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in a matter of gbonmisi, there must be seller and buyer

why won't us pay, no be commodity

Must you say i love you when you don't mean it, abeg everybody dey do advert, must you watch,

I don't say i love u when i don't mean it n don't expect such from any girl if she doesn't mean it.

Must you love someone b4 u have ur way either to enter Jerusalem or enter their central bank,

Anywhere the pressure is coming from i don't care, but one thing is certain, when you became well off in life, you will be the first person to enjoy it.

As for me, i've never been pressurize cos there is nobody to exert that pressure, but now the pressure is from my WIFE, Yeeeeee!

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=662409.msg8285377#msg8285377 date=1304945296]I don't understand what the fuss is about. As future mothers and incubators of life don't you know you are more fragile than men?

Face it ladies you may be equal but you are not the same as men. You can not do all that men do, you will not excel over men in certain areas because you were not built to.

You don't use a convertible to ferry gravel even though it is open.[/quote]Chei, this ur analogy na one time kpoki

convertible indeed, let them equate plastic and rubber product forgeting say the former can break while the latter fix bend but not break

Cuteobi:
Who cares

Let me guess, Osaze no give u eye abi? shior ;

ak47mann:
Am in full support is time for women to exercise their rights.Revolution yes revolution is needed in west Africa i wish am the president of Nigeria/sierra Leon women will be running my government if you wan burn outside carry on all the best multiply the world abeg any man you see like am tell him to marry you if he refuse put him in jail i feel for women their is nothing like freedom and equal right the world will be a better place

u must be on some cheap crak

akunta:
@op,
i guess its cos, we (girls) bear
the brunt of wateva goes wrng.
eg, wen a girl gets pregnant out of wedlock
it takes 2 to tango, but she bears the 'shame' alone
and dont 4get she gets 2 go the 9mnths alone
and life afta the 9mnths 2.
literally, her life as it is stops!

Gbam, no mind them.

@poster get pregnant and see ya lsef, shior

Girls and their complains,

Ur parent are only helping u cos when belle comes out, na u go bear the wahala,

Its like the analysis of cash deposite, boys deposite the cash, guy make use of the cash,

Our parent are helping us if u don't know, this is not the issue of bois or girls,

More importantly, girls bears the brunt of raising kids on their own more than anything else in this world.

What our parent want is for us being successful in life and as african, we have culture and tradition that guide our actions,

Remember the son or daughter of whom u are, that what they say,

u will understand more when u become parent and ur kids are in that age,

Ladies stop using those F words when the issues concerning our parents is involve, tells alot about u.

@poster, congrat n other guys that win.
As a winner, apart from checking ur status at dvlottery.state.gov, any other site is fake, Beware of scam.

All winnerd must receive a parcel containing winner notification including the form where u will fill ur biodata n send back to kcc.

Pls make sure ur information is consistent to what u fill during initail application.

After this, get ur police report from alagbon or other place please, no go police station, there u will do finger print.

U will have to wait for the interview letter and medical form to be send to you including the amount to be paid on your interview date at the u.s.a embassy.

Pls all ur supporting document must be consistent, especially ur name i.e first name and middle name must not be interchange in ur document pls.

If u are in lagos, u will do ur medical in kamoras hospital in muri-okunola street in victoria island.

For the double honor poster, pls get information from ur school if u can defer the admission, if so go ahead with the lottery, by doing so ur school tuition will reduce cos u are paying same amount as citizen does.

Pls mind u, u must process ur lottery on time, visa is not guaranteed, cos na first come first serve.

If any info needed, do not hesitate to ask.

Wishing u guys all the best.

@Hotie Tima.

you take small arrange if its you for that profile

Make we relate now

Hotie Tima:
may dear leave him and find someone there coz no matter how many chances u give him he will always repeat the same thing

This one wey u talk na lie, cos if its you, i know you won't let go, so stop giving false advise you can't do yourself haba!

190:
**breaths down**

Why

@ Omo_to_dun

Haba e don do now,,

pls leave all this agent of divorce, let them advise their sister make she adopt retain her maiden name, in fact she should not use her husband name at all, shior

What is the reason why marriage do not last anymore, women of liberation, abeg liberate urself and pls stop dating guys again.
Its not by force to get married, if you can't adopt ur guys name, then date ur father and keep the name.

After many years, you will adopt this name "Divorcee" i think that one is cool.

Women are there own enemy, dosing advice they can't abide with if the case is theirs,

Free yourself poster, look for dog to marry mrs dog.

sleekman:
Women get problem sha. So if d girl looks physically asset worthy & u don't na problem? Then u wanna break up? How many Naija men like Small Physical Assets SPAs? My advice to u goes thus. Just take a break and make up your mind. U might find out u really love this guy or along the way meet someone better. I believe in fidelity in any form of relationships but what can a man do in an imperfect world. There men who prefer exclusivity and those kind of men get really hurt when their women cheats on them but there're questions I always ask myself. Must I commit a sin because a friend or partner does same? So how do I balance idealism and reality? A world that says ideally sharing of 'inner secrets' are the exclusive preserve of couples with an unspoken & spoken, unsigned & signed connection and yet this same world hypocritically in reality condones & promotes breaking of this exclusivity. I used to say things like if my wife cheats on me I'll divorce, retaliate blah blah blah but then like one adoned with much wisdom said in ages past, all is vanity. So take a step away from the whole situation and make a decision. It has nothing to do with who's been cheated or not, who's been offended or not, but rather do I love this guy and does he as well? Can I count on him when I need him the most & can he count likewise? If you realise you don't love him after the temporary break then do yourself & him a favour & breakup. Remember the spoken word is a function of an unspoken heart.

Go to whymencheat.com and find out why,

@Publisher, may u continue to publish more

u don hit the nail both on the head n tail.

All men are not equal, if anyman is here n trying to tell what he is not, time will tell,

Cheating is wrong like any other sin, but time will tell

@ poster, learn to love urself by taking him back, there is no angel on earth to marry, na men dey here so make do of what u have,

If u like get another male, luck am inside house, u will see women penetrating just to have a one night stand with him. i repeat ALL MEN CHEAT ,

I have told u before, he is doing you a favour,

U have the choice to go or stay, Another chick is waiting to have him knowing that he CHEAT a lot.

I will say this again and again, the day ladies put this in their thick skull, the better for the, ALL MEN CHEAT.

I will not kill anyone that cheat on me, cos we are all predator looking for prey.

@ poster, i have advice you to leave him if u cant cope, afterall he is doing you a favor. Abeg free the poor guy begging you around.

Leave today if another one will not come in, by the way the lady you caught him with is just waiting for your exit for her to come in,

Get another guy u hear and i promise you same thing go happen, if u can date an Angel then u might not have the headache of cheating, that mean u have to wait till u get to heaven.

Men cheat n nothing you can do about it, its in us, na so God create us, just ask ur brother what i just write,

If u like abuse me o, i no send una.

@bhusayor

U have not answered my question,

@bhusayor

i like ur mercy johnson body type

can we meet anyhow

@ poster, if u can't take him back, abeg carry go, no be by force
afterall he is doing you a favour

I will marry her on one condition, she must spend her own money. Kapish

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@kokogee people react differently to situations that they find themselves. When some women catch their men with other women the first thing they do is to stop making love with the man. They will also happily spend his money . . . after all he is spending on concubine so why wont he spend on her his legal wife.

As regards the house chores, the poster said that he cooks, cleans etc and he may well have been doing that before December.

Lets also not forget that in the UK where there are no housemaids many men cook and do some sort of housework, so he is probably doing what he always has done, They have been married for 10 years so I am assuming that they still have small kids who still need to be looked after too.

Please men stop saying that house chores makes you silly or that you are over pampering your wives. Each woman is different and has different needs. Some women want their affection in cuddles, time, touch, pampering etc and not a plate of rice & cleaning of the bathroom. Men you need to work out what tickles your wives fancy and go for what is specific to her.

The poster needs to talk one on one with his wifey and work out whatever the problem is

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I really can't understand what women want, you want the man to woo you inorder to marry him, take care of u when u get married, u still want the same man to be a wizard inorder to know what is on her mind, infact i am tired of women.

every woman is different, man must go for women course to understand them,do this do that, now i know why men always died before the woman, my dad died 25 years ago, still my mum is still alive.

Infact, i've change tactics from now on, women need me u no give shit,

Haba the man is already indebt, ask advice from MIL, what does she has to say, pamper her more, bla bla bla, cos that what she get from her own husband is the man is till alive.

wetin sef, na by force to marry, i have been spending more since i got married, it all money money money, dollar dollar dollar,

baba God helep us from all this Jazibella of this world,

This reminds me of lucky dube son, "Slave"

Men are slave unto women, but i refuse to be,

@ poster, let her be, if she wan enter bush, let her be, cos i don't care about them any more,

i appeal and urge the people's general to accept the result in good faith and move on, if God still destines him to lead Nigeria, he will surely do even if he clocks 100 years, this is what i believe.

As the result showed that the status remain unchanged, let furge ahead in whatever direction pdp is heading since we voted gej enmasse.

The following strike my mind.
1. I wont be surprise if things doesn't change cos obj, ibb, aneneh, alams, bankole, oyinlola, akala, omisore and all other pdp looters and thief are compesated and highly return to power in whatever form or shape, sorry naija we voted them Abeg.

The initial investment of the so called invetors in the govt is guaranteed, otedola, dangote, adenuga and all of them is sure in 1000%, naija na we go pay am back in the next years to come.

Nigeria way to go, taking this result as the wish of all Nigerians who voted yesterday in the presidential election, the following are obvious:

1. I even contact friends that voted for PDP, i ask why voted PDP when u wake up with no light, headed for the polling unit and voted for thesame people who have kept you in darkness, all he said was Buhari is not good for Nigeria, bla bla bla, but refuse to give reason why he voted for Jo.

2. Alot of people voted for PDP in the south west, and i ask myself, that was thesame mistake make in 2003 and PDP took over southwest, thesame might happen next week, am waiting.

Since this is what Nigeria wanted, plssssssssssssssssss

Don't complain of any problem that will come with this man for the next 4 years, that means, pls bear your pain and suffering,

who am i to complain, EVERY NATION DESERVE THE LEADER THEY GET simple.

Nigeria i give up on you.

There is everything wrong restricting movement on election day, its only in Nigeria that this happen.

I was opportune to be in Ghana in their last general election and there was no restriction to movement, except the borders that were closed.
I remember that my driver has to travel from Cape coast to accra to vote and came back the same day, for one reason or the other, people might not have the power to be in their locality for one reason or the other.

This restriction will cause many people to be disenfranchised in this election. sometimes, i think Nigeria is a lone country in another planet,
inappropriate and bad planning leading to what? your guess is as good as mine.

Nonetheless, i wish Nigeria a free and fair election to an extent, pls Nigeria Vote for the people you belief will have our positive interest, leave relition, ethnic, regional sentiment alone and let make it right this time around.

Let know that all these sentiment will not buy Garri in the market and will not provide job for our youth and will definitely affect all of us if we put bad people in Governmet.

God Help Nigeria.

;Deven if devil campaign in naija some pple will endorse am,

I still dey laugh, see wetin poverty go cause,

God forbid, i will never eat of my enemy food, Poverty of mind has taking over my pple .

I laugh in Kirigistan.

@Bassike n blink182
guy pls be objective enough, waiter, cab driver are job ehoch u cant compare to okada in naija, for an Okada chairman or what to say 30% of its members are graduate is shameful for our president wanting to invest more inform of bike assembly in naija, so more of us will enter into the poverty lead suicide job abi?
Is that the kind of job a graduate should be doing, waiter and cab drivers purchasing power n standard of living can never be compare to someone working in a bank in naija let alone okada rider, n ur president is campaigning for more tenure.

You also said i should shut up, if my post is against ur   thinking, belive, candidate, sorry u cant change that, i have the right to express my opinion likewise yours, so u dont have the right shut me up, naija mentality in action.

I still dey laugh at the Commander in cheif of Olokada.

Awon were,

how does this get to the front page?
Bunch of retards, i laugh in Ijebu!
President Olokada indeed, gej no get shame at all, imagine him saying okada riders should help curb crime as if that is there job, clueless fisherman,
Youth dont need okada as a good source of leaving afterall according to thier Oga, 30% are graduate, this alone should make gej cried loud, Wasted generation of retards who does not know their enemy again, poverty of mind as really beclowed nigeria,
Its is left for the people to make change or leave in thier missery,
God is laughing at us cos we are inept people who religion as beclowed, make we dey wait for God to removed pdp, God self dey laugh at us, God as giving us the power of reasoning to make choices, so dont call him to this subject.
Gej aka mr fantasy promising evry body, pls i never get my own biscuit,
Awon were,

I could remember the following things on my first HIV test at LASUTH

Before the test, i was shaking, i couldn't talk much and when i was called in, my leg was dragging, its like am about to be shot by firing squard,
the doctor said, can i have ur hand, i didn't understand what he was saying until he brought out syringe, ok blood that what came out of my mouth

After taking the blood sample needed, he told me that i should come the next day, for where it took me 5 days before i show up, i was praying seriously, asking and begging God for all my sins, and promising if i came out negative, i will not get involve in sex again until am married.

At the hospital, when i finally have the courage to enter,

Doctor told me direct me to the councelling room, i was like yeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! e don happen, but na only one partner i dey chop now,how my own come be like this, is this the end of my life, but God i don beg u now se i no go do am again; i was like why can't they just tell me say na +ive.

At the councelling room, the guy started talking bla bla bla, but no word enter my brain, the word that came out of my mouth was,

wetin be the result plssssssssssss, How i go tell mama,

The guy finally tell me say am -ive.

I ran out shouting say God thank u Thank u Thank u.

But the sight of Bola will not let me be chei