Golden147: Good afternoon everyone.. Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR.. There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her. I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid. Here is my reasons
She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too. My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.
I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me. I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this. It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears. I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.
Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.
Matured advice please
how much u get why u Dey talk of marriage ?u have a free puci Dey enjoy yourself and keep quiet.
zoeA: These attitude towards celebrating occasions has dragged the black man backwards. They say an African loves to dance... whether in marriage,death or birth...we just love to dance... imagine if Obi Cubana and his cohorts as rich as they claim to could pull their resources creatively towards the development of their immediate environs that untarred road I saw in Obi Cubana's village no for dey... It's almost a crime celebrating lavishly in the midst of poverty... Roast me please
[quote author= post=103759922]When you have the money spend it for others to benefit, that's the spirit of Anambra guys[/quote]u Dey reply that crase person?take ur own money to ur grave we will chop our own here.
centoke30: with your response, I bet you have really suffered from pre/post poverty syndrome. It's your kinda mentality that is killing the black man race, how can you gift 56 cows for just a burial of one person that will be buried in a day like are you normal at all? Have you seen any white man being as frivolous as this? Please respect your ancestors
do white men have a president like buhari.why do u ppl compare yourself with whites.a white man can spend millions on hes pets can u.we are blacks and this is our fantasy.we love and enjoy vanity.weda u a miser or u blow money everybody is going to die someday so Wetin.
Getdabag: my brother dnt be moved by the showoff..a house in ikoyi alone will gulp morethan half thier networth..its all hype!!
why do they deal with lowbrow areas like anambra and owerri let them move on up and compete with the likes of tinubu and otedola in spending and lifestyle..within a year theyll go broke..no cap
linda ikeji alone has more figures than them..they are just noise makers trying to impress average nigerians with exaggerated wealth
no bros them get o.why would someone move to ikoyi God Dey live der?whats wrong with owerri and other areas.peter obi spends most of his time in Nigeria in onitsha no be everybody send those una lekki and ikoyi thg.i can’t stay in Lagos no matter.lastly bros if na ikoyi this guys want buy house they will buy more than 3 at once.
Friends of Jennifer Ugadu are mourning her, while accusing her boyfriend, a soldier, of being reponsible for her death, Reports.
From The Information Gathered By , The soldier, Jay Matol, is said to have suspected Jennifer of cheating so he allegedly raped her, then shot and stabbed her multiple times.
After the alleged killing, it is claimed that he placed her dead body on the bed and locked her inside before running away with her phone. He also allegedly severed her thumb to use it in unlocking her phone, Learnt.
He is then said to have logged on to her department's WhatsApp group to announce that he has killed her and plans to kill himself too.
"I don kill am... I will kill myself," a message from Jennifer's phone posted in her department's WhatsApp group read:
Jennifer, a model and 200 level student of Niger Delta University (NDU), in Bayelsa State, was reportedly found dead in her apartment with multiple stab injuries and bullet wounds on Sunday, July 11, days after she was killed.
The state of the room reportedly showed there was a struggle before she was killed, Reports.
From The Information Gathered By , Jennifer and Jay are said to have been dating for five years before the sad incident. Jay's last Facebook post is a photo of Jennifer. She is also his cover photo.
Friends have gone on Facebook to mourn Jennifer while hoping that justice is served, Reports.
See The Face Of The Male Soldier As Obtained By Below:
Source: BLOG
i don’t have rip to waste.how can a normal human being be dating a soldier.she got what she deserved.
NwekeUG: Man Slumps And Die After DNA Test Showed He's Not His Son's Biological Father (Photos, Video)
A man slumped and die after reading the result of a DNA test conducted on his son, IgbereTV reports.
According to supposed friends of the deceased who gave their opinions online, the abroad-based man chanced upon his wife with another man on Snapchat, so he returned to Nigeria and conducted a paternity test on his son, and the results stated that he is not the boy's biological father.
Harmattan123: U think his family is as poor as yours...... Cuz ur family live a miserable life so u think other people live...... Poverty no go finish for ur family baba... (I'm not saying his kid doesn't need prayers all I'm saying is that they can't suffer)
God will give u sense.what does suffer mean to u.how can you say d kids don’t need prayers.Do u no what it even means to be fatherless at that age.Why are u saying I’m poor?do u no me?why did u take it to my family?do u derive joy in insulting d ppl u don’t know.How can a house of assembly member be poor.dont jump to the internet to start accusing ppl u don’t know.i don’t want to join words with u by insulting u cos I don’t know.If you can pray for the kids pls do.Even dangote needs prayers.
FatherCHRISTMAS: Don't worry. Destiny isn't the same for all men. You could get a job at an embassy and not end up in one private school speaking and sweating in a rough class
politics has paid of I’m a house of assembly member.
adesina was a poor guy that was battling with financial issues of life.when he got into presidency he didn’t expect it.He is busy amassing wealth for himself so Nthg anybody will say now that will shake him.i worked closely with him before his appointment into presidency.