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4reala:
I think you shld go back and start talk with ur former place of work, while waiting for this new one which only remains appointment letter. So if your old place reabsorb you, then keep on working, and if your new one comes, then you also can disengage them, just as they did to u in the first place and move on wit ur new work

Lol... this has been on my mind, but don't know how to go about it cos I hate disappointing people with no remorse. I wish I had no conscience.

SilentVboy:
@op, sorry for your predicament. Its not easy getting a job, we all know.

But I think u made a mistake with respect to the new company that called u. Why did u tell them to give u a month when asked how soon u could resume?

When asked such quest, u should say immediately. It shows how u really need the job. There are others waiting to jump in for the job, and u are saying they should wait for u for one month?

I was asked same quest before I got employed in d company am working now. I simply replied "immediately". And just one week after, they called me to come with my credentials for verification and collection of employment letter....

Wish u d best...

It was perhaps a mistake I made, was not even comfortable after I gave them that reply originally said two weeks and then I thought of traveling back and settling everything at my base and told them a month, so as to even align the start date with the coming month ie this very month. Meanwhile the HR kept saying I should be hopeful, it's just that I don't know how long I should keep at that. Thanks tho

I lost My Full time job 15months ago and had this contract job I held on to before the job loss. Actually I worked in a private institution as an assistant lecturer before the suppose disengagement. The contract job also stopped few months after I was disengaged. It's been difficult for me considering that I have been doing nothing since the beginning of this year. Last month I was invited for an interview in an oil servicing firm in ph which after the interview I was asked to proceed for medicals which I did. Meanwhile after the interview I I was asked when to likely start I told them to give me a month so as to relocate as I live in a different state. It's been a month and 6days since after the interview and I have no heard from them. However I called the HR before the end of the month as to know what to do, he said I should wait so there are pro interview processing going on. I'm tired and downcasted as I am considering going back to my previous place of work because the management said they would review my case. I stopped going to them because of this current company because I don't want to disappoint anybody(like getting reabsorbed for company B to beckon and I leave). Remember the current company is willing to play twice what I was receiving from my previous place of work. I am confused and don't know what to do anymore. Time is no man's friend it's also not easy along as man needs something to keep body and soul together as currently I'm upgrading on my IT skills and have no source of income whatsoever. Please I need your candid advice, what should I do.

Sorry for typos if there are any... Thanks

tripplephi:
Bro Bro Bro
I feel your pain o BUT
how can you be in ICT and still looking for Job?

See, you even have data to browse and money to upgrade your skill. WHY NOT START IMPORTATION BUSINESS WITH 5K and take advantage of the Christmas season around the corner,


IF MOHAMMED DOES NOT GO TO THE MOUNTAIN, THEN THE MOUNTAIN HAS TO COME TO MOHAMMED


See BY 2019 you can be employing people. u should not have wasted 8-9 months of 2018 if you knew that you could IMPORT and SELL through JUMIA or KONGA or OLX and use the money to keep body and soul together

Thank You for the advice... Truly I was expecting that the contract job which actually lead to my disengagement was going to continue because it comes intervally. So didn't know what exactly is wrong and have not been called since this year... but what exactly can one be importing with 5k that would keep him going with rent, feeding and other expenses in view?

Please I am currently out of job, lost my job last year and would like to volunteer for any kind of IT related position if there are any. However I am a multi talented person and have good training/communication skill. Please I'd appreciate if I could be considered thanks. 07061232381(hesilo94@gmail.com)

I lost My Full time job 15months ago and had this contract job I held on to before the job loss. Actually I worked in a private institution as an assistant lecturer before the suppose disengagement. The contract job also stopped few months after I was disengaged. It's been difficult for me considering that I have been doing nothing since the beginning of this year. Last month I was invited for an interview in an oil servicing firm in ph which after the interview I was asked to proceed for medicals which I did. Meanwhile after the interview I I was asked when to likely start I told them to give me a month so as to relocate as I live in a different state. It's been a month and 6days since after the interview and I have no heard from them. However I called the HR before the end of the month as to know what to do, he said I should wait so there are pro interview processing going on. I'm tired and downcasted as I am considering going back to my previous place of work because the management said they would review my case. I stopped going to them because of this current company because I don't want to disappoint anybody(like getting reabsorbed for company B to beckon and I leave). Remember the current company is willing to play twice what I was receiving from my previous place of work. I am confused and don't know what to do anymore. Time is no man's friend it's also not easy along as man needs something to keep body and soul together as currently I'm upgrading on my IT skills and have no source of income whatsoever. Please I need your candid advice, what should I do.

Sorry for typos if there are any... Thanks

gaby:
So you sabi God? Smh for you olopa

I can just picture gej rolling on the floor laughing his ass off..kiokiokio and beckoning on Peypey to bring the remaining fresh fish pepper soup and kaikai...

You got well served an ace...

Everybody go get their own one by one..its only but natural and we call it "Karma"

Enjoy my siggy

kentoski:
Wallowing in sadness or self pity is the last thing you should be doing, what did you study in school?

Upgrade, get a Master's, do a PGD if necessary, start applying for graduate assistantship in universities, especially the ones in your home state or the private ones, once you're hardworking, it's a good place to start, abi you no wan become VC of a university some day? Think big!

PTDF local Master's scholarship is ongoing, 2.2 is accepted, have you applied?

Please do you have the link?

[quote author=akinszz post=71829638]My Peugeot 206 dey drink fuel like camel[/quoite]

I have a friend who drives that peugeout 206, the guy is ways begging money for fuel. That car name rubbish finally. Enjoy it when it's new and den sell it off after two years of use. Golf better pass the car 5x

Anytime you visit a native doctor and ask him to kill the person with your certs, your husband might die...

EVILFOREST:
Nooo
They are Dangerous ooooo
They have messed many people up.
Rendered many HOMELESS.
I visited a corner in El segundo in Carlifonia, I wept.
Many depressed dudes.
BLACK AMERICANS bad oooo
I knew all that before I settled for an Igbo speaking and a culturally endowed lady with so much respect for me.
When I hear of people trying to tie the knot with someone in the US, I first ask “ na Black American” hahahaha.
I always encourage people to go for people that visit home regularly.

Please did you, or rather what steps did take to hook up with your present wife. I'm really really ready to follow your footstep you could be saving a brother. I'm 30, good looking and smart. 07061232381thats my WhatsApp number. Thanks in advance

EddieCAD:
Send me ur whatsapp no. I want to create a whatsapp group for Google Local Guides, Nigeria

Please add me 07061232381

Ajiswaggs:
na minute browsing u still dey do when Mtn 1gb cheat every24hrs dey

Bro put ur guy thru na

Famousbabe:
NAF officer and pilot, Squadron Leader Bello Baba-Ari, has been buried in accordance with Islamic rites.

Many dignitaries and senior military officers paid last respects as the body of Squadron Leader Mohammed Bello Baba-Ari was laid to rest.

See more photos

http://www..com/2018/09/photos-burial-of-bello-baba-ari-naf.html?m=1

He was murdered shikena

CilicMarin:
Shame should be for Fani Kayode, for failing to deliver his polling booth to the PDP last Saturday.

But trust the independent pigs of Biafra, they will soon be here to eulogize their God of cocaine.

Useless pigs

So wetin come bring idiotic pigs to this matter now?... You Yorubas truly are the ones who made Nigeria a mess. You would obviously know what to do and how to do it, yet ignore to feel miserable and blame igbos. I usually dont do this but it's hight time we stopped being stupid and facing our problems.

Some of these so called HODs be doing anyhow until one day dey will sack somebody for a cheap promotion and sack themselves permanently from LIFE. Stop ruining people's lives because you feel you got powers. Sometimes we fail to understand that most of the people you look down on today or actually blocking to get to their destination might be hoodwinked by nature to be the people who would take you to the next position by them being in their destined destination for which you are painstakingly blocking them from. Always be tolerant and know that we are humans. Let somebody's success story spur our innate desire to reposition our mindset for better us than to simply hate and wish to destroy.

hesilo

CAPSLOCKED:
BUT IT'S A MAN'S JOB TO GIVE WOMEN MONEY... HAHAHAHA.

NO WONDER AUNTY CHIMAMANDA WANTS MEN TO STOP DOING THINGS FOR YOU PEOPLE (INCLUDING THE SIMPLEST THINGS LIKE OPENING DOORS) CUS MOST OF Y'ALL TERRIBLE HUMANS WHO DON'T DESERVE ANY LOVE OR FAVOURS.

DID YOU SEE WHERE THIS LADY SAID HER MAN HELPED HER WITH SOME MONEY TO DO BUSINESS? AND NOW HE'S UNFORTUNATE WHILE SHE'S BETTER THAN HIM AND ALL YOU WOMEN ON THIS THREAD ARE DOING IS DISSUADE HER NOT TO HELP HIM BACK JUST THE WAY HE HELPED HER.

YOU WANT HIM TO REMAIN BROKE SO SHE CAN BROKE-SHAME AND DISRESPECT HIM, AND JUMP ON TO THE NEXT AVAILABLE MAN.

MOST OF YOU GIRLS ARE TERRIBLE.
WOE BETIDE THE MAN THAT'LL TAKE ANY ONE OF YOU AS HIS WIFE OR ANYTHING SERIOUS.
HE'S DESTINED FOR RIDICULE, SORROW, POVERTY, PAIN AND UNTIMELY DEATH.

THIS IS WHY MEN DON'T GO TO WOMEN FOR HELP. YOU AIN'T GETTING NOTHING.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN DON'T GO TO OTHER WOMEN FOR HELP. NOTHING GO FALL OUT... EXCEPT SHAMING AND INSULTING YOU.

YOU CAN'T HELP YOUR MAN WITH CASH, YOU CAN'T PAY BILLS, YOU CAN'T CONTRIBUTE IN ANYWAYS TO ANYBODY'S LIFE...
YOU ONLY USE YOUR MONEY FOR WIGS AND MAKEUP AND YOU THINK YOU'RE REALLY LIVING? DAMN.

JUST LIKE MISSRAINE69 SAID... MONEY BRINGS OUT THE WORST IN PEOPLE. .

YOU SEE THE KIND OF WOMEN AFRICA IS MADE OF? SEE THE GUTS IN HER STUPID WRITE UP. THEY ALL SELFISH BASTARDS YES INCLUDING MY SISTERS. I GOT A SISTER WHO STILL WISH I DON'T GET MARRIED ON TIME SO I CAN CONTINUE DASHING HER MONEY. SHE IS MARRIED WIHT WITH KIDS O...DAMN!!!

ZoeyJ:
I made that mistake of lending out 43k and never got it back.
I'm still pained

Listen to yourself, it's a mistake now. I strongly believe you never gave him that money if you felt you had benefitted less from your BF. When you women give money to a man it's a loss, but countless times you get money from men and you never regretted it. To slap u just set hungry me

I currently have a girlfriend who openly told me that her girlfriend who is married and have had a baby for the man. She told me in confidence that the husband of her friend is not the biological father of the child. She told me that her friend got pregnant for her boyfriend which she doesn't truly like but has on that has better career and wants to marry her, she swiftly went to the current husband and had sex with him too. She told me that whenever she goes to their (her friend's house) she would see the man carrying the baby, playing with him up and down but doesn't know that the baby is not his. I got so mad with myself and her that i almost swore not to get married. She couldn't tell me which of her friends it was. After reading this, i remembered her and it made me mad once again.

Awww....water filled my eyes while i looked at her picture. Such selflessness isn't found anymore. She has secured a place in heaven. God bless you ma.

I must tell you it really wasn't easy for me. I lost my job July 18th last year for some flimsy excuse from my employer. It was as though my would was going to crash. While at the job i secured a shop and started a laundry business and belive you me when i lost this job i was bout getting loan from my place of work to finance this business. Just about that, i lost the job and could not even paint the shop. I started washing clothes like that in an unpainted shop and just like that for about a year plus now. Luckly for me i got another job just last week. Done medicals and would be starting by month end as i was asked when to start. its is really not easy i swear. Nights i could not sleep, days i could not eat and it happened for months until i realised i was really in a deep shit. Thank God i am recovering because depression dealt with me. At a point i already made up my mind to go to my previous office armed, bleep up all those who conspired to push me away to suffer and finally kill myself. But i thank God its now over. It can only be God. Op its not easy per say, but maintain your calm, sleep over it, make sure you always have data in your phone to keep yourself busy. Then be on the lookout. don't also forget to reachout and learn a trade/skill as that would be your only saving grace. God bless you

I recently got a job interview by a reputable oil servicing firm in ph on Wednesday, I'm likely to be writing exams and to a face to face too. Please what exactly are possible exam questions I'm likely to face. Thanks so much for your contribution and assistance.

XaviDayo:
Tony Elumelu grant

Aww...dats so good to hear. I wish I could talk wit u in private. hesilo94@gmail com (07061232381). Just pm on whatsapp kinda would need ur humble assistance. Thanks

XaviDayo:
I studied marketing too in Kaduna polytechnic. Banks will easily snap you up if you are within the age range they want. Pharmacitical companies will also be glad to have you. I have classmates that got jobs marketing drugs and were given very clean cars.

Thanks to TEF, I am doing my own business. So, wish u luck mate. Ciao

please what is TEF? is it some loan or grant issuing initiative?

I got a message from EFCC to come to kaduna for medicals. Please any body get same message or is it a scam.

Constantiney:
You are just another hopeless idiot and an intellectually handicapped slowpoke who deserves no attention from me. You are lucky i mistakenly clicked on the mention tab. If stupidity sells at 1naira, you would have been a billionaire by now. With all these points you listed, how does it now make them 'losers'? A senseless Arrow you are. And its ''your'', not you, but since you are an illiterate, learn how to spell first before addressing people you don't know. You stupid Arrow.

Stupidity runs in ur blood. I won't reply you again.

Af.....

OkutaNla:
http://www.tribuneonlineng.com/156779/

They will tag him IPOB. Just wait and see

My observation is that the Nigerian structure is found on a weak basis. When I mean weak I mean it earnestly. Most bosses are incompetent and as such wouldn't want someone who's smart and better to rise to lime light. I once got a job and worked for a year before d firm employed a new staff. In less than six months, the guy was made to manage manage me. I was so heartbroken, it got me so heartbroken because the said guy doesn't know much as I have tried to learn one or two from him. To be frank I am leagues ahead of this dude. I tried some place else and got a better paying job. Nigeria would grow when dey stop favouritism, petty politics, mediocrity and appreciate brilliance/merit.

Amarabae:
No daughter yet?

Cute family.
God bless them

Come born me daughter na. I would like to see a small version of you

She no jus get boobs.

To the best of my knowledge. Kano according to statistics. Is the fourth most developing city in Nigeria. Ph is third. Abuja second. Lagos first. Ibadan is the largest city in Nigeria in time of landmass . But in population. Lagos first and Kano second. The richest state in Nigeria in terms of GPD Lagos state first And rivers state second. IMO state has the highest number of professors in Nigeria. Southwest is the most developed political region. Anambra has the highest number of millions in Nigeria. The most less developed region in Nigeria northeast. My people. The richest tribe in Africa is igbos. Southwest has the highest number of university graduate. Igbos are more hardworking than any other tribes in black race. Hausa most sincere tribes in Nigeria. Igbos the smartest tribes in Nigeria. All this figures has been authenticated. I didn’t makes it up. British position north in leadership of Nigeria because of successful ness of indirect rules before 1960. Every tribes has advantages and also disadvantages associated with their tribes. Therefore. Let us respect one another and desist from tendencies that tears us apart. I have benefited from almost every tribes in Nigeria in many ways. I love black and white and I can not discriminate any tribes or region. Discrimination is sign of on civilization and also contrary to biblical principles. Pls my people. Prove me wrong if you are not comfortable with my points but PLs do not insult me