₦airaland Forum

SmellySperm:
They might accept your broke ass but they'll definitely cheat on you with a rich nigga

If you're broke but very attractive to them or a good banger, at best you'll be their guilty pleasure. And your usefulness would be at their pleasure and they can discard you at any time.

Attractiveness no dey pay bills for fancy hangouts, hotels, etc. Lifestyle na money. And lifestyle really is the priority for the vast majority of women. For most Nigerian women (even in many other countries), the temporary thrill of a handsome face, great body, wonderful dick, great personality, etc would wear off no sooner than when real life sets in.

Unless she's a rich bitch and you're ready to carry on with her own terms.

That's why it's very painful when I see well to do or even very rich men who have been mumufied by their 'dependant' wife or girlfriend who herself is from a broke background.

The least a guy can do for himself when he is expected to bear all the financial pressure in the union (whether he's dealing with a wife, girlfriend, fling or olosho) is to assert and exert his utter masculine dominance, almost to a stupendous/dictatorial/uncompromising extent. There's no nice way to say this.

The Gulder brand is a VERY masculine brand. I don't see how Toke is a good fit.

basty:
A very stupid old fellow. I don't know what he is trying to achieve? He can't be relevant than his current irrelevance.

He can't be more stupid than your useless old father where ever he is. Some of you are born to be useless to humanity. Bastard.

Fahdiga:
This has to be the dumbest junk I've read this year. The author of this piece of trash deserves win fool of the year award. What an incoherent and disjointed gibberish concocted by a drunkard

You don't expect these abokki animals to have sense. Imagine the idiot citing a court judgment proscribing IPOB as the 'evidence' of Chiwetalu Agu's guilt!!! Ask the fool how Agu's attire or actions in any way relate to IPOB and you will hear the silly thing mumble some nonsense with fierce fanaticism.

Life is a comedy for those who think, and a tragedy for those who feel - Horace.

This is mental illness. He is obviously a feeler. If you alow yourself to be a feeler, you will be needlessly overwhelmed, consumed and destroyed by your circumstances...

Because, depending on the unpredictable end product of a combination of your circumstances and your genetics, the result might be what you're seeing here with this young man and many others like him.

Wahala no dey finish. Just think about the wahala, but don't 'feel' it too much. Thinking about it sort of distances you from it and allows you see that the wahala as just another temporary drama which it certainly is. On the other hand, feeling it embeds you inside the wahala with a sense of permanent doom and makes you see it as 'yekpa, I am finished'. Your brain will receive this overpowering negative signals and eventually the engine will knock. You go enter market.

Nigeria is helpless and hopeless. You can imagine this rubbish.

Hotzone:
Any reasonable man will dissociate itself from a dreaded movement

Some of you people here are very stupid. Which movement is he associating himself with in the first place? Since you're too daft, you cannot differentiate between the idea/representation of Biafra and the organisation known as IPOB.

Story. It's one thing to develop a concept and another thing to prove/demonstrate the concept in practice. Make them test am with, say any useless city/state in the world, for instance Katsina State or Zamfara state, make we see.

FolabiCash:
Bruh , Kola Aluko is a fuccckin big boy. Damn.

You can say that again bruh. He's my idol, lol. Been an idol since his club chief days in Unilag. E dey body from Day 1.

KashApp:
Stubborn Adamu I like his spirit though

If we had enough people like him in Nigeria, oppression would reduce significantly.

Acidosis:
It's so bad that even his songs can't make it to any of Multichoice owned channels or programmes. Lol

If you think you can fight the media, please think well. Multichoice owns Nigeria, technically. This is even beyond Efe, some media outfits have blacklisted certain artistes over similar attitude.

As a celebrity, you have to be and remain in the good books of certain media outfits especially those that made you. It's worse when you don't have fans to defend you.

Which multichoice Oga are they even referring to?

house10s:
why that's rubbish cause he is black abi wetin

This man's ordeal pain me personally walahi. What is all this rubbish? Who did he kill? Who did he rape?

Prominent stupid men in Nigeria marry 12 year old girls openly. Imagine what they would be doing to other girls of similar age or even lower in secret?

Even in the same America, lots of people sleep with willing 16 and 17 year olds and get away with it or with a slap on the wrist.

Why all these ridiculous gang up and heavy-handed punishment for our legendary R Kelly as if he is a terrorist on same level as Bin Laden or worse? Why? The way they destroyed this man's life for nothing eh, I dey take am personal.

These Edo people are on another level when it comes to money desperation.

Nigeria is a depressing place honestly. Is this what the Ebubeagu fools were established to do? Same thing with the Amotekun idiots.

These regional security outfits were mainly setup to tackle security threats - ESPECIALLY from Fulani herdsmen and other similar threats. Now they go about arresting pick pockets, shutting down markets, and intervening in marital and civil disputes.

Who do us this kind thing for Nigeria?

Until the so-called Pandora papers expose Bola Tinubu's illicit financial dealings, I wouldn't take it seriously.

How much does binance charge as withdrawal fee if I buy btc on the exchange p2p and want to send the btc to another wallet? Let's say $50 worth of btc.

mightyhaze:
And it took the white men to discover and put all these 'facts' to paper for us.


Why did we not discover them in their own country and put their acheivements on paper like they did for us..?



More like an adult legend hyping a little baby that just said 'dada' for the first time


The whites will praise your little acheivements... Don't let it get into that thick black skull

Imagine people that have developed sophisticated carbines,sailing ships, bicycles etc. People that have circumnavigated the world , fought several land and sea wars intra/intercontinental,several centuries before discovering you inside your dark forests,..hyping you that was still fighting wars with your bare hairy hands ,still moving with thick callused feet and in some cases,porterage for elites .. and u have the spunk to say they stole technologies from you..

Don't mind these deluded fools. You don't know how pissed off I get whenever one half clever idiot spits these kinds of arguments.

SarkinYarki:
Apart from.political sycophancy ,please name one thing you have ever created

Don't mind these deluded idiots. It's repulsive.

Dey there dey deceive yourself.

Lol.

Las Las, by the time this election is over, this man go collect loan from LAPO or Sokoloan to fit buy Chisco bus ticket to Cotonou then continue his journey by foot to yankee.

TIPdrill:
It is normal for men to cheat but when a woman does so, she's called promiscuous. A man is called a Playboy when he has multiple female partners but a female is a called a LovePeddler…

Who created this world of double standards?

On Nairaland, there is a thread called the Olosho beer parlour where men share their sex escapades with other women. Some even go as far as uploading the woman's picture online.

Trust me, some of these women are students or married women. If you doubt me, kindly go through that thread.

If you check that thread, it has over 6,000 pages.

They have multiple sex partners, some of them are married but it is fine because they are men.

But if reverse was the case, a woman having multiple sex partners, she is termed a LovePeddler.

Few years ago, a Babcock student had sex with a female student and went ahead to release the video online. He broke her trust, when this lady begins to behave repulsive towards men or support movements like feminism, the world calls her a broken woman.

Come to tertiary institutions, lecturers demand for sex to award marks. Female students who refuse have to either graduate with low marks or end up repeating class.

There are even females who refuse and will rather repeat that class. How many guys will reject an advance from a female teacher or lecturer?

An innocent lady goes into a relationship with a guy who just wants sex, after he gets the sex, he ends the relationship… The guy is happy, he tells his friends, they clap for him.

The lady tries another relationship and it ends the same way. She sees the same thing happening everywhere and adopts the slogan "all men are dogs".

Luckily for her she gets into a serious relationship with another guy and this time around, she cheats. Everybody will say she's a slut as of she made herself that way.

I have seen two people in a relationship where both of them are cheating but when the guy finds out that his babe is cheating, he shouts more..

60% of married men cheat (if not more) but when the statistics change, men cry foul..

When you think that you have had it all, you come on Nairaland and see news of fathers sleeping with their daughters. These are the ones that have been caught, there are many out there that are good at concealing their secrets.

Men created the world we live in today so they should accept whatever the world has turned to.

Being half-smart is worse than being absolutely stupid.

So it is not 'double standards' when broke ass women expect to date or marry well to do men, while men are expected to only dream about dating or marrying after making money?

It is not double standard that society expects and approves of a man footing the bills in a relationship (including courting and marriage expenses), while all the woman brings is her body and her feminity?

It is not double standard that there is a Ministry of women affairs (imagine), while there's nothing for men.... Yet women drag all the profitable soft jobs with men, but women are graciously excluded from the hard jobs? How many women are in the war front in Sambisa Forest? How many police women are in crack squads deployed to confront violent criminals like armed robbers and kidnappers?

Look, what I find repulsive about this shitty feminism is that they are happy to embrace the advantages conferred on their gender by society, but they also aggressively reject the advantages conferred on the male gender by the same society.

You want the right to cheat like men, but you don't want to be the normative spender, bread winner, and hard worker like the man. You're daft.

fredoooooo:
Our own shina Olowo idan eyan islander omo akinbobola , house of rep ... different shady characters full our house of assembly e ...

It's testament to his staying power that he has been able to outlive all those other guys he 'began' with, in terms of money and relevance, and even cleaned up majorly on top. Where Islander dey sef? Awon Squad 1 that year. Even Rotimi.

Omo. Olowo Idan na spirit. Twale.

Olowo Idan don successfully wash up and clean up. Image laundered 'honourably'.

Some people be magician from birth. No try imitate them o.

As long as that terrorist Islamist he-goat remains the Minister of Communications, they're wasting their time.

Bunch of idiots.

Angelfrost:
Don't mind him!!!

Yeah... We should allow them continue, since they are stealing far less than those in power!!!

That's why they will keep getting caught and remain unfortunate in life!!! Very daft things!!!

I would have called you and your likes stupid but that would be unfair because that would amount to 'brain shaming' someone who was born with a congenital problem.

In a poor country like Nigeria, where civil servants, public servants and politicians pillage the little money available and rob the country blind with impunity, where the government has very limited resources, where there is currently an unprecedented insecurity problem where bandits, terrorists, kidnappers, etc are on a nationwide rampage......

Yet you think it is prudent for an economic and financial crimes commission to continuously deploy squads of 20+ fully armed idiots to go on random raids on ZERO-THREAT suspected Internet fraudsters? Wouldn't it have been more judicious for government to deploy these 20+ fully armed idiots to address any of the numerous instances of security threats facing the South East (for instance)? Ever heard the word priority? Do you know what priority means? What is a priority to Nigeria and Nigerians right now? Where should the limited government resources be channeled to?

I swear too many dumb bastards roaming around. Of course you would reply with some nonsense to try to defend your ego and sound intelligent, but that would only amplify and illuminate your stupidity.

His father must be very proud of him.

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

Most of you women are genuinely stupid. Misogyny comes easy when you think about this.

obi58:
From Change to Next level...

Once upon a time, few Nigerians used cooking gas in their homes most relying on kerosine or firewood and leaving gas to the elites. In fact at that time, the focus was on reducing gas flaring as this natural resource was not being fully harnessed. Fast forward a few years and now gas that is supposed to be a success story as more Nigerian households buy into this product are instead being exposed to more hardship as the price has continued to increase in spectacular fashion to the detriment of the common man.

Truly, what a shame!

Nigeria is rigged to frustrate its people. There's no way out unless you do something extraordinary in order to succeed beyond what the system can frustrate.

Just imagine the perennial chicken and egg dance that is the Nigerian government's case with crude oil price. If price of crude reduces, they claim that government's finances are badly affected, hence suffering for the masses. On the contrary, if crude price increases, they say government is paying more for subsidy for fuel which cannot be sustained, so they will increase fuel price = more suffering for the hapless masses.

Head or tail, suffering.

I pity those who still have hope in this cursed system.

Gandollar:
All these things were brought up in 2014. It's nothing new.

Of course, but that's what makes it all the more tragic.

I honestly don't think Nigeria would recover again in our lifetime. The damage is too much. If it was only economic damage it's even better. The trauma to the socio-political fabric of the polity is severe and arguably irreparable...

Amtrak:
It's because you gave her only 3k. She has concluded that you're either broke or stingy.
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Exactly. There's an art to this game. You either do it big and confidently like it's nothing, or you don't do it at all.

But then on second thought, he had no business giving the bitch any money at all, since she so coldly ignored his calls and messages before then. I know her pathetic type with their ridiculous attitude. At the end of the day when you Bleep them sef you would be disappointed.