Jadezion:


I have a similar experience. My marriage is 5 years. I have left only twice despite the constant tantrums...the first time was because he hit me mercilessly for the first time. Though he slaps me occasionally out of anger previously. The second is because he threatened like he always does and ask me to leave. I left , now he is begging and swearing to be a changed person. I am still scared and confused..

Kia, inside life, God please help me to be a good partner when the time comes so I can lay good Godly examples to my kids, and help my partner to be the same way. Amen

Tunagee:


I had to copy this comment so I can read over and over again. My wife also left for about a year now, she complained of verbal utterances. I kept wondering same thing you made in your comments why not work on your marriage than leave. And I never beat her; she never lacked.
God bless you abundantly. I'm inspired.

Stop been inspired because other women could endure and your wife couldn't, everyone has a limit to the level of disrespect they can take the fact that you don't beat her or that she doesn't lack isn't good enough, why not make conscious effort to actually do better? Emotional/Verbal abuse is sometimes worse than physical ones, try to make amends if you can with you wife the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Jarus:


No reasonable employer asks for your letter of resignation from your previous employer.

What is done is to ask for reference on you from your previous employer (HR or the person you used as your reference in the company eg your former boss) at the point of confirmation. This can be like 6 months into the job. And this applies only to EH. Some companies stretch it further to do a secret background check on you (whether you have lied on your previous work experience) but I doubt NNPC does that for work experience (but I know they do for certificates).

For GT, your previous employment does not matter so nobody will ask for resignation letter. Even previous employment reference may not matter because it is an entry level job. At GT level, you are in same bucket with someone that has NNPC as first job, so it does not make sense to bother about your previous experience.

Thank you sir, I appreciate how you go out of your way to be very explanatory.

Please at this junction I don't mind a second alert, i need money like kilode any 2nd or 3rd alertee that is feeling benevolent biko roger ya boy, when APL comes we wash am together .

Jarus:


Never heard of this anywhere (not to talk of NNPC). I don't see any reason why NNPC will ask for it.

Okay sir, I just wanted to know how they normally find out about your previous work place. Any idea the general practice sir?

oracle009:


I woke up to lots of ravenous mentions from WOMEN...hehehe... Well, I'm never the type that will consider anyone less on the basisbof gender... I deal with women as boss, subordinates and as friends. However, living in a marriage I believe is different from that. And am I working on changing? Definitely, I am! Do you think it pleasures me to do that? No!

Ogbeni change, no one has monopoly over stupidity

Lol, sorry OP, my dad does/did the same thing to my mum, talking her down when in public, most times some men do it to feel powerful yo outsiders and she never corrected it but I did, he shouted on her one day in presence of workers and she turned and was walking inside sorrowfully and immediately he turned to me to back up up his opinion I answered him that he should listen to his "wife" and dont ask me jamb questions because she knows better than him and swaggered away, he was shocked, i apologised later with cash and scotch but he never did such again at least in my presence, my advice to you? Take the insults silently let the rage grow and the day he would least expect explode and expose him for been a gentleman in secret but a monster in public and catwalk away, shock won't let him react. Stay safe.


Or you start dressing seductively when the friend is around, walk around and laugh a lot when the FRIEND speaks even when it isn't funny, but show no emotions when he says anything even if he cracks the funniest joke in the world, 2 days later that friend would be gone. Trust me

For those that where working..Please any idea if NNPC would request for a copy of your resignation letter from your previous employer at the point of registration? CC Jarus, Xfire

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Intrested pls drop d link

Anitoya:



Where is your location? So it can be easier for anyone closest to your location can tutor you one on one

Asaba atm

Mariangeles:

Maybe what you need is a one on one tutor

Yeah, but unfortunately no one available around to teach me.

Please my people, i have 3 months to spare before i probably jaapa and I really want to learn how to cook and bake, is it feasible (the time frame) and how best can I learn? I went to a cooking school at ilupeju but it was crazily expensive and the women where staring at me somehow so I left, can anyone recommend an affordable but good training school? I try to use YouTube but my seasoning doesn't always gel it's either to salty, over seasoned or bland.

I really want to learn.

FLOW101:
I don't support the trending of any hashtags. This goes against decent behaviour.

I know people who were in NLNG recruitment from 2013 that lasted for 3 years at least! In the end the recruitment was concluded after a pro-longed period of silence. We haven't even spent up to six months since the final stage. So what's the hurry?!

I expect that it is GTs itching for this campaign. EHs surely know that a Twitter campaign would more likely hurt than help us.

Things like this diminish my hope for a better Nigeria, 3 whole years? I was still trying to wrap my head around 18 months i heard earlier, NNPC has not recruited since 2012 (Xfire set that we know of, not back door parole) so for 7 years and counting people had not retired or moved on for them to urgently need new hands? I thought that as Buhari is the 2nd time petroleum minister that this would be different, that a new trend would be set in motion, but perhaps change is to be forever alien in our 59 yo country? SAD

As for those using peoples emotions to play tin-ko and catch trips by peddling false information remember there is God, just like the guy that promised to help connect ppl to a job but only wanted to use the offer to trend and clout, when nobody sent him, he vanished, same with people that drop random comments like my brother paid 50 million for slot and got APL hoping to scam desperate people, please desist from such.

Its very easy for those already established to advocate for silence & patience, or for those who have connection to feel relaxed but its hard for those who hoped to use it as an opportunity to climb, but las las moving on is KEY.

Please be open to learn, explore and earn and so any year NNPC decides to showface, person would have janded, married, had 3 kids, been in a better place and would give up one's slot for the less privileged, God bless us all.

KingsBaba:
Good evening to y'all. Here is my first comment on this thread. I wholly support this twitter awareness idea but it must be backed with a relevant hashtag and we must tag relevant and influential people. I will suggest the hashtah #nnpcrecruitment2019 after every tweet and mentions. People to be tagged include but not limited to @nnpcgroup @MBuhari @BashirAhmaad @MKKyari @Omojuwa @adeyanjudeji @realFFK @toluogunesi and the handles of media organizations most importantly @channelstv and @NTANewsNow.

Some of these handles are for opposition members and some are for Buhari people. We should know how we are gonna tweet reasonably. The most important thing is the hashtag. We should agree and make a unifying hashtag. Twitter will help alot and we can proudly initiate this task from Nairalanders. We may not know anybody but our unifying voices must be heard. In times like this, Silence is not Golden.

#PeaceOut

I support...

highzickjosh:
To be honest, I am mentally, spiritually, financially, morally sick and tired of Nigeria. To think the recruitment exercise gassed me up believing that for once Nigeria will get it right.

I heard the Custom recruitment has hit the rock too.

Henry Shield, the dude has followers we can get him to help us trend.

Iyajelili:
Prison took 18months and from what I read everyone who documented(without connection) has been or will be given APL so don't you think you should calm down a little?

18 months? Almost 2 years? Why should such practice be a norm? Ppl who are 27/28 would be almost 30 when they accept GT's, in 18 months anyone who wants to run Canada/Aussie escape would have gotten it, 18 months of torment, turmoil and hoping, there was a country...

Happy New month, Happy anniversary to Nigeria, Our Lady Queen of peace and Nigeria...pray for us let APL land yakata on us, Amen

@Jarus @Xfire, good morning, please any legit update? Biko help boys if una get, thankiu

missCAPS:
Tacha is being offered 50 million naira for being rude, violent and arrogant but I lost my boyfriend to a pinch of her attitude . Inside life

Lesson learnt my dear, take the break up as a sign to change that pinch flaw and watch God bring a better man into your life, everyone deserves a second chance, grow in peace...

Pettyprincess:

I am no fan of anyone in bigbrother's house,nd you talking about R kelly?anyone supporting R Kelly after been charge of being a pedophile is a potential or pedophile simple.

True, i was just pointing out that even worse ppl still have supporters, she has anger issues and can still change, lets cut her some slack nobody holy pass

Pettyprincess:
I am glad she is finally disqualified,always picking fight with everyone such a toxic human being.
If you are female nd you re tacha supporter you can never make a good wife period!!

Abeg shut it with this kian yarn, if she where your sister and she was the devil you would still support her, till today even R Kelly has supporters does it mean they are all pedophiles? It is OK with all this generalization, Mercy said she is an olosho and does sugar daddy does that mean people who support her are all hoes?

Throw on the roof, ask lizard to eat it and not rat or sing to lekeleke to carry it to heaven

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RayOB1:
Lolz

There are less than 15 of us in that field from my state....

About 70% of those are outside Nigeria. Dem too dey like to dey travel 4 dat our side

3 others who are based in Nigeria are way more experienced, they could never be applying for the same job role I am.

Leaves just one person whose whereabouts I don't know. That's why I say as long as they will recruit two people, I'll be there.

Bro please e be like say you dey do well for your side, abeg you fit find me something make i use hol body, i don use my bar them charter certificate dey wait NNPC

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