₦airaland Forum

Blablamalala:
Reverse psychology.

Prinss:
Championing a cause against rape/rapists is one that any reasonable being will support. But calling every Nigerian male a rapist that deserves to be condemned only makes her as terrible as the rapist she's trying to fight against.

Blablamalala:
Unnecessary long story. The biggest fool on Nairaland knows that it's all about gender war that goes on on this platform. And Saphiere has chosen to use rape stories as her own weapon to demonize the male gender just as the female gender is very much fond of being, ridiculed , taunted......demonized here. It's not hard to figure out.

Very soon another moniker (Male) will pop up posting stories of innocent men who have been victims of false rape charges as a counter. Telling the brutal punishment faced by these men despite being innocent of the evil that some women do and then generalize it as all women are evil to spite.

saphiere:
This is wickedness.

Dear my mother, please stop leaving your daughters with my father who is an animal & a pedophile.

saphiere:
You are very very stu.pid to say I post stuff here to gain likes.

Majority of people here are male and 99% of them are misogynistic cows so how do I expect such cows to like my post when I am not dancing to their tune?

You are the biggest f00l ever.

saphiere:
. Who does the penetration?

saphiere:
Exactly!
Lala I need your take on this. Can a woman actually rape a man?

Chigold101:
Hmmmm
You don't seem to me a very intelligent person.
How could someone hate your tribe and you are even considering getting married to her?

Anyone that claims to love you but hate your family will either make you hate your family too or poison your family members one day.
A woman that was brought up with Nsukka water talking rubbish about Umunwoke ndị Igbo...
Oga kick her out of your life before you regret it later

haslaw:
The truth hurts right?

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

Flier:
IF you take a look at what Putin want from him,you will realise only a bastard won’t fight it
1)MAke Russian official language
2) forget about eastern Ukraine
3) forget about creamia
4) fire 90% of soldiers
5) fire the entire cabinet and instal Russian puppets
Won’t you fight those things ?

Codeye:
Fake News!

SHINJA:
Okay Mr okoro

haslaw:
You yeebos should stop deluding yourselves that people hate you because of what she has been fed with as if the lady has no mind of her own.

You think to the high heavens of your own tribe and got irritated when she refuse to accept to be your tribe but instead is very proud of her own tribe, You are the one that is highly intolerant because you want everyone to be Igbo like you.

The real reason people hate you yeebos is because of your heartless character and evil ways. I have lived and worked in both northern and southern parts of Nigeria and have seen the wickedness of yeebos in these regions. There is a Hausa landlord in Zaria, Kaduna state that has practically been chased out of his own house by the tenants who are majorly yeebos. They gave the man hell on earth and nearly everyone blamed him for renting his house to yeebos. This same scenario I have witnessed in both Lagos and Ibadan. This same characters (My sister told me) are being exhibited by yeebos in America. Same thing my colleagues told me was happening in Malaysia

You can never transact business with an Igbo man and he would not seek to cheat you and in some cases be very wicked to you. I avoid yeebos as much as I can because of their heartless and evil ways



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SHINJA:
I support that your girlfriend..I don't like Igbo's too .

I will never advise any girl from another tribe to marry an Igbo man..

Dorwadora:
Leave her and let her be ..... Sincerely, I also have somethings against igbo especially the igbo men. Tho I've never made my dislike to make anyone uncomfortable. But one of the major tenet of a lasting relationship is tolerance and patience. Just leave her and let peace reign.

quickly:
If u like make woman touch ur yansh and u come vex com pull of her cloth to touch her yansh too.

U will
Be in for a big shock if u don’t have a good lawyer.

Unless u and the woman r on parols together I would advise u not to try that

charlesdinho7:
as I be useless pig na

charlesdinho7:
as far as i am concerned, you defiled her. why did you insert your fingers into her vagina? thats penetration if you dont know. it must'nt be your penis entering her pussy, you inserted your fingers into it. well, find what she wants. if it is money, give it to her to clear your name if not, she can report you to the police and that alone will tarnish your reputation. good luck

quickly:
If armed robber come rob u for your house is the answer to go and look for the armed robber house to rob?

If the guy was not happy he should has asked the girl to leave?

Did she remove his clothes forcefully?

An advice to you when it comes to sexual matters women will get the benefits of the doubt most of the time.

Look in the newspaper u will find it daily that men raped this woman or dat woman.

Dog bite man no news but man bite dog-unbelievable

Same thing with man and woman regards sex

Jennyclay:
You don't know anything reason why you're talking trash.

Do you know foreigners are also on nairaland? The other day, small Kenya were insulting you people about how you people speak English on Twitter.

Correction ;

"You don't know anything [ comma should be here ] reason why you're talking trash."

quickly:
The benefits of the doubt usually goes to the women. Just imagine it was ur sister or any of your female relatives or even child?

When it comes to sexual stuff men have to be the bigger person because men are perceived to be sex addicts anyways.

If this goes in front of a judge the act of trying to remove her jeans forcefully will convict the guy easily.

That is the classic rape scenario.


If the guy was a mature guy he would have got the sexy without physical force if she has already come this far with him.

Try this in the west or anywhere outside of Nigeria the guy will be cooling of in prison by now.

Roseey0:
Did he object?
No.
Did she force him?
No.

Did she object when he tried to return the energy?
Yes.
Did he force her?
Yes.

Case closed

GreyLaw:
That's why I get angry with such guys. When ladies are violated they raise hell by going to the police, court, etc This guy should have landed her a very hot slap and sent her out of his house.

You come to my house and start seducing sexually harassing me, you get a good slap!

Roseey0:
Did he ask her to stop when she caressed him?
No.
Meaning, he wanted it, he gave a non verbal consent. Obviously the reason he invited her over in the first place was for sex.

She didn't assault him pls. If she did, he would have objected. But he didn't, he liked and wanted it

Roseey0:
He wanted sex from the on set. That's the difference between his experience and yours.

quickly:
She maybe guilty of seduction but no rape. Seduction is not a crime just like toasting too.

U have to understand that this law was designed to protect women and not men.

Even in the Bible potifahs wife
Seduced Joseph and he ended up
In prison.

Seduction is not consent.

If the urge to much go
Masturbate or find olosho. Unless u like problem.

Na so one guy almost rape soldier daughter be a he could control himself

motymop:
Talking about sex related issues, isn't pre-intimacy.

Even if she was giving you clear signs and seducing you by touching your dick, You would have tested the waters by initiating a kiss, then her reaction will tell you whether to escalate or not.

You just don't carry a girl, all because she showed you breast or touch your dick.

The mere fact that you had to drag her trouser with her shows that you didn't do your job to seduce her or initiate pre-intimacy, if you had done that, she would have removed her trousers by herself or tell you to help her.

To be sincere, you acted like a rapist

I now understand why some women will accuse men of rape when you have sex with them without pre-intimacy . The op behavior is a prime example

Jman06:
The man is a fo0l

We'll still read the news of how she left his azz for richer guy on this forum.


Only the lowest of men abandon family for women!

tunapawizzy:
livestream please

safarigirl:
Every statement he has made is an emotional statement. Where is the logic in saying "people will not criticise women because they are women?" Does that not sound emotional to you?

We are in a country where some of the most criticised leaders have been women, from Oby Ezekwesili to NOI, Stella Oduah and Allison-Madueke. You will not find a man from past administrations that has been more criticised than Allison-Madueke, so, where is the justification for logic in that statement?

He really came to talk about a "virtuous" woman for Presidency. Have you ever heard anyone use that term for a man?

It is funny how you did not see emotion in his own words, but you have seen emotion in mine

Clean your eyes, and make clear judgements that are not driven by your own bias and emotions.