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@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

My life, my rules

pascyj:
Adenuga is shy.He still goes for what he wants.

ok, maybe because am very shy myself so I assume it's a limiting, but I guess am wrong.

bedfordng:
then you lie if you say they can't make it.infact, most of the conglomorate you say is owned by shy guys.they just love doing things underground.they can buy a entire land but you won't know they owns it because they use people in front to handle their affairs.they don't talk too much but they make the money in ghost mode.that is their modus of operation.most shy guys are always business thinkers but they put some one in front to pilot their affairs

most rich people in Nigeria have people who front for them and it's not because they are shy, reasons range from security reasons to mode in which they made their money or being to busy to handle all their assets all at once. Yes they love doing things underground mostly for security reasons and u don't see them anywhere because they are always busy and even when they want to relax they have their circles they mingle with, most are far from being shy and introverted.

Acidosis:

Adenuga is a typical introvert.

trust me he is far from shy. For him to have gotten that far he must be a ruthless business man and he would have gone to places and met people that a shy person won't dare go to. Shy and introverts stay in their shell, in foreign countries they have a good chance, but in Nigeria it's survival of the fittest. Yeah a shy guy can have a good job and all but when it comes to being a big business tycoon I really doubt it.

I love my man very confident with a bit of a rough edge. Sorry to say but I feel shy and introvert guys can't really make it in Nigeria. It's a jungle out there

annoymous:


And who made you mouthpiece for all the xtians? Speak for yourself. So many Christians have issues with Christianity but overlook them.

issues like?

If I don't see the one with money I manage potential.

Poor baby , the funny thing is I still love dogs!

Why are atheist always bitter, and filled with anger? If you don't believe in God why always talk about Him? You don't worship God but u worship the white man, how are u sure all they say about evolution or whatever is true?

If I ever slap my future mother in law I will check myself into a psychiatric home for evaluation. And even if she slaps me I can't slap her back. I just can't raise my hand on an elderly person.

yehmi01:

You are very shallow.

That is so obvious.

. Lol

No way!! Very gross and disgusting, there are way too many people in the world for me to go there.

A very wealthy man who will provide my every need and still treat me like a queen

I love it when we are in the car and he randomly takes my hand and kisses it or when he pecks my forehead, it makes me feel precious

I want them to be ten Times better than me

Am single because am shy and reserved and most guys think am snobbish, am trying to come out of my shell though. Then the few I meet suspect me of having a guy somewhere really don't know why.

@coolsegun I would advice you to just sell the dog as I don't think it's worth all the stress. I live with a Lhasa apso in a flat with my sister and honestly am really tired of the whole thing even if am attached to the dog. But if u have the patience and time then go ahead.

Am so guilty of no 7

my six year old Lhasa, so pampered and spoilt!

Chinese spaghetti

Money is very important because without it the relationship gets very boring and all u keep hearing is I love u. After a while it gets tiring, that's just the reality

disgusting!

I actually agree with DailyNews. Arabs are terrible set of human beings, very proud and treat foreigners who work for them as nothing, they think they are some sort of god. The last time I was in dubai I witnessed an Arab lady talking rudely and shouting at an Indian guy who worked in a phone store. Unlike America they don't grant citizenship to anyone, they are in competition with the west. God knows if Arabs were world power like America we would all be doomed! They care only for themselves and would kill anyone who refuses to be a Muslim.

I don't think kissing the kids will put them at risk except she has it orally which is on the lips, but if it's genital herpes then it poses no risk to them, except she touches an open blister and without washing her hands touches the kids. From what I know about herpes you can infect yourself by touching an open sore and then touching your eyes for instance, so just be careful about that.

My own brother is a sociopath, I stay far away from him and wish not to see him in my life. Very wicked and heartless people, always bringing sorrow to my folks. sorry for the rant just had to let that out.

Well the single mothers I know are far from hot cakes, they are very desperate for marriage and men keep running away, the only one I know who got married ended with a man who has three kids plus her two kids from two different men, I don't envy them at all. Coupled with the fact that I know if she wasn't a single Mum she probably won't touch him with a pole.

Never, not even for Dangotes son. My salvation is to important to me.

As for me by the special grace of God I would have all my kids in the US, am not yet married but that's what I plan to do, I want to give my kids the best platform in life as much as I can and that includes being an American citizen.

It's funny how church attendance has dropped since the bomb blasts in Abuja, but come out at night on Friday and see how full social gatherings are with people going from one night club to another drinking without thinking about bomb blast.

This must be the most stupid post I've read. I don't even know where to start from, am sure even the Op doesn't belief the rubbish he just put there.