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MsBliss:
So u are saying its either he needs time to think (clear his head) or he is totally fed up?

Affirmative!

You probably are too clingy/needy/controlling or nagging, hence the need for fresh air.

Guys need time off the emotional turmoil to think and recharge their minds. Nothing personal really.

Worse case scenario, he most likely is fed up.

vickkyruby:
Lol...what's so special in marrying a doctor?

Most likely job security.

Truth be told, most doctors enjoy a progressive and financially secure career.

Just answer this...

Do you nag?

Lol

Men love food, granted!

But if a woman's poor cooking skill can make the love turn sour, then I must question if you truly loved her in the first place.

She can always learn, or isn't love patient and tolerant anymore?

Virgins aren't more holy. Their legs might be closed while their hearts stay dark as fuuuuck.

Only few virgins these days are by choice (I respect these ones), most virgins I know however just lack the opportunity, and have a low confidence/esteem to approach the opposite sex.

farano:
Which one is good punnny again?

Everyone knows what that means...

The greater love lies in that which we give, not the one we receive.

When you truly love a woman you make unending sacrifices for her. But when she only loves you, you become nice to her out of pity.

So you see, it wouldn't be fair keeping a woman and not loving her, it will be selfish on your part. One day she will be fed up and may even poison you, and kill herself.

Well, the password to good punny is money.

Guys have made money!

Dannidom:
I suppose you understand what I mean

But you might accuse me of using that word "Shallow" because I was emotional and needed something to pacify my bittered and battered self

Yes I do understand.

Get back up bro, we on the same page.

You love people for who they are, and that includes their looks and personality in general.

You don't have to date girls with piercings if you don't like it, there are so many girls without one.

They certainly will find their match who would love and adore them.

So long girls continue to use their beauty wisely, I call that smartness!

Being shallow or deep-minded is not something you choose to be, it's who you are. It's the way humans are wired not by choice but by nature.

Maybe you confuse being shallow with being a dunce.

In no distant time, when anger issues stay unresolved, it is people's heads we would be smashing not phones.

Self control!

If your heart really yearns for it then do it.

But please don't maltreat the innocent kids just cause they are not yours.

Except you are happy being nice to the kids, you best save them the misery.

Not a question of lady losing virginity but a question of how much dignity she's preserved.

Face fact, life fuuucks us all.

sweetorgasm:
guy u wan pour salt 4 my garri?

Haha, overtaking is allowed.

[quote author=Summer1 post=33668809][/quote]Wow, you look naturally pretty, Miss!

It is not wrong on the premise of love, but very much unhealthy and unhygienic, period!

Some call it love which is fair enough (me thinks), but personally I would throw up thinking about it (just my nature).

By the way, the young kids (if you are married) would notice and might attempt such on their friends' toothbrushes (especially those in boarding schools).

Lastly, you won't be spared from any oral infection s/he may have (just be warned). Love would cost a thing then.

@OP

Forgive what exactly?

Forgive pulling the trigger at me?

*laughing in tongues*

We both know the answer to this, don't we?

If a girl walks up to me, I will tell her my phone needs N5000 recharge, in fact I would be needing a new phone to continue our conversation.

Very wrong judgement for a man who does such!

It is a show of poor self-control and high abusive tendencies. He brings himself so low each time he does this.

But one question:

Why do women use all sorts of abusive, demeaning and dehumanising statements and utterances on men, yet expect them to smile and keep cool?

If we all respect ourselves and be polite there will be minimal cases of verbal assaults leading to physical abuse.

I very much condemn the man's act.

busky101:
That country should just quit their religion and accept christ as their lord and personal saviour.....enough said!!

Wtf?

Suspect33:
End time signs, the end is near
matthew 24 vs 7 says there will be famines and earthquakes everywhere


Repent now or else destruction awaits you

Jesus loves you

No sinner shall see the kingdom of God

Ezekiel 18 vs 23 ; God said ; i dnt enjoy seeing a sinner die, i would rather see him repent and live

The End Is Near

Fair enough, but all this talk of 'death and destruction' to victims at this critical time does not show any sense of sympathy or community.

Your message is perfect, but wrong timing!

Twaci:
IMO don't go into a relationship with someone you don't love nor see u two staying together as man and wife.

Nice point!

I agree on the love him/her first before going into a relationship.

However, I think not every true relationship would lead to marriage in the end. A relationship is a compatibility test not every romance survives. Sometimes good relationships fail for every right reason, and irrespective of the love/sacrifice/loyalty both parties share, they still might be very much incompatible, hence a breakup for good.

That's the idea of relationships, no one knows the end from the beginning. Allow the relationship progress naturally, and if doesn't, that does not mean it was a false relationship.

A white man influenced you to do all of those?

I smell low self esteem bro!

No lies ladies!

Swear by the Bible or okuku!

Such ladies are most likely the cheap hungry girls that loiter around, fully endowed with parasitic tendencies.

Rich independent ladies (with blossoming careers) hardly behave like that.

Nobody said its gonna be easy...

Pathetically so, but men do have a choice.

Except you wanna be a man with no self control, and a peenis that cleans every gutter in Africa.

[quote author=teemy post=33529107][/quote]Masturbation to the image of a spouse in your head isn't sin itself. Spouses shouldn't allow 'far distances' put asunder the love and sexual connection they both share.

But in most cases of this kind of masturbation, spouses especially the men, watch porn simultaneously (this is were sin comes in). Not all men do this, but most are likely to. Using masturbation as an excuse to watch porn is in no way justified before God.

Your sentiments about the earth being full isn't wrong, but saying we have achieved the fill up the earth mission is your opinion (not God's). Each time we put personal pleasure above God's plan or supposed plan for procreation we tell God I don't need your kids, all I want is ssex. That is rude and selfish.

It is possible to masturbate exclusively to the thought of a spouse, but impossible once porn is included.

It is not wrong! Just an easy way to lose all respect the father-in-law has for you.

He would question his choice for entrusting his daughters welfare with you. He might laugh over it, but deep down in his heart would see you as an incompetent man he let marry his daughter.

Your wife can always collect on your behalf, if condition is that critical.