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Fkhalifa:
@havilla is it shyness to wait,listen and relply?if yes i ill be confused,if the shyness doesnt look like "priding" for me not too late.

am the girl in question, I noticed him staring and I looked once because am actually shy around him, like a week later I saw him and I said hi, he looked like he was avoiding my eye contact by all means. Think I will just forget it and move on.

Men who don't talk much and have a certain mystery about them.

@Op what about a situation where you want to approach a girl but she is too shy to make any eye contact, but some days later u see her and she says hi will u take the opportunity or its too late?

Yes of course, at the end of the day men are all the same, rather cry in a Bentley than on a bicycle.

So sweet

ebankole:
1-What a woman of virtue and glorious you are.

The lord said,he's delivered you from your fundational powers,inherited powers troubling your family or your source.
The village stands for your source;1-inherited sins 2-inherited powers troubling your life,emanated from your source or your linage et al 3-inborn and or from birth inherited evil; all these you have been set free from.
Mind you,becareful when and what time you take a visit to your source (state of origin et al) but of that's where u resides now then cease not prayer,but above you congrats as you have been set free from foundational powers or inherited powers troubling your family or you.



2- The lord compared you to a healer;such that brings healing into people's life thought her words, support,helps,contribution et al in the lives of others( there are so much potentials and I must say u have a calling in the lord but why not ask God to specify that particular calling to you?
You must use that gift because the world is waiting to bring healing to her.
Bless you-what a mighty God and grace u have. Hmmmm

ok thanks very much, will definitely pray for God's divine guidance.

please can you interpret these two dreams

1) in my dream i went to a house which looked like it was in a village, on getting to the house in the compound i saw three young boys sitting on the floor in a circle they made similar signs with their hands and were enchanting something, there was one standing and leading them, when i got into the house i met an older man very tall who welcomed me with a smile, but all of a sudden i shouted in the name of Jesus Christ glorified and he got very angry and told me not to mention that name again, but then i said it louder again he got so angry this time he grabbed me and locked me up in a dark wardrope in a room upstairs and put a big padlock on it, when he left the room strenght came upon me and i broke the padlock and ran outside took a bicycle and started running he was chasing me with a bicycle as well, a lady saw me she then called me and hid me away from the man, when i didnt see him again i went back on the bicycle and he was after me again, some people in a car told me to join them but i didnt i just kept shouting jesus, and i woke up. at the beginning of the dream it looked like someone led me to the house but i didnt see the persons face.

2) my second dream, i saw myself in a hospital but i didnt even know i was a doctor, people came and told me i should change that i have patients to operate upon, i was very confused, but i got my doctors outfit and started changing to what drs wear when going to a theatre for operation, when i was changing many people were looking at me i was the centre of attention, when i finished i was taken to a room where there were two women who looked very sick one on a bed and the other on the floor, they told me they have been waiting for me to come and operate on them, i was scared but i found myself going close to the woman on the bed with medical equipment, that was the end of the dream. i usually dream alot but these two dreams keep coming to my mind thanks.

My dog know when it's time for his walkies, he starts following me everywhere I go and looks like he wants to talk if I don't take him lol

omotenah:
lmaooo smh,, May Allah forgive you

who needs allahs forgiveness? Jesus is sufficient enough

walad4yhu:
"to become a Christian has to be your calling
especially if you are into entertainment"

to become a Muslim has to be your calling especially if you are into senseless killing.

Alubosa:
Pls is it advisable to get a Pomenarian for my 1year 6mths old son? Pls where can i get 1 and what's the cost implication? Any breeder in PHC and its environs? I've never owned a dog before. I'm just developing the love. Thanks

I think he is too young for a dog, don't see a one year old caring for a dog, I think kids should be at least 7 yrs old before having a pet, but tarts just my opinion.

@ lefulefu oh really nigerian women are worse right? please i beg u watch crime channels or google women who killed their husbands, it would shock u how many so called white angelic women have killed their husbands for life insurance money that in some cases is worth just 50,000 dollars and take off with another man. marry your white woman and watch her fight u in court over money after taking your kids away and kicking u out of your own house. or marry a woman who stays at home and nags u when getting back from work to clean u the dishes.

trust me most Nigerian gold diggers don't ask for much, most just want comfortable home in a good location, travel abroad with the kids for summer holidays, nice ride. if u jam oyibo gold digger i just pity u. as their standard of living is higher so is the standard of god digging, you will first of all reconstruct her whole body from liposuction, to face lift to breast implants etc, and she will still leave u with the body u paid for and demand for your money! chai white men have suffered and some mumu Nigerian men are admiring them. anyway i guess u never value what u have.

@ dailynews yes i agree that we nigerians are too materialistic infact most black people, as funny as it may sound i think we havent yet fully evolved like the white people, centuries ago western societies were also equally very corrupt, we still have a long way to go.

its easy for foreigners to come to another country and talk ill of the people, are British people any better, they have alot of casual sex and one night stands all over the place, it may not be for money but those it make it any better? there are Indian prostitutes and loose Indian ladies, infact they go international with their own, people here in nigeria bring indian ladies for sex, isnt it abacha who ate apple from two angelic Indian ladies? lets not even talk about thailand and prostitution, so please spare me all these stories, and it doesnt mean am supporting bad girls in nigeria.

if 50 percent of nigerian guys dont marry their dream women then 95 percent of nigerian ladies dont marry their dream men! wait what am i even saying its an abomination and sacrilege for a nigerian woman to even have a dream man! because nigerian men are doing us a favour by marrying us especially since we expire very quickly, so we have to accept anyone that comes or else our families and people around would call us too picky and proud, even if the man is irresponsibe we are told to marry him because we can change him. but a man complains that a lady cant cook and all hell would be let loose. with all these u dont see nigerian women ranting all over the place.

@ dailynews so what questions should a mature lady looking for something serious ask a man she is getting to know?? i suppose whats your favourite color or your best artist?? i cant speak for all ladies but i usually ask those questions because its all part of who he is and it also leads to more interesting conversations. you cant compare the desires or qualities a girl in school wants from a man to that of a grown woman who has experienced life, how many of these relationships from uni days even last? because most times the older a lady gets what she wants in a man changes which is natural.

As regards money women all over the world love money soo much infact one foreign research showed that rich men have better sex than poor men so what does that show? every saturday i see loads of average managing guys getting married to pretty ladies so i really dont know why on nl guys act as if guys managing lack babes, infact its mosty in nigeria u see a girl from a rich family marrying an average guy hoping he gets connection from her own family, this hardly happens among white people they stick to their class more than anything, do u think u can breath near paris Hilton let alone touch her?
if u like a girl and she isnt interested in u because u dont have money go and search else where someone out there would love u for who u are such is life not every girl would love u the same way u dont love every girl out there. am sure there are girls who love u but u run from them to because they are not classy enough for u and dont fit ur status.

so please give nigerian girls a break, we come from different backgrounds, different classes, shapes and sizes so pick the one that suits u best as we do same. thanks in advance.

They look pathetic.

BuddhaPalm:
Smile more.

I think you are right, will work on myself thanks.

Seun:
Please read: www.nairaland.com/1859775/why-should-never-ever-sell You may need to do some serious screening to get the right buyer. You may need to check up on him regularly and have an agreement that empowers you to take the dog back if he's neglected.

actually selling him to someone I know is my first option so I can check up on him because he is so pampered don't want him to suffer. So yes I will do just that.

Seun:
Nice dog. Why are you selling him?

he is actually a lovely dog, but we live in a first floor apartment and my sister works and travels quite alot, and am actively looking for a job so I know its going to get tough.

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@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

My life, my rules

pascyj:
Adenuga is shy.He still goes for what he wants.

ok, maybe because am very shy myself so I assume it's a limiting, but I guess am wrong.

bedfordng:
then you lie if you say they can't make it.infact, most of the conglomorate you say is owned by shy guys.they just love doing things underground.they can buy a entire land but you won't know they owns it because they use people in front to handle their affairs.they don't talk too much but they make the money in ghost mode.that is their modus of operation.most shy guys are always business thinkers but they put some one in front to pilot their affairs

most rich people in Nigeria have people who front for them and it's not because they are shy, reasons range from security reasons to mode in which they made their money or being to busy to handle all their assets all at once. Yes they love doing things underground mostly for security reasons and u don't see them anywhere because they are always busy and even when they want to relax they have their circles they mingle with, most are far from being shy and introverted.

Acidosis:
Adenuga is a typical introvert.

trust me he is far from shy. For him to have gotten that far he must be a ruthless business man and he would have gone to places and met people that a shy person won't dare go to. Shy and introverts stay in their shell, in foreign countries they have a good chance, but in Nigeria it's survival of the fittest. Yeah a shy guy can have a good job and all but when it comes to being a big business tycoon I really doubt it.

I love my man very confident with a bit of a rough edge. Sorry to say but I feel shy and introvert guys can't really make it in Nigeria. It's a jungle out there

annoymous:
And who made you mouthpiece for all the xtians? Speak for yourself. So many Christians have issues with Christianity but overlook them.

issues like?

If I don't see the one with money I manage potential.

Poor baby , the funny thing is I still love dogs!

Why are atheist always bitter, and filled with anger? If you don't believe in God why always talk about Him? You don't worship God but u worship the white man, how are u sure all they say about evolution or whatever is true?

If I ever slap my future mother in law I will check myself into a psychiatric home for evaluation. And even if she slaps me I can't slap her back. I just can't raise my hand on an elderly person.