babakb:
All I want is the Canadian Passport so that I can enjoy all the privileges that come with it.

honestly, I also just want the passport without living there.

Some guys are doing well financially, but what they are looking for in a woman is not attainable, they keep roaming looking for the image they created in their head.

Truvel:
Bro, I Get U. I'm Gentle Guy & An Introvert Too. When A Gentleman Meets A Gentle Woman, It Would Be Boring. If A Gentle Man Marries A Non Gentle Woman (mouth Sharp Woman, Aggressive Woman Or A No Nonsense Woman) It's Helpful One Way Or D Other To D Man. No Woman Or Anyone Would Want To Mess Up With Her Man. Vice Ver Sar.

Am sure you are a young guy, dont worry with time and maturity your eyes would clear, and sense that comes with experience will finally fall on you, I just hope by then those women wouldn't have stripped you off of all your self esteem and make you hate women. There are somethings you dont talk much only wait for time to reveal certain things to people. And point of correction gentle and boring people arent the same, some people who seem all outgoing, try engage them one on one and you realise they are very boring.

Psalmistproject:


this is exactly why marriages fail.
if you are quiet please don't follow the baseless logic of marrying a woman of opposite character.
And this is for singles here, please marry someone that possess at least 70% of your interpersonal skills.

Meanwhile you must first be able to know yourself first.

This advice here should not be ignored by singles, I had the same distorted logic before that since I was a gentle girl I needed someone of opposite temperament, little did I know that I was soo wrong! It's just the excitement and thrill at first, after a while you realise it's all superficial, their drama would weigh you out, you might even suffer from low self esteem at the end. Opposite dont work out in the long run.

I saw a guy I know getting married to another man in my dream, pls what could this mean?

lekki1444:
I cant even take credit for the wisdom. Its all GODS wisdom. I have just been privileged to be given access to it. The thing with Taurus women is that they are very combative and strong headed. They only bow down to alpha scorpios and alpha sagittarius and alpha pisces. with every other men not in these 3 categories its a battle of will. They are very confrontational and battle ready. And so being a Virgo man with a less dominant spirit than her you dont want to be dealing with that all the time. it will go south very fast unless you just get comfortable with submitting to her and letting her get her way. Now with cancer women, cancer is a portal opening to the pit and so most times when you get with a cancer woman, that union usually ends up with the man going downhill either spiritually, financially or other ways. So when your spirit moves you to join to a cancer woman its a cosmic message in that and most times it because its time to fall. its many cases of men who marry cancer women and then their life just starts to spiral into the pit. i named a few in the first post of this thread. and so with a cancer woman its not that you will have problems with her personally but its just that most times they are sent to you from the universe when its time for you to pay for some karmic debt.

what about aquarius women? Who are we compatible with?

fairheart:

The most mysterious sign in the zodiac too. I am current drawn to a lady born February 24th. I have been having difficulty forgetting her; she is a magnet, magnificent, intelligent, beautiful, smart...Goodnes! I guess she was right, because she clearly told me I will never forget her or meet anyone like her. Seeming true...I think about her every day, no matter how busy and academically engaged I am. I guess I am the steel then? This girl has charm, given that I have NEVER felt like the way she made me feel when we spent time together. First person to make me feel her presence. Why? Why this particular girl? I have seen several beautiful girls, as friends and sisters. But this girl is completely different! Why?

Meanwhile, I am April 25th. My Gloria is so mysterious, so deep, like a forest you cannot see through her. What is she thinking? What is she feeling? But I know she has her soft spot, and need companionship and support to stabilize in her journey of mystery on earth. But the love I have for her is one of a kind, even though we haven't seen since December, and haven't talked in 5 months. Never felt so in love in my entire life. Does she feel the same way? I don't think so. I doubt she even think about me! The issue? She is escapist. She can't be pinned down .
She is currently away in Europe. So difficult to reach her, so there's no point trying. She studied medicine and a doctor, which makes her even more appealing and personable to me because it's my dream to marry a lady with a calling in medical-related field. I see them as small Saviours called out by God to help humanity!

Pisces is addictive sign, very impressionable (her environment shapes her easily, which can be good or bad). You can't really destroy a Pisces; it destroy itself. That is how dangerous it is! Unpredictably strong and weak! The only sign that has all the traits of other zodiacs within her! So, when you said Pisces is good, you need to elaborate, because the sign can also be highly manipulative, indecisive, foolhardy, and refuse to take good advice even when they know that the advice is the right and beneficial. They can be weak, which is why they have to marry supportive wife/husband and be treated well. If this is the case, a Pisces can be a man/woman greatest gift from God as a partner! You will never run out of intelligence and insight for your business or project. All the Pisces I know that enjoyed early freedom from home are not in their best form as I write. But they are good-hearted, generous, magical lover, sexually exploratory, and if trained well from childhood, are highly intelligent people. My dear graduated with 3.75 GPA on 4.0 scale, which is impressive for medicine.

As for being occultist, I guess if the sign is inclined to mysteries, it is secretive too then. I wonder why humans have these characteristics. Are Zodiacs God-designed? Do people star influence their path and quality of life on earth? I am still studying and learning about myself and my traits. I would have doubted Zodiac (I actually do doubt its origin and purpose), but the first time I read about April kids, I saw a lot of facts about me and other April-born I know that I have noticed in the past prior that knowledge. I think our existence are just as mysterious as the stars that we represent or that represent us.

are you sure you arent getting obsessive or idolising this lady? Be careful of any man or woman who tells you you wont meet anyone like them. Charm is deceptive, even the bible says so. Talking from experience.

jaxxy:
Fine guys don't hussle for babes that much they go for the ones arround their orbit. Fine gals wait for guys to hussle them sadly fine boys are preoccupied with other ladies attention to notice them. Average gals don't mind hussling for the fine guy so they are mostly in his orbit and he falls for them for more than just beauty cos he's fine and the average gals showcase more than just beauty which shes average in bt he likes.

In other words he goes for the gals that are not proud and have more than just beauty. Beauty isn't his top priority.

you have a point, but the real reason less attractive ladies seem to showcase more is because they are desperate with self esteem issues and would do anything to keep a handsome man, they can go as far as giving him money to keep him while the handsome man thinks she is soo "supportive" they tend to pretend alot. The nicest and sweetest women are natural beauties who arent arent even aware of their beauty.

How women stay with men that beat them up baffles me. I once dated someone who verbally abused me and I know the effect it had on my esteem it took me months to overcome, i still hear the abuses in my head till now and I get emotional about it, then I now imagine a man beating me up and staying in the same house with him. God help women.

Risingphoenix12:
Wow! How time flies. Reading through this journal just makes me realize that everything in life is transient. Mountains and Valleys, Ups and Downs etc. In all, one must remain thankful and always be positive.

Earlier this year (before the lockdown), I received a call in the wee hours of the morning. My children's mom (ex-wife) had a home accident, was taken to the hospital and had died. I jumped on the next available flight. I recall crying all the way from my apartment to the airport and on the plane. On one hand, it was such a personal loss - I ensured we remained cordial post-divorce. I had just attended our kids' christmas party at their school. I never reneged on my obligations and i always asked myself if i was doing right by her, which i always answered in the affirmative. So being informed of her demise was such a shock and a loss. On the other hand, i was thankful that i wasn't in the house when it happened, i can almost hear the stories and accusations flying... "pointing fingers at me". That would have just been another whirlwind.

Showing up was such a relief for my kids. That was (and still is) the most important thing on my mind. With wisdom (thank God), I was able to get the kids to travel back with me to my base, got them enrolled in a new school and also have family support in raising them. They seem so much happier. Everytime i look at them, i realize how blessed I am. We discuss about their mom once in a while and i just check to see if they are well adjusted (thankfully, they are). It has been one heck of a journey. I can just imagine if this had happened during the lockdown, I would have been a nervous wreck!

Life can sometimes take us through turns that we never expected, but there is always light at the end of the tunnel. We just have to keep living, be positive and take it one step at a time. It is well.

even in her death all you could think of is yourself, a good hearted man would regret that he wasnt there to help her, but here you are glad you weren't there because of accusations, sorry you sound narcissist to me.

Nothing wrong in marrying someone close to your age but I tend to notice I normally have a friendship vibe with people closer to my age and more romantic chemistry with more age gap as long as it doesnt exceed 10 years.

lekki1444:
Whats the year so I can pull up a natal chart for you

1987

lekki1444:
yeah this is a man obsessed with the material world. you are a pretty woman so I would say move on with your life but then again maybe your destiny is tied to this man is why he keeps on coming back.

I decided to move on some days ago and I think at this point he has also, but yet another one has come into the picture lol. I was born January 20th am wondering if this is linked to the current cancer attraction.

lekki1444:
they are big time players because all they can conceive of is the material world and they feel this is all there is so i better get as many women as i can before i die. thats the mindset

you are right, the one in my life right now is something else, he is obssessed with money and has soo many girls around him, but he always comes back, am tired!

Cancer men are very sneaky and big time players, but I seem to attract them.

She sounds narcissistic

11. You should be more active and join a group in church.

12. Attend house fellowship

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MansoryMX:
The real figures are coming out gradually. Sad truth is a lot of people are infected with this virus and some people’s strong immune systems makes it difficult for that 2-14 days incubation period to be ascertain only for it to start showing gradually around 18-49 days. God help us or wipe us all. I nor wan hear say me Nigerian survive, let’s all die and leave this blessed land for useful people

nairaland scientist, 18- 49 days indeed

Beautyaddy:
Atiku's son has the COVID-19 virus but yet Atiku himself doesn't have the virus...hmmm....something doesn't add up here

Atikus son is not a small boy, he probably doesn't live with his parents and may have not paid a visit after his trip.

Why is FCT always having 2 cases though

helinues:
Less than 100k people are yet to be tested and we already have 200+ cases.

The FG are only decieving gullible Nigerians

well I think it's quite high because they are testing those with travel history to high risk areas, those who had contact with confirmed cases and their family, so its expected that from this group there would be more positives.

HenryThegreat1:
. Who travel reach Nigerian?

so you really think a country like Nigeria with soo much poverty travel more than those advanced countries? You must be joking!

GrammarNazi1:
This country's handling of this pandemic is disastrous.

since you know the best way to handle it, why not give them the necessary information?

Why should this be our problem or concern at this moment?

RisenPhoenix:
Trust me it won't. The children seem to be permanently underfoot, barging into my room, asking questions and telling me long stories. Where is the chance to make more children? I am beginning to consider sending them back to school if I can find one that will open for them; coronavirus or not.

The coronavirus doesn't even worry children so why did the government close schools sef?

it doesnt bother kids but they can come home and infect you and you would be bothered! See the sense in that?

truthfulparrot:
Covid19 does not discriminate between the poor and the rich .
There is no running abroad for treatment. The Rich.and the poor will share bed spaces in the same hospitals that our politicians failed to equipped over the years
Good health to all of us!

please what sickness discriminates between the poor and the rich?

MyVILLAGEpeople:
This is exactly what Buhari and his clueless government wanted. When we have bunch of nonchalant people leading the affairs of this country. Is it that they are deliberately wicked?? Immediately this thing started in China, the Saudi government cancelled all trips and pilgrimages to Mecca. Even Israel took strict measures. But here we will joke till things get worse, then we start praying and fasting. Close all borders from the onset na lie. This virus was brought into the country by people infected already.. Imagine dying from an overseas diseases when one hasn't left the shores of Nigeria for once. I even heard yesterday some people came into the country from UK and no medical team was on ground to check them. This thing has just started. Mtcheeeeew.

Gosh! Aren't you guys tired of saying this same thing over and over again! Every country in the world is affected and Nigeria wouldn't have been an exception, everyone should just stay home and be careful.

texas1990:
when all those idiots travel out to enjoy themselves they came back bragging to us here, but now they contacted decease and they started running back to infect us, God will not let ur plan work out, You will die of the decease yourselves non of us will contact it here.

You sound bitter and jealous, dont worry one day you would have money to travel and boast to others.

I suspect their son looks like imade from his side view

Your wife is not wise and lacks respect.

How old is he? How long has he been single? He sounds like he is used to being on his own or he is emotionally unavailable. I advice next time dont travel to meet a man, a man should travel to meet you, you made it too easy for him.

Give him a lot of space, dont call, dont text just leave him alone, he might come around, I think most men fall in love in our absence.