Easymoneysniper:
Sorry for all late replies and updates. Apologies!.
.. I travelled for an emergency and I've been extremely busy. I won't come online unless I have an update again. APL is coming this week TF payments are being sent out very quickly. So hopefully they finish today or latest tomorrow. So we can smile fast.

ademmy102:


In everything you are doing have the fear of God. You are not different from the guy called MARVEL in DPR thread then telling people to be expecting second batch when he knew such things will not happen. You might even be MARVEL in disguise because as your name implies shows your mission.

I can say it categorically don't expect appointment letter nextweek. I want everybody to wake up from their slumber... Things are going on now. If you know you know. Food for thought

LadyHeaven:
Special shoutout to NNPC, today was my birthday and i used thier 20k alert to enjoy myself thorougly, may God finish His good work...#APLloading #Thankful

LadyHeaven:


I hardly post here anymore but came on and saw this, sis we get you probably have a "connect" in NNPC enough of all this a friends sister's uncle's brother said ish, for this your sauce i can TELL you its definitely NOT true, there is NO correlation between TP/APL, so my people pray hard because even people inside towers have NO concrete info, and just formulate logical things they heard via hearsay. Bubu and Kyari intend to use this recruitment to set a new precedent it been the major recruitment since both parties entered power (president/minister of pet. & GMD) they intend to use it as a yard stick to prove that they are men of integrity and are fair, and to me its a welcome development, YES back door would still play out definitely [b]but merit level would surprise a whole lot of US, [/b]the only thing we can do now is PRAY, ignore so called sauces and face your God...most of them know not what they spew

GL

PS- Those with so called legit sauces would hardly ever post anything they hear, Nigerians are pretty superstitious and wouldn't want to jinx it by calling undue attention to themselves

joobseekar:


Emmyteetosin's brother say Hi...

joobseekar:


FACT FROM THE ARCHIVE

Did you know?

There is an applicant, in this 2019 NNPC recruitment, that went for interview, he was denied the chance to be interviewed by NNPC, however, he was advised to put down his bank details by NNPC, and he has been paid TFARE eventually by NNPC.

mosgoon:
yes, I just got the ODVI invite for the next stage. Also, two of my friends were regretted same time

Richy4:
Reading some of the heart breaking stories here on Nairaland sometimes makes me imagine/ wonder what the Reverend Fathers must have been hearing during confessions..

I can't just imagine how a man will look into his wife's eyes and say that he won't let got of the other woman.. That is the highest disrespect that...I'm speechless..

OP please tell me that you are not jobless.. because I can't see what will make a talented, young, beautiful 26yr old daughter of the land to remain in that house and swallow garnished Sh!t.. If he can't let go of her you should have shown some class and withdraw honourably..

Some times I blame parents for interfering and putting unnecessary pressure on their kids to get married.. it's not compulsory that every relationship must end in marriage..

Take your baby, Go to your parent's home and cool off temporarily...While you were there, Think if it was possible for you and your baby's to have a good life and future without him in the picture.. this is because He has made up his mind to have a second wife, The other woman has agreed to be in his life... So now the decision is yours to make if u want to be be the first wife or separate from that bull$h!t

If you were my sister, I would seriously advise that you don't allow your parent to reconcile this matter.. Let him finish what he has started.. because if they forced him to leave the other woman, his business might suffer..and his anger would be on u.. if you asked for an upkeep money... He will angrily tell u he doesn't have... He might be bold to tell you that the person helping him on his business is no longer there, where do u expect him to get money.. That I believe will hurt u..

If u are not working, dust your certificate and Start submitting CVs. At least within 5months u might get something... You rent a little granny flat and settle with your son.. suggesting that you go to your parents house was just for u to think.. not for u to bash him in any way... and it's not for intervention..


Modified:
I have missed those days on Nairaland around 2010, 2011.. When there were so many people here on family section giving good advice irrespective of your gender when ever a topic like this comes up. those days kids like us then don't even talk we only hits the like button..

Nowadays, I have noticed that people gives advice based on gender.. an advice they can't even give to their family members or friends in distress they just throw it out without giving any duty of care..

In this case, Assuming OP was cheating on the husband and she boldly told her husband that she can't let go of her sugar daddy she met while in Uni..That the meets all her financial requirements ... Besides that he has been helping her restaurant business grow..

and the husband comes to Nairaland and seek for advice, would you guys have given him the same advice you have given the OP?

Would you have said oh, he should not let another man take over what belong to him.. He should stay in that relationship and pray for her to change there's nothing prayers cannot do .... he should fight for the marriage he shouldn't let her go since she doesn't nag too much at home after all a lot of women cheats...

Most of you got sister and I bet no one messes with them yet.. why the double standard while dishing out advice.. from page 1 to 6 that I managed to read is so infuriating..
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Lordlight20109:



U have the right to everything . Mugu
Why not look away . Must you comment ?
Keep on displaying ur high level of imbecility. Am watching you.
Soon you will run mad

yungmin:


See the companies you're mentioning. Please, don't forget to advise people on the course of study. If you go and do a PhD even in Harvard in an occupation that is not so much in demand, you may not find the PhD venture as rewarding as conceived. If check most of the success stories being shared, they are in ICT related fields. For example, I doubt if anyone would rush you if you go do a PhD in civil engineering at Harvard. Some of these fields of specialisations have gone full circle. In other words, they have been fully developed and the knowledge is now everywhere. ICT is a relatively evolving field of specialization and it is gaining application in virtually all sectors of human endeavour. This is while jobs are easy for these guys. Let's be mindful of the choices we make sha. Let's not use the success stories of one or two persons around to make conclusion and advise people. Intact, I think there was a survey in the US that established that a large number of PhD students tend to think that stress and financial commitment is not worth it. You can Google and check it out.

mosgoon:


I definitely know what a top 5 school means and by the way, ivy league is a different term. MIT and caltech are not ivy league and they are above many other ivys in rankings.

Like I said, I'm refraining from writing too much, I see a lot of comments here and a lot are too centered on few idiosyncrasies.

I have several close friends and close professors from all these schools and have gained several insights into the navigation of life matters regarding gradschool, job, networks, and country specifics.

Trust me, it depends on each person, interests and circumstances. I am thinking of a way to explain it better and address misconceptions.

Also regarding that 3m dollars.. I really hope you got your facts right. For context, Google"s CEOearns 1m dollars plus, Tesla's CFO earns about 6m and that's total compensation.. So I'm really baffled where you got that figure for a grad candidate.. I could learn though.

Enrypech:


For this We country?

Abi na Oyibo Lady?

Wait.. Is she the only one with the qualification?

mosgoon:


Be careful to note that a lot of people have different paths and interests. Nothing is set in stone as an ideal option. I have several examples/friends who did otherwise from your advice and are far better off than their counterparts aligned with your advice and the other way round. Be open-minded. I don't want to go into detail as I remember @BenFlash's and others advice and wouldn't want another swarm on me

moogoogaipan:
When you start, there's a leta called Assumption of Duty, After exactly 2yrs,there's something called Confirmation of Appt, it's an interview you go through, hit or miss, you'll still be given a Confirmation of Appt. leta, 1yr more i.e exactly after 3yrs you assume duty, you'll be due for promo, every three-three yrs, you'll be due for promotion, untill you reach level 15 (I don't know its eq. in NNPC), where you'll be due for promo every four-four yrs instead.
I hope this helps...

Beeam:
[s]Lemme answer u like Mosgoon:

Yes I'm quite proud of all I've achieved, try 2 make a 1st class from a public uni in a well regulated profession and see if u won't beh too.

But, no I can't be bitter cos u got apl for Civil Defence or whatever. I've turned down several offers from better parastatals and multinationals.

I have many things already including a financial services startup on d side that does mgt consulting and employs half a dozen or so professionals who'd probably not take ur offer from NEPA if they had d chance.

And no, a competition between u and I will be unfair to you really, if the basis on which u are competing is APL from Boys Scout. So let's not talk about if ure better or not.

And I see u can't understand simple analogy. Before a nursery school admission letter holder will bcome EQUAL to an MBA applicant, he'd have to first finish d nursery schl, apply 2 Secondary, and University and pass.

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Ayebaeapretai:
Carl care bros, its an hardware issue.

HIBEETECH2018:
You don't say this to people. If they say their salary is more than what nnpc wants to pay, it can be true and that's their problem. Jarus, some other people and I fall in the same category. You don't mock people as you did in the first phase of your write up we all try our luck. Life is taking risk. My monthly savings here (abroad) is more than nnpc salary. I just like Nigeria. I like to raise my children in Nigeria because it is easier. It will be easier for me to handle my wife in Nigeria than abroad. I can marry more than one wife in Nigeria and be okay, if I try it abroad I'm a living dead man. Guy, think beyond your nose and wise up. Stop thinking from your anus. Use your brain.

Oga abe.g all this are senseless reasons,

1) You want to raise your kids in Nigeria because its easier? For real? With all the shii that is happening in the country?
2) its easier to handle your wife in Nigeria by handle you mean subdue and overtly control?
3) Marry more than one wife, all this are nonsense yarns its either you are a control freak who gets off on having people dance to your tunes OR you are just a clout chaser, but i am thinking all of the above

PS- Dont class @Jarus and yourself together in anyway dude talks and brings out salient points on why he 'may' decide to take NNPC offer and you are here yarning dust

@the bolded biko take your own advice...

Promotions:
How much is the 2-in-1?

mosgoon:
just checked.. You weren't inclined on management consulting

Charelsz:
Na you be that?

mosgoon:


Firstly, I would never reply anyone with such arrogance. And secondly, the person probably modified it to create that impression intentionally. I really don't know why this is happening to be honest along with the other hateful comments, and why people do this.

Chikicaka:
Lol, i would say light skinned, but that's just because i enjoy bananas