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Offpoint:
11 years difference not bad? c'mon dude, max should be 5. anything above that should be considered abnormal.

my sentiments exactly.

Mcslize:
The age difference is not bad c'mon! You should know girls mature faster in body than guys. If the guy marry his age mate of 30-32, the girl will surely look like his aunty. Marry someone younger than you in age.

Go online and check out girls of 23-29 , they look way mature in body. Don't marry a woman that you will go out with and people will be asking you is this your aunty? That will be pretty embarrassing don't you think?

Go and see girls of 20 to 25 years old. They look like they are 30yrs. If they don't tell you, you won't know. Like me , I look younger in my age. If I tell some people how old I am they find it hard believing. And most importantly, I am not among those that like reducing their ages.

I wanted to do it back then by reducing my age but hell no, I decided to leave it like that already people say I look younger. So if someone like me go for a girl I am older than with 10yrs, you won't even know I am that old in age but gallant in body and look.

i really hate it when Nigerian men go on about not marrying a woman close to their age because the woman would look older or like his “aunty”, please is marriage all about physical looks or how people would see you outside? What happened to getting married because you love her personality, love each other and are friends? Being with someone closer to your age is the best because you relate like friends and it’s soo natural, when you get old you both age together and even depart this world around the same time.

simple250:
Hanger is their major tool


Ask Unilag hostel girls

my God, I cringed when I saw this.

Spirit husband loading.....

HardMirror:
she is also daft. I see...

grow up kiddo

HardMirror:
if you have never had a guy lavish money on you with the way guys are foolish with spending, then you need to check yourself.

Perhaps you are very ugly and un cultured

By the way. I dont live that kind of life any more and i dont give a damn if anyone calls me broke ass.

let me get this straight, you are telling guys not to spend unnecessarily on girls and now am a girl saying guys don’t spend lavishly on me and that now makes me ugly and uncultured Doesn’t that defeat the purpose of your right up?
I may be ugly and uncultured but you sure sound dumb and confused. No wonder the girls keep using you as a mugu.

Pls where are these guys that lavish money on girls?? I’ve never met one only read about them on this platform

id4sho:
All Southerners are bastards, street urchins and hooligans.

with your response you just proved him right.

My husband

Jman06:
You are wrong bro! If getting married at such young age is so bad for the girl like you make it appear, no girl of today would be willing to marry that early. But as I'm talking to you many girls that age are getting married or planning to. Forget the mob psychology thing. Why don't such girls follow the mob of ladies campaigning against early marriage these days Because they simply want to get married! And like I said before, it is not always just about trying to escape poverty like you imply, women are naturally marriage oriented! It is people of this generation that are trying hard to redefine who a woman ought to be.

So brother, let's not make it look like it is a taboo for a 37yrs old man to marry a 20yrs old lady. Provided the lady is not being forced against her will, they are good to go!

just go and marry a new born baby girl, paedophile

Brightgem:
I pray he does. Mscheeeewww!

you probably have psychological issues from being beaten by your dad as a child. Sorry dear it must hurt really bad.

It just feels weird and soo wrong seeing a father beating his daughter. I pray my future husband never lays a finger on our daughter.

Nothing, they brought me into this world and did their possible best for me. They made mistakes and so did I. I will always love them.

360great:
True talk my brother, come to my parish you will weep for the true essence of Christianity. All what they are interested is your money. The church don tire me o

then leave am sure your absense wouldn’t even be noticed.

Try out the secret language of birthdays. Put in your date of birth and the year, it would surprise you http://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/personology/?r=20161022

eanestca:
Not yet

for a guy it shouldn’t be that hard. I suspect your being too picky or you have unrealistic expectations, always have in mind that no one is perfect.

You made a vow to God so it’s best you keep it

Both of you are meant for each other because you are both rude. I actually prefer hers it’s more direct, you mask yours with a holier than thou attitude.

Cute babies but the darkest one is the cutest to me

mudiana:
o boy! Shey u serious like this so. If this na true, e don finish as Jesus talk for cross.

best believe bed bugs are way more common Abroad than in Nigeria

Jiang:
All things being equal 5k should be enough, this is for her to buy personal women things & if she is not working. But if she works just surprise her with gifts from time but no monthly allowance


But if you intend to travel alot, atleast 50k should be enough especially if you got atleast 4 kids, that's excluding school fees but includes all Imonthly house hold spendings. This applies wether she works or not as long as you are absent

how can you give a grown woman 5k every month for upkeep Am guessing you live in the village where things are soo cheap or you are very stingy.

GlorifiedTunde:
Girls should stop hooking up with strangers....

funny enough only Cynthia was murdered by strangers, most times those closer to us are more dangerous, we should be careful of who we let into our lives really.

If he is a good guy and hardworking yes I would

the truth is that he is seeing someone else or several people, he is just stringing you along that's why he is not consistent with you. No need putting pressure on him, lean back and see his reaction, don't call him, no text nothing, but if he keeps calling be receptive and be jovial. Go out with other men and get to know them. take up a hobby and keep yourself busy and happy. show him you can do just fine on your own, if he doesnt change please just forget him. Stop initiating meeting up with him, your a woman he should be the one dying to see you, allow men take the lead while sit back and enjoy the process.

Please work on your self esteem

I think your having superficial relationships. Build emotional connection first before getting sexual. Get to know the girl better, go on dates, find common interest and values, have fun for a couple of months before starting a relationship. I think it would help.

somadinho10:
matured ladies don't have time for long talk
They go for what they want
Met one fresh girl at shoprite on Friday
She called me yesterday and ask if I have light that she want to watch bbn finale
Picked her up, went home watched till around 9, she said it's too late to go to cut the whole story short we did it that night

and with the way things transpired would you seriously date her and consider her wife material?

urvillagepeoplee:
good job op,I didn't know there are other men thinking like me in this world,why will I go and adopt a full grown ass woman and feed her till I go to my grave while she does nothing. I am not one of those guys who get freaked by pussy,I don't have a girl friend and I don't need one,why will I spend my hard earned money on a slack pussy that will be given to my neighbors and friends tomorrow when am broke, I have decided to have just kids and take care of them,never will I put any of these walking dead girls whom yahoo boys have used their destinies for rituals inside my house as a wife. wife materials stop existing in the eras of our mothers,what we have now are empty vessels,bleeping their lives away for money that can't even buy pencil light Camry and later surrender an over use pusy to one niggar that has suffered to make it and still depend solely on the guy. is it these ones that smokes weed and shisha,drink all types of hard drugs and codeine,club their lives away every Friday and wake up in different hotel rooms and houses on Saturdays ,and when leaving the guy gives them 3k to 5k that won't get them any useful thing and before Friday again,the circle continues. I have lived in warri,Benin and abuja mostly among other places I have visited and the girls I see there doesn't give me the impression of ever getting married. I wonder how they manage to live happily after all the dirty lives they lived in the past,no wonder some give birth to kids that doesn't resemble anybody from each family. its my life and my decision and I stated my experience/opinion,I didnt quote or mention anybody,so nobody should quote me.
I like quarrel pass fight,check my history.

so in all these places you have lived you haven’t seen any decent girls?? How come you know soo many of those type of girls? It speaks volumes of the type of person you are.

The only thing that annoys me about this virginity talk is that it seems God would only judge women for pre marital sex on judgment day and men would be given a free pass.

Another annoying thing is many virgins engage in MouthAction which is the same sin as penetrative sex all because they want their husbands to meet them as virgins. Is virginity for man or for God?

OneSentence:
and don't some women keep themselves till marriage? are they not also women?

and men who are disciplined and God fearing some even virgins aren’t they men?