₦airaland Forum

freshalien:
See why I say Nigeria is a useless country?Abroad, they would transfer that money sharp sharp back to your account. As long as they confirm you made the initial “erroneous” transfer. In fact right there in your presence as you stand in front of the bank staff, your money would be back in your account. But in the insignificant country called Nigeria, the bank official would tell the customer to pray. You see how religion has eaten the brains of Nigerians, that they can’t think for themselves if their god does not intervene. Smh!

Which country abroad will temper with another persons account without consulting the owner in the name of error?

Some of una go just lie to form big online.

DMerciful:
Some of these celebrities make pregnancy look so simple.....Rihanna, Beyonce, Kardashian
While our ladies here makes it look like it's the most difficult thing ever just to wipe up sentiments.

The problem is poverty. Look at the people you mentioned they have everything that will make pregnancy pleasent plus their men value women.

SirMichael1:
Lol. Medicine? Rejecting marriage proposals? Crazy things you did for love? Pheew...

So in essence, you guys didn't end up? He probably led you on only to lead you far enough not to continue and also not to return. Maybe I see why you made him take his medicine.

He never lead me on. We didn't even dated.

SirMichael1:
So were you his kind of woman? Meaning, did you guys ended up together?

He wanted us to but I fed him with his own medicine.

tommy589:
My respect to African writers that are changing the narratives.

They are really trying.

tollyboy5:
if its to kiss woman and romance, they're active doing it passionately

Imagine a director telling us that they don't have good cameras to shoot movies of sci-fi genere, we just asked him "but if na to pound human being head una go get camera abi"?

CalmElder:
My next door neighbor noticed where I hid my key. I just opened a bakery, and I could be away for weeks, to build the business and he was out of work.
I noticed that he will let himself in, take foodstuffs. Another neighbor also saw him and told me. I kept mute, but stopped keeping money at home, but continued stocking up food. I even use to give him cash atimes.
Prior to this, he was with a lady that had a baby for him and had to go stay with her parents because of hardship.
My neighbor soon got money, because he had experience working as a laundry man in a hotel, I encouraged to setup a dry cleaning and second hand clothing business, bring back the girl and open an open air restaurant by the side of his shop for her.
He, instead brought another girl home, who advised him to stop work because 'he is a big boy now', squandered almost a million naira on her and her friend, he became broke, even worse than before. The lady left.
I stopped keeping my keys, after hunger reset his brain, he did the same thing he had been doing to me to another neighbor, that one confronted him sharpaly.
After being unable to pay house rent for 3 years, he was advised to packed out, after selling all his electronics and furnitures.

Some people are just naturally useless.

I won't call it crazy or wild but stupid.

Turned down marriage proposals because of him. Not that we were even dating we were just getting to know each other and he was my kind of man.

tollyboy5:
Nollywood will hardly show tech related stuff, martial art etc.

Na only dumb stories empty content maybe

They will never explore things like.

There was an action movie that was in production but was stopped because they couldn't get an actor who could jumped from a story building in the entire industry.

But were it to be spiritualities watch them deliver it efficiently.

movie watch them

CandyOps:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/stop-asking-me-where-to-do-money-rituals-actor-yul-edochie-pleads/amp/

I'll give you a B+ for the effort. But then don't play dumb just to score a cheap point.

Besides Nollywood IS NOT a small entity like you make it seem as it grosses over $490million annually. In fact, it is actually the world's 3rd biggest movie industry. Only coming behind Hollywood & Bollywood.

https://www.un.org/africarenewal/magazine/may-2013/nigeria%E2%80%99s-film-industry-potential-gold-mine#:~:text=The%20Nigerian%20film%20industry%2C%20also,an%20impressive%20%24590%20million%20annually.

You seem not to understand the cause & effect of the kind of contents reeled out by the Nigerian movie industry on it's consumers.

And for some reasons you completely ignored the other points I raised which make me believe you may be part of the movie industry

The person you mentioned is a senior advocate of Nollywood and it's nonsense occult movies. There was a thread she was defending the occult nonsense Ramsy Noah dished out in living in bondage.

HilcomTech:
Poor and blind sef

And epileptic with curse that one pastor or native doctor will eventually cast out.

seunny4lif:
I swear
That one worst pass
Imagine the one, one yeye prince and princess going for a shopping and they will force everyone out

And if anyone tries to confronts them those around will always ask them "don't u know he is the crown prince"?

BestJay:
I have noticed that trend too.
Is in nollywood, someone would be rich and you can't equate it to normal life because the riches is so hyped that you think the person is not part of the story played.

The lead character will just hammer 100million overnight.

Especially those asaba movies. I stopped watching them years ago. Nollwood promotes rituals, occult, materialism, immorality.

I see don't see any good message they are passing with their movies.

tommy589:
See that one that said,if their is anyone with spare crocodile to borrow her, cos her crocodile is sick and can't cross the river to school.

Oyinbo no get joy rara when you watch the way they depict Africa and African characters in old cartoon/movies

Even in some of their novels.

Imagine some Filipinos were asking me what Nigerians know abt movies or if we watch movies.

I simply told them to google nollywood that is the 3rd largest movie industry in the world and they should tell me where theirs is on the list.

oyaskii:
Except you are Kevin Fiege relation, there isn't a better link till at least February.

I got the better version somewhere along with kings man but they were in hindi languages. I just deleted since I don't understand hindi.

adedehinbo:
what is STD?since i was born i have never experienced any

Kids everywhere on Nairaland dishing out relationship and marital advice.

Remman:
Hehehe! Well, that's your opinion. You're not supposed to judge the wife. He didn't ask you to judge the wife. He asked for solution. As for your example, you'll investigate the matter and give justice to the thieves.

It's like your father treating you badly and you came here looking for advise then someone insult your father by judging him based on what you said, without giving you the needed advice, you'll be ashamed of yourself. The man did not marry a bad woman. It's just a psychological matter that needs wisdom and not judgements.

May wisdom never depart from you.

Remman:
Hehehe! Well, that's your opinion. You're not supposed to judge the wife. He didn't ask you to judge the wife. He asked for solution. As for your example, you'll investigate the matter and give justice to the thieves.

It's like your father treating you badly and you came here looking for advise then someone insult your father by judging him based on what you said, without giving you the needed advice, you'll be ashamed of yourself. The man did not marry a bad woman. It's just a psychological matter that needs wisdom and not judgements.

May wisdom never departs from you.

Oluchia:
The fact that someone avoids prayer does not automatically make them occultic. Everybody must not be a Christian, some people are not just religious. They might go to church as a custom, but that does not mean they are spiritual. There are people who are atheists and you don't expect them to like prayers of any kind. Besides. only God knows the kind of prayers his wife offers with this her attitude of jumping from one prophet to another. I'm a Christian but you see, it's not every kind of prayer that you will see me involve myself with eg all this die by fire prayer; they are not for me.

Did I tell him he should involved in any kind of prayer? I simply ask why he avoids prayer which he wasn't too clear on.

killmods:
I keep saying this. Know the family ur marrying into. It's not enough that she's a wife material or wtv. Someone somewhere is playing ludo with ur union

Family background is important o, if u see any red flag just run because marriage is a life time commitment.

Are u occult?
If no why do you avoid prayers?
U have a problem like this and u are you are not close to God? Bring God into your family as the head.

Have a family meeting and table this issue once and for all.

Take care of your childs medical needs do not leave it to your wife since she doesn't see it as a medical issue.

You see all this people going to prayer houses I don't even like staying the same environment with them cos Everyone is a witch to them.

It is Only broke, broken, shattered and unhappy men that are in the redpiller convention.

AdeOri99:
I mean I like a girl that can always challenge me not one that will always agree to anything I said "It's Super Boring

Not that she isn't intelligent enough to do so, but she is shying away.

U want Some one that can challenge you and some will say a lady that challenges her man is not submissive. This gender self..

WHITELIGHTER:
Just watched it, nice movie although....
Fan Bingbing is damn hot though
Funny how all the female act in the movie are above 40yrs except Nyong(38)

I will check it out because of Nyong.

pocohantas:
They always do this once they get to that point where they don’t want games anymore. Try to reconnect with an EX or old female friend. I think it saves everyone time. Win win for both parties if they are single.

I don't deal.

SmartPolician:
Who's this long epistle for?

Please point out where I said it's her fault.

Sorry, I didn't mean to sound that way.

SmartPolician:
It happened during my NYSC days many years ago. I met a girl in our place of primary assignment and told my friend (who later became my corper roomie) about it. Surprisingly, he started threatening me, saying he saw her first.

I told him that I couldn't fight over a girl and asked him to have her to himself. After series of attempts, the babe showed no interest in dating him because he's not her kind of guy.

When she asked me why I stopped getting close to her, I told her it was personal. Ever since, I cannot explain how I don't even feel anything for her and she is still single.

How is that her fault? Some people can't recognize value.

I was in an exact situation of that girl years ago.

A friend who was interested in me introduced me to a friend of his, later that friend of his proposed marriage I turned him down cos of my said friend even though we weren't even dating.

My said friend called me that I should consider that friend of his since his friend really loves me and his finicially well of than himself, I clearly told him I was interested in his friend. I even had to report his friend to certain individuals so that he will stay away from me cos he was doing everything to marry me. The guy later got married to someone else.

My friend became unnecessarily jealous and ghosted me that was when I wow never to turn down a good opportunity in life cos of a man.

Years later when he became well-off and wanted to get married he started looking for sincere love, he found out I was still single reconnected with me but I acted up and turned him down. He even wanted to be just friends but I refused.

Nonsense and ingredients....

At 26 and with the kind of career you have why do u choose someone with such marital baggage? Aren't there well to do eligible bachelor's around you?

The ball is in your court because you have been advised enough.