kettykin: I still don't know why this Man is not recognised and respected the way other heads of state are , OBJ , Abdulsalami .seems to carry more respect
modsfucker: The last time I check, he used his incompetence to rescue Chibok, Kankara and Kagara students... So I guess you're the one who needs to understand that the gravity of the situation at hand is more than the Buharipobia you are displaying.
You are indeed a mudafucker.... You lack knowledge and soap dey your eye...
NiRfreak: Today I was really angry. Someone got me so mad that I could destroy things or harm the person. But I maintained my cool. Yet I was just mad almost all day that I couldn't concentrate on anything else. Then I became angrier for being angry and being in a bad mood that was caused by someone else.
Then this evening, and since it's been a while I went out to drink cos I've been very busy lately. So I went to my ATM and withdraw as much as I could afford to waste. I went to a bar, drink, drink, took peppersoup..and took a couple of stick... Now I'm a happy man and no longer angry.
I'm. now wondering how people who don't drink nor smoke or go on lavishing spree manage to relieve their anger when mad..Hmmm. This life is too short to allow people spoil ya mood
We have the Peace of God in us.
Peace that passeth all understanding, that's why you would keep wondering how we manage it.
It is a normal HC procedure to know your current earnings so they can decide if the deal they are offering u is fair or not.
As an hiring Manager, once u say that. The interview is over. No way you are going to the next level.
I prefer u tell me u earn 50k a month but u won't do 1 naira less than 500k a month than that 'Confidential Bull Craaap'
Infact your previous pay slip is needed before u are given offer letter in any reasonable Organization not mush room employers.
NB : please I am not talking about 30k per month job offers. So stay away. Come back when you graduate and look for a better job.
You don't have to abuse me. Stay with your believe for your next employer and blame Buhari for joblessness.
This is same crap i noticed on two occasions last year. Both indigenous downstream oil and gas. I made it to the final stages and both Mds indicated interest. But the challenge was that I must present my payslip before, they make an offer. What nonsense?
What connects my payslip with your existing pay structure. I have told you my current and my pay expectation. Is it not wise at that point, you decide what you can offer instead of stretching it further?
Funny enough one of them called me back after 6months of waiting for the payslip, which I refused to give, offering 150k less than what I'm currently earning. Can you imagine the nonsense, so na so I for the share my payslip up and down abi
Most coys that insist on payslip presentation, don't pay well. Take it or leave it.
Misslilbootay: I have this friend of mine that recently had sex with her boyfriend. She was a virgin until she slept with him. The thing is she had been in two relationships prior to this but she was fortunate enough to keep herself until her recent relationship.
Now after sex, the guy claimed she wasn't a virgin because she didn't bleed. Secondly, ever since she had sex with him, she had been peeing on herself even in public.
My question is to the ladies, Is bleeding that important during the first sex of a female?
Also, they have broken up because of this issue. Do you think she should get back with the guy and try to get him to trust her?
Why are you not bothered about your friend peeing in public?
Sensibly, I would have have thought, her health should be your priority instead of all these boyfriend questions..
Axel1: I really don't masturbate that often, that was my past life. But I do have a fleshlight and a semi flesh light that I'm using to masturbate and I really don't feel these soreness whenever I'm sexing my fleshlight or sex doll
Bros, your matter is hydroheaded.... You sleep with ladies randomly with condom. You have a gf and a backup FLESHLIGHT..
and you are confidently proud to say you regularly go for STD test.
Why don't you save yourself some problems and be focused in life.
Fountainofyouth: Calm down, I know you're a doc, but that doesnt mean majority of you aren't sex freaks, it's a known fact, I think it's cos they feel they can have any woman they want who'd fall for them because of their profession.
If you had an ugly experience with a particular Doctor, that would not be a logical stand to generalize.
It might even surprise you to know that some Dr dislikes woman cos of their consultanting room experiences with some Woman
This is how democratic government should be run. The country and the world at large are properly informed of Mr President's health status. Pictures are all over, showing departure and where he is taken to...
Unlike Nigeria, where a few selected people, out of 200m, stage-manage the presidency. Flies him to unknown destination at nights when he takes ill...i pity naija
mike272: Please Nigerians don't play around or argue with any police officer holding a gun. Most of these police are not mentally or psychologically stable.
The mental state of these people aught to be tested before given a gun. That's the norm but we don't follow it.
chukel: Nigeria is full of dimwits. Nairaland is worse. Nobody has even verified the news. And everyone is shouting one nonsense or the other. What has happened to reasoning and due diligence? Brainless people who take themselves to be wise everywhere
Wise one! You should have verified the News and update us, instead of calling people names.
This is a very important issues and I would love to seek people's opinion on this. I don't think she knows about Nairaland so I will share and delete later.
Lately I have been dating with the intention of getting married but I don't think I have found the one. However, among the few ladies around me, there's this particular one that is perfect. I mean perfect. She's homely, caring and I really like her but the problem is I love two things in women: A bit of ass - average or big ass & I don't find short girls attractive. I prefer average height to tall girls. I'm average height.
I don't know why but as far as I can remember I have always find tall ladies attractive or at least average height. Sometimes I am with this lady and in my mind I will be unhappy with her height and ass. She sometimes wear things that makes her height deficiency obvious.
She's 5ft.4, good job, family. She's just perfect and I really like her. This girl is every man's dream but I can't seem to look past the height. I tell myself, guy just manage, overlook these things but I keep having double mind.
I am still searching but I keep wondering if it is safe for me to just go with this lady despite the ass and height issue. I know these things would sound trivial and childish but we all have things we admire in the opposite sex. Even if I will overlook ass but height...
Please Nairalanders and married folks, is it ok to compromise on things you admire in the opposite sex when it comes to marriage? Afterall Nigerian women always get fat after marriage so even the ass may not be important then.
I would really appreciate your advice cos she has made it clear she's looking for a husband sensing that I won't marry her.
Is it childish thinking about ass size and height in marriage? Shouldn't I prioritize her homely and good character over those physical attributes? Pls advise
CLEARLY You have no understanding about the meaning of PERFECTION...
you sound very confused. You don't know what exactly you want; PERFECTION, BIG ASS OR HEIGHT...
Please I need advice. Before now, I was sexually active. While growing up, I started having sex when I was 14yrs, I use to enjoy sex a lot with guys but suddenly when I became an adult, I noticed I stopped enjoying sex with guys. I noticed I was craving for a woman, at this point, I haven’t had sex with any girl yet (I was 19yrs).
So I decided to have sex with a girl so that all the craziness can stop because I know my mother will kill if she find out what am thinking (my mother and I are very close). But honestly, it become worse, I literally turned to lesbian sex addict. I had sex with any girl that showed interest on me, I even had sex with most of my friends ( I will indirectly lure them with nice things)
I know this is very wrong but I couldn’t tell anyone my problem not even my mom because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings! I decided to go to church and seek for deliverance, after delivery, it will feel like I’m healed but throughout that period, I will not be my normal self. I will be so lonely and depressed and before you know it, I will commit another sin.
I tried to get a man and fall in love with him but it didn’t go well because I couldn’t satisfy him sexually, I have gone to every church I can for deliverance and I have taken doctor’s prescription to boost my sexual libido but to no avail.
The only time I can have normal sex with a guy and enjoy it is when I’m on drugs.
I really hate myself and I have lost interest in having sex with everyone both men and women.
I don’t know how to improve my situation please help me.
I’m very scared of disappointing my mother! She means the world to me.
A little about myself.
I’m done with school and waiting for NYSC, would have been serving if not for covid 19.
I’m 26yrs old
I’m currently learning software engineering!
Two things are very evident in your case. First is the act of lesbianism Secondly, drug addiction.
Again, from the tone of your write up, it seems you have a relatively good family up-bringing, Atleast you recognize the fact that your mum wouldnt be proud of you in these acts.
My observations : it's very obvious, that your bad company has negatively affected you. Your bad company includes, the friends you keep, the type of books you read, the movies you watch and surely some concepts/idealogies you consider trendy are hunting you.
Drug addiction is a sign of emptiness and depression. Clearly, something is missing somewhere and probably, you can't lay hold of it.
For me you earnestly need to get back to you root. Change your ideology, friends, books and videos, especially now you have opportunity during your Nysc. You can be better or worse. It depends on you.
Kingpele: Pdp is jealous of APC, they understand their format of looting our public funds, so they knew APC most be doing like them when they were in charge ( though I personally agree with them to some extent) .... But most they wail at everything, this people know that most People in this country lack the patience to investigate facts and figures, that why they keep throwing figures here and there... How did this man arrive at his point... Am not in support of any party, but the overall process of this country is my priority for my sake and that of all of us. don't promote unverified views of bitter people. before we set this nation on fire, which will consume it... Loose of Election is not a call to be mad or an agent of disability of the nation, bikuno