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Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 1:12am On Apr 21, 2015

Yasher:
The thing is, a lot of them don't have their own identity(so they can't feel comfortable under their own skin) that's why they always feel threatened by every other girl.

That's true. How on earth would ladies teach their children 'keeping friendships' when they can't keep one themselves?

Nice one Yasher!

Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 1:06am On Apr 21, 2015

rokiatu:
Man this is so true....I think many times your BFF is just an enemy in disguise. Women can pretend enh. Your biggest enemy is your bf most times.

Hmm. Ladies always say I love you babes to themselves but can't love enough to forgive?

Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 12:58am On Apr 21, 2015

Herzumpther:
That's what I don't know. I have this friend I met in my 100 level days, we fought and all and still fight till today but she didn't leave me. With all my flaws she stayed with me even after knowing who I really am. I'm proud of her. She iz all I've got for now till I make new friends....Guys hopefully.

Your last statement sounds like you'll be dumping her soon lol (same thing the topic is all about).

Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 12:50am On Apr 21, 2015

Herzumpther:
The thing pain me eh. I con be like wan wan kolo. I was wondering.... If at all I committed that much don't I deserve forgiveness and a second Chance? Who is perfect?

Honestly I can't do female BFF again because I don't have the strength

Well maybe because we are different. I get angry o, no matter what it is I go vex for that first 5 minutes and e go end. I don't have space in my heart to store enemies and fight but like I said, that's me and people are different.

Fair enough, but guys are different too yet they make friendships work...why can't the ladies?

Is it one of those things that can't be explained ? Lol

Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 12:40am On Apr 21, 2015

Herzumpther:
Op you are correct.

I've been a victim of such before and I swear I still don't get it all.I be like mumu for the whole matter. I tired to make amends even for what I didn't know much about but all effort proved proved negative. It affected me so much that.....chai.... No matter how I explain able't think I will be able to say it like I want to but it was not easy for me. We wey no get mind for wahàla.

I use to care but now no more.I no even dey see anybody. I don park well and face my life. Guys rock I tell you.

The matter tire everybody I swear lol

Romance › Re: (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 12:33am On Apr 21, 2015

Garrirevenge:
Because they just a complicated being even to themselves. Just a little issue that guys will laugh over can cause a war between ladies.

It is indeed pathetic!

Romance › (ladies) Why Are Most Female Friendships Short Lived? by Hila12(op): 12:24am On Apr 21, 2015

Seriously though, all too often we find guys being friends with themselves for a lifetime or for many years (at least). But with ladies friendships end in the blink of an eye, it doesn't even survive months most times, and you smell so much hatred between once upon a time BFFs. Many end up not talking for several decades, become sworn enemies and may never reconcile.

Ladies honestly though, why is this very common among you guys? Why do you let jealousy come between your friendships too often?

PS I respect the ladies a lot, but it's so hard to see 'female friends' stay friends.

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Romance › Re: IS IT Wrong To Have A Side Chick Just Incase The Main Chick Break Your Heart? by Hila12(m): 1:27pm On Apr 20, 2015

Optofrank:
It all boils down to TRUST. What if she is not cheating and you just did.

Valid point there. Cheating to feel 'safe' in a relationship doesn't solve trust issues. The only way 'faithful men' can different themselves from the unfaithful ones is by not cheating.

Cheating kills trust! But faithfulness builds trust, for life.

Business › Re: Is It Possible To Send Money To Someone's Paypal Account Outside Nigeria? by Hila12(m): 11:42am On Apr 20, 2015

Tvaddict:
Should i go to the bank? am trying to get the paypal account verified using my firstbank account but my ATM card is verve and the verve option aint in the list.

I would advise you get a visa card or master card to authorise transfer.

Christianity Etc › Re: Gays & Lesbians Are Sinners And They Will Go To Hell If... by Hila12(m): 11:32am On Apr 20, 2015*

VirginFinder:
I may sin. But I am not a sinner because I do not live/continue in sin. Whenever I sin, I repent and ask for forgiveness.
However, homosexuals want to continue to live in sin (homosexuality) and yet want the grace of God to abound. God forbid!

Check the dictionary meaning of 'sinner' and reconcile your argument. Secondly, there is no such thing as 'I may sin', you sin period!

I am trying my best to make heaven. Being blunt on calling sin sin and those who commit it sinners wont stop me. In Jesus' Name.

That includes you cause you will commit sin after today.

The Bible permits me to hate whoever hates the LORD. Anyone against God's ordained order/system is an enemy of God. Homosexuals fall into this category.
Psalm 139:20-22
20 For they speak against thee wickedly, and thine enemies take thy name in vain.
21 Do not I hate them, O LORD, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?
22 I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.

Taught you were gonna quote some new testament to back your argument. If Jesus hates sin and hates those who go against his orders, that would include 'you' - so technically Jesus hates you? Jesus knew what he was saying when he said 'love your enemies, and forgive them'.

Homosexuality is worse because it results from a reprobate mind. It is an error that most times gives the perpetrators no chance for repentance. Go back to my opening post for details.

Ridiculous! What's worse than killing the 'messiah'? He forgave his killers, forgives killings and even worst offences. So, leave God to do his job. All sins are errors and once a habit (or way of life), leads you far from repentance (homosexuality does this as well as any other sexual immoral path humans tread) -

I am not judging anyone. I am only reechoing scriptural view/standpoint.
1 Corinthians 2:15

yet he himself is judged of no man.

My Pastor can't be gay.

Can't? You don't know everything about anyone. Just like no one knew 'Judas' was capable of betraying Jesus.

I don't attend Christ Embassy or all those other churches that water down the gospel and make call sin fault.

Those saved by Christ are 'one church' - no such thing as denomination in heaven. 'So long they are not against us, they are for us' was Jesus's statement when the apostles told him of other folds preaching and casting demons in his name.

Romance › Re: IS IT Wrong To Have A Side Chick Just Incase The Main Chick Break Your Heart? by Hila12(m): 10:32am On Apr 20, 2015

I smell trust issues!

There's nothing 'wrong' adding stew to jollof rice, sometimes it makes it taste all better. But then, it shows more than ever what an insecure 'commitment-phobic' person you are.

Moral of the story: You can't win trust if you don't give it.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Gays & Lesbians Are Sinners And They Will Go To Hell If... by Hila12(m): 6:51pm On Apr 19, 2015

Op it's hypocritical to call homosexuals sinners when you too are a 'sinner' yourself (All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God).

It is hypocritical to say homosexuals will go to hell when you too will be a sure candidate should you not stop the use of the derogatory word 'sinners' to address your faulting brothers and sisters.

Lastly, are you sure you would make heaven when you haven't truly learned to 'love' your neighbour regardless of his/her sexuality?

Homo sexuality is not worse than any sexual/immoral act common among so called 'christain brothers and sisters' - fornication, adultery, masturbation and abortion.

Don't place yourself on the seat of judgement (as to who makes heaven or who doesn't) - allow God be the judge. Let's lead them back to Christ without judging the the hell out of them. Your pastor could be gay you know lol

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Romance › Re: Lol: Do Male Virgins Still Exist? by Hila12(m): 6:26pm On Apr 19, 2015

kaybiel2u:
I'm a virgin guy cos I have not tasted sex and I'm 29 is anything wrong with that

Nothing wrong at all. But permit me to be curious why that is...?

Romance › Re: Lol: Do Male Virgins Still Exist? by Hila12(m): 6:24pm On Apr 19, 2015

Male virgins still exist in primary and secondary schools - just in case you wanna catch them young lol.

Culture › Re: Why Is It Indecent For A Lady To Bare Her Bosoms In Public? by Hila12(m): 6:19pm On Apr 19, 2015

Why? Well the same reason it is indecent to bare her vaaaagina in public (that's if people still consider that indecent these days).

Family › Re: His Mother Watches Pornographic Films (advice Him) by Hila12(m): 5:44pm On Apr 19, 2015

Granted though - the mum is mature enough and can do whatever she deems fit as an adult.

But only a pervert/self-centred mother who's not concerned about the mental/emotional well being of her kids would expose them to such 'indecent' and 'stimulating' ordeal (later she go blame devil if her pikin go give girls belle for outside). All the moaning from the home theatre reach to confuse any man's career - not to talk of kids that young lol.

I can't judge cause I don't know her personally, but she should at least watch it in a private device like her mobile phone or tablet (locked with pin), and save her children the long term consequences of her 'carefree' actions.

Holier than thou Nairalanders sha, make any body here who never watch porn for him lifetime throw the first stone! I bet even the pastors won't throw!

Family › Re: Popular Phrases Spoken In Britain And Their Meanings by Hila12(op): 11:07am On Apr 18, 2015

RickRichards:
I want celtic phrases, and I want them now. Give me celtic phrases right now!

Haha be easy mate. Feel free teaching us if you know some.

Family › Re: Popular Phrases Spoken In Britain And Their Meanings by Hila12(op): 10:55am On Apr 18, 2015

MrMann1:
It does not sound completely strange. Even a kid would easily decipher those phrases.

Yeah kinda true, but to few others who don't.

Family › Popular Phrases Spoken In Britain And Their Meanings by Hila12(op): 10:43am On Apr 18, 2015

Hello, I'm a Nigerian(proud) who's been privileged some time overseas, especially the UK where I've lived a while studying the British Language and Culture in general.

If you intend visiting the UK, there are common informal words/phrases spoken by the British that might sound somewhat strange to you - but no worries, here are some meanings below:

Are you alright? - it's a popular greeting that means 'Are you okay?'. Common responses are Yes I'm alright, you? or Not bad at all, how about you?

*Note: They don't mean you are insane or anything by the question.

Hey Mate! - 'mate' means friend/pal in Britain. So this means 'Hello Friend'.

*Note: They don't mean you are their age mates, hence you shouldn't be offended by this. It's just their friendly way of saying hello.

What do you reckon? - reckon means 'think' in this context. They actually mean 'What do you think?'

*Note: However, Do you reckon a trip to Nigeria means 'Do you fancy a trip to Nigeria'

Be in my office about half-twelve - would mean 'Be in my office half past twelve (12:30) '

*Note: Half-three means 3:30 and so on.

Do you fancy the South African lecturer? - would mean 'Do you like the South African lecturer?'

*Note: 'Fancy' here could also mean 'Are you attracted to the South African lecturer?'

Can you spare a ffag please? - ffag implies 'cigarette'. This would mean 'Can you spare a cigarette'

Take out the rubbish - would mean 'Take out the trash/waste bin'

Can I have a cuppa - 'cuppa' means a cup of tea/coffee.

I'm in a flight tomorrow - would mean 'My flight is tomorrow'

Don't take the piss out of me - 'Don't take advantage of me'

There are many popular phrases and idioms used in Britain, but will leave it here for now.

Do you know any?

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Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 12:56am On Apr 18, 2015

Let's be truthful, with hundred million many girls go force their husband wash toilet or make them Chief Latrine Officer haha

Education › Re: Nigerians and 'gbagaun' - Common Spoken English Errors by Hila12(op): 12:37am On Apr 18, 2015

MrsAnyanwu:
Instead of some of u to appreciate d op, u guys are making a mountain out of a mole hill, op I appreciate this thread, I learnt a lot , tnx ....

Thank you very much madam. We all learn from one another. Cheers.

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 12:25am On Apr 18, 2015

Lala247:
Lol sorry flash back

Hmm. You go fear flash back na lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 12:00am On Apr 18, 2015

Lala247:
My ex don help una clear am

Ole jati jati ni omo yen

Na just question, nor be fight o lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:58pm On Apr 17, 2015

mirexxx:
why would i do that?
your question should be "choose between bae and N100mil"

Thank you. So Mirexxx, choose between bae and 100 mils?

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:53pm On Apr 17, 2015

sinaj:
urrgh african fellaz nd marriage

Just a question though lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:51pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
Im telling u
Well i cant prove it i guess but trust me money dont move me at all benn working since the age of 14 . N trust me nothing more ecites me dan my own money .. Ok n my dads n ok government but yh so a man with cash is like nothing in my eyes

I give it to him ...

Hmm. Well you don't have to wait till then to prove you are a daughter of Jesus Christ lol. You can give us your life savings now! Hehe

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:48pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
But i bet if we flip the question now u guys wint give us kobo

Not true. Weren't the guys the ones paying the girly bills before the lottery - we would simple be generous and continue lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:43pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
Yes hlf n hlf

Trust me i can start one small biz he can use his
But i guess not all ladies would agree , i see things differently lol money dont move me atall i can even give him the whole thing if i know nah for better for worse. I.e if we are married

Hmm Lala. Give him the whole thing? Abeg abeg abeg lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:38pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
He better be on his best behaviour den .. U know women can b drastic .

Shaking my head. Lol. You don't seem as firm as you were in your first comment.

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:36pm On Apr 17, 2015

jamex93:
she will continue

but she will want to b in charge

na DAT one go cause break up

because na wrong move

Any small quarrel, she go tell the man say na she dey feed am abi? Lol

Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:33pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
No its true

If i get that money .. Me n bae go invest in property .. Or biz for both of us .. Even if he later leaves me its nit the end i still got my share his got his.. In relationship it should b give n take on both sides so if one makes it the other has too ..

Ie jay z & beyonce
Obama & Michelle
Angelina & bradd

Fair enough, but I don't think any woman will be tolerant of her man anymore, especially after amassing such wealth. Once he messes up, the door straight! Lol

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Romance › Re: Girls - Be Honest! by Hila12(op): 11:29pm On Apr 17, 2015

Lala247:
But she can upgrade her man no need to replace

What if she's been 'managing' his character for so long? Lol

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