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Petyprincess:
I have been watching them for more than a year now, naka is slim now,she is trying to loose weight badly nd she is doing a great job! Most white guys prefer slim or petite girls so i understand her.

Dominic is also a keeper,i love hw he respects her,damn!! White men are real deal!

With the thread i saw today hw black men are supporting an abusive husband who nearly killed his wife because of sex,i knew it is over!

BlueRayDick:
Vegetable-Corned beef macaroni + Turkey

DimplesLikeWow:
Mango Salad, salmon, seaweed

SweetBuns:
I hope I marry a white man too

The men in Nigeria nowadays are something else

armyofone:
Thank you!! They don't want to break the abuse cycle!! On and on it goes! Who beat up his wife for sex?

Magnoliaa:
Do you have money?

Are you submissive and ready to bear my name?

Lastly, do you believe I have the right to sample other men with impunity while I keep you loyal at my home?

Vely important kweshions*. When you answer these, we'll know if to move on to the next phase of testing- your husband-materialness, 5-year plan, and a week-long serving at my parents' house.

Ishilove:
You are right I though. I used to be gentle but Nairaland turned me to something else. We all can't be like Poco who was born jaguda

frozen70:
The essence of a woman working is to have self respect and confidence

Incase of tomorrow she will not be stranded

Only married people will understand

frozen70:
Well you must have misunderstood me, what I mean is after birth let her have a share of family responsibilities
Most women who don't contribute to family responsibilities don't understand what it means to reduce the number of kids to cater for
Am sure that's why the hubby is reacting

Thuna:
wait till eternity, since 2016

pocohantas:
I dey ignore now sef. They still give me mentions steady. I learned a lot from wicked Buhari during this protest o, ignoring fit make people craze . Any troll quoting me now is on his own, it won’t stop me from posting nonsense the next minute.

Plead:
Trolls came for chasers and he deactivated.
Trolls came for apkosy and he decided to run away.

Truth is some people are giving too much power to trolls, with their constant deactivation and running off the trolls will feel the need to come back here to feed on another prey. I've always said it that if you don't have a thick skin you can't survive on social media, you really need it.

Poco,airforce, sarrki, omen.ka and mannabbqgrill.s are the most trolled individuals on nairaland but they never deactivated because deactivating doesn't mean you prefer your peace of mind it means you're succumbing to what those trolls want.

If it is peace of mind or good mental health you want, you can achieve that by ignoring trolls. It's that simple.

Ishilove:
Akposy no get military mind. It is the same way he briefly disappeared when trolls made fun of his ewa agoyin photos, and now he wants to leave for reasons I can't fathom. I am pretty sure he was banned by the anti-spam bot because he doesn't post much in other sections and except the Food section.

You can't be on Nairaland without having a thick skin. Ignore the trolls and naysayers and keep doing what you enjoy doing is what I will say to him.

I hope he returns after a while.

Akposy:
Most beings on nairaland are always lurking around the corner, impatiently waiting for people to make mistakes or share a perception different from theirs so they can tear the person apart.
Their unforgiving and sentimental analysis is legendary. I'm still oblivious of how you hide behind your keyboards to cancel people you can't confront in reality. The cancel culture on NL is just something else.

Most of these defaulters never or rarely make positive contributions (post food pics, give out recipe or share food inspiration) here. Their likes are always pained that people are posting, cooking and eating good food. I didn't come this far on this thread by cancelling people or hating on their amazing food pics. On the contrary, they pushed and inspired me to improve my "foodieness", get a culinary degree and improve on my food photography skills.

To all that have actually contributed positively to this thread, I sincerely appreciate you guys. It ain't easy cooking, taking food pics and posting online.

I was banned from posting here, reason I haven't posted for a while.
Permit me to take my official leave and unfollow this thread, lemme enjoy my incognito mode. Naysayers and sentimental analyst, I'm withdrawing my pot from your kitchen. You guys can go about drooling your pains on the next big thing.

Meanwhile, you can DM me for your vegetable farming/gardening consultation. I help novice and beginners grow vegetables at home and for commercial purposes.

The electric oven is still available for pickup. The other lady said I should keep it for her but it has been over 6 months and I haven't heard from her.

Enjoy my yummy Scones. Inspired by Maria.hangel

pozehnani:
Lol.. Hathor5 please I can't laugh. It's a serious matter down here.

Which Minister of Education? Inspect what? Is our Educational system working?

pozehnani:
You'll be surprised it's the parents who dictate what the schools should do these days and it so disturbing as these school owners who are scared of losing pupils keep bending the rules due to threats from these same parents to withdraw their wards from the school. So, it's a case of "he who plays the Piper dictates the tune."

Mindlog:
Well written. Am furthering studies in clinical child psychology and hope to get certifications in play therapy along the way because play is the natural language of children.

pozehnani:
Well in Nigeria that is what most schools use and they start from1yr+ in kindergarten to learn recitation of alphabet and numbers. Then identification of objects through pictures and what they can see around like I said earlier on.


It's like a competition among schools now taking the babies to Cambridge level but then most times it the parents who push these schools to do these things.

It is well.

pozehnani:
Wow wow wow!
I just read through the comments now and all I can say is, wow!

Why is everyone reasoning like this?
An average child at two should be able to count 1-10, recite A- S and be able to identify 1-5 according to scheme. Then by age 3, a child should be able to count 1-20, recite A-z and identify 1-10. So the op has every right to be worried if the school is using British curriculum which does all this at that stage except if it's an American or Montessori curriculum.


Op, just go and find out like I said in my initial comment. If it not any of the cases, then tell the teacher to up her game or teaching skills.

A 3 year old??. At 3, some of my pupils were writing 1-100 unaided. They coukd identify all the letter names and sounds and write them. The standard has changed and they are coping fine. They need that extra push. Biko. But don't overdo the beating.

Petyprincess:
My food preparation ☺
Done with frying my plantains.

cococandy:
Well historically women are usually more trained to uphold a marriage. To build their homes. To persevere and endure. Because it’s supposed to be their prize. Their reward for being “good”.


There’s no doubt things won’t improve if we keep doing things the same way and expect a different result.

WORDWORLD:
Thank you o. Guys are beginning to learn from their past mistakes. .

Klass99:
@ The bold, I don't know many marriages like what you've described here. I only know of two that fit this description.

I am surrounded by more married folks who have tension in their homes because of one thing or the other and who feel trapped in their marriages.

Even men are not left out of the complaining these days. It's in their nature to bottle things up, but, the two who have opened up are not finding it funny, either.

One person even told me to pls look well before I leap, according to her this thing (marriage) is for a lifetime, till death do you part.

So, if you go and marry a useless man that doesn't want to die or is refusing to die on time, you're in for a very long something. I just bust laugh that day.

WORDWORLD:
On a final note, guys should learn from this reality. There is POWER in playing the ignore mode in a relationship with women, but you gat to be calculative. It makes them fall deeper. The Truth has been told. STOP THE ASSLICKING.