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Mouthgag:
KARMA IS WONDERFUL

LET BE. THERE PAST MUST HUNT THEM AND ALL THESE OLOSHO GIRLS TOO SLEEPING WITH PEOPLE'S HUSBAND.
THE GIRLS THAT WILL SLEEP WITH YOUR HUSBANDS WHEN YOU MARRY ARE STILL WARMING UP.
AND PROBABLY, THE RANDY MEN WILL END UP MARRYING A WHÔRE.
WHAT GOES AROUND...


See Tonto, see Tiwa, see Toke, etc

But wait oooo. Does it imply that Lilian was doing it with other women's husbands?

Just asking ooo...

People should know that if it has taken long since when you did exercise last, you should be very careful when you want to do one again. Do not jump into serious running, playing lawn tennis, football or any other game that will make you gasp for breath easily. As healthy as you look earlier you can collapse and die.
One can start by walking or trekking for sometimes or days before you can start such a major exercise.
Speaking from experience, I joined area boys one early Saturday morning around my place to play football only for me to collapse after the first pursuit I made to kick a ball.
It took only the grace of God to survive it as I struggled to breathe. I started doing small exercises before I could play well again.

This is why Drogba preferred to use African Magic on them instead of playing second fiddle.

In all sincerity, try to be everything a mother can be to that girl if she is ready for that. Treat her like a queen and try to drive joy being with her. There are some couples who adopt babies they do not have any biological trace with yet they still enjoy lives to the fullest. You never can tell, she might have come with bountiful blessings which may include the fruits of the womb.
A similar true life story happened around me. In this case, it was a boy of 27 locating the father in a marriage of 15 years without child. That same period, the wife put to a bed a set of twins. Just put your trust in God. Bookmark this page, you shall come back to give testimonies.

I will located this guy on Facebook and share this writeup. He is articulated and brave.

Babzilla:
Its a ponzi scheme usual stuff offering returns n shìt
here is some info on how it all started till date.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/MMM_(Ponzi_scheme_company)

We all read this and we know. I was so skeptical at the beginning but I am now doing it with the profit I earned waiting for the day it will collapse. I trust mmm more than APC and all the Nigerian politicians. Lolz
But wait oooo! How did I get ito this? Choi! Bad economy is to blame.

stchinedu:
O boy...enlighten me. I get serious interest o.

Just go to their Nigeria website and register. You can start with small amount if you have doubt.
MMM will last long in Nigeria because it does not have a single account for payments and participants do not care whether it is a scam or not - in fact, do I say that the participants are aware that it will collapse one day but are adamantly investing there? Funny enough such scheme thrive in a condition where investors are adamant and large in population.

Nychillax:


Na so one guy dey lecture me about it yesterday night, he come show me how he go cash 375k today.He said "guy if u loose Yer money I will return it back to you,start with 150k or 200"

I just dey take one eyes dey look at him.Make I just put 200k start invisible business just like that for this buhari regime??

I told him If I can't start with 30k make una leave me, he later registered me sha.......but if I see say na true, I swear na 250k I go put next,everything na risk even life itself na risk,we go chop that money together, I hear say 3.1mill is the limit.

Hahahaha. You funny die. I swear after that 30k you go borrow money join that 250k to make it 1m. That was how one guy preached me and I refused till the guy registered me and used his money (1m). A month later I started receiving endless alerts till N1.367m entered my account. I transfered the money to him. I had no doubt again and I invested with my own money and received similar amount a month later. Choi! Lets enjoy it while the offer lasts. This time around I invested with the profit alone and so I will lose nothing.

Qmerit:
Without being sentimental about this first am a man! It's too early from my counting it's not up to 3months!

If it was a woman doing thing, it would be condemned by the public and even the families won't allow her!

Some respect should have been shown for her!
No one should tell me would you feed him and children! No, I won't, he's not poor to that level that he can't stay for 5months or so before going back to work, afterall he's not Govt worker! His speed for acting would make people to have a rethink toward the lost of her wife,
How would the children even feel sef!
My opinion though!

Let us stop being sentimental please. If this man were to be a bank manager do u mean he should not resume work until after 5 months or so? If he has a shop for instance, do you mean he should not open d shop again till after 5 months? Do you use to fix yourself in people's shoes? What decision will you take?

Hehehehe...You are somehow right but many people are not good at reading long stories hence the summary.

photoshoot:
Seems you were in a hurry to end the write up
All the same, nice lesson learnt..




Meanwhile
Sorry....

I have beautiful love stories to tell anyone who cares to listen. I started dating at the age of 16. Some might say I even started late or too early but the truth is that I have enjoyed more than some people who started before or after that age. I did not double date but I had as many decent ladies as the need arose. I learnt alot.
Firstly, I was just an average handsome young guy and very brilliant student. I was in SS1 then and by SS2 I was already doing it real with this most beautiful girl in the town. I loved her but I never felt that she could be mine forever. I said to myself let me extract goodies from this girl before someone else snatched her away. That I did exactly.True to my thought, one Corp member who came to serve in our school snatched her away. I did not feel bad because I imagined it happened before hand. May be because I was not thinking about marrying her.
I also quickly switched to another hot chick who obviously was jealous of our relationship. It was fun. The former remained my ordinary friend even when the corp member left.
It continued even in my university days. I dated one fine chick after the other. Each was good for marriage but I never thought about that. I was not a player but I easily allowed a relationship to collapse instead of giving me headache. I always imagined that anything could happen to any of the relationships.
The point is that I was not afraid of losing any girl. I was not a proud type but I was sure I would get another fine babe if anything happened to the one I was dating. It worked for me. When I left for NYSC, I shortly broke up with the last girl I dated because I could not see her as often as she wanted. Fine! I got job immediately after my service and two years later I married a damsel. An epitome of marriage material. Now a mother of two precious gifts. Life is good!
What else do you want to hear?
Live positive! Think positive!! Work hard!!!

I have beautiful love stories to tell anyone who cares to listen. I started dating at the age of 16. Some might say I even started late or too early but the truth is that I have enjoyed more than some people who started before or after that age. I did not double date but I had as many decent ladies as the need arose. I learnt alot.
Firstly, I was just an average handsome young guy and very brilliant student. I was in SS1 then and by SS2 I was already doing it real with this most beautiful girl in the town. I loved her but I never felt that she could be mine forever. I said to myself let me extract goodies from this girl before someone else snatched her away. That I did exactly.True to my thought, one Corp member who came to serve in our school snatched her away. I did not feel bad because I imagined it happened before hand. May be because I was not thinking about marrying her.
I also quickly switched to another hot chick who obviously was jealous of our relationship. It was fun. The former remained my ordinary friend even when the corp member left.
It continued even in my university days. I dated one fine chick after the other. Each was good for marriage but I never thought about that. I was not a player but I easily allowed a relationship to collapse instead of giving me headache. I always imagined that anything could happen to any of the relationships.
The point is that I was not afraid of losing any girl. I was not a proud type but I was sure I would get another fine babe if anything happened to the one I was dating. It worked for me. When I left for NYSC, I shortly broke up with the last girl I dated because I could not see her as often as she wanted. Fine! I got job immediately after my service and two years later I married a damsel. An epitome of marriage material. Now a mother of two precious gifts. Life is good!
What else do you want to hear?
Live positive! Think positive!! Work hard!!!

Simply walk away.
She got the infection from unexpected person or means and she wants to change her status to an acceptable one as if she does not have such problem. She is ready to even die shortly after the marriage and you will start your own secret journey in agony. My concern is that she hid this fom you for a long time.

I zoomed the pix and it appears she has mouth infections. She needs to claim damages to enable her go for treatment.
I smell mouth odour here. [color=#000099][/color]

How can a myopic movie producer's apology get to FP?

nawtyme:
Why not ask your president to bring his daughter home to school in University of Maiduguri?
Why not ask your president to receive medical treatment in State house medical center that has its budget more than that of all other federal medical institutions combined?
Why not ask your president to quit or at least start granting equal amount of interviews for our local media rather than expecting Nigerians to hear about his plans(that is if he has any) from foreign media?
When you do any of these, then you can ask Goodluck (the hero of African democracy) to spend his money and time where and how it pleases him.

I suggest you come up with a herbal formula for rational thinking. You would benefit from it too

Cheers.


Lalasticlala come and see Goodluck eating Zombie meat peppersoup and legend extra stout combination.

#ya kpotu ba.

I like people with logical brains. This is a common sense response. That HERBAL brain is receiving sense.

The truth is that women hardly believe that when you advise them against such an arbitrary adventure that you mean well for them. They will conclude that you are a jealous type and you do not allow her to be independent and grow. At what point did she agree to lodge in a hotel instead of the pastor's wife apartment, for instance? Even if she had to lodge, couldn't she find a hotel and lodge on her own? What arrangements did she make to cater for nights she spent in the various places she travelled to perform?
There should be a limit to a woman's choice of "freedom" especially the married ones.
A woman can be easily turned any man's "wife" once any man she likes can treat her like a queen. She can cook, wash clothes and even have s*x with that man at that moment if restraints/cautions are not taken.

Some will tell you that they are carrying water.

@Op
Your situation is not totally strange. The marriage will be stronger after this phase. However, it appears that your husband is facing some financial challenges. If this is true, then you have to know that it is enough reason to make him behave the way he is doing now.
My take:
While many people have said some things that sound sweet and logical here, I will advise you to be careful in making use of some of the pieces of advice. For instance, it might not come out well if you start being moody, quiet or forming angry also. Instead, be in your best behaviour and try to be the best wife any man could dream of. Make attempt to discuss with him about his new behaviour and how it might not be the best way to go about it. Assure him that you have come in to share both joy and pain with him and he should feel free to tell you where you can be of help. If he opens up to you then empathise with him and make him understand that it will
not last forever.
I strongly suspect that it has to do with financial difficulties. So, he needs your empathy, support and encouragement to deal with it.

Donlittle:
you are diagnosing someone you met through a forum even to the extent of saying she is not beautiful. Thats really funny to me.

A woman's beauty can boost her confidence and self esteem which I didnt find in her discuss. Qoute me anywhere.

cionon:
Ok. Thank you. I will

The person was not referring to youuuuùuuu!
Are you out here for flinging?

cionon:
I saw your advice but you didn't have to bring some non important things like beauty and riches. That's not the way to go about it.. I appreciate your advice. Thanks

Now listen, I appeared to have digressed but they are some of the major factors that anchor marriages. You need to study the remote and immediate causes of your husband's actions. Some men can say "Fine she no fine", "money they no get", "good behaviour she no come get","wetin sef?"
We know that LOVE should be the key factor but there are other factors that are necessary in marriage that both partners should know and work towards.
Play your cards well.

cionon:
I don't know what to tell you . Yes I am stubborn whivch he knew before marriage But changed abit. You don't know my family. We are very comfortable. I thank God for that. If not my situation would have been worse. I am also very beautiful. So ur analysis about me was wrong. I am here for solution not analysis

Nawaa for you oooo.
So all you could pick to address from my post are these?
I also offered good advice which you turned away from. This means you are not ready yet. You are not here for solution then. Are you allergic to criticism? Do you want everyone to be clapping for you: massaging your ego?
Wake up!

Donlittle:
Amd you knew all these about the OP from just one post? Lol Wow.

I have read all her previous posts my dear (and I said it). I just carried out a professional diagnosis on her through this and those other ones. I was blunt but that might be the truth.

@op
I do not think that you ever prepared for the marriage.
Some married women run their mouths like those of football match commentators. You do not have control over your utterances. Your husband does not want you again not because of one thing but the weight of accumulated bad behaviour of yours. Period!
You never worked with good pieces of advice given to you last year when you had a chance to change for good. It shows that you are a stubborn type. I can deduce from this post and the previous ones that you are:
>Stubborn,
>Not beautiful but enlightened (may be educated so to say)
>Too fool of yourself
>No from a rich family or influential background, etc.

In fact you do not have the things that can back your marriage up and still you won't allow the man to be the boss.
I am sorry to sound like this but I think these are the true situations.

My advice
Find a way to talk to the man to remember the old good days when things were "perfect". Promise him that you wont be anything less a person of that time and mean your words. Work through his people and family members. You can still win him back. Marriages for some couples can be terrible in the first few years only to be ok in the later years and vice versa. Good luck!

Harmored:
Hmmm

This dog looks like one comedian in Nigeria.






Just a joke oòoooo

menxer:
@OP, using your phone/snapping pictures with it while driving is equally dangerous.

What proof do u have to show that It was the driver that snapped the pictures?

Etizz:
Lol........ Funny....


Are u an indigene of dat place..?

Nooooo...

busyfishing:
Photos please

More pixs as requested

Etizz:
U bleeped up op

U for com down from your car, den give both of dem better slap, and if they ask, u go tell dem how dangerous it is as u explain am here

Guy...forget ooo. These people think with their an*s. They can turn me to firewood there. God forbid!

.I Spotted This When I Was Going To Work Today - Very Dangerous

One word for this pix.

It is very dangerous to transport fuel this way. Road safety take note.

sukkot:
he does not need any superior argument. with the way biafrans have displayed and conducted and presented themself on the forum since the whole biafran agitation fiasco I think the proof is in the pudding. no superior arguments needed whatsoever when the defendant has practically hanged themself. let me tell you, if you are good at reading between the lines you will see that he is simply telling biafrans to fork off but he is putting it in the most diplomatic and sweetest way possible lmao. like who says ' i love igbos so much and dont want to see them leave nigeria so therefore no more talk of biafra on this forum lol ' ? read between the line. your peoples agenda only consist of abusing other tribes. you dont need a superior argument to tell someone like that to fc-uk off, do you ?

"...reading between the lines"? Don't even go there. If you have to, then I will tell you that his post is a mere preparation for a possible anti social media law and the possible negative effects on his "business". He just lacks the right choice of language to protect his interest. I am sure he will re-phrase this soon or later. Take it or leave it.