₦airaland Forum

This is crazy so is Nigerian government carzy,just watch how this british ppl will take this issue.nigeria government sucks they dont care how their citizens are treated in another country.they just take it easy.but i think in this case i like Robert Mogabe who will definately give them a run for their money.its just a lost too many.may their soull rest in peace.

Gaby no be lie u talk.but still na joblessness put this guy for this mess.if he had a job he wont be too much into sex.anyway its the will of God and i pray he gives u the means to take care of this dude coming into the world.all things works together for good.u should have used protection my guy or avoid am.cos God is against pre-marital sex and u know he says our body is the temple of the lord.make peace with God and he will give u the means to take adequate care of the baby.amen

yeah,but sometimes when u have the money and truely love a lady its hard to know idf truely she loves u or just for the money ,cos u will be blind to know if she loves u cos u know u love her and will be forced to make u think u love her.

man,the first step u have to take is try build up self confidence,tell yourself this(what will she do if i woo her?will she slap me?she cant beat me)so then u try to free yourself,at first u may like a fool,try to be bold,being bold starts from the mind.look straight into her eyes,u have to overcome this now cos this fear of talking to a lady always lead guys to the gay world and i know u would not want to be a gay.so just shake that phobia off and tell yourself what will she do when i tell her i like her and want her to be my GF.it starts like that and gradually u start to build up with more wooing words.then u become a guru.u really have to start now or else u make seek solace in being gay.

man?what will u do when someone else is loving ur lover how will u feel.dont use ur greedy emotions to spoil the nice things this two are building cos u aint gonna want same to happen to ya.so what u aint gonna take dont give it to someone else.aight

in this age mama no know say no blood conection with inlaws.na wah oh.if u both are in love dont let that stop u at all.no one is going to tell me who to marry or why i should not marry who.this is y2k6 why ppl still think they are in 400bc.

skin to skin is not safe in this age.pls don't increase aids population in Nigeria cos it has reduced.if u are good luck at least u are not too young to be a mother.u are just risking Ur life.u have a bright future and u just want the sex Ecstasy kill all the dreams u have.

girls wanna know too much and one pigin adage goes thus.na the curiosity of the rat land am into hot oil.when a girl want to know too much,she ends up making the guy hide things from her.

money and naija girl go hand in hand.if naija girl in naija say she loves u and u are wealthy watchout she is after the money.

man.i must say u love ur ex but she doesn't she is after the goodies cos she is missing that.u have to be strong.open ur eyes and erase this love for her off ur mind or u are screwd for life if u try to marry her.capice

saintsam u have to know one thing.to be inlove u have to be attracted and its either.cos u cant find love without first attraction,cos attraction stimulates love.

This is some how complicated cos u dont know who wants who.but i think ur friend likes ur boyfriend and ur boyfriend is so stupid that he also open his arms welcoming ur friend.am sorry though but its the truth.u just have to stand aside and watch them.dont give them room for any suspision.let them enjoy their act and then u pounce on them when u've got his balls in ya hands.


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i buy wat disney said big time u are immature.well i think its someting about our naija babes when they are in the US.they always want to behave like this americans always quick to react instead of taking time to think before the react and at the end they loose.

man i think u have to do more.stand ur ground as a man.try to sweet talk her make her always like ur company.

Ice i kinda buy ya idea but u know something has to die for something to live.life is a jungle survival of the fitest.u have to be strong man.keep ya game going if she she is meant to be she will come around.if u see are more often that her BF,then i think u are at the advantageous side,take advantage of that and try to spend time as much as u can.make her feel loved and care for.tell her those things that guy don't tell her.always comment positively on every little change u notice in her.,her new style of hair,her new dress,every little thing.notice every little positive change in her and tell it to her.that shows u truly care.cos u pay attention to verything that has to do with her.best of luck man.

dvampire i think u are a christain.God bless u man.cuddle it hurts knowing that u are loosing Ur dignity as a lady.u can still make amends we all fall to rise up,the test of a true overcomer is the ability to rise when u fall.just shake off that feeling and guilt.move on with Ur life.acquire a skill or something get busy.when u are idle u think of stupid things and the creativity in u dies.that orphanage thing is a nice idea.God can send a helper to u from there,u just have to be deligent in it.God will give u the grace to be what and who u wanna be.

One,i don't have a best friend and 2 my friends don't know my lover.so i think am a little safe from such.but if it happens, for the love i have for my lover I'll take her back and keep the pregnancy if she still wants to be with me.cos presently am in love with my wife to be,and i mean LOVE.love that knows no bound.

well well.i think am romantic.i write poems to my wife to be.and i tell her how pretty she is everyday.we call ourselves on phone just to say how much we miss eachother,but i must say here that she keeps me doing more of this cos she appreciates all what i do and how i do my stuffs.i think i am.some guys cloud their emotions with their ego.they just have to let in and make it work.ladies like and want to hear all this even if u are lying to them.but am not lying to my wife to be.its the truth on how i feel about her.

Hey HT man.to be candid u cant be in love with 2 ppl.Ur ex should be let alone.and forge ahead with this Ur new GF.cos i see that Ur ex is a greedy fella she cant just take u for a spare tire and when her BF goes wrong she comes back to u beggin.thats bullshit.marriage not about making he happy while u are not.its about both of u being happy.so man kill that love u have for Ur ex and increase that u have for Ur new found love.whoever will be patient with u even when u are wrong as a man is worth spending the rest of Ur life with.try to ignore what u feel for Ur ex.aight.hope u get me.

saintsam,u are young just 20.but at that age u should try to have a feeling.are u not attaracted by those ass,boobs?wat attracts u to a lady?am telling u bro something has to attract u if not u have to chect ya self.and be careful of this bamidele guy he sounds like a gay.dont let him lure u into being gay.dont try to contact that guy.all i will say to u man is try to see what attarcts u to a lady and if nothing,make something attarct u.or u may end up not knowing ur sex status.alles klar.

This guy is a kid.its only his type that will call him and all that bullshit.youngman u have to be matured to attract matured minds.maybe he thinks his phones and where he lives will attract those naija girls.some will still fall for this youngman.lol

i agree with u whitelexi this is really a bold post.well teju this is so sad,but u should have followed Ur heart when u felt u feel something for him instead of following what nairaland says.as whitelexi said its for diffrent scenarios.all am going to say to u is wait around for him to come around.be his friend but don't do stupid things like holding the camera and all that shit.just be nice to him and if u really want him,take advantage of the situation when he is having a fight with his GF.am sorry guys if its wrong but sometimes we just have to be wrong to get whats right.

boladonas thats really nice of u if u can help her get another job and let her leave that old fool whom the rot of God will soon descend on.

Naija bosses are sometimes full of shit most especially when u are a single lady and attractive.here is the plan jougar.try to know his wife draw close to the wife and am telling u he will flee from u.and if he still persist lure him to spit out all those nasty words like (i love u i want u to be my misstress and all that)there should be a camera somewhere or a tape recorder.make sure u are able to gain the trust and affection from his wife.then u8 tell him the name of the game.tell him how u wanna play that u;re holding his balls and u are ready to squeeze it if he treatens to lay u off.but if he remains adamant.turn in the tape to his wife and look for someother job.cos i know u must have put in so much into that job and u cant just let go like that.also i always tell ppl,seek the face of the one that gives wisdom that is God through our lord Jesus.

benheart.i must say that sometimes the right ones always end up with the wrong ones.i must say here that its so funny how some guys can be assholes.after reading Ur post and how u are the one bearing the responsibility of this guy and he still ends up beating u up,cheating on u and all stuffs like that.that guy is good for nothing.i must tell u that u dump that guy as its hot,but do it in a way he pays for all the hurt and trauma he has put u through.when he comes pleading accept him but then u stipulate the rules.make him want u.deny him of every thing,sex,money and food.u have to know within u that u're done with the looser but he wont know and at the same time seek solace a male friend and u'll see how furious he will be and if that guy touches u again.let Ur peeps know,Ur male friends if u haven't got any report him to the police.that guy is a gunner.hope i was able to say something.also lastly turn to God and seek his face cos he gives us wisdom to tackle situations.

Najia so blessed.i must say here that an average Nigerian girl goes for the container not the content,its pretty difficult when a naija babe tell u she loves u oh,u have to be careful if its not those crispy notes in Ur pocket she is in love with.i guess maybe she was becoming a pest to this guy,cos most babes u meet on line the first thing they ask from u is recharge card.cant one love just for love.am sorry girl if u happen not to fall in this category but that guy was wrong if u had better intentions if not u just mend Ur heart.capice.alles klar.

50-50 i wonder why ladies ain't talking why is it only makina or whatever her id is.the issue is that ladies are ladies sometimes they tend to want to be strong competitors but end up backing out when a difficult task arise.also,some are just so understanding,i heard a story about this well to do man,his wife also woks and if normally 10k is what they use to feed in a week and if he does not have much he he affords what he has and this loving wife who is also working completes the pay.but the funny thing is that he never say pls complete the pay,all he says is this is all I've got.the point am trying to bring out here is that some women are very understands and know that not in all things they share same right as men.

gengist.i understand Ur plight,and am telling u i have being is such dilemma before but one thing u have to do is access her,see if she got the qualities u looking out for a lady cos if nothing happens between u both am telling u when she leaves u and stop pushing as she is doing right now it may end up being HAD I KNOWN since u are a Christan take her like a sister no attachment just let her see u as a brother too even when she keeps showing all those signs behave as if u ain't seen nothing when this continues she will be fed up and maybe by then u might have gotten a soft spot for her.

This is another example again of a naija babe.i believe when she was in school that innocent guy took good care of her and she left this guy for greener pastUres.i cant comment on this.its ur wahala.you are not giving us the full picture.why is he is after u?what promises u made?u are just a pathetic lady.who know what u will do that that husband of Ur when another more wealthy guy says I LOVE U.dump Ur husband i guess.

Am sorry am not trying to be Bayes here but only true Nigerians will understand this girls plight.she is the greedy type that wants money i don't know if anyone too note of the word(he lodge in an hotel)anyone with a little psychology lesson will understand that her meeting this guy in an hotel stirred up the desire to want this guy cos the money is there.and her boyfriend does not have the means.i only pity that guy who will be telling the whole world how beautiful,caring and loving his girl firend is.can u imagine u where even deflowered by this guy u just met becos the money is there.damn u girl.that a typical example of naija babes.they do anything for cash even compromising their so called LOVE.

Girl,are u a kid.what the hell are u saying that he loves u.do u know what LOVE is.it does not compromise not even with Ur parents.that guy does not love u.u have to open Ur eyes.we Nigerians i don't think u know what love is we think love is like?girl u are mistaken that guy is good for nothing he is saving his own ass at Ur own risk and u are saying u love him.if he loves u truly the u come first.that guy does not love u.i know some guys will not like this but am real.i don't take side just becos am a guy.i say things the way they are and like to be truthful as often as i can.don't wait for that guy.move on with Ur life.God will give u Ur own Isaac.OK.he will dry Ur tears.