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Literature / Re: My Madam And I (part Two) by Hcqmela: 10:59pm On Mar 19, 2020
I have been a loyal ghostreader of this story right from part 1 of it.I love the plot n how every episodes gives u a fresh yearning again of reading the next episode. Those of you saying hes not good writer write yours so we too can give condemning criticisms like you all are doing.
Abeg those una that will quote a whole episode just say trash or something so little that doesn't really amount to u quoting the whole episode, I use God beg una make una stop am.What happened to quoting a particular paragraph or sentence of the episode to make your points.its una that want to make the story tiring to read.I will log in on nairaland enter Literature section n notice a new thread has been opened on the story.Me mumu will quickly open the thread expecting to see a new update on the story only to find not 1 or 3 self they will quote the whole episode from pillar to post n later talk OP self n what even makes it worse since I love using opera mini to log in the dark mode I use for opera mini will not make me see on time it's an episode I have read before. Some self will do the quoting n open 3 to 5 new threads again n person go see am go think say na new update for story.Pls you guys should stop that quoting nonsense
Thank You

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Romance / Re: Val's Day: Ladies, Help A Guy With Low Cost, Tasteful Ideas by Hcqmela: 9:08am On Feb 10, 2020
Me that don't have boyfriend I nor get anything to suggest. But buying flowers is not a bad idea or if u are on a budget n u don't know what to buy use the naira notes u plan using to buy a gift to create a bouquet of rose flowers. It's creatively. Incase is this one u want to follow go to YouTube,search for crafts and arts then click on the video titled emergency gift crafts for valentine
Romance / Re: My Valentine's Gifts For My Girlfriend Are Finally Here. Come And See by Hcqmela: 12:51pm On Feb 08, 2020
Victoronah1:
Okay, so I wanted to get my girlfriend an iPhone xr, I ended up getting her an iPhone x mas. I hope she loves it. I'll have to lodge in a beautiful hotel, and buy lots of red flowers and red candles and set it up. I'll make it very warm and nice for her, she deserves it by the way, also I don't care if we break up tomorrow the money I spent can easily be gotten back.

Here are the things I got for her:

1. iPhone xs max
2. Apple series watch 3
3. And ear pod.

Then got myself apple mac book which I don't even know if I will be using cause I have a GTX 1080 laptop I use for my video editing. But anyways I've never used a MacBook, I heard MacBook are good for Editing so I will have to test. I want you to follow me on my journey till 14th night.

I'll keep updating this thread if I buy any new thing for her but until then happy valentine. cool
Also what will you gift your girlfriend or boyfriend on Valentine's day? Or husband or wife any
Pls let us know when you break up so that I can file in my application
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Hcqmela: 4:33pm On Feb 07, 2020
tiredoflife:


Gold digger oshi.
No wonder marriage no dey last
People marry ladies because of their job
See as e dey announce her salary
Bloody materialistic bastard

She made a mistake in marrying u
She will regret it all her life
What a bum
So u dey allocate 50%
Like for real
And u dont know what u did wrong
What an entitled beast
When she no bring money
U go ku ku kill am na

This one go give him wife belle
Say na two of una Bleep so una go share hospital bills
Oponu
Ode raised to the power of mumu
LOO grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin angry grin

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Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:49am On Feb 07, 2020
Ezeanna:
Hey guys,

If you know you are not dropping at least ₦50k per month as cooking expenses for your household( of not more than 4 people), don't come here and start talking rubb.ish about your relatives living with you and your wife.

Many wives have turned to book keepers; calculating, balancing, adjusting and rechecking household budgets just so there can be food on the table, month after month.

When you want your relatives to visit or stay with you long term, make sure you have the financial capacity for such visit; don't just say my brother/sister will be coming to visit for 2 months; ask madam what the extra cost for those visitors for that time period will be, and provide it.

We all are sentimental about the people that helped raise us to who we are currently, but it does not mean we should not try to build our own families, away from them.

If you, as a married person, sincerely feel that your extended family has got your back more than your spouse, then I truly feel sorry for your situation.
I love this comment

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Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:42am On Feb 07, 2020
worworbabe:
Mumu People full this thread especially page 0.

Your relatives can't have their own homes abi. They must come and live with your wife and impose stupidd expectations on her.

You forget that the family you create with her will bear forth Children, your own Children.This is how some of you die young, creating unnecessary problems for your families in the guise of being 'men'.

No one is saying that you should stop relating with your parents and siblings. After all your wife has them too but there must be boundaries.

Your Mother as well as all of your siblings have their marriages to face and see as priority. You have to prioritise your own marriage and family otherwise you would be making grave mistakes.

If you say your siblings suffered with you, didn't her own siblings suffer too. This is the lamest line of reasoning I ever heard. Was she eating sand before you met her?

Many of you are better unmarried and I pity the unfortunate women that end up with you
they had better stay unmarried

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Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:36am On Feb 07, 2020
Sterope:
Men will be acting like they are the only ones that have families. undecided

Like me self I wonder but if it was to be the woman's case now na that time they go dey urge her to drive them away exactly the same thing dey accuse women of that's their area of specialization. Don't u wonder why some women don't relate well with some of their relatives. Its because of these same selfish men.

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Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:32am On Feb 07, 2020
pocohantas:
I agree with you OP.

You don't want to know how much I love my dad and only brother. These are the two men that have supported me every step of the way. I can't imagine one FOOLISH husband saying they shouldn't visit or stay in our house or even thinking he comes before them.

It is my father first, mother and siblings, my kid, before my husband.

You can always get another husband, but never another family.

A father is the only man that will spend on you without asking for submission or anything.

My dad reigns supreme in my heart. I can take a bullet in the head for that man, but NEVER will I attempt it for a husband. You see how much I love him?

For that reason, he can come live with us. All my siblings can come, alongside my husband's own.

One big happy family.
This is the most satirical comment I have read in this post so far
Lol grin grin angry grin grin angry grin grin angry

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Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:29am On Feb 07, 2020
Amalekki:

Yes, as a real man he will definitely tolerate them and real lasting understanding will come.
if hear say tolerate for where.No b only tolerate na teloreta.Nonsense n ingredients. Men that are not good at tolerance at all.
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Hcqmela: 1:00am On Feb 07, 2020
I nor sabi quote that scripture well sha but let me paraphrase "And a man shall leave his family n become one with his wife ".Although I concur with the op about the relations staying with him n his wife but if the relatives staying there is going to be an obstruction to the well being of the marriage then they have to go.Remember before u married the woman in question u were convinced that she is ur all n all to u when I mean all she's ur all even to the extent kids can't come between u.When Some men are complaining kids are coming between them and their wives u are saying ur wife shouldn't come between u n your relatives as there have been there for u in the beginning. So Y then did u get married if they have been there at the beginning. As if the said relatives don't have spouses they should be putting their attention on n u want to allow devil to scatter your home because of relatives.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Ruling On Eating Onions And Garlic by Hcqmela: 11:04am On Jan 31, 2020
Hmmmm
See oath I clicked before commenting whereas it's not so in a Christian thread.The ruling ok sha but what about those that use kettle to just wash private parts n would have this awful smell that u can't stand.I know that they will say perfumes are there but e get level perfume fit dey mask odor

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Family / Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Hcqmela: 12:24am On Jan 24, 2020
Finelinks:


You modern girls are intrinsically stupid.

Inukwa ..
He should pamper her, buy gifts, date her etc so that:

"she will GIVE him sex"

Iranu..

Tufia
And what's bad in buying her gifts before?Abi are they not married. Is it not the same gifts that he used to still cajole her during courtship abi u think say the oyibo when talk say courtship before marriage na mumu?The courtship was there to know the things that interests a couple before they got married so if pampering her n getting her gifts was what the OP wife loves before they got married I see no reason why he can't use same method to cajole her to give him the sexual satisfaction he wants.

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NYSC / Re: NYSC Batch A 2020: Online Application For Mobilization Is In Progress - Official by Hcqmela: 4:00pm On Jan 08, 2020
Pls does Batch A have streams like other Batches?
Romance / Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Hcqmela: 9:25pm On Nov 22, 2019
Well
Intellectual discussion with some guys is a fruitless course most especially if the guy in question sees u as a sex object to satisfy his 40 secs yearning for sexual pleasure. And whereas in most cases girls who involve intellectual discussion with guys if u look well actually has something for the guy.They seem happy to discuss their interests with their partner even if the other may not be knowledgeable to it.

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Education / Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Hcqmela: 7:12pm On Nov 13, 2019
hemlock0:
Misplaced depression, I know of a lady that gained admission at 23 still same pharmacy she has graduated now and living a fulfilled life. Time doesn't define you what defines you is the amount of work you put into the time spent, go make good grades and your mum will be proud of you.
its not misplaced. It seems you have never been compared with your fellow peers before by a parent most especially mothers. I understand the OP well cos I have been in same situation too.Stop saying the depression is misplaced cos comparison normally is bad not to talk of when a parent is doing that to a child knowing fully well the circumstances wasn't the child's doing.

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Politics / Re: Afenifere: Osinbajo Practically Out Of Buhari’s Government by Hcqmela: 7:31pm On Nov 05, 2019
codedguy1:


VP academics while VP Admin went to London to present a bill to the dullard.
Wait oooo
Is it now two vice presidents we have.Senate President still dey exist?
Literature / Re: Cold But Charmin by Hcqmela: 6:42pm On Nov 03, 2019
emperorblog21:
Solomonakindoyin ( m),
KENVEE6 , olaiyatolulope ( f), hidhrhis( m),
Hcqmela , VERTER( m), adeosuntunde ( m),
Engrkaypee , Riddler, lawnreigh ( m)
so I have been having mentions since n I didn't know.

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Phones / Re: Tecno Camon 12 Unboxing And Initial Impression by Hcqmela: 3:14pm On Sep 18, 2019
phamous08:

go to slot...it's available there tecno camon 12 is wat is available nw and it goes for 47,500
OK thanks alot
Phones / Re: Tecno Camon 12 Unboxing And Initial Impression by Hcqmela: 2:22am On Sep 18, 2019
pls I want to get Tecno Camon 12 phone where can I get It as I can't find It on jumia again.op which of them did u get for fourty seven k?
Celebrities / Re: Tosin Silverdam: Adesua Etomi Vogue Magazine Cover Is Disappointing, Inferior by Hcqmela: 8:05pm On Mar 23, 2019
Dreew:


Interesting point of view. Her skin tone doesn't look any different than what it should be.
It looks different. Look well again
Crime / Re: Protest As Nigerian Man Is Handcuffed And Removed From A Plane In Germany. Photo by Hcqmela: 10:35pm On Mar 22, 2019
Officialgarri:
Nuisance .

You are not supposed to be on the flight but you sneaked in . So what's the protest all about ?

The pilot ought to open the plane door and the Nigerian man be tossed out into the sky
LOL
I got one word for you
S A V A G E
Celebrities / Re: Tosin Silverdam: Adesua Etomi Vogue Magazine Cover Is Disappointing, Inferior by Hcqmela: 12:50am On Mar 19, 2019
Dreew:
I want to ask...why are Africans typically insecure? What is racist about this picture as it relates to Adesua?
everything about it is so racist about that magazine cover n think its because of her ignorance too if not she is supposed to sue the magazine organizers to court for that racist attitude. Imagine the fortune or rather the fame she would have enjoyed if they had not made her skin look darker like that.They can't just assume that Africans are just black people cos there are whites too who are Africans so why should they make her skin look darker
Celebrities / Re: Tosin Silverdam: Adesua Etomi Vogue Magazine Cover Is Disappointing, Inferior by Hcqmela: 12:35am On Mar 19, 2019
TDonald:


He is one Stupid Gay BASTARD. the idiot is even on nairaland
But you should know he's observation is right.Am not even concerned about the way they placed her before those white models but the fact that they made her look darker is the biggest problem. Black has different shade n even a white skinned person can actually still be black too.even if its editing self they should have done it to beautify her as its done normally for all these models they use for magazine n not make her look uglyier cos thats what editing ought to do.The organizers are racists that is what he s letting you guys know
Celebrities / Re: Tosin Silverdam: Adesua Etomi Vogue Magazine Cover Is Disappointing, Inferior by Hcqmela: 12:23am On Mar 19, 2019
The truth is the man was only pointing out that the Vogue magazine organizers are racist with that cover of adesuwa.like seriously her skin is really bad there n she should have complained.

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Celebrities / Re: Twitter Users Slam Naija Blog For Referring To Simi As "Adekunle Gold's Wife" by Hcqmela: 11:01pm On Jan 30, 2019
Undertaker001:
Senseless talk... What did the Bible talk about husband's and wives becoming 1?

This same stupid thinking in this modern age causes marriages not to last more than 2 years..
A woman has no name..
so as the man if we follow ur opinion of the biblical scripture that husbands n wives become 1.it means the man nor get name too.

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Technology Market / Re: I Want To Open A Blog by Hcqmela: 10:48am On Jan 07, 2019
But I tried it n its not working
Technology Market / Re: I Want To Open A Blog by Hcqmela: 8:22am On Jan 07, 2019
tripplephi:
YOU DO NOT NEED ADVICE..... and NO ONE CAN REALLY HELP YOU as expected. IF YOU DO NOT KNOW THEN SIMPLY GO GET THE KNOWLEDGE FOR FREEEEEEEE



go to google and type HOW TO OPEN A FREE BLOG and you will see precise and concise tutorials..... IT WILL teach you all you NEED TO KNOW.

then you can use YOUTUBE and search the same thing if you are a visual person like me.

NOTE: no one will devout their time to teach you one on one or mentor you for free without seeking their personal GAIN.

use GOOGLE more than NAIRALAND and you will move faster towards your goal.

have a successful entrepreneurship journey.... SEE YOU AT THE TOP.

NEVER BEG FOR WHAT YOU CAN EARN OR DISCOVER ON YOUR OWN

Thanks a lot
U helped a lot
Romance / Re: Man Weds A Crippled Lady In Wheelchair. Photos Go Viral by Hcqmela: 11:20pm On Jan 06, 2019
Pls I want to be a bloger can someone give tips on how to become one n the connection too
Technology Market / I Want To Open A Blog by Hcqmela: 11:13pm On Jan 06, 2019
My fellow nairalanders, I would like to open a blog but I don't know how to open one.Pls I need the gurus in the house to help a small girl who wants to use enterpreneurship as her big God.I would appreciate ur honest advice.
Romance / Re: "I Wouldn’t Date A Guy With A Body Count Of Over 10" - Slay Queen (Photos) by Hcqmela: 11:16pm On Jan 03, 2019
Before I comment without understanding the word "Body Count, " Can someone pls explain what the word "Body Count" means?
Religion / Re: Pastor Calls Out Lady In Front Of Congregation Over Her Unusual Hairstyle.Photos by Hcqmela: 3:35pm On Jan 03, 2019
didfy:
Nigeria will learn something (blogging) and abuse it. Tell the whole story of the hair not to make Man of God stupid

Below is the clip. I ve watched it meanwhile she knew the type of ministry she was going.she needed help. If u dont ve MB to watch reserve your comments


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ei4LRqD9zg
Abi my brother, cos the man of God called her out that her hairstyle has a spiritual symbolic meaning cos the girl always change her hairstyle in different colours like red pink etc.He even told her the next colour she plans ti wear is red n she nodded her head to agree with him.Who is spreading this fake news?
Romance / Love by Hcqmela: 7:06pm On Dec 10, 2018
Love is the strongest enchantment
Love is the greatest commandment
It is not for Lust
But for Trust
It could be for someone special
Or everyone in general
Show it to the ones u love
And the ones u hate
For they are ONE

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