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ajilete:
Ladies your contributions have been so useful. i actually went for a colonic irrigation in Kilburn after reading it here and it was wonderful. i am in Nigeria now and i was wondering if anyone has any really good makeup tips for a very oily skin. its no so bad in uk were the weather is somewhat drier and colder. here though it is so humid and hot that i can feel the makeup melting and slidding off my face. i do have a few black spots so concealer and or foundation is a god sent. HELP!!!

Ok i hav dry skin so everything i tell u will b what has worked for people i know

1.  Avoid cream foundations. . . they r oil based and u don't want to add more oil to the skin. There liquid foundation for oily skin but it has to say so on the pack or else, stay away. i'D suggest the new mineral powder foundation, they are light and wont clog up your skin,  which is a major problem with oily skin. Revlon colour stay mineral foundation is very good, very light and has some coverage. . . combined with a stick or spot concealer and u can achieve a flawless complexion. _{(i've seen this happen)}

2.  Avoid oil based moisturiser and primers, if u use one. . . most people i knw ith oily skin don't. i expect u don't use a lotion on your face. if u do u need to stop. . . try a water based gel (aloe gel maybe?) or my personal favorite secret oil (it isnt oily so its perfect)

3. cleanse and re-apply your make up at least once in the day. . . i knw its a pain, but i hav a friend who swears by this. ,   apparently it also helps with the blemishes.

I'll see if i can get anymor tips and add  them on here. .  feel free to ask anymore questions 

Its cremation for me all d way baby. . .

i am a restless soul, a free spirit. .  i don't like d idea that in death we get sealed in a box and be buried

i'D much rather hav my ashes, scattered in the wind. .  everywhere and anywhere. .  FREEDOM!

As for my loved ones, its basically their decision. .  _{i'D much rather cremation too, not too keen on picturing their rotten corpses in graves}

i talk to me ex oh. . . he is on of my best buds and i dont hide the fact

if he feels the need to hide it from u then u hav cause to worry sha. . . for all u knw they might just be friends

i suggest u make it clear that he gets his priorties straight, have a clear discussion where u make ur feelings known, then dont mention it again unless u hav evidence confirming ur suspicions

Hannibal:
@ HR Hotness,

Stop fighting the momentum.
Men will always be men. . . . . . . . . You don't expect me to call u and tell u ma plans for the next 3 weeks.
What makes u think u are the only girl friend i have got?
Give men a break and stop this PMS theory. . . . . .Men don't menstruate so find anutha name already.

for lack of a better word, PMS is a perfect description for this phenomenon

again, its has nothing to do with being in a relationship. . . i don't need to knw your plans,

infact, i don't want to knw your bloody plans

just return a message and say u're ok and don't want to talk.  



[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=166541.msg2746173#msg2746173 date=1220399189]Female PMS is like a volatile volcano. It just erupts. Not planned, erratic and senseless.[/quote]guilty as charged! 

but this is not about me is it?

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=166541.msg2746115#msg2746115 date=1220397977]It's called a sabbathical. The dude needed to get his mind right. Hes prolly been trying to get your attention for like forever and you prolly keep blowing him off or sumtin.
I agree with you that most guys behave like bithces _{(no offence intended)}, but the percentage is so small that its negligible.[/quote]no one is stopping them frm their sabbatical oh. . .  just give us warning!

its a lot more than a small prcentage, i'v heard a number of complaints

you guys r getting it all wrong. . . i'm not talking about a break-up situation,

more like a good friend or buddy suddenly turning cold after a stretch of communication. . . no quarrels or arguements or awkward situation.  , .  he has to be ill or sumthin must be wrong right? so u call, and leave numerous messages onhis machine, send text messages, emails, telegrpahs, leav notes in his mail box. .   then it dawns on u he probabaly has had enough of u so u move on and forget the jerk. . .  fastfoward a month later, he rings u up out of d blue and acts like he last spoke to u yesterday and u r like WTF!!!. . .  PMS i say!

And i repeat again and again, I dont need an expalanation for ur PMS, if u r disappearing for a while its absolutely fine, I also need space frm time to time. . . but not responding to messages and making a sista feel like a stalker. . . thats not cool. I can deal with the silence, it just annoys me that i get worried unnecessarily and the bastard doesnt hav the courtesy to at least confirm h is ok. . . now thats just down-right mean.

I dont need to know where u're going or what u're up to, i really dont care, just dont get me worked up unnecessarily. gve me a little heads up. . . thats all i ask and i'm cool

_{what or who is an omata guy?}

ogb5:
its our period, blame it on the hormones

at last, person don agree say na male PMS and menstruation dey worry una

yemmyse:
@poster and all ladies in the house

On behalf of all male folks, I hereby tender an unreserve apology to all females for all our uncourteous, immature, irresponsible and totally inexcusable behaviours. We re so very much sorry. We re just being human. The best of man is till man at his very best.

Hope we re totally forgiven?

we dont want apology oh. . .
a sensible explanation is what we want

na today?

my mother has been giving me ultimatum since i turned 21. . . she go soon tire

ur friend shd relax jare
let her not go and jump into a pointless relationship to please someone else

ogb5:
anyway the original post was about, the posters boyfriend, friends and brother doing the things she is complaining about

Guys in general do this!

ogb5:
don't tell me you are playing 2 guys

dude, read d original post. . .

this is not restricted to relationships

nana:
Where are all these boys coming out from?

school is on holiday na. . .

na to go siddon for cyber cafe dey run mouth with dem mama mate na im dem sabi

I'm a die hard fan. . , d guy is a musical genius

cant wait for him to do summin new and put all em haters to shame

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=166454.msg2742265#msg2742265 date=1220350567]but word is that she intends to marry the dude?![/quote]she has to na. . . damage control!

afterall the republican party is supposedly family orientated

mygivenchy:
naaah! hottey im not d one bin clueless, if only u'D stop and discren why SOME guys do these, u have only gone about analysin d situation that happened but not why it happens, howeva i wuldnt b suprised if all LADIES in this thread say same tin, when u study n analyse, do that because u want to find out why it happened, ranting ova these doesnt and will not give u a clue!

me thinks a lil english lesson will help ur situation. . .
u'll understand my original post and mayb be able to write legibly

seeu:
It's just a confirmation of what i'm saying. Character is something else. I'm out of this thread. Bye thread!

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Good riddance to brainless rubbish

yoga is the only form of excercise i will try. . . its calming and u actually feel d difference. . .

dont knw how u can do it without classes oh. . . i hvnt been to class in ages and i becoem completely useless

seeu:
There are other sites and the members share every topic peacefully and responsibly without abuse. I'm waiting for the day this site will grow to that level. It's insult and insult on this site and one wonder the kind of people here.

Get a brain or try using the one u hav to full capacity and mayb, just mayb. . . .

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Like i've said, the level of 'comprehension' in this place is appalling.

I feel you and though it rarely happens to me, i did have an experience with a friend.
What i did was to tell him my thoughts on the whole thing as soon as we started talking,
We've been ok since then.

The other one, well he likes to do that since i have known him
This last time will determine if he survives or not
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my dear,

a friend did it to me a while back, i explained d situation and we were cool. . . but he's doin it again and qute frankly i've lost my patience. . .  

salsera:
HR.hot

I think you should just stick to those guys who replied with some real answers, the others don't have a clue what your talking about

My take

I don't get it either but some of these answers make sense

its the getting chummy all of a sudden that beats me
its like knocking on someone's door for 24 hrs with no response
then a month later the said person just walks into your house and puts the telly


Then again aren't all human beings complicated

but wldnt it be easier to just say "i'm going to lay low for a while" or summin?
i don't knw why gust tak such stupid risks. . . i've lost count of the number of times i am tempted to just hit such guys over d head with a frying pan. . .

mygivenchy:
waz up with Hr hotness and her rantings, never mind she's just growling over her insecurity and a heart break or sometin', hottey u nid to get a grip of yourself aight, this is not the best way to handle it.

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insecurity. . . heartbreak. . .

dude u r just a clueless mofo

seeu:
@Poster,

Just see yourself and what you posted.  It's all on net, you dare not insult a guy like that face to face.  It's for you and any person who cares to take your ranting serious.

swhrt u hav no idea so shut it!

every guy who acts this way gets and ear-full and more from me. . . my rant actually originated from a friend who just called out of the blue expcting a warm recption. . . after ignoring all my emails, text messages and not taking my calls. . .

i dont hide how I feel oh. . . no one is above reproach

IncaGold:
Cos I don't want to fall in love! Going AWOL gives me ample time to analyse things. I guess i'll sound silly if i tell you that i don't want to fall in love with you, so i've to back off a little bit! Silence is cool sometimes.

Men are grown-ups, we reason with our HEAD not our HEART. Quite sadly ladies follow their hearts and leave their heads to wonder!

again u r getting it all wrong. . . i dont need to knw why u r going AWOL, just a little warning that i wont be hearing from u fro a while wld suffice

It is impossible to love 2 people equally, be it wife, child or friend. . .
no two pple r d same so the feelings for them cannot be d same

Ujujoan:
Poster, having periods has absolutely nothing to do with it. These guys never grow up. No matter how old ther are, they still act like babies. Its shameful really. Its not the swtiching off that ir[sub][/sub]ritates me the most. Its the way they call out from the blues after like 2mths and goes - 'Hey how about that tennis date we had'. That was like 3 mths ago for pete's sake!!!

PMS is the only explanation i can think of


[quote author=_bami link=topic=166541.msg2741906#msg2741906 date=1220346365]@Post

Never knew this was rampant with most guys.

I speak for me alone:

It happens to me for various reasons but what I tend to do now is warn the ladies before hand. Sometimes indirectly, other times directly.

I was trying to focus on some major decisions I had to make recently and to quell any tension between myself and a dear female pal of mine I plainly told her I was going on Sabbatical. She didnt understand why but she appreciated it.

Again, I speak for me alone.
[/quote]Thank u jare
and that is all that is required. . . . dont need to understand, we only want to knw whats going on

IncaGold:
@post
I feel u! Personally, I act that way to give the friend some breathing space.

I personally dont hav a problem with that. . . very well appreciated.

how about a little warning first tho, or better still wait till she asks for the space. . . my beef is that u r left hanging without any clue as to whats going on

bennygee:
another case of heartbroken lady
@ poster
sorry oooo.
guys sef,why una dey treat girls like this
na una dey make us "genuine guys "
to  get problems with chicks

another ignorant response, where hav i mentioned heartbreak?

richo:
theres a difference between that and callin you names. ^{if i had called u a bitch then u can say thats rude and callin u names}

either ways, u know nothing about me and hav no right to call me frustrated

i'm not goin to get into an exchange with u, go entertain urself somewhere else

Just brace urself and tell her!

make sure u make it clear u still love her tho. . . . she'll still be pissed but u hav to hang in ther