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What is (was) your (the).....
First name:Ib ...Full name ibinabo
Gender: Female
Favorite food(s):Ogbono & Eba ( God Forgive me!! )
Favorite color(s): Used to be red, not sure what it is now
Future child's names:Girl:- Ashley, boy:- not sure
Sign or b-day:Cancer
Favorite number:15
Biggest fear:Sadness
Favorite quote:You are the architect of your (mis)fortune, Work while it is still day cos nite cometh when no man can work.
Obsession(S):Music, internet (all healthy obsessions)
Addiction(s): Sleep ?
Biggest turn off:Dishonesty and oversabi.
Biggest turn on:A smiley face
First thing you notice in the opposite sex:Height
Last book you read:Davinci code

Preferences...

Chocolate or vanilla: Choco
Hot or cold: Well i like summer if thats what u mean
Coke or Pepsi:Coke
Truth or Dare: Dare
Rightie or Leftie: Rightie
20/20 vision or glasses:20/20 without glasses
Big or small: No i dont have a big head oh!


Do you...

Speak another language: Pidgin and english unfortunately
Own your room or share with sibling:Hell no! We dont even live together
Have a sibling(s):Yep, 3 younger siblings
Think that God should be male or female:Never thought
Think that God should be white or black: Never thought
Like your handwriting: My writing depends mostly on my mood, so if i'm happy, my writing reflects it and vice versa
Type fast or slow:Men i typed with both hands as well. Tell u what, when i knew i was coming to the uk, i went to one typing school in obalende with househelps and stuff............... but that was one of the best things i've ever done becos i can earn a living from typing if i wanted to.
Think you're beautiful/cute: Think so
Sleep with a stuffed animal("teddy bears" and the likes in case you don't know): well, i've got this fluffy sheep, but i always toss it on the floor when i drop into bed........ WEIRD!!!

Misc...
What is/are the thing(s) you miss the most: My Inner determination to excel has been dwindling, so i can of miss challenging myself, but i'm starting to get there again.
Are you straight/gay/bi: To be honest, i've thought about being with the same sex, but no enough to go for it. So.. i guess i'm straight them yeh
Piercings:Well, i've got three holes on each ear, which i did myself in secondary school. But i only wear one earing each these days.
How tall are you:5.5
How tall do you wish you were:I think my height complements me
What would you change about yourself:My nonchalant attitude and my overtrusting nature
What wouldn't you change:ME

Ok................ She loves material things
Starts having sex............ maybe the CD burst or she did not use raincoat
Ist month no period, and she feels nauseous,
2nd month same
3rd month same,
4th month, tummy begins to swell up
jump to 7 mth
She can actually feel the baby kicking and she gave birth at this stage the baby will survive
fast forward to 9th month baby arrives


Unless this your cousin is Mary the mother of Jesus. She might have hidden it well but that pregnancy was there oh.!!!!!!

Now loving her regardless is a different matter but make she no dey talk that kind bobo in 2006. Tell her that all liar go to hell

I was 7 when my mum got a job with a high profile banking in lagos. She left us in the hands of our dad and went off to greener pastures. I was the first child so i had to take responsibility for my younger ones and we were left at the mercy of househelps and my dad ( who lost it a lot of times). Although my mum was very hardworking and provided us with the best, the one thing she was not able to establish with me was that mother/daughter love.

When my dad lost his job, we all had to move to stay with my mum in lagos. And i tell you, it was war. My mother and i could not see eye to eye. I lost count of how many times she disowned me and i also lost count of how many times i ran away from home. There were times when my mum wouldnt even come home becos of me. My mum destroyed so much valuables by throwing them at me. There was even once she chased me out of the house and i spent in an uncompleted building with mosquitoes and ants and to top it up, armed robbers were in the area and i could hear all the gunshots and the robbers running around the area. I cant forget the times when i went on hunger strikes for up to a month at a time and family members would come begging me because i had lost so much weight and looked like i had full-blown AIDS. I hated my mother with all my might.

To cut a long story short, my mum eventually decided to come to england and she took myself and my younger brother with her. Our relocation was such a difficult phase for us and we all had to stick together. I dont live at home now, as i've finished school and now working but my mum and i are best of chums. We talk almost every day and she is a rock for me. Whenever i feel depressed or lonely and i look for love without prejudice, i call her. I can tell my mum about men, difficulty with weight loss, my problems at work, everything.

So i can comprehend what u guys are going thru, but i can assure u that it will get better. Life abroad is so stressful and your mum might just be going thru some rough and patchy times herself. I advise you guys to hold on and be strong. It can only get better and when it does, i can assure u that apart from God's love, a mother's love is the greatest love of all.!!!!!

Woke up at about 1pm ( Went to this thoroughly posh party in pent house luxury apartment in chelsea, Sorry but i have to share this one!!!) lazed about, went to have brunch at my friend's flat, came back to my flat, had a bath/ soak for 45mins with candles and light music in the background ( had to pamper myself, hell it's christmas day and i'm single)

got dressed, returned a few calls, drove over to my mum's ( she'd cooked some fried rices, but i also took over some drinks, her christmas presents and xmas pudding). We watched passion of the Christ together ( and kind of shed a few tears). Went to a friend's house, had some few drinks, had a traditional xmas dinner ( roast turkey, potatoes, veg and gravy. Went to my crib............had some brandy and tonic in bed and watched telly till 4 am. I woke up at 4pm this afternoon!!!!!!!

This post is not fair, eh................. what about those that havent janded? Anyway............... Schipol is the creme de la creme. Lots of duty free shops. Hell................ they even sell sushi in that airport. But if u're coming from nigeria via that airport .,................. the immigration there na die. Some very intimidating immigration officials are there as u come out of the plane with dogs and all.

Who holds the crown for the best r'n'b artiste of all times? And the best Album? I'm going back to the era of 90's (i.e new jack swing new edition, boys 2 men etc, i actually think those were the best times for r'n'b) to the new stuff around.

Well for me the award goes to:- R.kelly - ( All albums) , lauren hill :- miseducation of lauren hill, Mary J. blige (all albums), Alicia key:- best track unbreakable, d'angelo, angie stone, ralph tresvant ........ sensitivity, destiny's child - writings on the wall, jodeci (all albums) and some few others.

So who does it for u?

n.b rite now i'm killing for alicia's mtv unplugged, destiny's child cater to u, mariah's emancipation,mjb's breakthrough and bow wow and ciara's like u.

Tried to upload the pic........ but its not working but watch this space.

The cancerian :- Modest,accepting, funny, shy, motherly, gentle, faithful, teary, money conscious, great sense of humour, loves music, obedient yet stubborn, hugely imaginative, patient, retentive memory, humble, loves her kitchen, loving, trusting, consistent....................... what else can u ask for.................. and guess what........... i'm all of that baby!!!!

Even lady Diana was a cancerian

Chocolate, i really do feel your pain and i can only imagine your pain and suffering. In my opinion, i really do think you should put yourself and the baby father aside and think about what's best for your son. Every child in the least, has the right to know and if possible have a relationship with their father , especially as he's a boy. He needs a father figure. I know how hard it is for you but like i said, put emotions aside and do the right thing. Maybe he might even chip in a little bit to help out with child support. I appreciate that your son is now 10 but he is still young so the damage may not be too much. If you ever need a nanny, or a friend, pls get in touch. I'll be more than willing to babysit or be a listening ear.

Cancer rules and if u want to more about cancerians, get in touch.

I've got pics of me with my bead. ( just one.............how sexy) but i'm not showing you. """""""""""""" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( ok beg me)

This scenario is so rampant in london. Check out this discussion i had with a friend a few weeks ago. This guy used to be my neighbour in lekki. He's now in london doing his masters.

Me:- Na wa for u oh. U dey can sabi misbehaving oh. Why u no show for the party now?

Friend:- my sister no vex for me abeg. One new yawa just surface. U know sey i just dey ready for the bash, na im one of my jamo babes hail me sey she dey my door. As i open d door, the babe just dey cry sey she don get belle. and this na her third child.

Me:- i hope sey u pursue de girl oh. how u go born pickin wit jamo girl?

Friend. No ............... God forbid!!!!!!!!!!!. why i go pursue her? i never reach to born? I'm a big boy ( he's 26). NO
abeg........... this na my first born. I get to keep am oh. And the babe no bad........... "

So u see, that's the mentality in the cilivised world. Majority of the Naija guys over 26 have a kid or even 2 so what can we do? Half bread is better than none.

WELL, I AM SICK AND TIRED OF THAT SICK COUNTRY CALLED NIGERIA. ............WHEN, SOMEBODY TELL ME WHEN NIGERIA IS FINALLY GOING TO GET HER ACT TOGETHER? WHY CANT ANYTHING WORK IN THAT COUNTRY? I WAS IN NIGERIA IN MAY AND ON MY WAY TO PH, THE PLANE WAS RICKETY, YOU WOULD THINK IT WAS GOING TO DIVIDE. WHY WASNT ADEQUATE ACTION TAKEN WHEN THE FIRST PLANE CRASH OCCURED? WHY WERE REGULATIONS NOT ENFORCED TO ENSURE THAT MESSED UP PLANES AND AIRLINES DO NOT PUT THEIR INTEREST BEFORE OUR LIFES.

I KNOW SOMEONE WHO'S LOST TWO KIDS IN THIS AIR CRASH. NIGERIANS........................ THE YOUTHS....................... WE NEED TO RISE UP AND PUT OUR DESTINY IN OUR HANDS. WE ARE TIRED OF DIFFERENT DELIVERANCE AND PRAYERS, WE NEED TO WISE UP. THE WHITE MAN'S LAND DID NOT BECOME LIKE IT IS BY PRAYERS ALONE. IT TAKES MORE THAN THAT. IF WE DO NOT TAKE ACTION NOW,,,,,,,,,,, OUR CHILDREN WILL BE THE NEXT.

(sorry seun for writing in caps............ i'm so pained)

Ur pic sef no bad, i for manage u but u be my small brother mate. I no fit do that kin thing!!!

Hiya Sin,

I do not know where exactly you reside in london, but in my location, there are loads and loads and loads of decent, loving, beautiful, funny, creative, hardworking and respectful  NIGERIAN chics in this london who are roasting, looking for strong, sensible, faithful, loyal, hardworking and natural NIGERIAN men.

I do not know where exactly you reside in london, i dont really know, where the girls are such hustlers and are looking for white men but in my location in london, most of the Niger girls cant even imagine themselves with a white man, even the ones that dont have papers. The girls i know are willing to wait for mr right ( A nigerian of course) and if he has papers, they thank God, if he doesnt, they manage like that.

So i'll advise u to do your research, maybe u are in the wrong zone, or you dont have the right friends or crowd, or you are a hustler yourself and so u keep meeting these female hustlers at the bus stop, or at your place of work.

Where exactly do u reside in sef?

U betta zone yourself out of dat kin setting!!!!!

True love is when u mess and ur guy pretends he cant smell anything!!!!!

i'm new in the house but i've got loads 2 say.

1. Guys with mouth odour, body odour
2. guys who are chauvinists i.e thinks the kitchen is for women only
3. Guys who won't let me be myself 24 i.e likes u to pose when u guys are in public, feels silly when u speak pidgin in front of his friends.
4. Aproko ie over sabi
5. doesn't like my friends
6. Talks too much when he's around women
7. Doesn't watch the news and is clueless about current affairs
8. can't read a novel
8. Likes to groove with his friends every weekend and can dance better than me
9. a ten minute man................ know what i mean!!!! sisters
10. Stingy......... Ladies one secret.......... a man who's stingy with money is stingy with everything else, trust me. if he aint giving now, he aint giving later.
11. guys who wont let me tie my wrapper around my CHEST when i'm in the kitchen.