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Splashme:
Nonsense talk.

I am a supporter of Peter Obi otherwise called Obidients and I feel sad for the loss.

Don't just pick a few comments from Obidients supporters and generalise.
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No mind the mumu... Everything they will tag Obidient..

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Bro leave that girl immediately for ur sanity.. Na God I take beg u... She is a disaster loading.

vanity crew gather here..

Jorussia:
Osimhen cannot be 25.His age should be 28 or 29.most of those equipment uses age range.

U that gave birth 2 him should give us his exact age..

Brighton1:
Victor Osimhen did not fake his age.

Do you think it’s easy for your heartbeat to pump exceed normal level. These guys workout and carry out different exercises everyday to keep form, they run the pitch everyday of their lives to stay in form.

If ur heart pump exceeding normal then get ready to look aged faster then your real age and that’s osimhen’s case for you and other athletes

Help me educate them...

sgtponzihater1:
There should be functional laws that prevent people from abusing others.

No one should go through physical, mental or emotional abusive.

Hopefully justice takes its course.

Tnk God u use the word no one.. And also mental abuse.. Because I just listen to the man from osun that has been fathering children of different fathers..if not DNA...

The country is messed up... If not just a call to fingerprint specialist the thief will be apprehended.

Am directing this message to seun and his handlers or staff..

You will see a trend discussing about Muslim or Islamic stuff.. They will be prompting you to select your religion before you comment and if select none Islam u won't be allowed to comment on it but if it is anything Christian you will make it public that anyone can comment on it.. I believe you part of the problem we have in this country.. You preach unity openly but inside of u is something else.. This is not this first time I will be talking about this.. If you want a change u should change your ways.

Today the country is not united and people in the best position to fixed this issues re the public space.. But you all re not helping matters rather what we see here is Yorubas insulting Igbo, Igbo insulting Hausas, Hausa insulting Yorubas etc..
You better wake up and change whatever you re doing wrong because last last if e bad na for everybody and if e good na for everybody.

I believe you will ban me after see this or u have a software that will..Because truth dey bitter...

ShangTsung000:
No be film be this? The guy on red saw pipo with guns and didn't take off.

Wild wild west.

Na that one shock me pass... People really get mind in front of gun.. Maybe hin get odeshi.. Because if na me I go don reach house..

Tsolutionifede:
kill this idiot called Kanu, and let everyone mind touch ground

That is the problem people like u re having... You think Biafra is a one man thing... Once u kill him, in few years time another Kanu will arise.. After all Biafra didn't begin with Kanu..

A group of people are been marginalized and everyone knows it.. Until we remove that margin.. We will continue where we are.

No rule of law in Nigeria... If not this man is not suppose to be here up till this time..

Chibuzoripob:
.Then Mbappe deserved it not Messy

U know it's Messi.. U just want make we dey argue..

Chibuzoripob:
.Thunder strike FIFA if dey dare give it to Messy .


HAALAND IS THE OWNER OF THE CROWN

FIFA have nothing to do with club performance just so u know, it's only the world cup.... Now tell me who won the world cup among them?

Dogalmighty17:
I'm a breeder myself. You can reach me anytime.

Ok... Can u chat with me on 0912 455 7411

Am starting catfish breeding business in 2024...i need any guide from anyone with skill..

Good... The monster they made..

lonelyatdtop:
It's the weather my brother, I have not seen or heard of anyone bathing with normal temperature water here in Jos.

U for talk say na Jos na... That place is Nigeria England..

Thief... U went to rest in another country and also do medicals there too.. Your country don't have hospitals that u can do your medicals..

I won't be surprise if some urchins come and defend him.

gassbee:
how is d relationship now btw u n ur neighbour

Me that is not always at home... But I later enlightened him about it.. So I believe he is ok with it now..

GuruboiNaija:
https://.ng/2023/12/12/generator-fumes-kill-man-girlfriend-in-delta/

Na so one of my senseless neighbor dey put I BETTER PASS MY NEIGHBOR generator for him window.. Smoke start entering my room.. I told him several times he didn't listen.. Mumu dat have no idea about carbon monoxide..

I just carry him matter give landlord.. Na once he remove am... Avoid problem at all cost..

Asuzero2:
na true oh
Them give cut one leg n head
I have d video

Bro please can u send me the video on WhatsApp .. 0912 455 7411

I told my brother he didn't believe..

youngrichnigga:
The federal government needs to look into the welfare of the rank and file in the NPF; while I'm not making excuses for these guys, the fact remains that they are poorly paid, poorly accommodated and poorly insured........the officers in that video are armed robbers in waiting with their hungry looks. Our security system needs reforms as hungry and angry mrn are issued guns to protect and serve the citizenry

No doubt that they poorly paid... But that is not an excuse... This type of officers if they catch u with human head and u offer them 2million.. They will let the person go..

SoNature:
The Nigerian police is a criminal organisation where all officers are allowed to commit crimes but must never been seen doing that.

These ones will become the scapegoats of "how the police is working hard to rid the force of the bad eggs"

Exactly... Na who them catch be thief or scape goat..

Rebuker:
A masquerade was filmed being punished by the Nigerian army. In the video, the masquerade was seen kneeling down while one of the soldiers asked, "How is your morale?" Receiving heavy punches from the soldier, the masquerade responded, "My morale is high, sir”.

After a while, the soldiers played music, and the masquerade was asked to dance to it. He was filmed dancing to the music.

Thereafter, the masquerade was seen clearing grasses under the supervision of the soldiers, with his costume hanging on his legs.

One of the soldiers repeatedly called him "masquerade," to which he repeatedly answered, "Sir."

Then the soldier said to the masquerade, "By the time you leave here, tell your friends who ran away what your eyes witnessed." The masquerade was asked to say, "Thank God," and he responded, "Thank God, sir."

It's not clear what offense the masquerade committed at the time of posting this video, but we hope to provide the full details once we find out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYlBwAFj2fo

Nigerian soldiers... No different from police in character..

HonNL:
Silindelo Masikane

Am for here wen never collect Abacha loot finish?

As him no be aboki that's y..

uniquetechng:
Not even the best in Nigeria history let alone Africa except you started watching football in 2012.

Google is your friend bro... Remember he is still active..

barinedan:
Some fans at the other end will be in pains throughout the remaining days of the year

LOL u re very funny... What do u expect please?

Nahunger:

While the killer roams free...
You can imagine the kind of country we are in and the kind of justice ⚖️ system we practice...

Not today but one day!!
The oppressed will rise 🤲

Thats just it... But I have a strong belief that Nigeria will separate... Maybe not in my life time.. But it definitely will..

God1000:
This is completely unacceptable.

What kind of country do we live in, this innocent woman is suffering in prison while the barbarians and monsters that killed Ms Deborah have not been brought to book.

I am very angry right now

I don't know why the Bauchi state government and the federal government of Nigeria are just keeping mute on this ugly issue.

My brother like dis I vex pass u for this matter.. Up north is like a different country on its own..
Nigeria has its law.. They have there on law up north call hisbah or whatever. Yet nobody is saying anything about it...

They kill Christians anyhow dey like, they re worst than the devil there..