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PoliticsRe: Adeyanju Deji, Charly Boy, Others Continue Resume Or Resign Protest (Photos) by henribj(m): 5:20pm On Aug 14, 2017
well done Charley Boy... it is only in Nigeria that a president will fall sick and for months be receiving treatment which is being paid for by Nigerians and still refuses to resign. This man just entered presidency so we Nigerians can be paying for his vacation outside Nigeria. truly, #OurMumuDonDo !!!
Car TalkRe: Ferrari Threatens To Take Legal Actions Against 360 Modena Limo Owner by henribj(m): 9:23am On Aug 12, 2017
i think ferrari is right, you can't buy a product and then modify the product and still choose to use the name of the initial product on the modified product.. for example, you can't buy coca cola and after drinking it you pour water into the same coca cola empty bottle and then claim it is coca cola your holding... doesn't make sense does it?
CrimeRe: Air Force Personnel Carefully Planned Murder Of Girlfriend by henribj(m): 2:34pm On Mar 15, 2017
these girls ain't loyal...
imagine sleeping with another man right under the guys nose...
women !!!
Christianity EtcRe: Illegal Abortion: Stephanie Otobo Petitions Against Apostle Johnson Suleman by henribj(m): 5:23pm On Mar 14, 2017
if the lady can suggest that police carry out an investigation on hotels they both stayed and flight itinerary , then i must say i believe the man to be guilty, the only way he can escape this is if the Nigeria police decides to sweep all these under the carpet. although the man can still escape this if he does not have any picture or evidence of him and the lady together in the nude. flight itinerary and hotel lodgings can be explained away.
PhonesRe: Guy Pours Wine On His Phone At Jokers Club In Benin (Pic) by henribj(m): 3:42pm On Mar 07, 2017
Adaowerri111:
Too much blessings, God don't pass me by









Some ITK will start hating saying it's stupidity, oya wiseman, try make money make we see
confam talk... the guy wey get the money no get two head.
TV/MoviesRe: Why Kemen Must Sue Big Brother! by henribj(m): 1:01am On Mar 07, 2017
eh yah... I am ashamed at the words some of my fellow nigerians are typing here and elsewhere on social media. so Kemen should sue BBN for being disqualified? pls o, if TBoss was any of you's sister, would you have been happy that someone was cruising her body without her consent while she was asleep? what Kemen did was wrong in all manner and such action could have resulted in rape. Kemen pls sue BBN, and then TBoss will sue you(that is if TBoss is not already having plans to do that to you once she gets out of the house. lemme ask o, if a female family friend or relative should be in your house passing the weekend or a month or some time, and your male friend or male relative goes cruising her body without her consent, would any of you tolerate it? you all should stop being hypocritical and supporting Kemen on this, what Kemen did is wrong on all levels.
#justsaying
RomanceRe: Girl Dumps Boyfriend After Collecting Birthday Gifts Worth About N700,000 by henribj(m): 12:22pm On Mar 01, 2017
xstry:
serves him right. money wey e for use buy wrapper for him mama lipsrsealed
how you take know say e no buy rapper for im mama? abi im mama come complain give you?
BusinessRe: Food Exportation: My Experience With NAFDAC by henribj(m): 12:15am On Mar 01, 2017
xynerise:
Getting them on tape will be a bit difficult since this has been publicized. The office is the one along Oshodi Expressway, Lagos. I will find a way to visit them again today.
it ought to be easy especially if you use a smartphone with recording function.
EducationRe: "The Truth About IG Yusuf's Sex Scandal With Grace, 400l IBB University Student" by henribj(m): 12:57am On Feb 28, 2017
the police should get their phone records, we will see who was calling who.
BusinessRe: Food Exportation: My Experience With NAFDAC by henribj(m): 12:08am On Feb 28, 2017
xynerise:
Now I know that one of the problem of exportation in Nigeria is caused by people or agency that are supposed to be supporting entrepreneurs.

My sister and I visited NAFDAC office to make enquiry on cost of exporting foodstuff like Egusi, Ogbono and other native foodstuff.

She has already package these foodstuff in a sack but was told to make enquiry at NAFDAC first.

We got there and we waited for about 30 minutes before they called us. She began to narrate her plans and asked how much it will cost to be given license.

The lady said the license will cost her N50 million for a start, imagine a business that the capital is not even up to N10 Million. These made my sister to rain abuses on the lady because she was so shocked on such exorbitant amount for a start.

Another man came out which I believe is in higher position than the lady we first met and invited us to his office. After we narrated what led to the drama, he smiled and said "She didn't even give you the right price, you will be charged N100 million for it". Just imagine.

This is how entrepreneurs are discouraged to do business abroad and they expect Nigeria to move forward.

I want to know if what these NAFDAC staff charged us is reality or just obvious exploitation?
go back and visit them, get them on tape, report it to efcc and post it online, make sure that the NAFDAC staffs identify themselves with their names and title o. the rest like they say is history.
CrimeRe: Wife Pours Hot Water On Her Husband In Jos For Marrying A Second Wife (Pics) by henribj(m): 2:18am On Feb 25, 2017
the husband should have just divorced her as she asked... he wanna eat his cake and still have it.. #nonsense
#justsaying
CrimeRe: Soldiers Brutalise Crippled Man In Onitsha For Wearing Military Outfit (Pics) by henribj(m): 3:36pm On Feb 08, 2017
if am not mistaken, the military came out sometime last year and warned citizens/individuals against wearing the military clothing so I believe that the crippled guy was wrong to have worn that cloth, but my annoyance is in the way the military treated the guy, they should have arrested him and taken him to their court instead of brutalizing the guy in any manner or fashion.
#justsaying
RomanceRe: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by henribj(m): 5:37pm On Feb 07, 2017
Omooniya1:
The guy is trying to play double game... using u as extra tyre, immediately he loses any of his propose girlfriend he runs back to you.... to make sure that atleast even if my new tyre busted I have extra tyre...... my advise is, I see the guy as stumbling block, is not ready to do and is preventing you from moving forward....you better cutoff d relationship... and let God choose for you.
well said, couldn't have said it better.
RomanceRe: Do You Think I've Got A Chance With Him? by henribj(m): 5:36pm On Feb 07, 2017
Izen:
Hi guys. I'm in an emotional dilemma and I think the pressure of yet another Valentine's day without a boo is getting to me. Please as much as my write up might piss you off, please try not to insult me. I'm trying to avoid a total meltdown. Thanks in advance.

So there's this guy, we've been very close friends for six years now. There has always been romantic feelings on my part and I used to have the tiniest bit of hope that it was mutual. This was until he started dating a mutual friend. What hurt the most was that he tried to hide it from me despite our closeness. He claims it wasn't his idea though.

Let's just say I borrowed myself brain after that or so I thought. I started avoiding him as much as I could but he wouldn't let me be. He eventually asked me point blank if I liked him and after much beating about the bush, I answered in the affirmative. Apparently, other friends of ours had had to call his attention to my crush on him cos dude was clueless, "according to him". I asked him if he felt the same way and he told me that I was like a little sister to him. Alas, I was sister-zoned. Note that the age gap between us is barely more than a year. He told me he wouldn't lose me as a friend because I was special. Why wouldn't he just let me go?
Fast forward to a year+, he broke up with the mutual friend though I remained friends with both of them. I had nothing to do with the break up o. I was more comfortable rekindling our close friendship then since there was no longer a conflict of interest. It took me almost two years to get over him so at that time, my heart had moved on to other prospective guys.

Years down the line, I had to change locations to another state. It was one he was familiar with and had and still has a lot of business dealings in. Let's just say I still get to see him a lot.

We both dated other people. I got badly burnt by my ex and he was there for me. The tough love kind. As we spoke about my ex, that was when it hit me. This guy has always and probably will always have my back. I felt so comfortable sharing details with him. I knew then that I missed him a lot. I've been wondering what could have been between us ever since then. In fact, I started referring to him as my best friend. I know it's only a matter of time before it's necessary to let go of that bond tho. He's gone get married to his true bestie one day.

The thing now his, he's changed a bit. I know this because we've been friends a long time and I know him well. The calls have been more frequent, longer, etc. He always tries to see me when he can, same with me. This has got me wondering if this is the way normal friendships between the opposite sex are. He now says things like, "You're this and that and it's probably why you have an issue with XX. You do the same to me but I've come to accept it, there's nothing I can do about it". I interpreted this as him sticking with me flaws and all.
At one of our discussions, he told me he would love to marry someone he's known for a long time and he used us as an example. I went on the defensive immediately and told him I couldn't marry him. That bothered him a lot and he didn't stop until he pressed me for a reason. I threw his question back in his face and asked him if he could marry me and he said yes. I pushed harder and asked if he would marry me (not as a proposal lol), he laughed about this. I eventually told him I couldn't marry him cos he hasn't proposed to me and I cannot propose to him. When he tried to form, "so you'll marry me if I ask you to", I just asked to drop the topic totally.

I know I'm supposed to be elated but instead I'm hurt. I feel like I've been emotionally played and I'm still being played in my best years. How can he do this now? Does he know how much it cost me to try to get over him the first time? Apparently, I never fully succeeded. He's toying with my emotions again and I believe he knows that. I wanted to remind him that he sister-zoned me but I held back. I can't do this again guys. Please, I just can't.
Do you think he now has romantic feelings for me but he's deliberately holding back. Do you think he's trying to give me hints? I'm tempted to shut this friendship down totally. I can't go through this heartbreak again. It hurt the first time and I'm sure it'll hurt more this time. I know shutting down this friendship will be like a break up for me cos he's been such a huge part of my life but I think that's the only way I can truly get over him. I may or may not tell him but I plan to gradually withdraw. No calls, no texts, until he gets the memo. I really need to heal cos my relationship with him has indirectly affected other relationships I have. I'm falling madly in love with him again and I need it to stop.

So guys, please should I let go now or should I hold on to a little hope that he comes around based on his recent actions.?
first things first, you are sounding desperate. if you are looking for a valentine boo, there are loads of single guys out there(not because they can't date, but because of low finance and they do not want insult from any girl). you also need to stop making yourself constantly available to this your so called bestie.. i read your previous posts and it appears you crush on nearly all your male besties... that being said, i am available if your available(#justsaying... no one knows where his/her soulmate is. now, permit me to say this, in my limited wisdom i do not think it is advisable to date a bestie you have had for many years, this is because i feel he will take you for granted, since you already know everything or nearly everything about him he will expect you to handle his baggage without making any effort to work on his baggage, afterall you knew he was this and that and yet you accepted to date him. but there are always exceptions to the case, but you should make him work real hard in getting you to be his woman, that way when you finally say yes he will see you as a trophy and treat you as such. if you are open to my proposal send me an email, its in my bio. #peace.... oh... feb 14th is 7 days away, time is tick ticking grin
CelebritiesRe: Stella Damasus Doesn't Support 2face Idibia's Protest by henribj(m): 6:15pm On Feb 01, 2017
if she actually said that then I must say she is either stupid or foolish..
all the time we have been spending since Buhari became president what have we achieved? Is it the few hours we will spend protesting that will make us not achieve what we want to achieve in life?
#justsaying
Christianity EtcRe: El-rufai Must Produce Herdsmen He Paid To Stop Killing Christians –  suleman by henribj(m): 11:54pm On Jan 29, 2017
durubrian:
Oga, Abeg o, no vex.... Go answer DSS..



I'm a Christian and I'm totally against the killings, but what this 'man' did is wrong... Mr Suleiman, Christianity is totally against violence.... #weAreNotBokoHaram #WeAreNotFulaniHerdsmen
Christianity is against violence yes I agree.... does it mean we as christians should fold our hands and not defend ourselves when attacked? if that is what your saying then that is pure stupidity. Heaven helps those who help themselves... as a christian if you have a headache you don't pray for God to heal you of the headache, you go to the pharmacy and get a prescription, take the prescription and then you get better, same way no matter how one prays money can never fall from heaven.
#justsaying
PoliticsRe: If Buhari Dies Today, It's Because Nigerians Killed Him - APGA Chairman Ike Oye by henribj(m): 3:25am On Jan 27, 2017
nonsense talk.. if he know he no fit handle 9ja issues why him come contest for the post of presido? if he wan die make he die sharperly, he won't be the first.. afterall all those 9jas wey don die during this him tenure them get double head?
#justsaying
FamilyRe: My Ex Or My New Man? by henribj(m): 10:51pm On Jan 26, 2017
just sue for a divorce pure and simple, forget what people will say. but only do this if you are certain you no longer love your husband, if you still love him then you should keep trying to make it work.
#justsaying
HealthRe: Woman Gives Birth To Baby With Two Heads In Lagos (photo) by henribj(m): 1:02pm On Dec 15, 2016
they are talking of surgery, me am wondering;

1. during surgery does one head get cut off?
2. if no head is cut off and they are separated, do the babies get to keep one hand and leg each?

can someone elaborate on this?

thanks
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Slammed For "Not Bleaching Properly" [PICS] by henribj(m): 10:56am On Dec 09, 2016
I really don't see any sign of bleaching on his body, I wouldn't even know except it is very obvious as I am not into bleaching. I am dark complexioned, my face is a lot darker than other parts of my body, if I take off my clothes my skin appears lighter and it has been this way since my young age even when in secondary school when fellow students do tease me that I bleach my skin, but seriously how can I be bleaching right from secondary school? what am trying to say is that some people do actually have such color tone on their body and this psquare guy might just be one of them.
#justsaying
RomanceRe: When You Found Out That The Girl You Want To Marry Is A Porn Addict by henribj(m): 10:50am On Dec 09, 2016
Op, have you even tried to find out what she is doing in a group where porn videos are shared? even assuming it automatically got download into her phone without her knowledge, how did she get into the group and still keeps accessing the group thereby granting access for the porn videos to get downloaded to her phone. women of nowadays can not deny they don't know whats in their phone picture or phone video section, they know every inch of those places, unless your girl is not phone smart/savvy... bottom line is her story just doesn't hold water.
EventsRe: Nigerian Lady Weds Her Oyinbo Husband Traditionally (photos) by henribj(m): 4:31pm On Dec 05, 2016
hmm... that girl must have roots in Edo State
#justsaying
CrimeRe: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by henribj(m): 4:29pm On Dec 05, 2016
this op is just silly. so you don't know the road to police station abi? you are looking for advice here... some people and their cheap method of looking for attention.
CrimeRe: Kidnapped Dangote’s Senior Strategist Murdered, Body Dumped In Gutter by henribj(m): 1:58pm On Dec 05, 2016
as a conspiracy theorist, is it wrong to say that the dead man might have offended the kidnappers one way or the other, either by cheating them of some amount of money from a ransom money paid to them during one of their transactions? otherwise why would the kidnappers say he is the one they have being looking for to kidnap? how much can he personally have that the kidnaps would be interested in him for, other than the fact that he might have cheated them during one of their transactions.
this is just a conspiracy theory and is in no way the exact truth of what transpired between them o
#justsaying
PoliticsRe: Goodluck Jonathan's Security Batters Punch Reporter - Olatunji Obasa (Pics) by henribj(m): 10:53pm On Dec 02, 2016
that reporter is very stupid.
why would you get so close to someone without his permission, especially an ex-presido for that matter?
I don't know about you all o, but if someone gets that close to me and I don't know you I will take it as invasion of privacy, anything you see you take it like that.
RomanceRe: Ladies: Have You Played Hard To Get And Later Regretted It? by henribj(m): 10:45pm On Nov 17, 2016
Raine80:
I don't just bend over just because.....someone is persistent.
Hahahaha
well said
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Buys Her Boyfriend A Car (Photos) by henribj(m): 7:39pm On Nov 15, 2016
Enybliss:
my problem is with the generalizing please don't get me wrong
people are generalizing because it is what it is, if lots of girls are bad people will generalize on that, and if lots of girls are good and give their bf's car gifts people will also generalize on that
so stop complaining because people are generalizing negatively. if they were generalizing positively will you complain?
#justsaying
PoliticsRe: Why We killed Shiite Members In Kano – Police by henribj(m): 7:08pm On Nov 15, 2016
VampireeM:
I am not in support of the shiites actions because they have been constituting nuisance of recent but one of the police roles is to protect lives and not kill! Inspector Idris there is no tangible or moral justification for the police to start shooting people dead claiming they were armed to the teeth cause most of the victims were not armed at all! What happened to using tasers and shooting on the leg?? Nigerian police needs to undergo training by their foreign counterparts.
would you say this same thing if one of the police men who lost their lives was your dad or husband?
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Buys Her Boyfriend A Car (Photos) by henribj(m): 7:05pm On Nov 15, 2016
Enybliss:
later the misogynists will come to say girls have nothing to offer more than sex and gold digging, wowor boys
if one girl out of a thousand/million girls offer a gift as huge as this to their bf , does it mean girls have anything to offer? don't get it twisted o, one girl doing it does not mean girls do it, cos one out of a thousands/millions does not count.
FamilyRe: “I Married My Boyfriend Who Infected Me With HIV Because I Love Him” —woman Says by henribj(m): 6:51pm On Nov 15, 2016
this will be the best marriage ever, no cheating at all... both husband and wife are infected with HIV, who will they cheat with? who will want to cheat with them? hehehe
#justsaying
PoliticsRe: Latest Ship Acquired By Nigeria Navy Which Left China On Sept 15 Arrives Nigeria by henribj(m): 1:39pm On Nov 06, 2016
Hmmm... Nigeria and China products, I hope this one will last o
Make e no go disappoint Navy when them dey for midst of confrontation with enemy
#justsaying
PoliticsRe: Niger Delta Women At EFCC Rivers Office Protesting For Patience Jonathan (Photos by henribj(m): 6:11pm On Oct 27, 2016
Nonsensical and jobless women
did they ever think to ask how Patience Jonathan has $15 million? not even 15 million Naira, $15 million USD.
which work Patience dey work wey give am that kain amount?

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