₦airaland Forum

jaxxy:
I like ur critical thinking, well articulated and real. We are a product of our decisions absolutely. So if Nigeria will ever get it right Smtn has to give. This current political class love the current convenience despite know it’s destroying the country. They are all selfish.

The only people who can disrupt this current corrupt and highly redundant state of convenience is our youths. The youths must either take the mantle or find their active place in our governance. It is imperative and paramount.

I looked at Singapore and I finally agreed Nigeria is a Zoo. I have never accepted this fact or statement b4 2day bt I look at things and see no meaningful change in thinking, -Not just because of the structures bt how we think and general mentality only few Nigerians reason differently and sadly our leaders even those who schooled abroad encourage more of the Zoo and animal behavior.

Valenciabaddie:
Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Grateful02:
Op I'm still yet to get any sense in what you wrote. This is not just "an anyhow person " but rather someone you've known. 3years and I'm so very sure she's been understanding even before you travelled. So why in a relationship that long if not for improving each other? Honestly I don't see why you should sideline her now.
Come on OP! Show her love!!

tyup:
I wish you know 9ja girls you seriously wount give a hoot bout em cuz 1.If she was the one in the US n ur here you best believe dawg she would have long dumped ur ass 2.If she at all din dump ur ass which i doubt she wouldn't waste a dime bringing you over or thinking of sponsoring you and if you manage to sponsor urself n get to stay with her a while, she'll boss you around like Hell. And besides, I'm still surprised how you managed to cling to a Nigerian babe up till now even while being there

my First 3weeks vacation in the UK I got me a nice Irish girl and it has been from one opportunity to another and if I marry her just like we're on talk in 3-5 years time I'd be dual citizenship rep. 9ja babe ain't worth it Man, they're shitty and scumbags. use ur senses, she'll change on you when she get to the US, pen this down

Chrisbella24:
I just hate people that think the way you do.

"....... I'm not sure about marriage yet......."

Yen yen yen.

Leave her na
Why una just like to dey stress unaself.

You made a decision that you would never sponsor any woman. Now, why can't you decide this?


You brought it here on Nairaland so people will give you Advice they won't even accept on a Normal day when it comes to their relationships?

You know your girlfriend well, you've been dating for 3 fvcking years
So because one woman decided to be ungrateful after she traveled abroad with her husband now means every other woman will be the same?

You all are pathetic.

canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.

We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.

Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:

1. I will never pay a woman's school fees
2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment
3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.

Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.

The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.

Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.

travelwaka:
Singapore is a very beautiful city. We hope someday we will get it right here

nanauju:
This girl is actually extremely beautiful.

What's your definition of 'extremely beautiful'? Extremely fair with an extremely big as$ I guess

Gabflex:
Here in Nigeria na scam, over 300 staffs did the test where i work and nobody tested positive, who dem come dey declare positive?
Have not seen somebody that knows somebody that know anybody that have the virus.
Abeg, i treated stubborn cough, cough no gree go, i pause the treatment, start to treat malaria, as i finish medication i no cough again abeg.
Am an athlete so body strong pass dis Chinese virus.

Angelfrost:
These people know nothing... Just leave them! Most of them will learn the hard way in tears!

Fmghewzy:
Sit down there and be asking jamb questions.

Making money online is easy if you know what you are doing.



I just wonder how those mumu Yahoo boys doing charms to get client and dupe them.
Can't they branch into forex and use same charms.

Some people are quoting me,some to insult me,some asking for assistance.

I said this one because I am 18 yrs and have friends who have made over $20000.
Trading the same forex people cry about.
Trading is not betting,like what most people see it as , that is why they keep failing.

And to those who genuinely need assistance not just taunting.
There are hundreds of ways to make money online,I won't come and start talking blah blah.
Just learn something , Know something .have a plan and think of how to use it to make money.It is not as hard as you all think.

Mummyfour:
you are correct. Most men that make money and chase the wives of their youth and children away just to be free to enjoy life become depressed later on and die before their time

lkillbrokehoes:
I'm glad he's beginning to move on, getting Rihanna is 99% impossible

bptc10:
Building distiller company or brewery is not a big deal, if you have your money you can do it

jmoore:
Fools in power!!

The biggest fools in the universe are in Nigeria occupying political offices.


BVN
Voters card
International passport
Driving license

Common sense can't tell them to share database so it can easy for one to generate NIN online without going to the office.

I registered for the first national ID. It is no longer accepted. They are forcing us to queue for another one. These sadists love to see Nigerians suffer.


Even some telecoms are also useless. I went to MTN office to do a 'welcome back'. They told me to get a affidavit. I told the lady that my lost line was registered. That she should look into their database to confirm that I am the owner of the line. She insisted I should go and get affidavit. I walked out of their office and aborted the mission of retrieving the line.

What's the purpose of the registration, if you can't check the database to confirm the owner of the sim?

Ekemeze:


Bashing men online but very submissive at home

officialsaw01:
Pls, kindly complete the job by posting pics of it dispensing cash.