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I will marry only a man who is a virgin and I will personally conduct the test and inspection. If I can't find one rather remain unmarried.

Thank you.

MrLondonder:
OP post hut on nairaland & u people are exited?...WOW.....thank God I havce moiney & thank God we dont have village here in London innit
only pooor people belif that hut is a great thing. i dont!!!(no oofeinse sir)

Which school did you attend in London? State the name let me check if you were actually a student there with this your writeup.

My new resolution this year is too stop been too nice.

I have been betrayed, backstabbed and hated by same people I have made so many sacrifices for Yet I keep been a good girl/ nice until this year.

Always be a good person but:

Put yourself first in everything.

Never Chase anyone no matter who they are if they want leave let them, allow people to chase you instead.

Improve yourself.

Cut off only toxic people not everyone because there are people who will cherish you.

Learn to say no firmly.

Be kind to those around you but help only strangers..

Make money legitimately but not to pepper anyone.

Stop lending money to people except in extreme cases.

Above all love Jehovah first.

Always remember good will always conquer evil and light will always outshone darkness.

angelEmade:
Seriously are you even replying the slowpoke
Most of these nairalanders making jest of estranged countrymen in Ukrain are doing it out of envy and jealousy. When you are made and you suffer a set back people rejoice as they see it as some sort of consolation for their own terrible state. If given the option, majority of these people would not mind travelling to Ukrain at this point in time.

Exactly. I saw a guys comments about the sad plight of a friend of his over there and he was happy abt his difficult condition just because he advised his friend not to leave Nigeria.

His comments was just full of envy and jealousy.

laiperi:
The same soul that should have died fighting to better their home.

May the wasted soul Rest In Peace where they make no difference.

What about those that wasted their lives during the end sars protest? Nonsense.....

American made 2017: 8/10
Son of the mask rewatched: 6/10

leomarz007:
That's not the bag of money I saw them carrying haba...PURE LIE

Nigeria.....

anoda:
abeg name names

I don't even know. I got it from my younger brother.

4years and still counting. I love my white faithful earpiece.

zolajpower:
God bless you my brother ...... I suffered this same thing in Benin from a woman who claims to be born again and was my boss , telling me that the over all boss said there's no job for non Edo people. You see that racism is not only in white land but it's here but not pronounced.

Just this afternoon I was supervising a project that I have been doing with an institution when one of the staff spoke their local dialect to me, I told her that I am still to understand the local dialect. The next thing she said was " how come they gave this contract to a stranger."

I subtly gave her an epic reply. she tactfully change the conversation.

firstratedcitiz:
Don't get me wrong, I'm not in any way defending his actions, but what you experienced at the hands of the white guy is nothing compared to the kind of tribal hatred and hateful comments by some Nigerians here in Nairaland. You need to read some comments in the threads to understand the point that I'm trying to make. We feel it's okay to hate on one another and abuse ourselves based on ethnicity. But when the whites do the same to us, we cry and start to protest.

Don't mind them! Hypocrites! As if we love ourselves in this country.

A northerner selling onions was hit by a runaway driver, those around refused to take him to the hospital. The most wicked part is that the general hospital is just a stonethrow away, before some of my colleagues got here he was already gone.

That day I hated my fellow deltans.

Right001:
I did not invite to my thread English teacher and due to your lack of exposure let me inform you that 40% of people living in the UK can't speak English because the UK is a develop country full with alot of countries that don't speak English and there survive well. If u think u know English then write Ilets exam and screen shot it for me to see or even show me your wace result let me see. You body shammer

Oga your first writeup is bad for a Masters candidate if is even true. Instead of you to take correction and improve on this aspect which will also help your education you are defending yourself with another diaster.

If u continue to write your tests, exams and projects like this when you see your results nor shout racism o.

@Topic:
Racism is one of the things u ought to know you will have to deal with in a white man's land.

Always watch your back but don't burn your bridges. You are in their country, you need them they don't need you abi you come back to 9ja?

Respect and don't force yourself on anyone.
Work on your emotional strength.
Dey package as your power reach.
Face wetin carry you go there.
Not all Brits are rascist.

Luisema4luv:
So my friend did his capture since last year sept @warri office and no response from them, he tweeted the situation to nigeria immigration service on twitter yesterday and they replied promising to give them a call...... Today warri office called him begging he takes down the post that something will be done about his passport soonest.

If any officer asks you for any form of extra money in their office to produce your passport, just note down the name tag on their uniform and report them to their official twitter handle online, they will never try such next time

I saw that tweet.

Your friend was just fortunate they replied the rest of us that called them out on twitter has not been responded to.

SaintBishop:
Are you sure the f in your moniker is nothing but a cruise? Cause you type like a man.

I am a female. I don't support what is bad, I simply uphold good moral principles.

Is very clear your intentions are not gud that is if you haven't carried them out.

Why go to her room?
Why do that when your wife is not around?
Why can't u settle her and send her away?

Remember say God go punish wickedness in His own time.

Datboredberri:
Like me!

The op is Ignorant... I almost pity him...

I won't say the op is ignorant.
Most chaste people are of good character and well behaved.

SaintBishop:
Op never jam virgins wey their character are nothing to write home about lol.

There are good virgins with good characters perhaps the OP has met some.

Although virginity is not a compulsory yardstick to determine a person's good character but is a big pointer to it.

The ability to stay chaste in this morally debased world is itself almost impossible.

So a person who falls is that category can be termed: Morally upright, discipline, self-controlled, focused, trustworthy, a firm believer in whatever they believe in.

Such people are rare to come by, that alone tells a lot.

60% of rape allegations from my gender are scam.

ednut1:
if you had sex in your relationship don’t mention God again

1 million likes for this comments.

You can't disobey God and yet expect him to bless that disobedience.

pharmaking:
Yeah after some horrible experiences, I have learnt not to trust anyone again.My last experience was when I tried to help a poor family I met in church.The woman was running around just to get my number, only to discover that the wife of the man was wishing that I become jobless begger like them.One may ask, how did you find out, another person revealed all she said about me to me and warned me to beware.
That encounter changed my experience forever.I don't trust my wife, not even my mother.I am still testing some of my siblings. One of them already failed the test.
Surprisingly, i still feel that urge to help others but won't go overboard for anyone again.
As for friends and colleagues, these are the worst set of people.At the moment I care very less about others.
Carry ya cross.When you have a good heart, others call u stupid.

You don't trust your wife, mother and still testing your siblings. Oga it must have been very hard.

King of the south + King of the north= gog of magog.

AoifeNightfall:
You're lucky dear. US based Nigerian men are better.

My dear, you don dodge bullet from these local Nigerian men. Enjoy!

If only she knows what she has dogged.

LilMissFavvy:
you feel you are always the correct one, how funny. Go find out his networth. Infact in my previous comment, I wanted to add that the next thing you will say, is that his networth is false , and you just did exactly that. . You are the one who sabi pass. You know when iamL said she has seen women in their 40s in her office have suitors, you said it's impossible, but I've seen few ladies in their 40s get wedded in my church as well. Your argument is what made me to mention a public figure known by all. If I bring in more examples, you will keep dribbling. You can't just seem to understand that some men are free minded and are not archaic in their beliefs.

U ought to know when you are having a reasonable conversation na.

Your are still replying teenagers who haven't even travelled out of their street with a single version of life? Abeg nor mention again ooo..

mu2sa2:
Even if you detect a fake naira note there the bank guys can still deny that it was dispensed from their atm. I know of a case exactly like that. Met a guy at an atm point lamenting that 1k note out of 5k dispensed was fake. I encouraged him to follow it up especially given that he was to deliver the 5k to someone and the fact that he had no money to balance up. Later in the day the guy called me ( I gave him my number to update me) and said he went inside the bank to lodge a complaint and they claimed they always double-check the notes before loading on atm. Back in his office, he reported the matter and it went up to the Cp. It turned out that the guy was a police man. He said the Cp immediately ordered the arrest of the bank manager. Mehn, come and see begging when the Cp threatened to order full investigation into the case. The guy had the 1k replaced. Looked like those bank officials were deliberately mixing fake with geniune notes.

Nigerian banks are corporate criminals.

I always do. Nothing in Nigeria is impossible.

rafcrown:
In advance countries mere vivid description of the 3 ladies would enable them draw a rough sketch of them - to enable them know the wanted people .Fine artists and talented creative people are very useful to security agencies.
Police and other security agencies and individuals must pay more attention to security issues. More bad news are still being expected in 2022/20233.

Is called cartography. But anything in Nigeria is always different especially when it involves a poor man.

AkProsper:
I mentioned it.
Location is Ajuwon, Ogun State

U said one of them claim to be from delta?

Same thing happened in Agbor Delta state. Two girls in their early twenties used the same method to kidnapped the caretaker's daughter till date they were not found. I hope these ones are found.

Greed and guillability is the cause of this. How can a mother entrust her children to a neighbor of barely 1 week just because they always buy stuff for the children?

I love the concept.
Somebori even carry toilet.
That old 3 legged cooking pot did it for me.

Joeblazeochola:
w8in come b dis one naw, hw dis one take help dia life 9ja no get tym 4 nonsense tinz

But them get time for those nonsense bbn and celebrities challenge.

Gosh234:
Thanks dear, working on the income which is the only problem now, we discussed already and we are working on either work or business

Thanks so much

Welcome.