Borntosmoke:
I have this my friend, I don't know how he live his life. When he graduated, he doesn't share to people, dont even post it on WhatsApp status for people to rejoice with him. Now, he is currently doing nysc, nobody knows he is doing nysc. He doesn't post pictures. The stupid thing about him. He can post music videos or another thing on is Whatsapp status. I see this as selfishness. Why are some people like this. If you want to keep low profile, keep low profile with sense. At least let people know about some of your achievement, I'm not saying you should broadcast all your achievements, you don't where your helper may come from. May be through your WhatsApp contacts or social media

That helper word you used is very sacrosanct. Some people are forming coded and Sapa wan kill them. It's good to keep low profile tho if you are already made or you are getting there. If na Sapa you dey battles, be very open oo if not gobe.

This type should be castrated

Ahmed0336:
I think you should discuss this with your brother in the presence of your wife and a lawyer.
Let your agreement be documented and signed by all parties involved.

I believe with this, you'd have peace of mind.

Which on is in presence of his wife. Does the house belong to his inlaw Oga?
There is a family head in his family, that is the person that should be in that meeting and not his wife. Naso una go dey arrogate power to woman on top nothing.

jackcanfield:


Be calming down, e get why some of us didn't join the Nigeria Military, especially Nigeria Army , the discipline get as he be .

Oga we don wear khakhi before oo. The military especially should have been reformed a long time ago. Na cos some of us no see the reform, that's why we Opt out.

Osunboy:
I am not forcing her to go to UK with me. She is likewise confused reason why I am here to ask questions.

She isn't confused. Tell her to go to her Poland. I am advising you as someone who has experience in this sorta stuff. The greatest mistake a man can make is to let his woman make a life altering choice and she later regrets it. Last last, na sniper you go drink when the nagging and vawulence start.

jackcanfield:
Okay noted the Military High Command would improve next time, perhaps they are doing all this for security reasons.

COAS please take note.

This is thrash dude. What sorta fvcked up security reason. Who traumatizes dependants and well wishers? Which security reason are you taking bout? Who has time for RRI. We not even talking RC or DSSC here.
There is something fundamentally wrong with our security architecture in this country. All of em needs reset asap. Most uniform men lack the O.T. they derive joy in punishing their fellow man.

Why do you want to use your selfishness to affect her life choice
Let her embark on her Poland trip. If una go Marry, una go Marry. Don't make people make life altering choices because of you cos it usually leads to regret and you will be blamed in future.

sonature1:


Here's another trashy comment and it even tagged me. FYI, nothing in my comment suggested that live broadcast was good or bad. I only countered the senseless excuse that Druggie apologist gave as a way of justifying their opposition to live broadcast.

By the way, the judges should be the ones kicking against live broadcast, not the accused and their counsel. If the accused opposes it, it suggests they have something to hide.


PS: I won't reply you again.

Get educated dude and stop yarning dust. It's obvious you don't know about court procedures. Now let me educate you, before the judges give a judgement, the counsel will certify if they are okay with the broadcast. However, their decision isn't bound on the judge so they can decide to dismiss or approve. Again, you are quick to say the accused has something to hide. If you had a court process that involved your family and it bothers on their safety,will you like it to be broadcast live?

sonature1:


You are writing trash.

Anyone can google the names of the judges and know their identities.

You cannot be smart and support that druglord.

Stop being emotional or sentimental when you should reason. Except a commission of enquiry, you don't broadcast a case of this magnitude live. A case where emotions are running wild. At every court sitting, actions from judges,lawyers or case arguments can lead to violence. Was it not yesterday a factional LP chairman was dragged out of court, imagine his supporters watched live and decided to retaliate, what do you think will happen? Lets be reasonable in some aspects, we shouldn't let our emotions run high when making statements.

I dont see this as a wise venture excepts it will be a pure profit making entity. Education isn't cheap anywhere. The way both the State government and the federal government keep constructing school without funding them amazes me.

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

she is you GF not your mother. Move on dude.

RoyalBlu:
It's been over three weeks now I lost my younger sister to death. I'm still finding it really difficult to get myself together.

The pain of losing her so untimely has shaken me to my roots. The tears won't stop coming.

I've been told to try and move on and be strong. But how

The Irony of Life is Death. Sorry for your loss.

sukkot:
See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.

But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.

So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.

Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.

Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.

But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.

Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.

It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.

So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.

From a security point of view, that dude has become a threat to you safety. Demand that he is replaced with someone else immediately or get a pistol.

Flora2Sweet:
He's not a public servant mugu

It's obvious these Apc people don't reason before talking...

In Nigeria that leg is a Goner......
Na chisel and Saw he for they see by now....

..

See how you yarn so unrefined. Is everyone now APC in your eyes or it's now Native doctors we have in all our hospitals. Y'all Nigerians don't reason intelligently, na just to react with gibberish una sabi.

If it was Buhari or any other politician now, he will start lamenting. Buh him sef enter UK for surgery. Irony

Oyindamolah:
Once e get to front page, I get paid.

You couldn't even find his pix to post. Nawa for you baddie

Mystique1996:
I need a friend hit me up on WhatsApp 08116040909 male and female but I’m a lady !

Dwightventures:
Title sums it up. These cars are used 10, 20 years abroad by human beings and imported into this jungle and somebody damages them within months. Mine only lasted 3 weeks before being rammed by a taxi driver reversing at Ogunpa Ibadan. Within days another brute says he was running from trailer and came to smash my car while waiting at petrol station exit for same trailer to pass. I find it impossible to spend money to buy a Tokunbo in this country again.

How long did yours take before you went for body work?

I painted mine a month ago right here in Abuja. I have been brushed twice yesterday. The second one happened yesterday. The annoying thing was the fact that the person that brushed mine was also brushed. So he was tryna intercept the person that hit him,Naso he hit my own. Double wahala for dead body and the owner of dead body. Nigerians drive rough. The FRSC and VIO that should enforce road sanity are busy collecting bribes.

ahnie:

I do. Sometimes wonder the calibres of girls that beds this mobile walking infection carrier.
Dude needs to be quarantine,before bn placed in solitary.

isn't it women like you that gave them guys infection? Women are the leading cause of infections not men.

Divoc19:
Not true. Fertility issue is most times genetic or health related not age related

Age is a factor as well trust me. I have relatives that got married late, they all delayed before giving birth. Minimum was 4 years with serious prayers, medical procedures and concoctions. Some have only one till date.

Today was their AGM na today fire happen. Are you sure this is not a handwork of a disgruntled staff that didn't get a share in the profit?

NotAMan:


Bro, our condition wasn't too bad. Just that I lost my job.

Even at that, if you don't have a back up plan aside a job nowadays. avoid marriage. Ladies of nowadays are not patient like our mothers. A man has no option, he must provide. The world has gone materialistic.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

You want to use poverty to kill her. She will burn you eventually. Make una leg strong small before una go Marry, una no go hear word. Sorry ooo

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Raxxye:

I have contacted them severally on Twitter and on Facebook. All they do is apologize in the public platform and request that we co nommunicate via DM, but that is where it ends. They don't respond to anything afterwards.
The best they did was advise me to walk into any First Bank branch and lay the complaint, that it would be resolved. But nothing has been forthcoming with the several branches I have visited.

vex go see the branch manager of your branch one day. Attain premium vawulence on that day

Raxxye:
I opened accounts (Savings and Current) with First Bank sometime in 2011 in a branch outside my State of residence. I have mostly been using the savings account and not the current.
Fast-forward to 2021, I applied for a loan in Zenith Bank (where my salary account is domiciled), but I was told I could not get the loan bc Credit Bureau report run on my account indicates that I am owing First Bank about 800 Naira. I initially thought it was the negative balance that was showing in the current acc at the time, so I made deposit into the account to offset that negative balance, then requested for a letter of non-indebtedness. The letter was given to me, but when when I took it to Zenith Bank, and the credit bureau test was run again (according to them), it still showed I am still owing.
All effort I have made to resolve the issue has yielded no result. I have approached several First Bank branches and spoken with their marketing team; no solution.
The customer service officer at one of the branches said she had sent a mail to First Bank headquarters to check and resolve the issue, but up till now, the issue has got no attention from the headquarters. It's still pending. She sent that letter around the 12th of January this year!
At Zenith Bank, my account officer makes it look like I'm not doing enough to clear the debt. I have been going back-and-forth between First Bank and Zenith for over almost two years now on this same issue.
I really need the loan to execute a project. As a civil servant with very meagre pay, it's loans like these that help us in executing projects.
I have contacted First Bank through all available social media platforms, including twitter, Facebook, email, etc. They only apologize and tell me to contact them via a DM, and that's where it ends.
Bankers in the house, please advise me on what to do.
Mods, please help me move it to the front page to see if I can get the needed help from Nairalanders!

Call out first back on Twitter or Facebook. They are not serious

Rayban25:


Is it this packaged vegetables you think will be sworn in? I laugh

Oga he will be sworn in. This is Nigeria. I supported Atiku and he lost and we have moved on. So you should move on as well whichever party you belong to. A presidential election is too expensive to annul that is what I have realized. Even USA doesnt do that.

Rokiat:
Just $700? Is that what you are heartbroken over? That ain’t much naw for you to hold a grudge against your mother.

What she did was absolutely wrong but please let it go, my only issue here is the lack of boundaries the fact that she took the money without even asking for it when it was not meant for her

Forgive her and let it go but you need to set some firm boundaries with her.

all these your profile pictures...hmnnnnb

MaryMo:
We are looking to hire an experienced HR, i was thinking we could get a good one for as much as 250k

A HR is a management staff. How can you pay a management staff 250K especially with the stress that comes with being a HR and you asking for 8 yrs experience?
The minimum you should pay for such position is 400K as starting.

onumadu:


Okay, Kappish.
A lot of men will cry these days, honestly.

Premium tears.

Lamanii22:



It’s not about money lol… it’s about the connection… pardon me 😂😂😂

lol. Sha be careful. Nothing comes easy/free nowadays especially with pretty mamas like una.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Lamani can you imagine? You no gree go date with me all these while, buh you don see FG worker now, you don dey ask harmful or harmless nawa. Money