2buffagain:


This is pessimistic.
If you are in a highly sought field like Tech, there will be no problem.

It's if you are in some "general manager" or "generalist" type thing and you think levels is the same when you come here....that is when you will meet problem.

If you have a specific, targeted, specialized professional occupation that operates the same no matter where in the world you are, like tech/IT, you should not have a problem. And that is why I cautioned OP about ego. In a specialized field you can still have some ego tho, but on some generalist or "manager" thing, just zero your mind say you dey start from lower than you came in. But it's alright, play cards right and you will rise much higher than you came in in no time.

As to the other concern about "Nurse stories"....
The most import thing to watch out for is bringing "Naija man" misbehavior to Yankee.
If your wife is working and still handling house matters, your own is not to sit down and be looking at her. Make your presence felt. There is no thing like "only woman does that". That behavior os the primary thing I would say you watch out for, before you watch out for "nurse".

Unless the woman was sent by hell itself, of which the chances of that are low, if you treat her the way you would also like to be treated you will be fine.

Idonije8:
[code][/code]People think life is all just about money, I need to ask you a question with your 400k every month can you go on vacation every 4 months to other countries.. you Have a golden opportunity to leave Nigeria and live the best life You have ever thought of..with time you become a US citizen you can go anywhere you want and you are here listening to advise of people who praying for This same opportunity you have... if this same people telling you not go! Give this same opportunity they won’t even waste time to grab it,I know 400k is lot of money but do you know you can make more that in America,you can pave way for your brothers and sisters to come chop life in America and live a quality life...you should understand something ehn! Opportunity like this are not easy to come by..alway Learn to take advantage of it to the fullest..grab your opportunity leave this fucking country[color=#000000][/color]

2buffagain:


No yawa. Where is she based? And what specific field of IT are you?

Feel free to DM me.

2buffagain:


Bro, I suggest you drop high ego and title-seeking initially when you get here. Your major target is to learn, because you WILL have a lot to learn here.

Here, very few people in IT work for the same company for very long, and that's at the choice of the IT worker e.g better pay elsewhere. It's a good field to be.

For you, before burdening yourself with excessive work responsibility that comes with leadership, come in as a normal IT guy first and acclimatize yourself to *everything* first. It's a lot moving to a different country.

In very short time, If you truly are a leader, you will rise quick with whatever company you choose to settle in. These companies are always on the lookout for true leaders.

Enugupikin:

hesilo you've been boasted.. Many fake people on nairaland afterall

NerdyRudeGyal:
You plagiarized someone's story for your blog, smdh. No conscience.

GreatMage:


Very true...
And to top it all;
He works in a reliable oil company!
Package yourself, apply for a job in her city or closeby! If it's not enough improve yourself with some America online courses and refire back!!

Unless the IT he's talking about is not the same IT I know

sexylassie2:


All these your rant shows that you are weak, you will become a house boy soon.

I have never seen any set of men that nag about everything like Nigeria men.

Politician this and that....bla, bla, bla

You are just irritating... God help all men like you..house boy, does not even believe in himself that he can do what he wants without the help or support of no one.

Why don't you save up to get things done instead of depending on one woman abroad that will destroy your self esteem and use you like a prawn.

Shebi, all your guys shout here is how the laws abroad favours women..but you want to jump that wargon, after she oppresses you, then you carry you security job gun to shoot her dead....nonsense.

Men like you are not long term thinkers....nonsense,hypocrite.

The woman is even giving you command that you must come or else...see how you want to wee on your pants because you heard America.

What sort of men are we creating in this country self.

Spit

sexylassie2:
I shame for Nigerian men that depend on women.

Is it not emasculating for you guys.

I bet she is with 4 kids. Anyway, Nigerian men will agree for anything as long as it is USA.

MisterMan123456:


My friend those certifications will get you a very decent job.

eagleeye259:


It is not an easy decision to make. I will suggest you spend more time in knowing her before taking the big step. You can also have a backup plan like postgraduate admission in the US.

You should also research the IT industry in the US to find out what skills and certifications employers are looking for. Then, acquire the necessary skills and certifications before you head out there. In spite of your skills and experience, sometimes you may have to start from scratch. I'm starting from scratch myself.

Make an informed decision. It is risky not to take a risk. Anything worthwhile will cost you something.

All the best!

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... can't stay away from mom?? ...hmmmmmmmmmm. You need to let her know you don't move alone.
If it is your wish to have your kids grow up abroad... is this not a golden opportunity? She is not going to leave nursing abroad to live in Naija... she cannot function as a nurse back home. On marriage... why doesn't she marry in Nigeria?.... then file for you? Don't ever travel because of promise to marry... it may never materialize and you end up trapped. On jobs.... because of COVID-19.... things aren't the same as before... you will have to find out the current situation. Even marriage... these days you just don't walk in to get married. Look well before youbleap.

austine4real:




My brother



Don't check the deep of a water with both legs




Things are not always what they seems to be




Maybe the lady in particular is nearing menopause or she's being pressured.


U don't know what is on the other side of abroad oo

MisterMan123456:
If you have certifications in IT field, go to yankee. You won't regret it.

Ayemileto:


If you're married to her, it's possible.

But from the write up, she wants you to come there before marriage.

Ayemileto:


It's Possible.

Interview can be done online.

Just tell her to keep sending you open opportunities there.


But what makes her think the US embassy will give you VIsa self?

stanliwise:
Hook her on the neck too by telling her to get a ready job for you over there if it can't happen then omo run o

baralatie:
you earn 400k per month in pH Nigeria and you are courting somebody who is lives across the Atlantic ocean!
something is wrong somewhere

boom99:
A friend got married to his doc. Fiance. He left his good job and went to USA. They are doing well. If the girl is a good xtain u no go get issue

lefulefu:
if u said u were quitting your job for further studies overseas then i might understand but for saying u quitting ur job in naija cos u want to get married to a woman who is based in yankee means u lack focus.
guy u need to have priorities and know the things that are important in life
u marry this woman and she will now turn u to houseboy.ur job will be of washing plates and cleaning her car in the mornings b4 she goes to work
and while she comes in the evenings u will now service her in za oza room.is that the kind of life u want for urself?

Bola146:
As for me, it's very risky! Starting all over again there. Tell her to come and spend some days with you in Nigeria first, then follow your heart

maxjax:


me sef still dey wonder o

SweetCunt97:
Do you wanna b at the mercy of a woman? Anyways if you can get a job over there and you are sure she's a good woman, go for it. Remember na online things and I doubt you know her real character

Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Company shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What's your take on this?

dozzybreezy:
I can never forget the several hot sex I had with one short, busty, ebony girl that squirts hot creamy liquids while having an orgasm.
Like play like play my d*ck no fit rise again. Confirm 2weeks, I never had an inch of a sexual urge! Arhhhh!!! Omo, LAS LAS one of my guys wey en popsi na herbal man package better ngborogu(roots) for me inside bottle. I poured ogogoro inside, leave am 2days begin dey take am shot by shot 3times in a day.
Gradually my people, I regained sanity and my hardcore quality returned. Since then, I dey fear woman and after any sex(raw or not) I will take ampiclause.

Bro, try better ngborogu(roots)

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tensazangetsu20:
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pek:
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Snowkel:

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