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Politics / Re: UPDATE: Saraki Finally Speaks On Association With Hushpuppi, Replies APC by Harllaby: 7:40am On Jul 05, 2020
Resist the urge to shalaye

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Education / Re: Do You Have Regrets About Your Days At The University? by Harllaby: 8:54pm On Jul 02, 2020
Did I regret know. I had a choice and I made it. May be I learnt lessons from it
Celebrities / Re: Nigerian Dance Queen, Kaffy Shares New Photos As She Clocks A New Age(photos) by Harllaby: 9:25pm On Jun 30, 2020
I came in disappointed. I was expecting to see some fresh yellow cleavages and thighs. Anyway hbd
Education / Re: UNILAG Acquires Profiling Robots, Becomes First African University To Own One by Harllaby: 9:19pm On Jun 30, 2020
I know these robots will be far more intelligent than some dumb lecturers. Anyway, I rep Unilag
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man In Jail For 6 Years Without Trial – You Won’t Believe His ‘offense by Harllaby: 8:46pm On Jun 30, 2020
MoneyMindset:
One nigga went out to buy bread and got arrested came back 2 years later
Hmm strong Prayer point. May journey of 2 minute not become 2 years.
Romance / Re: Video: “Rema Isn't My Boyfriend, I Don’t Have One”, Nimiie Says In New Interview by Harllaby: 8:41pm On Jun 30, 2020
She better focus on her physics course to avoid stories that touch.
Romance / Re: Why Cut Off Your Single Friends Just Because You Got Married? by Harllaby: 8:38pm On Jun 30, 2020
some friendship is for a season, some are for a reason, some came by accident while some are for a lifetime cool
Romance / Re: Slay Queen Displaying Melon On Facebook by Harllaby: 2:58am On Jun 19, 2020
Numeru! A lady with big ass, and big boob with fine face and soft bedmatic skills with empty skull is someone else's favorite.
Crime / Re: Cubana Chief Priest Appears Online Despite Arrest by Harllaby: 2:53am On Jun 19, 2020
Baba too get mouth. Ride on jo
Religion / Re: How To Walk By Faith by Harllaby: 8:04pm On Jun 03, 2020
The most important one Jesus spoke about you didn't write it down.
James 1 vs 22: GNT "Do not deceive yourselves by just listening to his word; instead, put it into practice". Unfortunately, Nigerians christians doesn't follow Practical biblical principles but instead dwell on wishful thought. Lets keep balance between faith and work (being practical) cheer
Family / Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by Harllaby: 7:51pm On Jun 03, 2020
As a kid we form ball using newspapers and papertape. Also we played four post, one touch grin
Culture / Re: Four Signs That You Are An Intelligent Person by Harllaby: 2:35pm On Jun 02, 2020
100% Agreed. But you didn't quite talk about the unpleasant experience they went through. More like drawback or challenges they faces in their relationship with others
Romance / Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Harllaby: 10:19pm On May 30, 2020
Remember your cause and bear the consequences

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Romance / Re: “I Can Only Date A Man That Earns N250K Monthly And Above” – Young Nigerian Lady by Harllaby: 6:56pm On Apr 21, 2020
Shor! Shiloh 2050 waiting for you.

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Family / Re: I Ave Cut Ties With My Family by Harllaby: 5:12pm On Apr 21, 2020
nana228:
I might sound harsh but at this point, you need to tell yourself the truth. Take responsibility for your actions and take charge of your life because of your children.


I don't believe it is your mother's doing that you are in this position, this is my view. Everything you are going through, you have attributed it to every other person but you. You have shared blames between your mom, dad and sister and you are even somewhat happy that your sister is in your position and strangely none is your fault. I'm afraid if you continue like this, there will be no change.

I think your problem is your mind, you need to abandon some line of thoughts. You should have learnt your lesson after your first child and started insisting on condoms before you slept with anyone, please start doing this for your sake and that of your children.

Secondly, the solution to your problem does not lie in a church, you are an adult and this pandemic should have shown you that miracles are rare. How many pastors have healed a Coronavirus patient? Most churches are communities where you share and worship. Stop running from church to church, look for one you are comfortable with and stick with it, no church is perfect. Stop looking for people to "see" and pray you out of what you are going through now.

Thirdly, I believe there are terrible families and sometimes it is OK to cut ties. If you are doing this, you also need to have a strong support system, with the state of your mind you will need someone to talk to and unburden your heart but be weary of people that are wolves in sheep's clothing.

Finally, you need to get something doing. You have 2 children and they need to go to school and be taken care of. Are your baby daddies able to help financially to take care of their children? If they are, accept it and also look for ways you can get something to support yourself.

Edit: accept that what has happened has happened, what your focus should be is the way forward and how to be a role model for the girls you are raising.

I wish you good luck.
True! I don't want to sound too harsh to her at first. She need people like you around to dish her truth about reality of life, but she is deeply entrenched in her harmful religious belief and it's affecting her sense of reasoning.
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Betrayed Someone? Share Your Experience by Harllaby: 2:58pm On Apr 21, 2020
Hmm...if Judas can betray Jesus, Who am I

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Family / Re: How Big Are You In This Lockdown by Harllaby: 2:53pm On Apr 21, 2020
Op hunger virus is real o
Health / Re: Nigerian Defence Academy Produces Ventilators To Curb COVID-19 (Photos) by Harllaby: 2:40pm On Apr 21, 2020
Cowbell521:
How I go fit get that beast?
Go to Unilag mechanical engineering dept, you see it there
Family / Re: I Ave Cut Ties With My Family by Harllaby: 2:38pm On Apr 21, 2020
Vickiyxx:
I ave been maturbating and watching porn since I was 8-9 years old still doing now , I am addictive to it , in a day I can do it about 3-4 times , deliverances don’t help my life because I keep going to the same lifestyles over and over again. Why would my own mother do this to me just because of money?
Hmm. Don't continue dwelling in your past. You are not the first certainly. Your future now is your kids. From your write-up, your first child should be around age 8 to 10. Definitely needs a good parental upbringing especially as she grow into teen hood.

Right now, you need to work on yourself, find something doing like situable work you can engage in. Build and create a good relationship with people around you. It's until you're empowered mature and responsible men will look your way.

By the way, you keep mentioning your mum as is the cause of your dialema. Do you think her wealth bring you this dialema you're facing?
Romance / Re: Child-like Voice: My Voice Is Very Tiny. I Really Need Help by Harllaby: 1:13pm On Apr 21, 2020
thesicilian:
If it's your God given voice, why not learn how to use it to your advantage?
So is there Satan given voice
Romance / Re: Child-like Voice: My Voice Is Very Tiny. I Really Need Help by Harllaby: 1:09pm On Apr 21, 2020
Premiumwriter are you male or female. The truth is you don't have to form roged voice before you can make a point. The way you portrail yourself goes a long way. Develop a high self esteem and don't look down on yourself.

I have experience worse. 18years old me have gone to a birthday party with our 15year old neighbour's daughter. I was served with takeaway the girl was served with white dish with respect.


I was ushered to go to children's department at one church. It takes forever to convince them otherwise.

I got angry when people call me unpleasant nickname but today I grew my self-esteem around it and become proud of myself. Some peers secretly wish they are me because I always prove them otherwise.

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Family / Re: I Ave Cut Ties With My Family by Harllaby: 12:49pm On Apr 21, 2020
Hmm. This your story is very complicated o. So many questions that need answers. But no matter how bad it might be you will always need to call on someone. What about the baby daddies? Do you have a close friend? How has your relationship between you and your parent be before this occurance happened? Hard times don't last hopefully you will get past it.

But I will strongly advice to overlook what any church priest says about your mummy using your destiny they will only complicate issue and can even destroy family relationship.

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Health / Re: Nigerian Defence Academy Produces Ventilators To Curb COVID-19 (Photos) by Harllaby: 12:06pm On Apr 21, 2020
This reminds me of Prof Ayodele Awojobi from Unilag that first invented Autonov 1 in 1970s which run in both the forward and backward directions, utilizing all four pre-existing gears in whichever direction. Used for easy retreat during war front.

Nigerians have been talented all along we are just caused with bad government.

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Health / Re: Nigerian Defence Academy Produces Ventilators To Curb COVID-19 (Photos) by Harllaby: 12:06pm On Apr 21, 2020
If human doesn't encounter challenges they won't know they have talents to solve their problems. From locally made hand sanitizer to industrial face mask to ventilator.

They are talented young guys in Nigeria but we wait for White to come solve our problems. Now that they are battling With theirs, we suddenly know we have hidden talents. If it continues like this Nigeria will one day become giant of African.

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Family / Re: 31 Silent Facts About The Rapture by Harllaby: 6:46pm On Apr 20, 2020
Oga carry your matter go religion section
Nairaland / General / Re: Share Your Experience With Weird People You Have Encountered by Harllaby: 6:44pm On Apr 20, 2020
tommyken:

This got me laughing out loud, exactly my room mate behaviour. The most boring guy I have met. I am quiet guy but his own is too much.
Lol. Different people with different idiosyncrasy
Romance / Re: What Is That Bad Thing You Did,that You Managed To Get Away With Till Today? by Harllaby: 6:08pm On Apr 20, 2020
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Health / Re: 68-Year-Old Woman Delivered Of Twins At LUTH (Photo) by Harllaby: 7:29am On Apr 20, 2020
otunbalamba:
So na to born pikin be your own dreams ode leleyi o
You don't deserve my attention.
Religion / Re: Covid-19: Atheist Doctor In Italy Found GOD While On Duty Fighting D Virus(vid) by Harllaby: 7:17pm On Apr 19, 2020
OdefaGirl:



You are servant to whoever you believe.....my life as a whole is a testimony which I can not write here..... He's my God and I love Him.
Hallelujah!!! grin grin
Religion / Re: Covid-19: Atheist Doctor In Italy Found GOD While On Duty Fighting D Virus(vid) by Harllaby: 6:45pm On Apr 19, 2020
OdefaGirl:


God is my Creator, the reason for my being and the God of the whole Universe....
Lol. What a sequitur answer. How are you sure you were created by God. You could have been created by Satan. No need to argue with you. For the sake this interaction let me agree with you. But let's clear the air. Human invented gods/God in their own image and He/he/she/it is nothing more than a man made idea. If you don't agree prove me wrong.

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