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Family / Re: The Challenges Of Finding A Wife In Nigeria by havilla(f): 8:29am On Oct 01, 2018
eanestca:


Not yet
for a guy it shouldn’t be that hard. I suspect your being too picky or you have unrealistic expectations, always have in mind that no one is perfect.

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Family / Re: Orphanage Or My Senior Sister by havilla(f): 9:44am On Sep 28, 2018
You made a vow to God so it’s best you keep it
Romance / Re: Why Are Some Nigerian Girls Naturally Rude by havilla(f): 9:04pm On Sep 17, 2018
Both of you are meant for each other because you are both rude. I actually prefer hers it’s more direct, you mask yours with a holier than thou attitude.

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Politics / Re: Precious Chikwendu & Her Triplets Ragnar, Aiden & Liam In Matching Outfits by havilla(f): 10:36am On Aug 26, 2018
Cute babies but the darkest one is the cutest to me kiss
Health / Re: Rats, Mosquitoes Or Bed Bugs: Which Is The Most Annoying To Have In The Room? by havilla(f): 2:04pm On Aug 24, 2018
mudiana:
o boy! Shey u serious like this so. If this na true, e don finish as Jesus talk for cross.
best believe bed bugs are way more common Abroad than in Nigeria
Family / Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by havilla(f): 11:35pm On Aug 23, 2018
Jiang:



All things being equal 5k should be enough, this is for her to buy personal women things & if she is not working. But if she works just surprise her with gifts from time but no monthly allowance


But if you intend to travel alot, atleast 50k should be enough especially if you got atleast 4 kids, that's excluding school fees but includes all Imonthly house hold spendings. This applies wether she works or not as long as you are absent
how can you give a grown woman 5k every month for upkeep Am guessing you live in the village where things are soo cheap or you are very stingy.

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Phones / Re: Top 10 Gruesome Murders Committed Because Of Facebook (photos) by havilla(f): 7:28am On Aug 14, 2018
GlorifiedTunde:
Girls should stop hooking up with strangers.... undecided
funny enough only Cynthia was murdered by strangers, most times those closer to us are more dangerous, we should be careful of who we let into our lives really.

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Romance / Re: Can You Be With A Man Who Is Earning Less Money Than You? by havilla(f): 9:02pm On Jul 28, 2018
If he is a good guy and hardworking yes I would

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Family / Re: Should I Continue To Wait Or Date Another? by havilla(f): 1:59pm On May 03, 2018
the truth is that he is seeing someone else or several people, he is just stringing you along that's why he is not consistent with you. No need putting pressure on him, lean back and see his reaction, don't call him, no text nothing, but if he keeps calling be receptive and be jovial. Go out with other men and get to know them. take up a hobby and keep yourself busy and happy. show him you can do just fine on your own, if he doesnt change please just forget him. Stop initiating meeting up with him, your a woman he should be the one dying to see you, allow men take the lead while sit back and enjoy the process.

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Family / Re: None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help by havilla(f): 10:12pm On May 02, 2018
Please work on your self esteem

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Romance / Re: I Lose Interest Easily by havilla(f): 4:51pm On Apr 29, 2018
I think your having superficial relationships. Build emotional connection first before getting sexual. Get to know the girl better, go on dates, find common interest and values, have fun for a couple of months before starting a relationship. I think it would help.

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Romance / Re: Do Ladies Still Love To Be Chased by havilla(f): 11:41am On Apr 23, 2018
somadinho10:
matured ladies don't have time for long talk
They go for what they want
Met one fresh girl at shoprite on Friday
She called me yesterday and ask if I have light that she want to watch bbn finale
Picked her up, went home watched till around 9, she said it's too late to go to cut the whole story short we did it that night
and with the way things transpired would you seriously date her and consider her wife material?

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Romance / Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by havilla(f): 3:57pm On Apr 22, 2018
urvillagepeoplee:
good job op,I didn't know there are other men thinking like me in this world,why will I go and adopt a full grown ass woman and feed her till I go to my grave while she does nothing. I am not one of those guys who get freaked by pussy,I don't have a girl friend and I don't need one,why will I spend my hard earned money on a slack pussy that will be given to my neighbors and friends tomorrow when am broke, I have decided to have just kids and take care of them,never will I put any of these walking dead girls whom yahoo boys have used their destinies for rituals inside my house as a wife. wife materials stop existing in the eras of our mothers,what we have now are empty vessels,bleeping their lives away for money that can't even buy pencil light Camry and later surrender an over use pusy to one niggar that has suffered to make it and still depend solely on the guy. is it these ones that smokes weed and shisha,drink all types of hard drugs and codeine,club their lives away every Friday and wake up in different hotel rooms and houses on Saturdays ,and when leaving the guy gives them 3k to 5k that won't get them any useful thing and before Friday again,the circle continues. I have lived in warri,Benin and abuja mostly among other places I have visited and the girls I see there doesn't give me the impression of ever getting married. I wonder how they manage to live happily after all the dirty lives they lived in the past,no wonder some give birth to kids that doesn't resemble anybody from each family. its my life and my decision and I stated my experience/opinion,I didnt quote or mention anybody,so nobody should quote me.
I like quarrel pass fight,check my history.
so in all these places you have lived you haven’t seen any decent girls?? How come you know soo many of those type of girls? It speaks volumes of the type of person you are.
Romance / Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by havilla(f): 8:37am On Apr 20, 2018
The only thing that annoys me about this virginity talk is that it seems God would only judge women for pre marital sex on judgment day and men would be given a free pass.

Another annoying thing is many virgins engage in MouthAction which is the same sin as penetrative sex all because they want their husbands to meet them as virgins. Is virginity for man or for God?
Romance / Re: Alarming Increase In Prostitution - Especially On Social Media by havilla(f): 8:31am On Apr 20, 2018
OneSentence:

and don't some women keep themselves till marriage? are they not also women?
and men who are disciplined and God fearing some even virgins aren’t they men?
Romance / Re: I Am 21 Years Old Lady In A Relationship With A 40 Years Old Man. by havilla(f): 9:30am On Apr 15, 2018
He is too old for you, don’t think about now think about the future. When you are a 31 year old young lady he is already 50 years old and his sex drive would have already gone down compared to yours coupled with the fact that He would look like your father when he starts aging soo much in comparison to you, he probably wants a young girl to boss around.

My dear so much disadvantages to you and advantages for him, your better off growing with a younger guy who still has energy to run after your kids.

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Business / Re: Fatima Dangote And Jamil Abubakar Wedding Dinner In Abuja (Photos) by havilla(f): 12:00pm On Mar 19, 2018
forreelinc:
The gal no even fine sef
at least better than your beautiful broke girlfriend begging you for 500 naira recharge card.

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Romance / Re: Ladies!!!!! 7 Things You Must Perfect To Attract Successful Men by havilla(f): 7:25pm On Feb 09, 2018
This is what shallow and artificial men care about in a woman, a matured man who wants a wife doesn’t concentrate on these things. Yes take good care of yourself, but nothing beats having a warm and welcoming personality.

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Romance / Re: Men Please Stop The Women Over 30 Sexism by havilla(f): 7:44pm On Feb 01, 2018
Belafonte:


Says the woman who wants to force men into marrying old hags. You could not even beg us to consider you people. You just came demanding like God gave you the mandate to demand that we pick less quality women. Waka dia.
I don’t get, what have women in their thirties done to you? Why so much anger and hate I’ve read what the Op wrote and I don’t see why your getting angry oo.
Romance / Re: If The Devil Sees You Are Doing Well He Will Give You A Girlfriend by havilla(f): 9:02am On Sep 29, 2017
tosyne2much:
There's nothing like dating a lady that has a lot to contribute to your life

I will say mine is just a blessing in disguise
please I really want to know, how can a lady contribute to a mans life? What exactly do men mean by that?
Romance / Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by havilla(f): 10:31am On Aug 08, 2017
The truth is a girl that likes you a lot would love to communicate with you frequently and she would never feel disturbed.

The main problem is guys don't like girls that really genuinely like them, and the girls who they like are interested in someone else who probably doesn't like them too. Crazy world we live in. When you meet someone and the feeling is mutual you don't need all this stress.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by havilla(f): 9:16am On Aug 04, 2017
obajoey:
my sister in the Lord, does it mean the positions advertised by ECOWAS some weeks ago has been filled?
chai, ori mi oo, wey i don dey calculate the salary.
no am not saying it's been filled, don't lose hope but don't think they don't use connections , I know someone who works there and told me his uncle got him the job he didn't even have the required work experience. So to think DPR is purely on merit is a joke.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by havilla(f): 8:44am On Aug 04, 2017
Ogoscco:
As far as this regime of govt is concerned, every recruitment must be transparent. Nothing like back door,if the person eventually caught ,hmmmm.Common NPOWER job,it very difficult to replaced the disqualified graduates.Not when Prof Osibanjo is still the acting president, if the MDA is caught .hmmmmmmmmm.They held meeting against it.
eyaaah who deceived you? people are using connections to enter ECOWAS not to talk of a government agency like DPR, all the people I know that got good jobs in good govt offices have strong connections and yes it happened in this so called regime. Just pray to be among those who would get it by merit and stop deceiving yourself.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by havilla(f): 9:50am On Jul 15, 2017
josielewa:
i went there last week and i was told same....but i had lower credit and i knowingly applied....God can help...they said the list is available and will be posted soon....if am shortlisted,then i know i will scale through....got some past question of last two examsdone....i can send it to ur email guys for free...
pls send to gwomnoro@yahoo.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by havilla(f): 6:46am On Jul 13, 2017
Bertadayz:


Opere mini ...Firefox ...UC Browser ...I've tried all. Funny thing is I remember my password cos I wrote it down somewhere but it wouldn't budge. Feedback is "These credentials do not match our records" and that's scary !
try resetting it now it just worked for me and I was approved. Thank God I didn't give up.
Culture / Re: Nigerian Girls Should Reduce The Time They Spend On Facebook & Instagram- Sultan by havilla(f): 11:40pm On Jul 09, 2017
ollah1:


You should have countered his statement with superior arguments rather than these gibberish. So Christianity isn't a bloody, lustful and full of hatred religion? You must be high on oshogbo weed
no need to argue about the obvious, have better things to do. Jesus loves you smiley

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Culture / Re: Nigerian Girls Should Reduce The Time They Spend On Facebook & Instagram- Sultan by havilla(f): 11:37pm On Jul 09, 2017
transient123:


Lol, I laugh at your good judgment....lol. For you to know my blood boils when all I did in the comfort of my room was to smile and educate people like you from ignominy and reset the already programmed brains by con men, and all you could say is throw the much expected programmed semantics "religion of blood".

Even though no one used his "blood" for my sins because ours is not by blood like the Ogun worshippers, we do not hate, but pity polytheists (worshippers of 2,3(trinity) gods) and for lust, reason why you must be beaten(100 lashes) if you fornicate.
I know others don't see anything wrong in it, someone's blood washes all that away.

Well, no need to judge you because I don't see the mind of people, I know you do, reason why " you judged".....lol. Hope it is not going to be hypocrisy when next you cry or chants "thou shall not judge" again.
blah, blah, blah..... make sure you wash off Satan from your nose before going to bed good night.

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Business / Re: Mohammed Indimi's Daughters Are Beautiful! by havilla(f): 10:54pm On Jul 09, 2017
iamrealdeji:
I never knew Nigerians were this stupid. Halle Berry,Juliet Ibrahim,Elizabeth Taylor and many more beautiful ladies are from humble background and none of these Indimi girls is half as beautiful as those I listed above. Otedola has a dark unattractive girl,Saraki's daughter that's about to wed is drop dead ugly. Nigerians talk as if suffering has eaten deep into their brains that they worship money and yet go to church and mosque.
what exactly is your point?

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