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Politics / Re: Is This True - Wike’s Close Political Allies Dump Pdp For Apc by heywhytech1(m): 8:18pm On Dec 29, 2015
Wike is a wicked man and deserved no better treatment than being used and dropped. This is surely the begging of end for the caretaker governor.
Romance / Re: The Attachment Of Ex-lover by heywhytech1(m): 12:25pm On Dec 15, 2015
fajani:
if another door of happiness opened for me, I Dnt stare at d closed door
better
Romance / Re: The Attachment Of Ex-lover by heywhytech1(m): 5:47pm On Dec 12, 2015
I have been through it, it really hurt. Emotional attachment is so terrible
Romance / The Attachment Of Ex-lover by heywhytech1(m): 5:30pm On Dec 12, 2015
What is so special about us finding it difficult to let go of our ex's even after many years or months of separation.
In relationships many things happen but we seems to forget easily variosus events that took place once the relationship crashed, some ex's are so unique that you cannot have a perfect replacement for them, while some are terrible that you will be thanking Jehovah that they are gone, this prompted me to write about how you can break the attachment to your ex-lover and feel loved again.Your attachment to your ex for a strong emotional " you are attached to your ex" but don't understand why? You are having difficulty letting go of your relationship because your ex provided you with stability and comfort? After the dust has settled you begin to see things in a new perspective that your love for your ex blinded you from. So how do you break your emotional dependency on your ex?

Firstly you must understand you are dependent on your ex in the first place. Often you become dependant on your ex to fill a void in your life that was mostly created during childhood. You allowed other people to define your self worth. When you met your former lover, they probably made you actually begin to feel worthy of receiving love probably for the first time in your life you started to feel like you were valuable and appreciated, we become dependant on our lover based on the emotional needs thaf they fulfilled. We rely on our partner to provide us those "Feel-good" feelings. Slowlly, over time, we make then totally responsible for giving us the attention that we crave, they provide us with feelings of love and approval, they make us fell worthy and safe. However, when the relationship sours, the attention stops and our self worth starts to diminish.it was unfair of us to make then responsible for how we felt every moment of everyday. This is why most relationship end in a "lose-lose"situation, when you are ready to let go of those unusual feeling of insecure, these are the major actions you can start to take today to break your emotional dependency on your ex.

Learn how to be responsible for your own emotion. You are the only one who has control over how you feel at any particular moment, you have to realized no one can make you happy or sad, take control of your entire emotional system now or you will continue to be slave to it for the rest of your life. Secondly learn what your emotional needs are, learn how to give yourself what you expected your Ex to give you instead. Give yourself attention and love don't wait for your Ex, you will feel fulfilled when you provided yourself with things that you think you are lacking.

Finally define your own self worth and don't let other people dictate what your worth is no matter how much you love them. Attach much value to yourself never let anyone undermine yourself worth. Don't isolate yourself, attended functions, relate with people and feel free to share your worries with friends and give your self a relationship break of at least three months before jumping into another one, this time you should have know yourself worth and never give room for new lover to control what you feel about yourself, you are not a doormat, so stop acting like one. Do what you can each day eventually you will cut through that rope that ties you to your Ex emotional slavery like a chainsaw.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by heywhytech1(m): 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2015
This man is not economical with foolishness, he know he can't win the election he just using the medium to display his stupidity.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by heywhytech1(m): 4:33pm On Dec 08, 2015
This
Politics / Re: #BayelsaDecides: APC Kicks Against INEC’s Cancellation Of Elections by heywhytech1(m): 8:15am On Dec 08, 2015
saint047:
Giving state security helicopters to one's godfather for his personal use is an abuse of office and enough grounds for impeachment.

A right thinking individual can see d diff btw d conduct of INEC during Jonathan and now. To be candid,INEC under Baba is taking us backward
is taking you wailers backward while Nigeria is moving forward.The cancellation favour your dead party you are still complaining of backward, may thy lord have mercy on your backward soul. Mumu is your second name.
Politics / Re: EFCC Arraigns Akpobolokemi, Ex-nimasa DG And Nine Others For Alleged N1.153bn Sc by heywhytech1(m): 6:50pm On Dec 03, 2015
This Country get money oo oo.South- south thieves don't steal in million but in Billions.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Immigration Job Scam By Akinwale Aminat Mosun NIS.23505 by heywhytech1(m): 12:20pm On Dec 03, 2015
Immigration Job Scam by Akinwale Aminat Mosun NIS.23505


An officer of Nigeria Immigration service serving in the Ogun state command of the service scammed three graduates with the promised of assisting them in securing employment in to NIS in the last aborted recruitment exercise conducted by the Service. The officer claimed her sister is working at the National assembly, she told them her sister asked her to look for people that applied for the requirement but not sortlisted, and she charged them three hundred and fifty thousand naira(350,000)each. She said they should pay one hundred and fifty thousand for start and pay the balance when the letter is ready. The victims made the first payment of one hundred and fifty thousand to her FCMB Account No: 0798640018, name: Akinwale Aminat Mosun on the 25th June, 2015. Three weeks after, she called them to
make the remaining payment, that their employment letters are ready for collection and that her sister will not release the letters if they don't pay the balance, after a long heated arguments they agreed and made the payment of two hundred thousand naira to make the total money paid to her account three hundred s and fifty thousand by each of the applicant. A week after they made the balance payment , she sent text to them that their employment letters are ready for collection but there was an error on one of the letter due to that she could not comeback to Lagos. A week after,several phone calls were made to her phone numbers:07087914537, 09098068396 she refused to answer, non reply several text messages sent to her lines until the recruitment was aborted on August, 20th 2015 before she picked call and she asked them to come to her house at pleasure area of Iyana-Ipaja Lagos. When the victims got to her house, she apologized and promised to refund their money since she wasn't able to give them the employment letters as as agreed upon and she told them to come back on the on 28th Sep,2015. When the victims got there t on the day she promised, she has moved out of the accommodation, this prompted them to traced her to her office at Otta-Area office of the Ogun state command of the service, when they got there the officers they met told them many people had early came to made similar report that her file is full of petitions ranging from various allegation of fraud and theft, the officer told them to also submit their petitions, they asked the officers if she will come to office that day they said she has not been coming to working for a while
when asked if she is on leave they said no, they also asked the officer if she has resigned they said no,she just ascond from work without official notice.As at the time of publishing this report no any form of communication either from Mosun of the office the petition was submitted .Mrs Akinwale Aminat Mosun with service number NIS/23505 is a scammer and she is at large possibly looking for another set of victims. One of her colleague told ourour reporter that Mrs.Akinwale also scammed one of their officer the sum of two hundred thousand naira with the promise of help her husband secure employment in to the Immigration Service. This woman need to be brought to book by relevant authorities particularly Nigeria Immigration service to safe the reputation of the service and also by EFCC for probe.
Cc:Seun,Lalasticlala,Mynd44

Source: http://www.heywhyzo..com.ng/2015/11/immigration-job-scam-by-akinwale-aminat.html?m=1
Politics / Re: Things To Know About Yahaya Bello Apc's Replacement by heywhytech1(m): 3:16pm On Nov 28, 2015
His CV is quiet impressive, a very lucky man, God will guild you in the journey ahead and bring the much needed development in Kogi state and also congratulations to my Ebira people for producing the Governor for the very first time in the history of Kogi State, life is turn by turn. You see the work of God, left to human to decide Igala people cannever allow Ebira to smell that seat.

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Politics / Re: Kogi: Wada Kicks As Early Results Favour Audu by heywhytech1(m): 10:17am On Nov 22, 2015
Gov.WADA should be ready to put on that call and do it in Jonathan way, another hero of Democracy is about to emerge
Politics / Re: List Of Impeached Nigerian State Governors Since 1999 by heywhytech1(m): 2:20pm On Nov 21, 2015
Only in Nigeria will someone with questionable character like Fayose can be elected Governor, it's only possible under the misrule of PDP. Thank God that days of impurities are over.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by heywhytech1(m): 7:42am On Oct 29, 2015
Op u need to be careful about your actions, I was once in similar situation and I perfectly understand how hurtful it was, it was a wrong I can't rewrite please let the pregnancy stay, God will surely show you a better way to take good care of her if truely u both compatible.
Politics / Re: S’court Ruling: Nobody Can Steal My Mandate, Says Wike by heywhytech1(m): 8:35am On Oct 28, 2015
Is high time this man took a back seat, he should concentrate his efforts on rerun not the mandate that he stole from the people.
Politics / Re: Tribunal Cancels The Election Of Nyesome Wike, INEC To Conduct Fresh Election by heywhytech1(m): 1:36pm On Oct 24, 2015
As expected, but the chance of APC wining Rivers is as slim as office pin, but Wike should be callback to answer questions on ASUU strike and what happens to billions allocated to education ministry without result, he should then be promptly charge to court and jailed if guilty. One thing that is sure is that PDP will everly defeat APC in any election as long is in Rivers. Wike should not be allowed to re-contest, even the present speaker might decides to run because he will be swear-in as AG.Gov. and that will prover his chance and thwart any effort Wike make.

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Removes Danladi Kifasi As Head Of Service by heywhytech1(m): 5:10pm On Oct 20, 2015
Reason plz, I don't trust SaharaReporters until I see a copy of the letter.
Religion / Re: Assemblies Of God Church Drags Factional Group To EFCC Over Embezzlement by heywhytech1(m): 9:20am On Oct 20, 2015
Corruption is everywhere in Nigeria, even in the Church.
Health / Re: How St.nicholas Hospital Doctors Killed Chaz B By Chinyere Roselin Chukuma by heywhytech1(m): 6:21pm On Oct 19, 2015
Everyone will go at our appointed time. Though some Nigeria Doctors are just a bit better than ordinary chemist, the young Doctor was actually experimental about that Charles.

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Politics / Re: 'How Cabals In The Presidency Hijacked Buhari’s Ministerial Appointment' - SDC by heywhytech1(m): 5:00pm On Oct 19, 2015
Cabal or no Cabal somebody must be appointed as matter of fact those nominated are they not Nigerian or not qualified?
Politics / Re: "I Call On President Buhari To Release Nnamdi Kanu" -- Femi Fani-kayode by heywhytech1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 19, 2015
This FFK doesn't know his comment is not relevant anymore, Kanu should be charge for treason and if find guilty then he should be hang.

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Politics / Re: If SARAKI Can Preside, Then AMAECHI Should Pass by heywhytech1(m): 7:45am On Oct 19, 2015
This article is concise, eloquent and free of sentiment. Rotimi Amaechi deserves to be screened because he is still innocent until proven guilty, besides I don't see to understand why Saraki that is an accused person should be a presiding officer and declined to screen someone that has not be charge to court this kind of thing can only be allowed in a third world Country, is high time Nigerian needs to let these Senators understand they need consider our plight and do things constitutionally. I strongly believed Amaechi will be screened tomorrow..

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Politics / Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by heywhytech1(m): 7:39am On Oct 18, 2015
DSS shouldn't ve arrest this criminal, he will be feeling too important and more popular by this arrest. I believed the Crack team of the DSS will Make that idiot smell what hellfire look like and charge with treason and felony straight away. Now he will realize the Biafras can do nothing about his arrest, stupid fellow that refers to his home country as zoo.

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Politics / Re: ‘dear Baba’: Jonathan Writes Obasanjo, Seeks Blessing For New Foundation by heywhytech1(m): 7:37pm On Oct 17, 2015
GEJ should rather address his letter to Nigerians, because he caused a lot of hardship to us not OBJ, by the way OBJ doesn't forgive. If u find it dim to write apology letter to us, kindly advise your fellow offenders to surrender our stolen money and let them know that stealing is now corruption under this current dispensation.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: WHYTE CLEON Aptitude Test And Interview by heywhytech1(m): 4:30pm On Oct 16, 2015
henry99:
bro pls where did u do your diploma in customer service rep nd wats d cost??...pls am very much interested.
ANIS International School of travel and tourism, Oshodi Lagos
Celebrities / Re: Salawa Abeni And Nigerian Big Sheff Perform At Felabration Day 3 (Photos, Video) by heywhytech1(m): 5:49pm On Oct 15, 2015
This is quite disgusting, he needs surgery to get rid of those fat. Can this guy ever enjoy sex?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: WHYTE CLEON Aptitude Test And Interview by heywhytech1(m): 9:04am On Oct 13, 2015
We are in the same stage bro, kindly direct ur mail to heywhyzo2007@yahoo.com
Politics / Re: Patrick Obahiagbon's Response To Pa Edwin Clark On Jonathan Not Having Willpower by heywhytech1(m): 3:18pm On Oct 10, 2015
In any meaningful speech made the aim is communication and if 90% of your intended audience fails to understand your speech, then it result to nothing but nonsense, I hate whenever this man talk.

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Sports / Re: Vincent Enyeama: 'I Quit So As Not To Divide The Nigerian Football House' by heywhytech1(m): 3:03pm On Oct 10, 2015
In the first place I am finding it difficult to see reasons Oliseh was given the Job, from my perception I feel super eagle is a lot bigger for Oliseh to kick start his coaching career. As for Enyeama I don't feel striping of captaincy warranty your unprepared retirement if truly you are committed to national assignment, that been said, now that u are retired stop distraction, super eagle needs concentration and your speech might spite disunity in the team. God bless Federal Republic and www.heywhyzo.com

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Politics / Re: Nigeria @55 Was Ojukwu Selfish Or Patriotic On Biafra by heywhytech1(m): 7:38pm On Oct 01, 2015
Ufranklin92:




go sleep Mr man.
make ur opinion know perhaps our views maybe different, when the time come for me to sleep I need no intrusion from you.
Politics / Re: Nigeria @55 Was Ojukwu Selfish Or Patriotic On Biafra by heywhytech1(m): 7:21pm On Oct 01, 2015
Was Ojukwu's interest worth the lives lost during the war?

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