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sparkle7:
HARDDON the man!!!
Boss any more tips

rali123:

IAmRoot:
Lol. Where did Harddon go to �

mysticgal:
Why will you disvirgin her . I am not happy with you

space9880:
she's beautiful! do you have pics of the male and why did you use slant back I thought she's straight

cheapgoals:
Of course

cheapgoals:
Please, Holla me when she's on heat. Got pure breed GSD

tobilavish:
shm dah is not even pure sef mtheew

T3ndrils:
Well... what else can i say except the fact that i'm very glad that the hypothesis of guys like Harddon stands to be 100% correct. Women knows 0.000% of what they want... I continue to pity any man on the face of this earth that will believe the bullsh!t these girls are ranting here. Some even said they will learn to like/love the man with time(*scoffs*) ... what a big pile of bullsh!t.

NEVER should any guy here take the words of these girls here at face value, try it and regret, oppose and you 're in.

There was this girl in my unit with this 'high maintenance' mentality with two guys assl!cking her, well for me i'd negged he, ignore her, snub her, cared less, give less attention, say some harsh things to her, YET she'd always liked being around me and her habit of always touching me, even when one of her admirer was expressing his feelings, she would be touching me if i was even around tho. She once asked for my number but i didn't give. Her mood changes when i'm with other girls and her closest friends always give me this strange look.

You'd see other guys with experiences as mine above on other threads and i'm not surprised. Women atimes behave based on their subconscious views and hardly (if not at all) on their conscious view, they WILL come here and speak their MINDS(which is normal) and go out there and do their HEARTFELT and trust me these two things are never on the same lane and i'm very sure some of these girls here have loved, adored, cherised the one particular niqq that gave no hoot.

CID11:
will there be facebook,instagram,twitter,Linken and watsapp

Biglittlelois:
You see op ehn, he knows a rare kind when he sees one, and that lady qualifies 100% that is why he did all that to try and get her back, a WIMP is someone that will say a RARE kind isn't worth your balls, those physical things you mentioned is what fvckboys will droll over not men who knows the worth of what they're likely to loose.

Spinojaja26:
please friends I need your advice, I am a teacher that teaches in one of the Govt. technical schools in Imo state. I resides in the rural area due to the current transfer from the ministry, though I can go on transfer to any part of Imo state if I want. my problem is that all the ladies that I wanted to settle down with when I tell them what I do for a living and where I stay, they will quit the relation. it is becoming difficult for me to get a wife here.

Idokoegbunu:
Go To This Thread: Dating Drills By Harddon- Romance

HARDDON:
Telling a gurl u luv her is like handing over ur balls to her, giving her ,on a platter , d license to start demanding things n leaning on u for most of her wants.
It send d wrong message out to dem n puts frictional tension btw u too, now u both start getting conscious of each other's presence n starts acting PSEUDO RIGHT so as not to mess up d whole thingy n the friendship that u shld be building, wanes!

Don't get me wrong, I know women r moved by what they hear, there r right things to tell her to create attraction , not this very commonly used, super-abused word she has heard world over
This is just wrong.

I can tell u that she didn't friend zone u because u didn't tell her u luv her( in fact, that shld draw her close cos she wud wano know how a man is able to hold his tots,control his mind), d reason she friendzoned u is in those messages u have been sending ( both physically n tru phone)
BORING MSGS that doused d attraction she felt for u at first that made her borrow ur text book so she can give u her number since u wudnt ask n she didn't know how to approach u.


This is what u shld hv done immediately u saw her number:

U wud have waited a day or two, this is to keep her anticipating ur call( bliv me she was) then on the third day, ring her up( u cant imagine d excitement she wud feel to know its u calling) n say:

" is that how shy u are? So u cudnt tell Me to my face that u r dying for me rather u used sense to collect my text book so u can write me a luv letter Tru it?

Well guess what ? u are on a very long queue, u have to show me why u deserve ME cos I'm not that Cheap. "

She wud try to deny writting it, then u hit her thus:

" oh so u cudnt even write it with ur clear eyes ? U had to HY up? O-2-da-h the blazing luv u feel for me, Yea i know i have that effect on ladies! "

Do u get the msg? U r inputing it to her she wants U so badly, ofcos she does!
Don't u ever fail again when faced with this Linda situation

lahp:
nothing wrong for me
the first statement of u not being killed left me smiling

HARDDON:
To help u take control of your emotions, u have to learn how to turn down ladies. start by the little things;
turn down that airtime request from that your crush, turn down that ur course mate/colleague lunch request, turn down that outing request, however u may, but subtly, funnily and cockily.

SENSE PILL 1b : for once, have d balls to be brave, be YOU and do things because you want to do them not because they cajole u to!
dont be fooled ladies know exactly what they are doing when they go demanding for things they dont even need and airtime they wud never call you with( this is how mugus and magas are made, this is where friendzoning begins) , it is your duty to fashion responses to deflect their demands and hold your sway.

Bae: babes could you u help me get that over there?
YOU: yea sure, after i'm done with this game..or you can say sure, if only u beat me in this game....we know that game isnt ending soon nor can she beat u, she wud be forced to go get it her self (subtle but very effective).

slowly u grow in this game: from subtle refusal to outright funny ones. the only time u wud master this act is when bae starts touching u, u respond, then when every one is steamy, all cloths off and she launches for ur weapon, remove her hand, she wud try again, remove it still, after the 4th time she tries u can let her, i can bet you it wud be explosive! dont ask me why

then be man enough to turn her outright down one day!

i'm not really in the mood to get down tonight B, just want us to cuddle and kiss thereafter we sleep! she wud try her best but if you can stand your ground, you wud have passed this great test. she wudnt bliv it that a guy can turn her down with his hardness and her wetness! she might act funny thereafter, ignore it..... She knows u r becoming a Man!

the ultimate test in this self control drill is this:

try and hook a new catch, after the 1st - 3rd hang outs, they usually feel comfortable, wanting to come know ur place because you have been deflecting all talks away from where u stay( we wud talk more about this soon. it is a perfect way to have any lady BEG to come know your place instead of you begging to have her over as u have been doing and she has been refusing because she knows what your plans are already! )

so lets say you finally agreed to have her over, and after all said and done, reggae turned blues and u guys are on each other, cloths flying with supersonic speed off your bodies as u kiss( more on this in DRILL NUGGET 3) passionately in anticipation of a sumptuous session,
then just as she pulls u over and want u inside of her, u pull away, sit on the bed for a while thinking, then after a brief moment, pick your boxers and start wearing it! she wud be wondering what is happening, tell her u just lost it, that you gtg now. she wud cajole, implore, seduce and do all possible to have you, DONT YOU YEILD! remember this is a test! and to help you scale tru, always remember it your final test. wear your cloths, apologize and hit the street. u wud literally murder her with thots like : is it that he has a gurl friend and doesnt wano cheat on her? or is my kini smelly like that of that blogger? stretch marks on my laps? or is he impotent? cudnt B because i touched his hard Jrod..... is there something i did wrong? ...... if only she knew....

yea i know, it is not fair to do this to any lady, but sit back and ask yourself, is it fair to do this to a guy? Ladies do this to guys all the time that is why they have mastered the act of staying on top of their game, and only let in guys they really want into their web, and for you to master your act also, this you must learn to do, not with one, but as often as u can,,,,,u wud bcome a master in no time, Jrod wud learn its place and then cease to control you.