₦airaland Forum

Just because his candidate didn't win 😂 see the kind prayer him de pray 🙄 so carnal! Anyway na your sheeples weh de give you attention I blame 🥱

gaby:
Yet, they remain unshaken.

America finally did themselves in for humiliation by using a clown to fight their greatest competition and ending up pushing her into forming the greatest and most versatile alliance (Russia/China).

Russia- The largest country in the world by land size and several nuclear warheads to boot.

China- The worst most populated country with the highest number of naval fleets, and economy. Let's not forget India.

This is the definition of shooting oneself in the foot


What a shame to see how the cookie crumbles.

Shame on the EU puppets who have allowed themselves to be used as an even bigger pun who can't stay d up to their master deliberately sabotaging them both economically and environmentally with the bombing of the Nordstream gas pipeline.

America has murdered her hegemony.

Doling out 100s of Billions to Ukraine to prosecute a lost war yet, most Americans are homeless and taking shelter under failing bridges and rotten infrastructures nationwide.

Well said, you've said it all 👍

LagosInter:
I condemn our politicians for not building good hospitals here.

But this boy is a liar.

He knew what he was going to do.

And there is nothing wrong in agreeing to donate a kidney in expectation of support.

Yes, paying for kidney is illegal but the difference between paying for it and supporting the donor is in semantics.

I can give the donor a house, car, money etc afterwards and call it support and not payment.

People can do anything for money provided it's consensual.



Many Ebonyi people are like that. Very unreliable.

I don't think that boy knew about the kidney transplant. If they had told him, they would have made him sign some agreement papers for compliance. They deceived him that they were taking him there for greener pastures, and you know the japa syndrome among our youths so anyone could have been interested without asking questions.

Ideservebetter:
I understand that most parents want the best for their children but at the same time, they should understand certain things that are beyond one's control.

My parents, relatives even family friends won't stop troubling me about marriage. I can't have healthy conversations with my people without them bringing up the marriage topic and worse off in a controversial manner. They always accuse me of being too selective and other talks like that, making me feel awful.

I desire to get married someday even though I don't see it as a "do or die" thing. I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I'm being blamed for it or asked why I didn't just manage. My God!

I've been thinking of how to get away from all these talk, maybe leaving home or changing my line. I really don't know what to do.
I'm someone people know as happy and bubbly outside but when I'm with my people, it's the complete opposite, minimal joy because they won't stop stressing me. For now, I've stopped attending family events since they'll be gathered there and I don't want anyone messing with my mental health.

I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please.

Dear sis, pls stay calm and don't get mad at them. You're currently in a situation that they don't understand, and you too may not understand how they feel right now. I'll advise you keep your cool cos at the end FAMILY matters. Whenever they ask you "when are you getting married?" Tell them very soon, don't make mountain out of it, I know it's not easy but it's best to avoid quarrelling or getting bitter.

JASONjnr:
The problem is this Z-generation of girls...

Infact, I've been facing challenges finding a suitable wife....And I don't mind snatching any good girl from any unserious boyfriend like this...


About your family pressure, you give them the chance to talk down on you and you smile it out.

The moment you sound strong and have someone as a scapegoat, the rest will avoid talking down on you.


Probably, you're too soft and you give chances for people to ride on you easily...

Well you have a point, but one don't have to create enemies or become unapproachable just because of some silly questions. If she acts like that, she'll gradually become a very angry person cos right now she's not even happy with her situation, she wants to get married.

ivandrag0n:
“Clowns at the helm of affairs”? Just because some conceited individuals don’t have cash to spray at parties and in public?

Honestly, this Nairaland is littered with lost souls and people without a shred of morals.

And their foolishness will make you think your ideas/ perceptions are wrong.
The most foolish comments carries many likes, the sensible comments are very few and are being countered by fools.
The number of fools in this country outweighs the number of the wise. It's a very serious problem

Am I the only understanding this? I'll transfer my money to your account to collect fake note, just because I want to spray in an event? Is it not better I transfer what I intend spraying to the celebrants than spraying what they can't use.
Why are some persons not being logical? Cos the comments I've seen so far I really don't understand.

Rightousness1:
God created Man in His image, meaning that God is a Masculine (He), and going by the book of Genesis He created the woman (Even) as the last creature and not in His image but a suitable helper. The Church of Christ shall prevail

This scripture you quoted, who is the author of it, isn't it by the same people that brought in Christianity? You're using the book they wrote to defend your point 🙄

You people are quick to point out that they're trying to bring down Christianity, you didn't see the fact that using the words; He, Him or Our are just words that makes communication understandable.

Now this should be our focus that using those words to describe God doesn't mean we're tagging God to be male, the purpose is to avoid repetition. Just the way people call our names, and use those pronouns instead of repeating your name.

I'm really happy for them! I know there are some persons who aren't really homos***al (mostly some ladies), they do it for pleasure or influence from friends.
People that have little or no knowledge to why these gays do what they do are here commenting rubbish. Black people hate to ask "why" they rather live in denial than ask the obvious question.
Stop tagging their se*ual lifestyle to something that is not verifiable. Do you think some of them chose that path? It happened to them, so respect that. Just pray not to find yourself in a situation that you don't know how you arrived there cos it's only then you'd understand why some persons act the way they do. You're serving a God that you have no idea of his existence, instead of you to find out about the existence you'd rather say it's wrong to question God.
Black people need to respect people's choices. Just because I don't do things or act the way you do doesn't mean my ways are wrong.

GreyLaw:
My friend make transfers! Which one be access to your money? Are you withdrawing 10 million cash? Withdraw for your daily needs simple. Or use the darn transfers!!! I no know wetin dey worry una for that Nigeria.

In Western nations to even deposit cash as an individual you get limit. Some banks no go even let you do more than £100 to £500 per month. Meanwhile una for Nigeria go wake enter Bank as an individual go lodge 1m, 2m, 3m and above and nobody go ask una question!

Aren't you aware that the online banking is having network challenge? Trying to transfer has not been going through for most banks.
Don't even bring this comparison cos the value of their money is higher than ours. 20k withdrawal limit in a day, what can that buy? What about someone on a building project?
We should have access to our money, the limit should not be that tight.

ss1930:
Show us phone conversations, pix of both of you together..else stfu

Even if you caught him in the very act you'll still not believe

God1000:
This is getting messy, a lot of people criticized the comment I made on the earlier thread but why always pastor Suleman?

Is he the only popular man of God in Nigeria?

I'm not being judgemental.

We should not be too blinded by the love we have for people to the extent of defending their bad behaviour.

I know some ladies can be diabolical, but this is not the first case.

You're 100% right, the man is a chronic womaniser and all she said about him is true but In this country the number of people that don't have sense is more than the numbers that are sensible so you'll see a lot of stupid and illogical comments 🙄

Seems a lot of his followers are here trying to counter what Halima has said and we also have some ignorant persons who just want to put all the blame on her. The blame is a share of 50/50 to both of them.
With the comment I've read here and on twitter, even if some persons caught him in the very act they'll still not believe or they'll blame her for opening her legs... They'll still believe he's doing the right thing and apportion the blame on her.

breakthrough22:
If she stays too long in her father house,I will never accept her back .

Seriously, I have missed my family but I am not accepting her back if she spend the remaining days in January in his dad house and I will never send a dime to them

Don't send any money, and watch her change his surname... You think she's a stupid person? She has had enough from you, she's no more coming back so save your empty threats. You are a very wicked person, I pray she changes his surname, file a report to the police and place a restriction from you seeing your child.
You de sharp mouth de cap nonsense, instead of you to de beg and de feel remorseful for treating her badly. You never jam the one weh go deal with you

WhoDeyHause:
Just forget about her. She has found someone new.

I don't think she has, she wants her peace of mind and not someone that'll make her look stupid and inferior. Look the man nags a lot and that's very bad. Emotional pain is more dreadful than physical pain

Jashub:
Op, forget her and move on . When hunger and shame torture her she'll come crawling back. Secondly , it won't be easy for her to find someone willing to marry her and bear the burden of carrying the financial responsibility of her son .

Lol...Infact , I pity this woman . She's deluded and doesn't know that being a single mother is the worst sentence a woman can give herself in this harsh economy.

No, being a single woman is not the worst sentence a woman can find herself but being broke is.
So till she plunge herself into depression and eventually kill herself, is that when you'd understand the emotional pain she's been going through? Because I know then you'll be among those quick to say why didn't she leave the marriage when she had the chance.

If you have a good boss, he'll teach you as duties and responsibilities comes in... But if you have a bad/ wicked boss, he'll make you look stupid by not working with you but calling the attention of those that have been there before you. You might receive a lot of insults on your mistakes and may not be corrected.

Removing fuel subsidy is not an issue, but you can't remove subsidy and expect Nigerians to buy fuel at an exorbitant rate. It's either you get the refinery ready or you remove the monopolization of NNPC over the oil sector, so other companies can take part in the supply of fuel.

Every candidate is planning on removing fuel subsidy, but what's the way forward? Get the refineries ready before doing so or remove monopoly from NNPC. I don't want to buy a litre of fuel for 1500 or pay so much money for goods, transport, etc because ones fuel subsidy is completely removed, the price of fuel skyrockets which automatically affects every sector in the country.

What is her character like? I think that's what you should look out for. I know there's a negative stereotype on guys that wear earrings, have tattoos, etc but you shouldn't be quick to conclude without facts. Find out what kind of man is the father and observe your gf character.

A lot of persons typing Fela Kuti � if he was still alive, you'd all be quick to criticize his lifestyle and music... But because he's dead you now see him as a legend �

I’m sure someone actually paid that policeman to kill her

emperordelis:
This is exact where a lot of Nigerian youths stand right now and the numbers keep growing...We admit there's God,but we also want to believe we can find,keep,worship and communicate with him without having to go to any church

Because the church is no more a place to worship God but a place where most pastors see as avenues to raise capital to establish themselves, guys and ladies see it as hookup centers, dressing to kill/impress, preaching sermons that encourages immorality, etc.

noble71:
you guys are the people encouraging criminality.

How is he encouraging criminality? If Obi had given 50m you'll be at the top of your voice saying he's a generous man.

Xyzee:
Stop playing!
There is nothing like curses anywhere especially as a child of God. Once you give your life to Christ, you are a new creature and old things have passed away.

I have a parent who never was there in my growing up until I became successful, he has been cursing me since I became an adult (I no send him papa) and the more he curses, the more I become successful and when people go to tell him how I have been so successful, he claims me at that moment before them. After they leave, he sends more curses. Lol

So OP, nobody can curse you as long as you have God by your side.

It's easy to say and doubt things when you've not found yourself in situation that's more than what you can handle.

AdamuKD:
Any student that will vote for APC next year, will be unfortunate in life.
Including his or her academics

You must be a civil servant to make such statement, cos they're the only ones I've come across supporting ASUU.
Everyone knows ASUU has been a problem to students' education. Delaying the future of the students who would have graduated and started pursing their dreams. Destroying the knowledge of the students, because when you're not constantly learning, there's tendency to forget. Wasting students house rent that would have been utilized if learning was on going. Who's going to pay for all these damages?
I'm not trying to say unions shouldn't go on strike at all, unions do go on strike, but none is like ASUU. This has become a perpetual activity and the government needs to put an end to it.

Note: They're not fighting for the betterment of the institutions but for their selfish interest.

I pray the next government follows suit.

SirJerrie:
white guy posts a video talking about how smart Nigerians are...

These Bunch of "fuckups" who neither have data or free wifi and couldn't watch the video rushed to comment, having no single idea on what was said in the video.
typical Nlanders..

Thank you! I started wondering if I was the only one that watched the video. People weh get sense for this country no reach 10

wonder233:
The newest format in Nigeria now is to murder someone, quickly put out a narrative that they committed suicide, then watch as gullible people lap it all up hook line sinker.
Nigerians are among the most shallow people on earth, I've never seen a people so easily deceived. So swayed by bandwagon and first narratives.
Criminals can't believe how easy it is! See them rushing to comment words of advice and motivation, because one person said it was suicide. Nobody is asking, lets really investigate first, nobody is saying, lets reserve our comments first before it is fully investigated.
In some other places, any death is first treated as a potential murder before anything else.
Not Nigerians. Who is this man that said it is suicide? On what authority has he pronounced it suicide? What does he know that could aid the authorities in investigation?
Elsewhere, you cannot even rush to break this kind of news or make this kind of pronouncement cos the authorities will immediately assume you know something. But watch as this will all go away in a hail of meaningless words of motivation and RIPS

You just spoke my mind. Sometimes I wonder how people believe it's suicide and are quick to blame it on depression or tag any problems to it. What about if the person had a gun pointed at him and is forced to even write a suicide note? Nigerians have a problem with analysing situations.

Some suicides are actually under duress.

You're married for just 2 months, and pregnant for 7 months, looks like you trapped him with pregnancy.

Tamilore11:
Are u stupid or mad?? Didn’t the woman carry the pregnancy for 9 months? Is it not still their eggs n sperm? And they are not barren!!! If they re , she won’t even have good eggs or sperms. Ohhh. So many white celebrities dat do surrogacy nko? So Ronaldo and the rest will not boast about their kids? U re just myopic and very stupid

I don't think you understood what the Op is talking about. Pls read and understand

Mikester:
I agree with him. It isn't low self esteem or whatever a pained mind chooses to term it. It is doing what you feel is right. He has his reason for leaving you. There was no love between you both in the first place. It was just casual dating which I personally deem to have no value.

I personally cannot marry a more ambitious lady because I know what marriage entails and that different minds cannot run a home successfully. Either she unites with me exclusively and follow my lead as a real woman should or she moves on. Else, why do we term ourselves as one body?

We all make decisions based on what we know and what we feel. He knows why he left you and no one here has the right to criticize him on that, besides I'm certain a lot who are criticising him here are the actual failures in the real world, hence the bitterness.

You've spoken well �