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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:28pm On Aug 07, 2020
Same fish, different salad. It was even better than yesterday.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:24pm On Aug 07, 2020
Prestonn:
Village kitchen


Is weekend already...


Camp life... Outdoor survival ❤
Give me the Heineken. cheesy
I love cold beer in hot weather. Once the summer is gone, I no longer like beer.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:52am On Aug 07, 2020
Akposy:
This is nice!

Hathor.... Your fish is calling my name

Where is Nnemuka
Dyt is summer still on
The fish was really nice. grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:49am On Aug 07, 2020
Iceyjayz:
Is this Arab foodhuh
No, it's just fish with salad and some bread with butter and herbs.
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by Hathor5(f): 10:12pm On Aug 06, 2020
Iogobenz:
No I don't think he is insecure because I know him for long now.
He knows if it is by going by what the girl is used to,he won't be able to cope.
First the girl uses a brand new car bought by her parents,big house and all those rich kid things.My guy will really struggle to keep up with that.
But he thinks if the girl is doing good from her job(drugstore pharmacist),maybe she might not bother him much with unrealistic demands that need to be met.
They are both young,my guy is 28 and she 25.
So if he starts rooting large bills from an unrealistic woman now it might mar his dreams a lot.
So he wants to know what she earns possible so he can judge If she is self sufficient first or not.Shey you understand?
Ok.
Romance › Re: We Ain't Dating Yet - Should I Get Her A Phone? by Hathor5(f): 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2020
First I was like 'hell no' but since it's also for you because you miss talking to her, I will say, if you can afford it easily, why not?
Just don't think she owes you anything later.
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by Hathor5(f): 10:00pm On Aug 06, 2020
Iogobenz:
Well it might be rude of him to ask her some of these things directly and she can read an undertone to it or worse,pretend.
So he asked me as his guy and I couldn't answer him directly then I decided to ask here.
I understand it but in a good relationship you should be able to open up to your partner and address such issues. Only she knows how her family thinks, no stranger on NL will.

What I think is that your friend feels insecure around her. That's his main problem because he doesn't need NL to figure out what standard of living his girlfriend is used to.

It's possible Nairalanders will increase his insecurity. undecided
Family › Re: How Okay Is Financially Okay For The Nigeria Corporate Woman? by Hathor5(f): 9:46pm On Aug 06, 2020
Shouldn't the two of them discuss such things together?
Business › Re: Share Your Annoying Market Experience by Hathor5(f): 9:41pm On Aug 06, 2020
pocohantas:
Mehn! With the uprise of independent hair vendors, I don’t have any o. I just have a favourite colour and that is colour 2. I use it for braiding too.



E no funny o. How you go dey give old woman like me “show back”? grin
I wish I could see the look on your face when they give you something you didn't ask for, I would roll on the floor laughing. grin
Family › Re: They Just Married by Hathor5(f): 9:30pm On Aug 06, 2020
Female Ned and her husband. grin
Family › Re: Nigerians And Poverty: Certain Acts That Perpetuate Poverty In Nigeria by Hathor5(f): 9:29pm On Aug 06, 2020
This should be on front page.
Family › Re: Woman Beats Husband For Failing To Provide Food For The Children (video) by Hathor5(f): 9:20pm On Aug 06, 2020
The children in the background. cry cry cry

Terrible way to grow up.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:47pm On Aug 06, 2020
Business › Re: Share Your Annoying Market Experience by Hathor5(f): 8:41pm On Aug 06, 2020
Exmilitant:
Oil Mill market, two women were fighting, seriously throwing punch at each other, the surprising thing was that their neighbours were unconcerned. Thinking i was doing the right thing, i went closer and said, madam e don do, make una stop that fight. One of them turn to me and said, 'who invite you? You no go pass dey go where you dey go? Chief judge!
grin grin grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:35pm On Aug 06, 2020
HantaVirus:
Yes dear... True... Wow... Could you email me that lovely dish? grin
Sent ... cheesy

The day we will be able to do it, will be fun. cool
Anything is possible in this world.
Business › Re: Share Your Annoying Market Experience by Hathor5(f): 8:33pm On Aug 06, 2020
pocohantas:
Am I the only one that gets ANGRY when I ask for one thing and you give me another?

I am a brand loyalist. If I tell you Kenwood and you show me Sieko, I get very angryyyy!

I don’t wear coloured jeans. Only navy blue and black. I always state it clearly, then someone will na give me yellow and red jean?

Why!?
grin grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:31pm On Aug 06, 2020
HantaVirus:
Beautiful presentation,healthy choice cool
Thank you very much. smiley cheesy

The plan was to fix something healthy and light.
And the ladies on this thread made me work on my photography. This was the hardest part. grin
It's good to surround oneself with great people of which there are many on this beautiful thread. kiss
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:29pm On Aug 06, 2020
Elder0001:
Fantastic.
Thanks. smiley smiley
Family › Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Hathor5(f): 8:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
[quote author=YoungandDepress post=92495202][/quote]You were very young when you got hooked on gambling. Addicts are sick and some of them never recover. So instead of whining and comparing yourself to others and where you could be right now, be very grateful, like extremely grateful, that you have recovered. How old young are you again? 23? Don't make me slap you. You have your entire life ahead of you and you have many possibilities to turn it around. Not everybody has a supportive mother who believes in them even after they have messed up. Another reason to count your lucky stars.

YOU ARE VERY YOUNG!

Don't look back. Look forward. And make the best of it.

In some years you will look back and smile.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:20pm On Aug 06, 2020
HantaVirus:
Can I join you? smiley
Of course. smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 8:05pm On Aug 06, 2020
Fish for dinner.

Family › Re: Can You Cancel Your Family Members? by Hathor5(f): 7:16pm On Aug 06, 2020
Theladysroom:
Cancel culture is something of controversy on social media. There are people who say it is bad and others who firmly stand by the power behind cancelling people or organisations. For context, cancel culture simply means to not engage with a person/organisation because of their thoughts on certain topics or their actions. For example, after many watched the “surviving R.Kelly” documentary, the singer was cancelled. Personally, I blocked him on my Spotify. It can be a matter of personal ethics and not standing for anything that goes against what you believe in. Of course, there are people who just do it because everyone on Twitter is doing it. I’m not really speaking of this second set of people.
The experience also made me see how because it was a friend’s brother, we were quick to be more merciful about cancelling him, we wanted to talk and educate him. So, why don’t we do this for the strangers we cancel daily on social media? Why don’t we give people a chance to change? Should we also be merciful to the toxic people we encounter on social media? Give time for conversations/education before cancelling them? And how effective is cancel culture anyway?

Tell us what you think. [url] https://theladysroom.ng/can-you-cancel-your-family-members/[/url]
This is a very interesting topic. I still have not made up my mind about it. I still listen to R. Kelly and Michael Jackson's songs and in the back of my mind I am asking myself, is this right? I strongly believe in second chances but pedophilia is not a mistake, it is a disorder and a crime and in Kelly and Jackson's case a lifestyle. So should we support them by paying for their music? Well, Michael is dead so it makes no difference really, does it? What about Robert Kelly? Do we enable him by listening to his music, by paying for each and every track or album?

As for second chances, how can you give someone a second chance who is not remorseful? And even if Kelly was remorseful? Can he change? Is it for us to condemn and forgive or for the courts? Is it a purely legal question or a moral one as well? You asked a very good question in the end of your original post, is 'cancelling' effective at all?

The answer is yes, it is. It is very effective.

Why do you think companies distance themselves from controversial figures they formerly paid to advertise their products? Because if a big group of people boycotts their products for not distancing themselves on moral grounds, their turnover shrinks, the stakeholders become nervous .... You get the point!

I also remember Nike having a campaign with Collin Kaepernick when his kneeling during the national anthem before a game ignited heated debates all over the US. I read Nike's sales figures skyrocketed.

The decisions we make, make a difference at the end.

Now Michael Jackson and R. Kelly are extreme examples because their alleged crimes (Jackson was pronounced innocent in court) involve children but what about lesser crimes? We would forgive our loved ones, let extend this generosity to strangers as well. Shall we? Instead we could support these public figures and brands who do right and leave criminals to face the law. Maybe ...
Family › Re: Is It Proper To Give Birth Just To Reap From Our Children In Future? by Hathor5(f): 11:31am On Aug 06, 2020
It must be balanced.

I believe that children should care for their elderly parents but some African parents take it too far sometimes.

Always remember that your children have to live their lives too and try not to overburden them unnecessarily.
Family › Re: My Marriage Makes Me Put More Effort Into Work- CMAC Reveals by Hathor5(f):
He is in no way obliged to explain himself in this regard.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 11:20am On Aug 06, 2020
nuelzy:
My love for spag is toxic grin
Looks yummy. smiley

There is something about Italian cuisine ...
Family › Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Hathor5(f): 11:06pm On Aug 05, 2020
OP and his fiancé are a perfect match. Don't cancel the wedding. You are made for each other. Just don't bring children into your environment.
Family › Re: If I Could Survive Domestic Violence And Remain This Happy, You Too Can? by Hathor5(f): 10:57pm On Aug 05, 2020
Strong woman.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:51pm On Aug 05, 2020
Ayt27:
Yup I have....."The studio was filled with the rich odour of roses, and when the light summer wind stirred amidst the trees of the garden"

Cool, will drop a rating.

It was a lazy day, which means tomorrow would be a busy day.
smiley smiley smiley

World class literature. Mr Wild has his way with words. Enjoy the book and have a good night. smiley
Car Talk › Re: Advert Of Girl Eating Banana: Audi Apologises by Hathor5(f): 10:49pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nonsense.

I still love Audi any day any time.
Family › Re: I Am Proud Of How I Was Raised, That's How I Will Raise My Children by Hathor5(f): 10:46pm On Aug 05, 2020
mcdokwe:
The real problem is not being able to distinguish between discipline and abuse.

When you punish a child either by enforcement or denial for a wrong done, it is discipline.

When you punish a child either because you don't love them or in a disproportionate manner to their perceived wrongdoing, then it might be termed abuse.

It is okay if you decide not to discipline your child, but be sure to establish boundaries that some of their attitudes are tolerable only in your homes, they should understand that they shouldn't try same outside the confines of the 'safe havens' you built for them as parents.
It can be done in the absence of corporal punishment.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:44pm On Aug 05, 2020
Petyprincess:
Breakfast grin
Beautiful!

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