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Nigeria police behave this way and you wonder why.....?
Like father like son. All of them are polished criminals. Thiev.es. Police can't be your friend if you don't have any money to give.

In my adage, we say, he whom his father sends out to go and steal, uses his leg to break the door open in broad daylight.(IGBO)

Likoya:
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You are really a Nigerian. You really know wet in dey sup for this backward con3. Good advice. God bless you.

In Chinese, you-never-chi-chon-chin...
Bulabans are better now. At least they buy things cheaper....
😭

The experience was a horrible one. They are always commanding. In fact, an average Chinese man in Nigeria and other black African countries see us as inferior .

No body have your time to insult you. You are better left alone to wallow in your self-righteousness and I-know-it-all syndrome.
Dey play..

Akwamkpuruamu:
INEC will finally regret why they had to rig for Bulaba the drug sniffing...

INEC will finally regret why they had to rig for Bulaba the drug sniffing...Baron

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

Hmmmm

My only advice to him is that most times, women do fall in love with more than one man. She is just confused on her choice. Mr man should quit, because it's definitely going to continue in the marriage or be done behind the scene.

Did you say you are telling her you love her? Even when it's obvious to you that she is into the other guy? Get a life bro...

My only advice to him is that most times, women do fall in love with more than one man. She is just confused on her choice. Mr man should quit, because it's definitely going to continue in the marriage or be done behind the scene.

Hezzyluv:
From what you have written, it appears you're talking about SSCE exams and the first seating.

But, the last time I checked, children have taken over writing WAEC and NECO i.e you maybe one

Therefore, concentrate on making yourself better version in the coming years.

I stand to be corrected tho.

I disagree. He sounds like a mature guy at such a ripe age for marriage. Both of them. Remember even the lady's mum is involved.

My only advice to him is that most times, women do fall in love with more than one man. She is just confused on her choice. Mr man should quit, because it's definitely going to continue in the marriage or be done behind the scene.

JASONjnr:
Why can't you do according to your strength?

Trying to impress a sex-starved partner who told you that if you wouldn't last that she will stop visiting you can make you go out of your way to killing yourself.

I don't think it's as a result of over-se.x. Juju don enter the mata

tollyboy5:
Wetin man dey find 4 anambra?

Just imaging IPOB catch you and noticed you're yoruba. Omo!

Anything beyond SW, Middle belt and South South is a NO for me.

Igbos are welcoming people. Very hospitable. Stop your ethnic division already.

I clocked 37 a week ago and I'm insatiable on bed. My urge is like a raving lion. I love nacking di.e but I have special self control.

Age is not the problem here. I guess health is. I do exercise moderately and I'm very healthy. I don't even have enough money to eat quality food, but I'm the strongest of my mates around and most guys in their 20s.

I don't take any sex enhancement. Just genetically powerful and strong. I hustle on the football pitch more than N'golo Kante in his prime. I really pity any nwa that I'll catch first now since I've not done it this year at all due to marriage wahala. So, I'm abstaining for a good reason.

If you have your own woman, encourage her to be wearing seductive dresses for you. Maybe it'll help you to be in the mood, which will elevate you se.x drive.

You need to improve on your diet though

I clocked 37 a week ago and I'm insatiable on bed. My urge is like a raving lion. I love nacking di.e but I have special self control.

Age is not the problem here. I guess health is. I do exercise moderately and I'm very healthy. I don't even have enough money to eat quality food, but I'm the strongest of my mates around and most guys in their 20s.

I don't take any sex enhancement. Just genetically powerful and strong. I hustle on the football pitch more than N'golo Kante in his prime. I really pity any nwa that I'll catch first now since I've not done it this year at all due to marriage wahala. So, I'm abstaining for a good reason.

If you have your own woman, encourage her to be wearing seductive dresses for you. Maybe it'll help you to be in the mood, which will elevate you se.x drive.

Walkerstilldey:
I just entered 30 and experience low sex urge and low libido,is it normal

I clocked 37 a week ago and I'm insatiable on bed. My urge is like a raving lion. I love nacking di.e but I have special self control.

Age is not the problem here. I guess health is. I do exercise moderately and I'm very healthy. I don't even have enough money to eat quality food, but I'm the strongest of my mates around and most guys in their 20s.

I don't take any sex enhancement. Just genetically powerful and strong. I hustle on the football pitch more than N'golo Kante in his prime. I really pity any nwa that I'll catch first now since I've not done it this year at all due to marriage wahala. So, I'm abstaining for a good reason.

If you have your own woman, encourage her to be wearing seductive dresses for you. Maybe it'll help you to be in the mood, which will elevate you se.x drive.

kestolove95:
Another obidi0t down...

You must be very stupid to scorn a dead person as if you are not a debtor to death too.
It's simply the time to condole with his loved ones, ni.gga.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

See them... Na them. Very hard mannered. Always talking tough. Your type will easily break your home for the slightest of any foul reason.
Tuehhhh, spit...

taylor89:
Your parents living together till death isn’t a yardstick for good marriage

The reason for divorce and bad marriages of today na material things

You used your C300 Benz of 12million to snatch a hustling guys babe and tomorrow you’ll expect her to be faithful when a man who divers 2022 Lexus LX600 of 80 million

Another reason is too much of sexual expectations in marriages

Man would dump his organic wife at the sight of a big ass BBL lady

Woman will dump her organic man looking for a billionaire with 6 packs that has cucumber penis that can last 80hrs

The other day I overheard a woman defending her promiscuous act shouting on top of her voice that she cheated because her husband doesn’t give her head

I shock. Bcuz since them born me till today I never hear my mom telling my dad to give him head

Who invented this head giving sef

You can’t even use the word head in public again unless you have to be specific like head of charger head of fish head of family

Thank you for breaking it down like this. My marriage has crashed since October 2022 and we are yet to make our divorce official because the lady's father is having stroke and her mother is already late, (though I've told the family to give me a date so we can officially end things) and I want him to recover a bit, then do the do.

Material things these days have really ruined marriages.
You are not good on the bed, yet your character is the worst ever. You are too selfish. You can't do anything for me. I don't cheat on you, yet you threatened to kii me? I cook by myself. Wash, sweep, do literally everything by myself, yet you will stab me over and over and over? My sick mother has been my duty alone to take care of. You can’t even give her a cup of water. I clean her up. In fact, I do over 90% of things for her. All you do is to pick fight with a woman with stroke long before you were even married.

You'll kii me and report yourself to the police? What did I do wrong? I never cheated on you. I provide for the family. You said you can only do what you want to do.

See, coming from a dysfunctional home is bad. You quarrel my mum, can'teven give her your food. You disagree even with your own dad for telling you to be obidient to your husband. You go out and come back any time you want, and you said I dare not raise my hand on you. You are the only person that is right.

Above all, poor parenting is just the real problem. All your siblings I know, that have stayed with us exhibit the same laziness and lack of respect.. All you know is your siblings and your parent's family.
Your best friend is your smartphone and your sister. You only get up from bed after 10 AM.. Jizzzzz!!!

See, I'm done. No chance of ever staying in such a failed marriage. I tried to be patient with the marriage simply because of our only child, for him to have sibling(s)... But you are most likely gonna kii me even before we can have a new child.

Mbanu....

Its over. Upbringing is really key for either success or failure of marriages.

I used to discourage divorce but now, better divorce than loose anyone's life.

Wagwanbrethren:
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This won't change the fact that Tinubu will rule Nigeria for 4/8 yrs and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Highest na to wail into Oblivion! 🤣🤣

But there's something God can do about it.

See this native doctor called Apapa. He cannot even dress up like a neat man. Dirty hag in a man.

Britishcoins:
The worst group of people to have fight with is obidient family.... They are everywhere in the planet....

If Obidients are everywhere as you said. Then there's only one conclusion to it: Obidients everywhere, voted Obi and Labour Party and hence won the election hand's down.
But... but, druggie and his white-substance cohorts can't allow Obidients everywhere to take their stolen mandate.

Common Sense

yrhuhfy113:
Bro, its well, we have all been hurt by women we gave our lives and our commitment to. It could have destroyed us, but it made us better NOT bitter.

Here is what to do.

WHY NOT COME ONLINE TO PLACES LIKE WHATSAPP STATUS, INSTAGRAM, JUMIA, JIJI, EVEN NAIRALAND sir.... to sell your wears and shoes.

Many ONLINE SHOPS online without physical location o....

JUST YOUR SMART PHONE and a SMART MIND.... you will SELL WELL ANYWHERE YOU ARE.... distance will no longer be a barrier sir.



Also, when you make some profit, try and buy a good laptop.... THEN YOU CAN START LEARNING THE FOLLOWING SKILLS..... ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE, WEB DEVELOPMENT, MICROSOFT OFFICE, GRAPHICS DESIGN.


Sir, each one of those skills can make you financially independent for LIFE, if you really use your head or have a good mentor.

women are to be TAMED not necessarily reasoned with. They will NEVER be logical

LOVE WOMEN WITH YOUR HEAD, never with your HEART

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE DOES NOT EXIST AMONGST MANKIND, ONLY GOD OWNS THAT ABILITY

YOU NEED FAVOR WITH MEN, WITH GOD AND WITH SPIRITS

LIFE IS NOT HARD AT ALL..... the rules of life change from time to time... so it confuses us and we think it is hard.

I celebrate you sir

Bros, you are loaded with wisdom. I agree to a great extent with your quotes. Thanks man..

Naijagoodman:
Ziyech is damn too stupid

As Ziyech as Madueke🤣🤣🤣🤣

Saga16:
Falz deserves to be mocked.

Falz went abroad for the surgery simply because our leaders, such as Elrufai, failed him and Nigerians at large.

As a doctor, what if your dad had seen this lady before in a certain unusual place? My guy, don't ask too many questions. Just do as he says.
By the way, are you the only son though?

Lie lie government

How the mighty has started falling. America is just a different thing entirely now. Negative everywhere....

Ihateheadslamer:
The outgoing governor of abia state deserves to be Nnamudi KANU cellmate by now

Please stop mentioning Onyendu Mazi Nnamdi Kanu again. You are not worthy to do so oga.

How can you compare him with a corrupt politician?

Kingpin1000:
Following archimedes principle, it should be B.

It has nothing to do with Achimedes principle which is the principle of floatation.
Just the weight and volume of the object is considered

PJtech:
Chelsea fans una still want Tuchel?

No! We want Luis Enrique