Kate999: I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.
I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.
What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.
I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.
Mum that is supposed to be telling you to marry him is rather doing the opposite. If you let this guy go,and you don't find another man in the next few years,mum will ask you when will you marry. She will put so much pressure on you to the extent you will get tired o.. I have a friend who is her 40s. No husband no children. When she was in her 20s a man came for her,and the father refused her to marry him. Today the father is dead,and she is suffering. Last time she even told me that if it was possible she would have awaken her father to come and see the pain he caused her. So use ur brain. Don't let ur mum destroy ur future. A word is enough for the wise oo. Kindly let me knw if you read this post Op
okenwa: This is a normal thing/challenge couples face whenever marriage is brought up.
The husband to be must show some serious approach/respect by visiting your mom.
Phone conversations and pictures could be seen as disrespectful/un seriousness from him.
I'd possible your mom knows some encumbrances that you don't know. She may know the area the man live/come from which is not possible to release you in marriage.
Please invite him home to see her.
Her mum didn't sight disrespect as a reason for not wanting her to marry him,so were is this from?
Obeyp: Hello guys. So my girlfriend made this post for her friend. Have warned her about her closeness with this guy she should have limit that am not comfortable. Today she posted this on his birthday.
"See who's 20 happy birthday to one of the most amazing, talented se annoying sweet, caring person I know you know good people are hard to come by right?? Imagine having laughter, peace of mind, intelligence "good accent" na that one the burst my brain see.
"You have come through for me in ways i can't imagine and even explain and your genuine love and pure intentions you have with me it's everything for me thank you loving me the way you do. and always giving me a listening ear when i need someone to talk to how you take my burdens and problems like yours is what's really amaze me and also how you treat people's emotions it's just so pure thank you dear friend happy birthday my love wishing you the best year yet full with prosperity abundant blessings happiness � happy birthday babe have a blast and you know i love youuuuuu "
If you were in my shoes how will you feel.
Modified* I went and collected the iPhone I bought for her recently. I ended the relationship she should stay with her friend he should buy her a phone let them be together. I don't want any relationship stress. Have moved on.
Nobody will call it voodoo. It was obvious he had an ideal where many would place his penalty given how he dived to save the penalty during normal time. Funny enough many applied a shot,so if you were not sure you can't save such penalty taken with such power.
And if his preferred candidate was tinubu he would have reviewed it cos he knows tinubu has indicated his interest without fear of being eliminated. It may not also be Osinbajo. I guess Ameachi has it.
sslcrypt: This is not true, it's most likely your sister is sharing the room or sharing the house. The ghettos of lagos won't go for that amount. I recently helped my cleaner pay for his rent recently and the price was 150k. Or most likely she's at the outskirts of Lagos.
I paid for a house and hand it over to my sis and you're saying is not true? Go to charity estate ikorodu,igboolomu by psychiatric junction and ask for house to rent there.. Not everyone have time to come and post fake news on nairaland abeg
adetula148: There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues. Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry . Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day .
You got hurt by a girl and you now had to bring in religion. What role exactly did the religion played in this? And you said this is your first time with her and you concluded with why are Jehovah's witness like this.. How many have you dated dude? Well,you have not told us your ulterior motives.
bigcee: 65k? Where in Lagos Pls? Lagos state 65k rent for 2room self con? Ah, I don't believe you. I don't care about the location. Even if na badagry.
Badboibipo: How can a person have over 300,000 Naira and still can’t afford any descent house? How did we get here?
The first time I moved out of my parents house In 2018 I literally rented a house for 40,000 naira a year, and it was a room self contain in delta.
Today there is no single room self contain below 200-250,000 naira, and that’s even the ones in rural areas, anyone in town is from 300k and above, and yes just a room !!! Wtf is happening?
I’m so worried about Nigerians, am I the only one facing these issues or is every one so rich they can easily pay 300k for a damm single room apartment
How did you can I to this conclusion? I rented a house for my sis 6 months ago in Lagos,it was 2 rooms self con and 65k a year.. I think the location matters.
Abetterperson: [s]Let's not deceive ourself no country wants to be like Nigeria, we have no security, a crashing economy, bad infrastructure, bad health care, poor education, no freedom of speech and worst of all a corrupt government. It's pains me when I see other countries that has little resources compare to Nigeria already progressing. I blame Nigerians though, an average cares more about what will be his next meal than what's his future will be like. there is a retired policeman in my area, after his retirement that's when it dawn on him that police brutality is real, why must it always be like that. Let's not deceive ourselves Nigeria nor be country were person one come. Togo is even better than Nigeria Instead of deceiving ourselves why don't we try and fix the problem[/s]
Nan u dey deceive yourself non be me and you. If you have never crossed border you should shut up.
Hisbah21: his house is burning;,but helping others to over come theirs.. its well
Despite the challenges in Nigeria most African countries still wish they are like Nigeria. You can't say because we have challenges will should not play the big brother role I'm Africa. I'm not a fan of buhari though, but I love my country.
AntiBMC: So every year, ASUU must go on strike. What is this agreement ASUU talks about every year, that the government can't seem to satisfy?
This Union and the govt are forgetting that students are the ones suffering the most from this constant striking. School wey others they go for 3-4 years for other countries, students in Nigeria will be spending 8years. Every sector in this country is in total collapse... it's evident that Nigeria has failed completely as a State; a referendum is the best solution right now.
Education is not a priority to Fg.. Don't blame ASUU,blame Fg.
my work place delayed in paying our salary this month and my due date for the loan of 25k i collected is approaching so I ask some of my friends to borrow me till they pay salary but all to no avail.
One of my colleague in sch then replied me that I should come and learn work and stop this my little penny job i am doing.
He said he will add me to his group to see how he is running it
I didn't know he was talking of yahoo.
He added me and i met 189 members in the group already and after few minutes, he started dropping msgs that anybody that has access bank atm card should drop it that's when i knew he was into fraud.
I guess people started dropping the card info into his DM because he is the only one who can post a msg in the group as the Admin.
I was just viewing his update in the group and didn't know when I slept off, I woke up this morning being the 5/2/22 and he has updated that he has defrauded those atm owners a sum of 1.4m all together..
I left the group immediately when i noticed what he was into and trying to draw me to it.
But since morning, different thought has been running through my mind about the mood those victim would be at the moment getting to know their hard earn money is gone.
My heart is so fragile, I never scammed anybody before and i Pray not to ever be tempted to do so.
I never wish i experience such a thing, I feel sorry And pity for those victim and i wish they can get their money back.
Note: he doesn't stay one location so i can't say his actual location.
Should i just mind my business?
Abeg cast am,abeg.. I use God beg you.. This nonsense must stop.
MITCHELL96: [s]Local scams wey dey come with generational curse
My Gee, Don't cast him, E fit cost you your life, Just mind your business, Karma is a very bad bitch, it comes when you least eexpected it
Say no to fraud, no matter how your life be, E go better one day, look up to GOD[/s]! Nonsense. Nan why we remain like this be this.always afraid to speak up.
laluski: Look at your last paragraph...you mean you know this and you have the impunity to come here and ask us for advice...you must be very stupid.. I don't blame you, I blame her for marrying a slowpoke like you..infact between she marrying you and you saying all this here..I don't know whose more stupid..if to say na my sister come tell me this kind story WORD FOR WORD..my advice to her would have been a very dirty slap. Lemme ask you if your father did all Thai to your mother and you knew all this....will you love your dad the more or call your own mother a fool... Tell us your answer here sincerely before it enters your empty brain to get angry at the truth am saying and want to vent your childish anger back at me... Kai...this boy just spoil my mood this evening Sha...
It got me wondering why such an angel got married to an evil man like this.. The idiot is not getting the insult he deserve. How can you treat ur own wife so badly,how? Because of how much?Danmm
You just go destroy your Venza wey u suppose dey use cruise now people go just clap for u and Nigeria/Biafra government won’t be supporting cuz they are dream killer.
Thandiubani: Nigerian musician, Portable has showed love to the street after he was spotted throwing loads of cash at his fans.
It happened that he went for an event and when he was through, his fans gathered around him.
He decided to do an instant giveaway by throwing money at them. Non be only 1 single this guy don release? Where all this money they come from? Watch video below:
meneski: how body do you Abeg tell me your personal observation
I non fit talk at all. Because most of the things are unexplainable. The only one I fit remember be say,your positive emotions go disappear. Live go come dull for your eyes. All the things when you dey enjoy before you non fit enjoy am again.. You see soup when salt non dey? Nan so live go come be.. Your vision self non go clear again,like you can't see clearly. Weak erection and quick ejaculation go join,even the sex you can't enjoy again. Masturbation non be anybody mate oo.. Soon science go find the real study.. If somebody give me 10million naira to masturbate for 1 day self I can't try it.. Run from masturbation if you love itself
KingMack: My brother give your life to Christ or just use this @ the pic below till you find a wife
Masturbation never do you strong thing.. Must of you believe science that says no side effects, what you don't know is that science is dynamic, they can change their stance regarding masturbation tomorrow.. Nobody asked me to stop,nan body tell me make I stop.
Romance › Re: My Mum Is Against My Relationship by Help2020: 12:59pm On Feb 09, 2022
