transient123:


I won't call you names because we are cultured people. But, straight to educate you a little, the Quran if you don't know is not a rhyme book or a book laden with confusion like others.
It is a book wherein nothing is left unmentioned, from education, trade, health, science, geography, warfare and what have you.

So, you read the Quran, you are an all round personality.

Reasons why the first university in the world is not Harvard or Oxford but Al-azhar, reason why the basics of mathematics is algebra, hope you know it's a Muslim name. A Latin variant of the Arabic word al-jabr . This came from the title of a book, Hidab al-jabr wal-muqubala , written in Baghdad about 825AD.

Am so sure you must be pained by something, which only you know of. I know you have Muslim neighbours, colleagues in your workplace or office, even if you don't have them as friends because of hatred, am really sure they are no almajiri, book haram like you have ignorantly generalised.

Remove hatred and you will see beyond your nose brother. I come with salam or shalom, which you may prefer.

see how your blood is boiling am sure if he was close to you you would have beheaded him. So sad a religion of blood, lust and hatred.

deepwater:
My father told me that people that keep dogs have the potentials of becoming aggressive and destructive without knowing that such cruelty is in them.

Just one day it would show up and the havoc would be done.

Rip young star

not true, in fact people that keep and care for animals are most likely to be more caring and compassionate than those who hate animals.

Rip to the cute little boy

tosyne2much:
I'm highly impressed by this piece of thoroughly researched write-up

The truth of the matter is that men will always go for reserved and conservative women when it comes to marriage. That's why you can be as pretty and classy as Beyonce, yet your boyfriend may dump your ass and marry a "village" girl as you said

Ladies should learn to work on their attitudes rather than their looks. Most men date for "beauty" when it comes to relationship, but when it comes to marriage, they marry for "attitudes".

When you have good morals and attitudes yet men keep dumping your ass, please examine your life and you would see that something is wrong somewhere.

Lalasticlala, please what's your take on this?

are you sure about that because a few years ago a guy broke up with me and in his exact words he said "you are too reserved for me"

MrMystrO:


You are a Special Woman, And someone who will definitely be a priceless asset and a constant source of motivation to any man you choose to build your Life with. May God bless you with a Man who will Appreciate and treasure these values You Possess. Have a Great evening ma'am.

Amen! And thank you.

This post is soo senseless, vain, shallow and childish. Op you Think you sound intelligent but you sound fake and dumb with soo much pride.

There is so much more to a man or anyone than money, what is even so special about rich people? They are just normal human beings like every one else who are just fortunate to make it in life. Every single human being is valuable, but it seems financial status is the most important thing for you because you have nothing else to offer.

What have you done for mankind with your intelligence and status, let me guess NOTHING! Just to buy Brazilian hair and be feeling like one goddess and posting stupid pictures up and down on social media.

I honestly admire humble people and those hustling to make it in life, God bless your hard work and determination and don't let this dumb post bring you down.

Why waste so much money on an old second hand car, I don't even care if it's a Benze I would appreciate a brand new Toyota or Honda to this car.

RaeMystix:
From law to Sociology.
Anyways, I don't see why he can't continue with the wedding. If he loves her and never thought about been married to her for the main purpose of bragging rights ( My wife studied abroad and has a law degree), then all she had to do is come clean if she has any other truths to fess up.
Besides, who law degree help for Ninja and even for UK sef?

it has helped a lot of people dear, do not say what you do not know about the noble profession.

Awww see the cute baby wish I could hold her

Merbearie:
I met this fantastic guy over a year ago, but i was in a long-term serious relationship so i turned him down. We lost touch until a few weeks ago when a friend of mine mentioned that a friend of hers was looking for husband. I always thought he would make a great husband so i recommended him. I Sent pictures and his social media handle for her to check him out. She found him suitable and didnt mind that he has a young child. They asked me to contact him and determine his interest level in and if he already has someone.

I asked him to call me and when he did, our conversation was like we had not slipped a day at all. It flowed effortlessly and he expressed his desire for me to give him a chance since i am now single. I told him the reason i contacted him and he said he is only interested in me. I thorougly enjoyed our conversation and want to take it further with him. But how do i break it to my friend now that it wont happen with her friend and him? I feel a sting of guilt. I initally made the recommendation with a very clear conscience because i am still nursing my breakup and didnt see myself in another relationship now.

just tell them you gave him her contact and you don't know why he didn't call or that he is not interested. Don't let something good pass you by for someone else, they won't do same for you so stop feeling guilty.

I thought I was the only one that noticed, they assume we are all the same and lack respect for Christian girls. It's so painful.

Intelligentdude:
Yea

ok thanks

Intelligentdude:
@Op,acquiring a Masters Degree is not a waste of time,you might not get the benefit now but someday in the future an opportunity will present itself and one of the requirements might be "candidate must be a Masters Degree holder".

As regard scholarship,there are some scholarships that are fully funded(Eg. Chinese Government Scholarship,Taiwan Government Scholarship,I think Korean Government Scholarship etc,just make your research).

We have PTDF Scholarship,DAAD Scholarship,MasterCard Scholarship,NDDC(which is open presently)and lots of others you can find online.
Not forgetting Federal Scholarship Board/BEA Scholarship.

Please is the NDDC scholarship only for those from Niger Delta?

you dont fear death because you have someone to bury you

Hello dear, am in almost the same situation just that I blew mine up and full of regrets, after showing green light he had already lost interest
Let me try and help you out here step by step:
1) stop contacting him, no calls or text, just keep to yourself.
2) when you see him just say hi and don't stop to discuss anything with him, look not interested, if your with your friends look happy and smile with them.
3)always make sure u look good always and confident.
4) find a hobby, find something u love doing and be happy.
5)try and stop thinking about him, yes it's hard but just try and accept that not everyone will like you. It sucks right? Yeah I know.
6) open yourself up to meeting New people, go out have fun and you might just get another crush who digs you.
7) know that you only feel this way because you haven't dated him, he isn't perfect even if he looks like brad Pitt, there are so many good men out there dying for your love.
pray to God and pour out your heart cry if u have to.
9) always remember that time heals all wounds and in some years time u would regret regretting this when u meet the love of your life. Such is life dear, try all this and trust me u would be so much better. God bless.

Fkhalifa:
hes also shy,dont give up am a bit like him,just normal good afternoon,morning with a smile will do,if no response after that ,you can move on.

ok, although he doesn't look like the shy type, he looks very confident, will take your advice thanks.

havilla:
the day we met that he was staring at me some jerk came and started talking to me trying to toast me I didn't exchange numbers or say much to him, maybe that's where the problem lies he may think the other guy hit it off with me, maybe I should have completely ignored the jerk. Oh well guess it wasn't meant to be

oh sorry the smiley was meant to be lol

Dotwillis1:
i guess he didnt expect it, maybe he's shy too or somethin

the day we met that he was staring at me some jerk came and started talking to me trying to toast me I didn't exchange numbers or say much to him, maybe that's where the problem lies he may think the other guy hit it off with me, maybe I should have completely ignored the jerk. Oh well guess it wasn't meant to be

Fkhalifa:
@havilla is it shyness to wait,listen and relply?if yes i ill be confused,if the shyness doesnt look like "priding" for me not too late.

am the girl in question, I noticed him staring and I looked once because am actually shy around him, like a week later I saw him and I said hi, he looked like he was avoiding my eye contact by all means. Think I will just forget it and move on.

Men who don't talk much and have a certain mystery about them.

@Op what about a situation where you want to approach a girl but she is too shy to make any eye contact, but some days later u see her and she says hi will u take the opportunity or its too late?

Yes of course, at the end of the day men are all the same, rather cry in a Bentley than on a bicycle.

So sweet

ebankole:



1-What a woman of virtue and glorious you are.

The lord said,he's delivered you from your fundational powers,inherited powers troubling your family or your source.
The village stands for your source;1-inherited sins 2-inherited powers troubling your life,emanated from your source or your linage et al 3-inborn and or from birth inherited evil; all these you have been set free from.
Mind you,becareful when and what time you take a visit to your source (state of origin et al) but of that's where u resides now then cease not prayer,but above you congrats as you have been set free from foundational powers or inherited powers troubling your family or you.



2- The lord compared you to a healer;such that brings healing into people's life thought her words, support,helps,contribution et al in the lives of others( there are so much potentials and I must say u have a calling in the lord but why not ask God to specify that particular calling to you?
You must use that gift because the world is waiting to bring healing to her.
Bless you-what a mighty God and grace u have. Hmmmm

ok thanks very much, will definitely pray for God's divine guidance.

please can you interpret these two dreams

1) in my dream i went to a house which looked like it was in a village, on getting to the house in the compound i saw three young boys sitting on the floor in a circle they made similar signs with their hands and were enchanting something, there was one standing and leading them, when i got into the house i met an older man very tall who welcomed me with a smile, but all of a sudden i shouted in the name of Jesus Christ glorified and he got very angry and told me not to mention that name again, but then i said it louder again he got so angry this time he grabbed me and locked me up in a dark wardrope in a room upstairs and put a big padlock on it, when he left the room strenght came upon me and i broke the padlock and ran outside took a bicycle and started running he was chasing me with a bicycle as well, a lady saw me she then called me and hid me away from the man, when i didnt see him again i went back on the bicycle and he was after me again, some people in a car told me to join them but i didnt i just kept shouting jesus, and i woke up. at the beginning of the dream it looked like someone led me to the house but i didnt see the persons face.

2) my second dream, i saw myself in a hospital but i didnt even know i was a doctor, people came and told me i should change that i have patients to operate upon, i was very confused, but i got my doctors outfit and started changing to what drs wear when going to a theatre for operation, when i was changing many people were looking at me i was the centre of attention, when i finished i was taken to a room where there were two women who looked very sick one on a bed and the other on the floor, they told me they have been waiting for me to come and operate on them, i was scared but i found myself going close to the woman on the bed with medical equipment, that was the end of the dream. i usually dream alot but these two dreams keep coming to my mind thanks.

My dog know when it's time for his walkies, he starts following me everywhere I go and looks like he wants to talk if I don't take him lol

omotenah:
lmaooo smh,, May Allah forgive you

who needs allahs forgiveness? Jesus is sufficient enough

walad4yhu:
"to become a Christian has to be your calling
especially if you are into entertainment"

to become a Muslim has to be your calling especially if you are into senseless killing.

Alubosa:
Pls is it advisable to get a Pomenarian for my 1year 6mths old son? Pls where can i get 1 and what's the cost implication? Any breeder in PHC and its environs? I've never owned a dog before. I'm just developing the love. Thanks

I think he is too young for a dog, don't see a one year old caring for a dog, I think kids should be at least 7 yrs old before having a pet, but tarts just my opinion.

@ lefulefu oh really nigerian women are worse right? please i beg u watch crime channels or google women who killed their husbands, it would shock u how many so called white angelic women have killed their husbands for life insurance money that in some cases is worth just 50,000 dollars and take off with another man. marry your white woman and watch her fight u in court over money after taking your kids away and kicking u out of your own house. or marry a woman who stays at home and nags u when getting back from work to clean u the dishes.

trust me most Nigerian gold diggers don't ask for much, most just want comfortable home in a good location, travel abroad with the kids for summer holidays, nice ride. if u jam oyibo gold digger i just pity u. as their standard of living is higher so is the standard of god digging, you will first of all reconstruct her whole body from liposuction, to face lift to breast implants etc, and she will still leave u with the body u paid for and demand for your money! chai white men have suffered and some mumu Nigerian men are admiring them. anyway i guess u never value what u have.

@ dailynews yes i agree that we nigerians are too materialistic infact most black people, as funny as it may sound i think we havent yet fully evolved like the white people, centuries ago western societies were also equally very corrupt, we still have a long way to go.

its easy for foreigners to come to another country and talk ill of the people, are British people any better, they have alot of casual sex and one night stands all over the place, it may not be for money but those it make it any better? there are Indian prostitutes and loose Indian ladies, infact they go international with their own, people here in nigeria bring indian ladies for sex, isnt it abacha who ate apple from two angelic Indian ladies? lets not even talk about thailand and prostitution, so please spare me all these stories, and it doesnt mean am supporting bad girls in nigeria.

if 50 percent of nigerian guys dont marry their dream women then 95 percent of nigerian ladies dont marry their dream men! wait what am i even saying its an abomination and sacrilege for a nigerian woman to even have a dream man! because nigerian men are doing us a favour by marrying us especially since we expire very quickly, so we have to accept anyone that comes or else our families and people around would call us too picky and proud, even if the man is irresponsibe we are told to marry him because we can change him. but a man complains that a lady cant cook and all hell would be let loose. with all these u dont see nigerian women ranting all over the place.

@ dailynews so what questions should a mature lady looking for something serious ask a man she is getting to know?? i suppose whats your favourite color or your best artist?? i cant speak for all ladies but i usually ask those questions because its all part of who he is and it also leads to more interesting conversations. you cant compare the desires or qualities a girl in school wants from a man to that of a grown woman who has experienced life, how many of these relationships from uni days even last? because most times the older a lady gets what she wants in a man changes which is natural.

As regards money women all over the world love money soo much infact one foreign research showed that rich men have better sex than poor men so what does that show? every saturday i see loads of average managing guys getting married to pretty ladies so i really dont know why on nl guys act as if guys managing lack babes, infact its mosty in nigeria u see a girl from a rich family marrying an average guy hoping he gets connection from her own family, this hardly happens among white people they stick to their class more than anything, do u think u can breath near paris Hilton let alone touch her?
if u like a girl and she isnt interested in u because u dont have money go and search else where someone out there would love u for who u are such is life not every girl would love u the same way u dont love every girl out there. am sure there are girls who love u but u run from them to because they are not classy enough for u and dont fit ur status.

so please give nigerian girls a break, we come from different backgrounds, different classes, shapes and sizes so pick the one that suits u best as we do same. thanks in advance.

They look pathetic.