₦airaland Forum

See,even without money if the people decide to do something nothing on this earth or beneath the earth can stop it...aside God.

U remember in the Bible where the people wanted to build a tower that would touch the cloud/heaven...what happened?they were almost going to achieve it if not that God stopped it.

The mind is a powerful tool that should not be underestimated.

MaverickA3:
God blessed me with a good job. That's the greatest win I had this year. It will help me achieve almost all the goals I have set for next year.
I'm thankful

Do not forget to set aside some good amount of money for an emergency even if u work in a govt office.

MMXX:
I so much thank God

made my first million

BUT

Unfortunately it's in naira

I made my first million in naira some years back but today,the first one million naira has birthed me 50million in just 9years.
Never mind,keep ur mind focus and do more.

This man should have not married instead of wasting his wife's time...just imagine how old the child would have been.
Nigeria is simply not Europe where price of items can stay for 5years unchanged. 3 years ago,pampass was going for #2,300 but today it's now #5100 and I think he might be waiting for Buhari to step down.

And if care is not taking,his salary has still not changed for the past years I just mentioned...such is life.
Whether he agrees with his wife or not,the price of items in the market waits for no man.

Freerhyme1:
Sunday Igboho will be regretting his actions right now in prison cos so called Yoruba nation he's fighting for has left him for the dead. Dear Sunday Igboho ur tribe has done what they know best BETRAYAL

Lamido Sanusi said it that Yorubas are the problems of this country. July 22nd,2021.

Sunday2021:
who betrayed ojukwu? who betrayed Namdi Kanu in Kenya?

Al mustache mentioned it on how u guys are full of betrayal...name the igbos who betrayed Kanu and I will mentioned all those who betrayed Igboho and are still betraying him just for their selfish presidential ambition.

Majesty2:
We are yoruba, we don't behave like braindead ipob pigs and nnamdi monkey cownu, we are not brainless like human eaters in cannibalEASTERN that start burning their land just to hurt buhari

But Akintola betrayed Awolowo.
While Abiola was equally betrayed by the same Yoruba politician who went behind to collect money from Abacha.

Noted,Yorubas are fond of betraying one another when it comes to money.

E bi like say them sell land come send this man abroad.
His village people has remembered him this day.

This kind of behavior makes me think if u are a responsible man.
U have already painted a bad picture of her height just to curry favour here.

She is ur colleague at the office,yet u didn't see her height.
U didn't remember what u went through in ur previous marriage so as to avoid cases like this.

Now,u asking us to advice u on what to do.

My advice is:

Marry her.
Marry her
And Marry her and nothing else.

NewsForYou:
Lol. Before you people will collect money and still kill him.
If na iPob now. This is a very good news. At least they kill and eat their victim unlike bandits that kill and leave the body to rot away.

How do u know all this if u are not a killer?

Devil.

Anything abroad confuses our ladies.

Even if the man is hundred years old,they will still rate him better than their future husbands. They don't even know that white people scam more than Nigerians.

Just be careful and remember that they also love anal sex and sperm splash,just be ready to be animalised during sex.

It will clear in your eyes soon.

Stories like this are prominent in ABUJA. It's not a surprised to me.

The only town where being lazy is an occupation.

They use women as backup.

U were actually dating a professional hard core prostitute.

God just saved u.

It is unfortunate that u are a Nairalander and still made this blunder...this is what we have been lamenting on....say no to a liability.
It is clear that u are a good man but what God has joined together no one can put asunder.

Advice
U have to face what is facing u now because she is an emergency that needs to be attended to by stopping Zeeworld in ur house...if not,time is coming when she will do nothing at home but zeeworld. A woman is supposed to be a helper but u are now the husband and the helper at the same time.
Let her know her role in the family and involved the entire family on this matter else u might be disappointed in marriage especially now that u guys are still young. There is room for change and I pray God help u out.

Bola146:
Just pray and work towards it for your own better half partner.

Just plan and work towards it. That is how Europe developed,same with Asia and North America.

We should learn not to abuse prayers especially Nigerians.

Biafran4life:
Now that you said buy a land and hold for 10 yrs I went to refresh my mind in 2005 .I remember buying land at government layout in kaduna for 200k and 300 k.Then sold it in 2011 and 2013 for 2 m and 3 m.I never saw it as something big but with my calculations now that was a good percentage over the years

This is a good one.
Real Estate is key but it may not be really huge before one would invest in it. I remembered buying a land around April this year at FO1 in Abuja at 4.8 and i gave the agent only 200k amounting to about 5million. After about 3days ,I got a call with an offer of 6million naira from one medical doctor through my agent. I refused to sell because the area is in high demand.

I remembered I also advised someone here to buy a building material shop around that area close to daughters of charity,the two shops I bought for one million naira each is going for 2million now while the warehouses are going for 7million against the old price of 1.8 million all in one year.

Real Estate can't be underestimated.

All these proponents of bad marriage should allow us breathe jor.
Most of u come in here to talk trash and hide in shame because u guys are broke like church rats. Non of u can put asunder in what God has made possible. If u don't want to marry we have heard u guys,but to criticise woman just because u have never respected ur mothers and sisters at home does not mean other ladies out there are not befitting for marriage.

I am proudly married and I will marry same woman if given the opportunity again and again. But poor men here who take solace in abusing marriage,pls hide ur face. Many of u can't even pay for a woman dowry let alone conclude those things on the list...so pls u guy should just hide ur ugly faces.

With or without u guys,marriage is beautiful.

Ejirite:
My marriage is about to collapse which am not okay with it, my wife pack out of house with children because we have misunderstanding which has been settled by both family.
I don't want to involve my parents because am very sure it will affect the marriage and the children.
All my efforts to settle the issue by involved her parents alone is not working.
Please what can I do.

What is the cause of the problem...because we men are fond of hiding the truth just to curry favour from the public or make the woman look like a devil.

Oga,tell us what u did to that woman first or what caused her to be insistent in her views?
Don't come romance the matter here.
I am a married man like u...I won't take ur views to be the truth until u say it as it is.

My mutual funds with ARM is currently at 10.25 and keeping ur money with the bank is the greatest mistake u can ever make.

For the land,if u are sure pls buy. Every town was once a forest.

I am of the view that,if u must marry,marry someone that adds value to the home. Not a lazy chap that would sit at home and be eating gbegiri and ewedu or ofe olubu and pounder yam...u see this kind woman go take u close to hell on earth under this Buhari govt except u are a rich man or perhaps,u have an inheritance awaiting u.

But if not,marry an asset and how do u know them,from their utterances u will know their future,but do not forget to marry your friend also. It is important in marriage.

For me I got married at the age of 32 and thank god I did,in fact,things were a little better compare to what we have today.
How I planned my wedding was fantastic such that I planned it for a year and followed it arithmetical to the latter.
The money I saved for four months was used to plan everything on the list including the dowry that is,from Jan to April and from Aparil down Dec 26th I had paid for chairs,canopies,photographers,foods,caterers and all rental,wedding cards and on the day of my wedding,there was nothing left to spend money on because I had sent money to everyone involved from May down to Nov according to my book record.

So,it was smooth ride on my wedding day and I was glad the way it all went. I still have the note book where I wrote everything down even after 6years of marriage.

That to say,planning is good...it makes big money look small if u can plan according to good budgeting.

matrix199:
It's about time!

Imagine giving loans to pay back in 2weeks with 50% interest. That's not even a shark loan, that's a killer whale loan.

They did not give u the loans by force u went to them...there are other channels to seek for better loans but na una dey go look for wahala when dog dey sleep.

shawn55ng:
Very rugged and durable. Blend anything to dust. Try it

How much then?

Lostchild:
I will never marry a Nigeria woman. I will rather die single than to even corpulate with them.

Amen!

Jidemoo:
See eeh

Age is just a number...so many happily married couples today have either the woman far older than the man or the reverse.

Understanding matters most in any relationship/marriage.

Most importantly, if your partner ain't God fearing and meek ... kasala go dey burst always

When u are finally married u will know if age is truly a number?
Everybody go just sit down dey talk say age na number,wait make e reach your turn now,we go know how far.

Baawaa:
They are not wise

In ur wisdom u are still poor even poorer than ur father.
Think about this to find out where ur problems come from?

Ogun and Osun are intertwined in ritual killings in the country. These two states with all their rituals still can't boost of the richest men in Africa or even in Nigeria.

Shame to them all that are involved in this evil and woe to them that defend them for desecrating the land using human flesh and other vital organs.

Wear your nose mask...whether covid or not,take it to be the new Covid in town.

This will certainly cause heart problem of varying degrees if nothing is done.

This is the time to know if u have a working governor and as well asa working President.

Jayden001:
I'm 30 and I'm tired of people taunting me that I'm so old and should be married with kids... These guys are people that I might just be four years older than; like some of them are 26, 27.
One even told me that NYSC cannot accept me for service cos it I'm too old. He doesn't know my real age though...
For me oo, I'm still a young lad oo but these guys are really making me uncomfortable with their negative comments.

This is an adult bully.
They are trying to force u to accept that u are inferior.
And if u are not,why are u worried?

Change the class of friends u keep...but at most,quit friendship for now.

shawn55ng:
If you have not tried this blender then you are missing out. It's never too late to place your order.

How is 4500watts?

If u are working for an employer and u are lucky to be given an accommodation,be ready to vacate it the very day u tender ur application. That is what is called tenant at will...u need not to be informed to vacate that place knowing that someone is on standby to take over from u.

The more u stay there,the more problem u tend to bring upon yourself...although he was not right to inflict injuries on u but u have equally messed up for overstaying your employment with them.

That is why they shamelessly keep as many men as possible after their show of shame, they will like to settle down with one small boy just to start feeding him and controlling his destiny.

If u want to succeed as an ambitious young man,leave women alone...a girl of 26 is smarter and more intelligent than a man of 30. It is simply nature that made it so.