babygirlfl:

Women too in the west have biological clock just like african women but the thing here is that it seems like that is the only thing most Nigerian women think of. @ olas2u : you amaze me and I don't argue with your type. I will use my strenght for more productive things.@ Osama10 read my post and u will see some suggestions of other things to think of and if u still want more suggestions, I will tell you. What about thinking of developing drugs that will cure dieases that has no cure at the moment,producing cars of our own etc. Remember the country these thing are produced also have women with biological clock and rich men that still get married. All I am saying here is that we should do some other things apart from getting married and chasing money. When I said marriage should be when u r ready and with the right person, I said that cos these days, u see girls being pressured into marriage just becos they have to get married.Pls olas2u and osama10 leave this post for more reasonable pple.

are u saying that people should stop getting married because of this, have people in the western world stopped getting married because they are doing cancer research or finding the cure for hiv when producing mercedez benz did people in Germany stop getting married even those in the western world was it everyone that produced cars and found cures to diseases, so if i read political science then how can i produce cars or find cures for diseases those in the west don't care much about marriage because they can cohabit and have some rights just like a married couple would, but in nigeria cohabitation is frowned upon. if they didn't care much about it then why have online dating and match makers which to me is the greatest height of desperation. people perform better when they are settled and happily married, as the saying goes behind every successful man is a woman which is a fact.

i think you should not even wait till you start having feelings for each other before avoiding him, i think you should stop all contact with him before it is too late and you regret everything, your better safe than sorry.

no way!!

i might be a little old fashioned, but i would not go clubbing as a married woman, i believe there is a time for everything. if i want to hang out with my friends we can to a nice eatery, go shopping, or watch some nice movies together and chat. am not a great fan fan of clubs anyway. but for those who want to go i think its best they go along with their husbands, cos i dont know wat a married woman would be doing in a night club alone.

that is totally disgusting and unhygienic. i dont even share a bra with my own sister talk more of buying used undies. please if they dont have money there are cheap made in china pants in the market.

thanks everyone for the advice, but i just called home now and my sister just told me that he just got married this weekend!! so i guess we werent meant to be together, i have to be all means move on, i have been praying about it and am sure i would find someone who i love and who loves me just as much

@poster

i know where u r coming from as i have asked myself the same question because we tend to think there may be more out there, and maybe there is something better we are missing. just have at the back of ur mind that there are many guys out there who would just want to use you, and you may regret leaving this guy. i dated a couple of other guys and found out that there wasnt much i was missing, or maybe u should find out urself so u can appreciate him better. Goodluck in ur decision.

@jfking2005 and up2u

we have never had sex before, infact the way i feel for him has nothing to do with sex, i just love his personality. hope i can feel this way for someone else

Spyker:

We cannot advise you enough here, if he has a fiance, then he is ready to marry her.
Quietly backoff before you spoil their plans.

i dont intend to spoil anything, as i said i want to get over him but its difficult. i would never do anything like that

his koboko

omega25red:

well now that you are old enough to talk for yourself without your brother's permission, you should call him to let him not to profess your love for him but to get closure. Trust me other hot guys will come around and you wont even remember that dude. Also are you just thinking of him because you are single right now?

was he with his fiance when he tried to kiss you?? and why is his willingness to buy his woman a car paining you.

i cant tell him how i feel now becos he is with someone else. am actually not single, am in a relationship with a really sweet guy. he wasnt with his fiance then, he was single. and lastly i never said it was the fact he bought her a car that pained me but rather the fact that he loved her enough to buy her one (there is a difference).

i met this guy in 2005 when i was in naija, we started talking and within months we developed strong feelings for each other, he was soo good to me , he made me laugh and i felt soo happy being around him, the chemistry was just spot on, but unfortunately he is my brothers friend older brother and my brother didnt like the idea when he found out because i was 18 years old then and the guy was 23 yrs old, he also said the guy was not an ambitious person because he didnt have a job back then. he called the guy and warned him seriously to back off, when i called him later he told me we should just forget it. ever since then i havent been the same because i think about him alot, i mean its been almost six years but i cant seem to get him out of my mind, i have even dated someone else for three years but the feeling doesnt go away, no one seems to make me feel the same way he does. when i met him like two years ago, i was surprised to know that he was going through the same thing because we kept staring at each other and i could feel the chemistry in the air and he even tried to kiss me. when i went home last xmas my sister told me of how he has gotten a good job and he has even bought his fiance a brand new car, the fact that he loves someone else enough to buy a car for her is what pained me the most. i dont know if its true love or lust or if its even an obssession, but i want to move on and get this guy out of my memory forever, but everything i do isnt working . pls help me!!!!

genevieve is definitely more beautiful and has a better body. omotola is just yellow and i dont know wat is sexy about her body because its too disproportionate, her ass is too big for her upper body (pear shape).

january 20th

i can give my husband but not boyfriend

the fact that you are coming here to ask means you shouldnt marry her!

hope he wont be high when asking for your hand in marriage and wake up the next day, wondering why your sleeping next to him

your destinies are not the same, besides who said they would wait for u if they were in your shoes. better take your man to the alter and live your life.

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