy. To the extent she told her parents she was now friends with 'that brother that lives in that house who doesn't speak with anyone'.. Then gradually, her family members also got closer, then I relaxed a bit and stopped being uptight.

So after some time, I developed interest in the girl's elder sister. Much calmer, matured and reserved unlike the hyperactive younger sis. But the younger sis wouldn't let me be, always wanna chat, loves attention and wanna know about some private stuff. She visits me at will, which I don't find comfortable, with her parents' consent oo. They're aware she comes visiting. She has been showing signs she wants me to ask her out so badly, but never. I'll never make that mistake. Though I must confess, this girl is super drop dead gorgeous. She fine dieee.

So recently, I spoke with the elder sis that I wanna hang out with her this weekend and she was so excited, cos she also been showing signs of interest. She agreed.

Please I hope I'm not making the wrong move?
Knowing fully well the younger sis wouldn't find it funny at all.

*Modified*
The reason why I don't wanna go ahead with the younger sis is because she looks like a baggage of trouble and drama. If not, I'd have gladly gone for her.

Someone didn't read yours truly's experience with two sisters huh?

You are walking gallantly on land mines bro! Running where angels fear to tread.

Experience, they wrongfully opine, is the best teacher. Take it from me bro, it is the worse teacher ever.

In yours truly's case, the younger one was even forming hard to get yet it still blew up unlike this walking time bomb of a younger one!

Then there is the huge issue of dipping your red pen into home inks whose mother Hen is casting watchful eyes over! Brooooo!!!! Hmmmm

logan2:
HARDDON WHATS YOUR TAKE

Develop your mind n money to the extent where you are the one reading and ignoring or replying with monos as some of us do.

SENSE PILL

Just like the wisdom of the poor is despised( refer to the book of proverbs, bible ), so also is the chat of the average, unreformed guy.

The ground is too crowded.