Jiang:



All things being equal 5k should be enough, this is for her to buy personal women things & if she is not working. But if she works just surprise her with gifts from time but no monthly allowance


But if you intend to travel alot, atleast 50k should be enough especially if you got atleast 4 kids, that's excluding school fees but includes all Imonthly house hold spendings. This applies wether she works or not as long as you are absent

how can you give a grown woman 5k every month for upkeep Am guessing you live in the village where things are soo cheap or you are very stingy.

GlorifiedTunde:
Girls should stop hooking up with strangers....

funny enough only Cynthia was murdered by strangers, most times those closer to us are more dangerous, we should be careful of who we let into our lives really.

If he is a good guy and hardworking yes I would

the truth is that he is seeing someone else or several people, he is just stringing you along that's why he is not consistent with you. No need putting pressure on him, lean back and see his reaction, don't call him, no text nothing, but if he keeps calling be receptive and be jovial. Go out with other men and get to know them. take up a hobby and keep yourself busy and happy. show him you can do just fine on your own, if he doesnt change please just forget him. Stop initiating meeting up with him, your a woman he should be the one dying to see you, allow men take the lead while sit back and enjoy the process.

Please work on your self esteem

I think your having superficial relationships. Build emotional connection first before getting sexual. Get to know the girl better, go on dates, find common interest and values, have fun for a couple of months before starting a relationship. I think it would help.

somadinho10:
matured ladies don't have time for long talk
They go for what they want
Met one fresh girl at shoprite on Friday
She called me yesterday and ask if I have light that she want to watch bbn finale
Picked her up, went home watched till around 9, she said it's too late to go to cut the whole story short we did it that night

and with the way things transpired would you seriously date her and consider her wife material?

urvillagepeoplee:
good job op,I didn't know there are other men thinking like me in this world,why will I go and adopt a full grown ass woman and feed her till I go to my grave while she does nothing. I am not one of those guys who get freaked by pussy,I don't have a girl friend and I don't need one,why will I spend my hard earned money on a slack pussy that will be given to my neighbors and friends tomorrow when am broke, I have decided to have just kids and take care of them,never will I put any of these walking dead girls whom yahoo boys have used their destinies for rituals inside my house as a wife. wife materials stop existing in the eras of our mothers,what we have now are empty vessels,bleeping their lives away for money that can't even buy pencil light Camry and later surrender an over use pusy to one niggar that has suffered to make it and still depend solely on the guy. is it these ones that smokes weed and shisha,drink all types of hard drugs and codeine,club their lives away every Friday and wake up in different hotel rooms and houses on Saturdays ,and when leaving the guy gives them 3k to 5k that won't get them any useful thing and before Friday again,the circle continues. I have lived in warri,Benin and abuja mostly among other places I have visited and the girls I see there doesn't give me the impression of ever getting married. I wonder how they manage to live happily after all the dirty lives they lived in the past,no wonder some give birth to kids that doesn't resemble anybody from each family. its my life and my decision and I stated my experience/opinion,I didnt quote or mention anybody,so nobody should quote me.
I like quarrel pass fight,check my history.

so in all these places you have lived you haven’t seen any decent girls?? How come you know soo many of those type of girls? It speaks volumes of the type of person you are.

The only thing that annoys me about this virginity talk is that it seems God would only judge women for pre marital sex on judgment day and men would be given a free pass.

Another annoying thing is many virgins engage in MouthAction which is the same sin as penetrative sex all because they want their husbands to meet them as virgins. Is virginity for man or for God?

OneSentence:

and don't some women keep themselves till marriage? are they not also women?

and men who are disciplined and God fearing some even virgins aren’t they men?

He is too old for you, don’t think about now think about the future. When you are a 31 year old young lady he is already 50 years old and his sex drive would have already gone down compared to yours coupled with the fact that He would look like your father when he starts aging soo much in comparison to you, he probably wants a young girl to boss around.

My dear so much disadvantages to you and advantages for him, your better off growing with a younger guy who still has energy to run after your kids.

forreelinc:
The gal no even fine sef

at least better than your beautiful broke girlfriend begging you for 500 naira recharge card.

This is what shallow and artificial men care about in a woman, a matured man who wants a wife doesn’t concentrate on these things. Yes take good care of yourself, but nothing beats having a warm and welcoming personality.

Belafonte:


Says the woman who wants to force men into marrying old hags. You could not even beg us to consider you people. You just came demanding like God gave you the mandate to demand that we pick less quality women. Waka dia.

I don’t get, what have women in their thirties done to you? Why so much anger and hate I’ve read what the Op wrote and I don’t see why your getting angry oo.

tosyne2much:
There's nothing like dating a lady that has a lot to contribute to your life

I will say mine is just a blessing in disguise

please I really want to know, how can a lady contribute to a mans life? What exactly do men mean by that?

The truth is a girl that likes you a lot would love to communicate with you frequently and she would never feel disturbed.

The main problem is guys don't like girls that really genuinely like them, and the girls who they like are interested in someone else who probably doesn't like them too. Crazy world we live in. When you meet someone and the feeling is mutual you don't need all this stress.

obajoey:
my sister in the Lord, does it mean the positions advertised by ECOWAS some weeks ago has been filled?
chai, ori mi oo, wey i don dey calculate the salary.

no am not saying it's been filled, don't lose hope but don't think they don't use connections , I know someone who works there and told me his uncle got him the job he didn't even have the required work experience. So to think DPR is purely on merit is a joke.

Ogoscco:
As far as this regime of govt is concerned, every recruitment must be transparent. Nothing like back door,if the person eventually caught ,hmmmm.Common NPOWER job,it very difficult to replaced the disqualified graduates.Not when Prof Osibanjo is still the acting president, if the MDA is caught .hmmmmmmmmm.They held meeting against it.

eyaaah who deceived you? people are using connections to enter ECOWAS not to talk of a government agency like DPR, all the people I know that got good jobs in good govt offices have strong connections and yes it happened in this so called regime. Just pray to be among those who would get it by merit and stop deceiving yourself.

josielewa:
i went there last week and i was told same....but i had lower credit and i knowingly applied....God can help...they said the list is available and will be posted soon....if am shortlisted,then i know i will scale through....got some past question of last two examsdone....i can send it to ur email guys for free...

pls send to gwomnoro@yahoo.com

Bertadayz:


Opere mini ...Firefox ...UC Browser ...I've tried all. Funny thing is I remember my password cos I wrote it down somewhere but it wouldn't budge. Feedback is "These credentials do not match our records" and that's scary !

try resetting it now it just worked for me and I was approved. Thank God I didn't give up.

ollah1:


You should have countered his statement with superior arguments rather than these gibberish. So Christianity isn't a bloody, lustful and full of hatred religion? You must be high on oshogbo weed

no need to argue about the obvious, have better things to do. Jesus loves you

transient123:


Lol, I laugh at your good judgment....lol. For you to know my blood boils when all I did in the comfort of my room was to smile and educate people like you from ignominy and reset the already programmed brains by con men, and all you could say is throw the much expected programmed semantics "religion of blood".

Even though no one used his "blood" for my sins because ours is not by blood like the Ogun worshippers, we do not hate, but pity polytheists (worshippers of 2,3(trinity) gods) and for lust, reason why you must be beaten(100 lashes) if you fornicate.
I know others don't see anything wrong in it, someone's blood washes all that away.

Well, no need to judge you because I don't see the mind of people, I know you do, reason why " you judged".....lol. Hope it is not going to be hypocrisy when next you cry or chants "thou shall not judge" again.

blah, blah, blah..... make sure you wash off Satan from your nose before going to bed good night.

iamrealdeji:
I never knew Nigerians were this stupid. Halle Berry,Juliet Ibrahim,Elizabeth Taylor and many more beautiful ladies are from humble background and none of these Indimi girls is half as beautiful as those I listed above. Otedola has a dark unattractive girl,Saraki's daughter that's about to wed is drop dead ugly. Nigerians talk as if suffering has eaten deep into their brains that they worship money and yet go to church and mosque.

what exactly is your point?

transient123:


I won't call you names because we are cultured people. But, straight to educate you a little, the Quran if you don't know is not a rhyme book or a book laden with confusion like others.
It is a book wherein nothing is left unmentioned, from education, trade, health, science, geography, warfare and what have you.

So, you read the Quran, you are an all round personality.

Reasons why the first university in the world is not Harvard or Oxford but Al-azhar, reason why the basics of mathematics is algebra, hope you know it's a Muslim name. A Latin variant of the Arabic word al-jabr . This came from the title of a book, Hidab al-jabr wal-muqubala , written in Baghdad about 825AD.

Am so sure you must be pained by something, which only you know of. I know you have Muslim neighbours, colleagues in your workplace or office, even if you don't have them as friends because of hatred, am really sure they are no almajiri, book haram like you have ignorantly generalised.

Remove hatred and you will see beyond your nose brother. I come with salam or shalom, which you may prefer.

see how your blood is boiling am sure if he was close to you you would have beheaded him. So sad a religion of blood, lust and hatred.

deepwater:
My father told me that people that keep dogs have the potentials of becoming aggressive and destructive without knowing that such cruelty is in them.

Just one day it would show up and the havoc would be done.

Rip young star

not true, in fact people that keep and care for animals are most likely to be more caring and compassionate than those who hate animals.

Rip to the cute little boy

tosyne2much:
I'm highly impressed by this piece of thoroughly researched write-up

The truth of the matter is that men will always go for reserved and conservative women when it comes to marriage. That's why you can be as pretty and classy as Beyonce, yet your boyfriend may dump your ass and marry a "village" girl as you said

Ladies should learn to work on their attitudes rather than their looks. Most men date for "beauty" when it comes to relationship, but when it comes to marriage, they marry for "attitudes".

When you have good morals and attitudes yet men keep dumping your ass, please examine your life and you would see that something is wrong somewhere.

Lalasticlala, please what's your take on this?

are you sure about that because a few years ago a guy broke up with me and in his exact words he said "you are too reserved for me"

MrMystrO:


You are a Special Woman, And someone who will definitely be a priceless asset and a constant source of motivation to any man you choose to build your Life with. May God bless you with a Man who will Appreciate and treasure these values You Possess. Have a Great evening ma'am.

Amen! And thank you.

This post is soo senseless, vain, shallow and childish. Op you Think you sound intelligent but you sound fake and dumb with soo much pride.

There is so much more to a man or anyone than money, what is even so special about rich people? They are just normal human beings like every one else who are just fortunate to make it in life. Every single human being is valuable, but it seems financial status is the most important thing for you because you have nothing else to offer.

What have you done for mankind with your intelligence and status, let me guess NOTHING! Just to buy Brazilian hair and be feeling like one goddess and posting stupid pictures up and down on social media.

I honestly admire humble people and those hustling to make it in life, God bless your hard work and determination and don't let this dumb post bring you down.