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HopeSpencer:
So Republicans are now into bombing? Trump's loss pained you no be small. Anything your tribe support will surely lose. Loser tribe

if you are referring to the great Igbo tribe then think again because the joke is on you.


Igbos massively supported Trump in 2016 and he won against popular opinion.

Igbos supported Obaseki against all odds and he won.

Igbos massively supported Governor Seyi Makinde in 2019 and he won to the anger and surprise of many Yoruba APC.

Igbos don't usually support popular opinion who everybody already know would win unlike you lots.

Igbos supported NCNC in the 1960s and they won all seats while Awolowo's party failed woefully that made him suicidal and even turned against the then federal government led by Zik and Tafawa Belewa which also led to his arrest and going to prison for plotting to topple the government.


Igbos supported Shagari and Ekwueme in 1979 and they won against the candidate Yorubas supported.

Igbos supported Obasanjo their estranged son in 1999 and he won against Yoruba choice candidate Olu Falae.

The only time Yorubas supported a Presidential candidate in Nigeria and he won was Buhari in 2015 and it was because Hausa-Fulanis massively supported Buhari not because of Yoruba 5% vote, go and find out.


Yoruba vote have no winning power in Nigeria, its on record. Their votes are usually divided making it insignificant.


In the 1960s it was divided between Awolowo's and Akintola's.


In 1999 it was divided between Obasanjo and Olu Falae.


Another time Yoruba vote made some sense was MKO Abiola's 1992 election.


So before you talk nonsense next time, go and read your history book.

Using your phone's torchlight near a cooking gas or when refilling petrol in your generator.

oforjide:
Pls help us and post the Xmas gift nengi and ozo received from their USA fans

I am trying to upload the gifts we their fans in Tibet gifted them, pls refresh this page

EmmBim:
Merry Christmas

abeg wait for me oh

It is so real even in Nigeria. Dear Nigerians protect yourself, it's not a childsplay

EMMY76:
These type of contented nigerian lady is almost impossible to find in nigeria these days.

they have gone into extinction, all thanks to bone straight hair

Abaman001:
My dear don't mind the bone straight slay mamas/queens....abi na by force to be slaying up and down without showing gratitude to the givers...

Elxandre:
The problem with Christians is they'll say you didn't practice it "very well".

In reality, the number of people who receive miracles are very few in number. Makes you wonder if it's just a coincidence.

Even majority of those claiming assistant Jesus on this thread are barely scrapping through life.

I don't care what religion you practice, you have to sit down and evaluate your life logically and critically. I still believe it's the most assured solution to life's woes.
What can you do logically to change your life at this moment? Is it a skill, Added qualifications? What exactly?

Sometimes I want to believe things are destined when you see the futile efforts of man.

There is something you guys fail to understand. You cannot force God to act for you. You cannot hold God to ransom. Whether you believe in God or not does not stop God from being God.


Loving God, obeying God's words with joy and humility is for your own good not for God because God will forever remain The Almighty God whether you believe or not. Your life is safer with God than without God.


Now coming to miracles of God, it is so real even medical doctors and renouned scientists have confirmed the reality of God's miracles in healing people that their sickness proved incurrable.


Talking about financial success, Christianity is not just about financial success, it is much more than that. But financial success have a principle; even if you are a Christian, Pagan, Atheist, Hindu, Budhist or Muslim, once you follow the principles of financial success, you will prosper financially and have enough money, that is why you see both Christians and non Christians that are rich.

You can be a born again Christian and still end up poor if you fail to apply the principles of financial success.

Another area I would love to touch is the area of some Christians not getting answers to their prayers. You see in Christianity, prayer alone will never give you answer to all your problems. Some problems don't even need prayer, it may require just powerful praises to God from the depth of your heart. Some may be a seed offering that will solve it. Some may require the person to give to the needy in what is called The Widows Mite. Some may need serious fasting and prayer. Some may need you to go into covenant with God or make a pledge to God.

But unfortunately many Christians believe that just opening their mouth to pray a normal prayer will bring answers and solutions to their problems, it does not work that way at all.


I am a living testimony to the wonders and mercies of God Almighty.

In this same year of pandemic, I prospered more than previous years. I have a friend who loves God so much that he devoted most of his time to God's work, and this guy was just a struggling young man, but within this same year, God turned around his.financial life just as he has been asking from God. from not having up to 1million to someone that now worth over 200million, do you think its ordinary?


Not just me alone, I have seen the wonderful works of God's miracle all around me. 2 of my siblings were also blessed immensely by God this year also.


As we speak, I almost died of covid–19 last week. I never believed the thing is real, like play I caught it. When it was like I was about to die, couldn't breath, I called on God like I always call on Him to please show me mercy, and God swung into action to the amazement of family members. Yes I have not fully recovered but I know I am healed already if I could survive those few dying days of struggling to breath.


Always plead for mercy...I do this always, silently not as a normal prayer but a deep inner heart prayer, and I don't see God as an option, He is my all, my life, my everything.


So brother, please don't give up on God, Jesus is real and loving. Try Jesus with all your life and I assure you, you will testify to His mercies. Stay blessed

dxpecial:
pls can you post the link to the thread in which you made that comment in October thanks

here https://www.nairaland.com/6236751/senator-adeleke-remembers-mother-nnena/1#95755700

deji17:
Joseph Okwudili Onyejekwe . Obi of Onitsha (1962–1970).

Only a DNA test can confirm if this is true or not.

If it is indeed false, I am sure OBJ would have submitted himself to a DNA test.

I don't think you got the name right, but OBJ's father is an Igbo man. OBJ himself knows and that is why he has some affinity towards Igbos.

Even during the civil war, OBJ wasn't active around Onitsha battle.....he even got injured and was withdrawn.......though it was claimed that he made it to look like he was injured in order to avoid Onitsha battle.

People may think this is a hearsay.....if you go through my comments, sometime in October, I made mention of this that Obasanjo is an Igbo man....but Tinubu urchins here attacked me like Rottweiler.


His father was an Anambra born Methodist Church or something missionary in Ogun state where he met OBJ's mom and married her and remained in Ogun as a local missionary.


The man is saying the truth. But that does not mean Igbos have ruled Nigeria because Obasanjo denied his father's tribe and instead remained a Yoruba man, so he is a bonafide Yoruba son.


The current President of Gabon is also an Igbo man; he got to Gabon as a Biafra refugee child........its also a known fact.....you can google about it to learn more.

Church Agbasaaa


Boomharri come and carry your Nigeria oh

Dangote will never do this - haboki can't try it
Cosmos Maduka will never - he can only preach to the girl to repent
Femi Otedola - he will send this to at least 30 different girls, he has done it several times and will do it always
Ned Nwoko - will only do this after confirming the girl to be the 6th wife




Look no further......it must be Femi and friends

Tenshades:
Oh my soft fatty Beans

Even if the world underrates you, I will forever be your number one fan.

On my beans, I am loyal to you.

mulerogold:
Na beans i chop dis morning.
I still preserve some for tomorrow.

I no get money for rice or chicken.

My GAS don finish.
Na Microwave go hear am.

I pray Nepa bring light tomorrow morning else na to go greet my Neighbour oo.

Activist001:
Not during Bubu era. Even harmattan sef don find way leave us with Bubu.

my stomach oh

Gabflex:
I pray for quick recovery.
U will be fine.
Thank

Thanks, I am recovering gradually. Stay blessed

Sebastine1994:
When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much.

I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs,

Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this.

I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.

Everybody is pampering you with words, now let me tell you the truth.


You fvcked up big time! You even had a father that could afford to send you abroad, this is what 99% of Nigerian youths don't have and wish to have but you had it and threw it away.


Impatience pushed you to fast lane business.


The only way you can apologize to your parents is to get on your ass and work like a jerky till you break even.


Stop wallowing in self pity and regrets, get up and go hustle, yes go and hustle.


Enter any market like computer village ikeja Lagos and start street hustling, and also learn to fix minor issues on a computer and mobile phone. Make friends, be honest, with time you will be making nothing less than NGN5000 everyday. You can start life from there.


You have thrown away your golden chance in life so you need to work your ass off to build a better life, and suicide is not an option. The pains of death even in death far outweighs the pains you are passing through now.


This should also serve as lesson to all the young guys reading this; some parents sent them to school they end up joining cult, some become Yahoo plus, some carry woman and turn to small papa and mama. Make una de pity una parents oh

She is not doing it right, she needs to tag Pakistani, Indian, Lebanese and Arab guys, and watch her followers climb to millions

bukatyne:
1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

odiegwu

bukatyne:
According to her, she does everything so the husband only has to think of making money/ building wealth which has paid off for them.

This is what ladies fail to understand. When a man focuses on making money without bothering about family chores and wife naggings and whatnot, he will definitely excel, which will make the family a success.

But most ladies today want a romantic husband who washes their undies, fry water for them and do this and that for them, which reduces his energy and divides his money making attention and hence the family continues to struggle and she will be calling village people.


Only foolish ladies take feminism to marriage. The wise ones only talk about it for fun among friends but when they go back home they submit to their man cheerfully and they in turn enjoy good life and love from their man

He pays the house rent.



He provides money for family feeding.

He takes care of health bills.


He provides the family a car for easy movement.

He bought all the home and kitchen appliances.


He works hard to ensure you and the kids have a good life.

You are working and he doesn't even care about your salary, your salary has never been what the family rely on. He doesn't complain.

All he is asking from you is loyalty, respect, submissiveness and happiness, but you said no because you heard one nonsense practice called gender equality, he must be helping you to fry water as you cook tea.....the thunder that will fire you is still rehearsing in Kankara forest

Naija ladies oya this is your turn to bash the hell out of Naija guys

petitejolie:
that Mr A and anals be like 5&6.

when last u did with him?

I have been rolling on the floor reading the comments, thank you Nairaland

tstx:
Yawn... Give it 5 years... Nigerians will destroy the school.. Starting from the hostels...

The way UNN students in Kenneth Dike hostel managed to destroy the toilet and bathrooms that was built for them in 2010 in less than 2 years still marvels me till today.

Black Africans will always be blacks. They are only good in destroying things. Relocate Nigerians to America and relocate Americans to Nigeria and check back in 10 years, America will become a slum and Nigeria will become another paradise they will be hustling for visa to come back

Ukwu Sara mbara ukwu nwere nti

hashtagged:
Ok let me set you up with a lady that is as fat as a car you would like it abi

when they say arranged marriage, it doesn't mean you won't make your own personal assessment to know if you are attracted to the person or not.


Arranged marriage helps to reduce the unnecessary hurdles some materialistic and vane ladies put up towards men coming to ask for their hand in marriage.


And of course, the person making the matchmaking will have a clue of what you like.



Many wealthy people marry this way cos no time to be chasing one mgbeke around that will be using you to catch cruise in midst of her friends even though she goes home depressed and regretting turning you down

Arranged marriage is good, I support it.

Beautiful lady

DamZik:
You have more hope in Nigeria than me. My only sorrow is that, if traveling to US, UK or UAE is 100k today, I don't have it and I don't know how to get it.

Sadly this is the plight of almost 98% of Nigerian youths now but still they cannot summon the courage to say enough is enough, its better we die fighting these political fools than die in abject poverty and hunger.



If Nigeria were to be a white or Asian nation, there would have been a deadly revolution that will be in the record of the world. Politicians and their families would have become highly haunted animals