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herbert2017:
Looks like spotted hyena,may be Cub.

Its a civet

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

It seem to me that you are not independent emotionally especially in relationship matters. I read your earlier post and all I can see is my mommy this and my mommy that. You are not mature for relationship yet, so please stay away from guys for now. Your mom knows you are not emotionally strong, hence the interference from her all the time.

Omicron007:



When will Nairaland be upgraded?

Fifteen dull emojis since 2005.

Honestly, @seun should do something about it real quick. Nairaland need to upgrade its UX and UI.

Tissyjay:
Good day house.
I opened this out of curiosity. I graduated four years ago and I haven’t gotten my original certificate due to personal reasons. I want to know if I can still apply for a job with my statement of result.
Thanks.

It's always stated in the Statement of result the time it will expire and it is usually for a year.
In this day an age, most employers don't require it. Recruitment is gradually changing and if your CV is well prepared and you have the ability to fulfill that roll, you are good to go.

But you might need the certificate for something else in the future. An example is if you want to do your WES or UK ENIC, you will need it together with your transcript. So, ensure you get it immediately.

danngnews:
I do not support disobeying club rules, however Artetha took this too far.

The player was told to come back Wednesday night and he came back Thursday morning, remember he went to bring his sick mom to England, what if there were delays due to medical reasons in which he could not avoid or overule the doctors?

Moreover he did COVID 19 tests in France and came back with the results that Thursday morning,well the results was rejected by arsenal.

Now tell me, the difference between Wednesday night and Thursday morning, is it enough to ban your captain from training, remove captain band from him and finally terminate his contract?
And that for a player that went to bring over a sick mom,that to me is too harsh.

The developed nations are not like Nigeria or African countries that joke with time. That statement you made (now tell me the difference between Wednesday night and Sunday morning) is always taking with leviity here and hence the loss of productivity.

In developed climes, if you book a studio session as a musician and you didn't come for your session at the time allotted, you will loose that time allotted to you and another session would be booked for you or you even loose the whole session depending on the term of contract.

Time is of essence abroad and that is why they pay workers in "hours". Aubameyang should know too well especially when he is on humongous pay package and he is not a first offender on this kind of issue. As captain of the team, he is more or less a leader and as they say, he should lead by example.

Loewe:
4.46 CGPA is just 2.1!!! This is a sign that something is wrong with the department....

How can that be the best grade in an entire department? So nobody had 1st class Wooow!!!

Someone like this would have graduated with an almost perfect CGPA in a private university.

Congrats to you and shame on the academic sadists!

I am an alumni of that school and back then students always complain about that department. Students usually don't do well in the department.

wifeesnatcher:
I dont get this




We spoke a day before the incident. I think she had issue with someone from my fanbase…they were exchanging words. So, it appears she was trying to reach out to me to call that person to order. While she was doing that, I couldn’t pick because I was already airborne. Immediately I boarded the plane, I took off my profile picture, then her message dropped but it only ticked once.



it tickled once and her message drop, how

The bolded is the part that is so hilarious and gave out whitemoney....

Mariangeles:
Whitemoney seems like a manipulative person. He was playing some kind of game.
He knew exactly what he was doing when he intentionally removed his profile picture, just right after “not being able to answer” Queen’s call.
Now, he made it seem as if Queen blocked him out of nowhere, like he had no idea what happened.
It’s a good thing Queen blocked him anyways.
Manipulative people are not worth being friends with.

Whitemoney does not know how to lie. How can a message drop on your WhatsApp and tick ones .....I can't laugh abeg. He is just catching cruise with queen. She had better move on if she wants something more than just friendship.

Andywinnie:
OK, beautiful. So did your friend pay for the transcript twice?

He said he paid and the payment is dependent on where the transcript is going.

rooftops:
... which exchange rate did you use. 35 dollars is 14548 naira

I wonder too o.....I estimated 35$ to =450 naira and it gave me 15,750.

Andywinnie:
OK, beautiful. So did your friend pay for the transcript twice?

I actually didn't ask him at the time but I can confirm from him later in the day.

obembet:
I think it's TINUBU, He made all of them.

Lalasticlala

He made all of them bawo !!.......he gave those guys opportunities because they are talented.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Self defense..
Hope the hand fell off too oo..cos I no wan hear say the hand no dey on display for your wardrobe..

This thing dey too common for Benin..warri..EKP..as a matter of fact most hot spot for south south...
If to say that guy no wake up na phone Dem for don move..
Good riddance at least the machete cut will always be remembered by the petty invader ..

Something like this happened in Yankee too o
I saw the video on YouTube and I laughed silly
https://youtube.com/shorts/_Mv7L4Abk5Q?feature=share

Animegirl:


I totally understand you OP, I was in your shoes too but it was my mum that got deceived by a prophetess in cherubim and seraphim church. The prophetess told my mum that I use to eat food from my friends in school and one of my friend was about to give me witch.

Mehn!!!! I see shege for my mama hand. My mum was always monitoring me, even had spies to watch every of my movement in school.

See OP, just pray God clear that ignorance from your wife or if you can't endure, threaten her you want to leave the marriage. Honestly, your peace of mind comes first o.

Also that her so called brother give him a stern warning.

See the way they just they spoil your reputation

People who don't read the bible to understand it on their will always be deceived by fake prophets.

A prophet used to deceive my uncle that his elder brother ( my dad) is a witch. My uncle started misbehaving by disrespecting his elder brother and calling him all sort of names just because the prophet was collecting money from him.

People just advised my dad to ignore.

CodedWealth:
Well following the normal money rule,

It is stated at 30%..

But in reality, divide your rent into 12 and save 1/12 monthly...

And this should be your tradition monthly...

Let's see my rent is 100k

And I am doing a job of 100k per month...

I'm supposed to save at least 8K monthly

For rent...



If your rent is above 30% of your salary monthly, then indirectly you are working for the house owner whether you aware of it or not

The UN specification is actually 25% of your monthly salary........30% is even too high in my opinion.

Mowoe:
Nigeria ranks top 5 of the highest scorers in the test in the world; this information is available on Wikipedia, so I beg to disagree. I think the major problems are the cost of taking the test, and the validity period.

They actually think we lose our English proficiency after two years of taking the test?! It's just a crazy money making scheme in my opinion.

I agree with you on this. Those that make 8.0 band score shouldn't be taking that test again when it expires.

However, you forgot to add that the IELTS is also used to control migration to their country codedly apart from the financial gains.

Andywinnie:
I knew FUT Minna will be included.

Now, FUT Minna is no longer fast in processing transcript o. Applying online is like looking for pearls in a stream.

I got my transcript in two and half weeks in March last year. It was my first time since I graduated in 2011 which I consider okay.

My friend that processed his own got it in one week because that's his second time.

WoundedLamb:
Don't these schools have online platforms where one can place a request for transcript and have it mailed to the recipients? In a country where everyone now identifies as a programmer, should this still be a problem?

Do you think those schools don't know the right thing to do? It's massive corruption, lackadaisical attitude and wickedness that is causing the problems of delayed transcript as well as other issues we have in Nigeria

admax:
Some of the solutions to Lagos Traffic problems are:

1. Train
2. Functional Public Buses
3. Good Roads

I wish Ogun State Government can start deploying infrastructures in border towns they shared with Lagos. They need to start wooing Lagos residents thereby decongesting Lagos. Imagine having interstate rails and busses commuting to Lagos multiple times a day.

Please forget that Ogun State governor!!!
That guy no be am abeg!!!
He is the worst governor I have seen.....tueh!!!

Mercychen:
How do you mean, distribution company?

He's not even within my location or this children area. So I don't know what you're insinuating.

What he was trying to say is that your ex boyfriend might have impregnated some ladies around that gave birth to such children that resembles him....

Now to your question, it may seem to me that you are thinking something spiritual is happening that is making you see your ex boyfriend in that child ...

You made mention that you broke up with your ex boyfriend because you want to be more spiritually focused but when you were both dating, was he or do you suspect that he was in any form of spiritism?

Was he into fetish stuff or did you two involve yourselves into a form of agreement? Perhaps, in the spiritual realm.

If your answer is in the negative, then the logical conclusion to your plight is that your subconscious wants you to be back together with him. You may not agree to my submission but if you look at it deeply and not just superficially. He might somewhat be missing you too wherever he is. Their is something about energies and connections that can never be explained...

[quote author= post=109572772]Dem no dey telli person.


*singin*
If you fight you go die,
U go die for nothing.
Dem go carry ur body go police station,
U die wrongfully [/quote]What's this for fuc!!s sake.......you better tell your ogas to tame their followers!!!

blackaxe78:
Gibberish!

Don't just say gibberish. When you have a differing opinion you let it out and leave the readers to judge and eventually shape their opinions. That is how discussions should go.

Well, this is Nairaland!!!

MITCHELL96:
How will they stop when most of them are jobless ?

Create job opportunities for them and see if they won't stop, so if the government can't, they should leave them alone to keep fighting, by the way, Fighting is still someone's profession

The government you are talking about encourages those touts by using them before, during and after elections and that is why it's now difficult for them to control. Their various leaders are paid huge sums of money to do the bidding of the government and politicians.

They know what to do If they (government) are serious. The union (NURTW) does not have any meaningful purpose than to collect money from transporters and make some individuals rich like Mc Oluomo and Co.

This is where military government comes in handy because those miscreants will be nowhere to be found talk less of causing mayhem in various communities. Col. Buba Marwa comes to mind.

Politicians in Lagos especially their Godfather (Tinubu) are majorly to be blamed for this mess.

Olabodmit:
No be very phone dem dey steal and get away with it. Respect to Xiaomi cloud account

Xiaomi is trying in the digital space. It's no surprise they are really pushing Samsung and Apple really hard. They have to some extent taken some markets from Samsung and Apple...

slimjohn2k5:
Is the bed the issue or sleeping with his wife

You don't seem to understand the man. What he was trying to infer was that his best friend and wife enjoyed the intimate moment that they even broke the bed.....

It's not about the bed but the action(s) performed that broke the bed.

Bunkbars:
Lolz really? I haven't noticed that one yet. Just those two, their bitterness against men is something else. How i see their comment, all the time amazes, i wonder how they both keep up.

I haven't seen her comment for some time too. Perhaps, she has changed moniker. I just usually laugh and move on when I see their post. Some men have seriously dealt with them in this life.

Bunkbars:
Please what do you do for a living, Do you have a job at all, i see your comment whenever i come online to read news, you and that siofra. You two jump on every post to condemn men. Please for your sanity, you need to take some time off social media, you are begin to behave like anobsessed wierdo. This hate is unnecessary, if you continue like this, you will end up fruatrated and lonely, which leads to depression.

You forgot to mention the future is female

Omoluabi16:
I don't blame the bride though.She looks stunning.

There is much more to this story if you ask me. The dress is a simple but elegant dress na. The beauty of that lady even made the clothe more beautiful.

No matter what this lady wears, she will still remain pretty because of her shape, good heights and pretty face.

steveneche:
Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too

We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship

I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house


As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?


Candid opinion please!

It seem you really want to settle down for marriage early as you claim to be 25 years old. In your previous post you said your salary is 50k and now someone that is older than you is who you are considering to marry.

Op, the truth is if a lady truly loves someone she most likely will be blind to all the things you mentioned (Age and salary).

If she is one of those very few good ladies out their, she will embrace you as long as you are not lazy and you are also working hard to be great as well.

You should let your intuition guide you to decipher whether she is just desperate to marry due to age or she loves you truly.....cheers!!!

Samueltemi337:
I am planing to relocate to New Zealand using the student route.
Want to get a diploma in information technology from Auckland institute of studies.
Is this a good idea?

Newzealand is a good country to live in just like Australia her next door neighbor but I heard it's costly to live there especially housing...

nonxo007:
Nawa o, we are mean in this country o. Look at the way people clamoured for this show to return to our screen, it return and nobody gave a damn about it.
Sha I blame the organisers for the "failure" of the show. After the introduction of BBN our taste changed, people prefer to tune in at any time and get update or see what's happening Real-Time, no be to air the show only on Sunday for just 1 or 2 hours. What were they thinking?
Secondly our taste for morality, decency and hardwork has also diminished, that's why people would prefer a nude infested bbn that teaches you almost nothing over GUS.
Lastly the host for the show was totally ZERO (0), very very ZERO (0), Toke Makinwa ? Haba, to me it'd have been fair to pick Kate Henshaw over Toke.
If that show must stand shoulder to shoulder with bbn then the organisers have a lot of planning to do.

You missed out some points that I would like to highlight.

1. The way they do their eviction is so annoying. Toke will just come to the place of the talking drum to start spewing some thrash and the !BOOM someone is evicted- that is crap if you ask me

2. The task is bullshit. What gave Gulder Ultimate Search prominence was how contestants go in the jungle to look for treasures with the aide of their compass and all that. It really is a test for the contestants but what I saw in the first three weeks before I abandoned the show was a group of people go to a place to start pulling logs and throwing stones upandan. Honestly it's not pleasing to watch.

3. The show is aired on tv on Saturdays and Sundays which I feel it's too small to keep an audience and make it all worse adverts takes majority of the one hour of each day.

I should have highlighted more but my fingers are paining me.

All the aforementioned made the show really boring and I give kudos to those that watched to the end......

helinues:
Pepe and Auba should be ready to move in the new transfer market.

They are not missed in Arsenal team

Pepe have never thrilled me even before his transfer to Arsenal. I don't like his style of play. He will definitely go next summer....